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Mark Elfenbein Obituary

Mark L. "Stevens" Elfenbein Holt Age 56, died of cancer October 14, 2009 in Lansing with his family at his side. He was born July 7, 1953 in Queens, NY, the son of Milton and Miriam Elfenbein. After his graduation from Miami Killian Senior High School, Mark began his journey into a long, successful career in Radio Broadcasting where he was a leader and admired mentor of his trade. Lovingly known as "The Evil" Mark Stevens, he worked as Program Director and On-Air Personality for Lansing stations WJXQ and WMMQ. He enjoyed the last years of his life employed as Marketing Manager for Dan Henry Distributing, where he was surround by devoted friends and colleagues. Mark was committed to his work on Lansing's annual Common Ground music festival. He loved telling a great joke and a having a good laugh. He was a dedicated husband and father whose love will be cherished forever. Mark is survived by his adoring wife of 32 years, Sheila; daughter, Gina; son, Ian; brother, Chet; and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his infant son, Jonathan; parents; and brother, Bill. A funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Monday, October 19, 2009, at the Estes-Leadley Greater Lansing Chapel, with Rabbi Michael Zimmerman, of Congregation Kehillat Israel, officiating. Interment will follow in Evergreen Cemetery. In consideration of Mark's charitable work with Coats for Kids, memorial contributions may be made to the 2009 Coats for Kids Drive, c/o WMMQ, 3420 Pine Tree Rd, Lansing, MI 48911.

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Oct. 16, 2009.

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Leni

October 12, 2019

I cant believe how many years have passed. Keep watching over your family.

October 23, 2009

If you want to honor Mark, and you have a closet full of Coats that dont fit, send them to Coats for Kids, in Michigan, the address is on the original obituary.

HE

Rosalie Gates

October 19, 2009

Dear Sheila & Kids,

So sorry to hear of Marks passing. I worked with him at Q106 and will always remember with a great deal of fondness.

Janelle Doan

October 18, 2009

Dear Sheila & family,

This tribute to Mark's life was beautifully written! I hope the love of friends and family are able to carry through this time of grief! You are in my prayers!

Burt Compton

October 18, 2009

Dear Sheila and family,

I want you to know how many wonderful memories I have of Mark in Miami, circa 1970. We would cruise Miami Beach in his old Chevelle, listening to 8 track tapes of comedy and music. We often flew together, he as my copilot in my little Cessna airplane from my Dad's airport in South Miami. I recall so many of his wise-cracks and jokes, yet he was one of the kindest people I've ever known. Sorry I have been out of touch, although I last visited Mark at the radio station in Lansing in 2003. Yes, same old Mark, with the deadpan humor and I can still hear his laugh, and he sure made lot of us laugh. We'll miss him. Take care. Burt Compton

Andrea Ellis

October 17, 2009

Dear Sheila and family,

Mark and I go waaaay back( 1970's). He was always a favorite at the Miller's famous Spaghetti Parties with Dicky Miller and John Mickel. He was always a good friend to me, and helped me through some difficult times. He always had a smile and a joke for us all. I am shocked that he is gone......he will be missed.

Andrea Ellis

October 16, 2009

Dear Sheila and family,
My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. It was a privilege to get to know Mark during his countless Bronchoscopies at the hospital. I admired his strength and his ability to make others laugh. I pray that your memories of him will bring you comfort.
Connie DeLong, LRT
Ingham Reg. Med. Center

John Robinson

October 16, 2009

Mark was a good friend; we had a great time in the ol' Q-106 days. His sense of humor and poker face will be missed!

October 16, 2009

Common Ground will not be the same without Mark - I'll miss his friendly wave while speeding by on our golf carts. He brought both laughter and professionalism to everything he did. My heartfelt condolences to each member of his family.
Laurel, LEPFA/Common Ground

Jeff Contreraz

October 16, 2009

Dear Gina and Family, We a Sincerely sorry and sadden by the loss Of your Father. We are thinking of you and your in our prayers.
Sincerely, Jeff Contreraz & Dale Rathbun

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