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Robert Frayer Obituary

Robert D. Frayer Laingsburg The Lord called a great man home. Age 49, passed away unexpectantly. Robert was born in Battle Creek, Michigan the son of Lionel Sr. and Georgia (Johnson) Frayer. Robert was a caring man, the type of man that would help anyone and not ask for anything in return. An employee with the city of Lansing for 23 years with forestry, parks and recreation division. Robert considered his coworkers his second family and was respected by those he worked with for those years. He was preceded in death by his mother and father-in-law, George Benda. Robert is survived by his best friend and mother of his children, Mary Frayer; children, Robert Frayer, Amber Frayer, Barbra (Rhea Schexnayder) Frayer, ShawnaSee (Josh Compton) Frayer, Dakota Frayer and Tara Ludeking; father, Lionel Frayer; sisters, Elizabeth Romanek, Dorothy (Gordon) Schlutz and DeDe Premoe; brothers, Anthony Sevenski, LaVern Frayer and Lionel "JR" Frayer; grandchildren, Stephanie, Kevin, RJ, Cheyanne, Kyawah, Angel, Devan, Taliah, Allysa and many more to come. Also surviving are many nieces, nephews and friends. A Funeral Service will be held Monday, February 22, 2010, 11:00 a.m. at the Palmer, Bush & Jensen Family Funeral Home, Lansing Chapel. The family will receive relatives and friends, Sunday, February 21, 2010, from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. at the funeral home. Memorial contributions can be made to the Autism Society of America in memory of Robert. Condolences can be made to the family at www.palmerbush.com.

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Feb. 20, 2010.

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Mary frayer

September 29, 2021

Always thinking of you and still missing you as I grow old.the kids are fine and I see you in them.

George Frayer

March 22, 2010

It was an honor to say the least to be his oldest son

Barbra Frayer

February 27, 2010

Dad you are my best friend my hero and everything I want to be. I miss you everyday not moment go by that I dont think of you. I Miss you dad and love you so much. I well see you again some day so dont catch all the big fish before I see you again.

laura bodnar

February 22, 2010

My sincerest condolences to The Frayer family. I am so honored to have been able to know Bob, what a fantastic man. I'll certainly miss seeing him racing around (and I Mean RACING around)in the forestry trucks. R.I.P. Bob, we will never forget you and that wonderful smile.

Sean & Tracy (Cain) Wright

February 22, 2010

My condolences go out to Robert's family. He was truly a great guy, always putting others before himself. He will always be remember.

Robert (Boogar) Childs

February 21, 2010

I was working in the forestry dept when Bob started many years ago.I now live in FL,but i had the chance to talk to him back in october at the M.S.U. U.OF M. Tailgate party while i was in MI.He was the same ole Bob that I had met 23 years ago.He will be missed.

February 20, 2010

Robert you will be missed, Jack and I allways looked forward to your
Visits when you cut Trees in our Area, our Hearts go out to your Famalie Jack and Helga Coppens Lansing Mi

Tony and Linda Benavidez

February 20, 2010

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Diane Bazinet

February 20, 2010

Our condolences to the family and friends of Robert. he was always kind to me and my family, he lived next door, he was always outside doing something productive, to help out his father and others. he will be sadly missed. Your neighbors Diane And Rob!

Fred Antes

February 20, 2010

My condolences go out to the family and many , many people who's lives were touched by Robert. He was a great man that would always be there for anyone who needed his help. He always thought of others before himself and was one of a kind. I'm so greatful to of known him and to be one of the many to of shared moments of life with him. My heart is sadden for the loss of life of such a great person. I hope to see you again someday Robert, I'll miss you.

Starr Hart

February 20, 2010

Bob was one of the greatest guys I ever had the chance to know. I would have never made it as long as I did in the Forestry Dept. If he wouldn't have helped me and in the meantime became a very close friend and confidant. Bob was always there and willing to lend a hand or give advise when I needed it the most. Bob will be missed and loved forever but never forgotton. God bless the Frayer family.

Sarah Benda

February 20, 2010

Robert will be miss he was a Wonderful Uncle and a GREAT MAN.I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU ALOT UNCLE ROBERT.I heart goes out to

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