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Thomas VanEtten Obituary

Thomas Anthony VanEtten

Bannister - Thomas Anthony VanEtten, age 73, of Bannister, MI, passed away Tuesday, April 6, 2021, at Sparrow Hospital, Lansing, MI.

Funeral Services will be held at Smith Family Funeral Homes Elsie, MI, on Friday, April 9, 2021 at 1:00 P.M., with his brother Dan VanEtten officiating. Burial will follow at Eureka Cemetery, Eureka, MI. Visitation will be held on Thursday, April 8, 2021 from 2-8 P.M. with family present from 2-4 & 6-8 P.M. at the funeral home.

Tom was born in St. Johns, MI on June 5, 1947, the son of Samuel and Mary Ellen (Stambersky) VanEtten. He attended Elsie High School and resided in the Eureka/Bannister area most of his life. Tom proudly served his country in the United States Army during the Vietnam War. He was a member of the VFW Post #5315 in Peacock, MI for many years.

On April 19, 1975, Tom married Sandra Kay Spousta at the First Congregation Church of St. Johns. They were blessed with nearly 46 years of marriage.

Tom was an avid outdoorsman. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, trapping, and mushrooming. He loved his classic cars and attending swap meets with good friend Doug Cook and his brother Dan. He enjoyed traveling and always looked forward to his Canadian trips to spend time with his good friends Michel and Juley Dillon. Tom was a story teller and could captivate an audience with his tales.

Tom dearly loved his family. He treasured his times with his children and grandchildren. They spent many hours fishing on his ponds and boats. Tom and Sandy enjoyed their time in Florida fishing and happy hours with good friends.

Tom is survived by his wife Sandra, daughters: Tina (Alan) Bird, and Tomi Ann; grandchildren: Zachary Dick, Ayden Thomas Bird, Lindsey Bird and Christian Bird; and great granddaughter Maeve Taylor. He is also survived by his sisters and brother: Jane Marek, Joy (John) Jelinek, Jo Wheeler, and Dan (Elaine) VanEtten. He was preceded in death by his parents.

Memorials may be made to the charity of your choice. Online condolences may be made at www.smithfamilyfuneralhomes.com. The family is being served by Smith Family Funeral Homes, Elsie, MI.

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Published by Clinton County Community Newspapers from Apr. 7 to Apr. 18, 2021.

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Connie

April 2, 2025

Love and miss you always.
Connie and Danny.

Connie Schmidt

April 19, 2022

1 year has passed. So many memories that his family is blessed to have. Love and miss you Tom. Peace be with you.

Bill Curtis

April 11, 2021

I was a part of Tom's family for many years. We grew up together through our teen years and remained friends to this day. Tom was one-of-a-kind. The mold was broken after he came along. We certainly had some goods times together. I know that Dan, Jane, Joy and Jo will miss Tom and I will miss him, too. Rest in Peace, Tom.

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8

Service

2:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Smith Family Funeral Homes - Elsie

221 E. Main Street, Elsie, MI 48831

Apr

9

Funeral service

1:00 p.m.

Smith Family Funeral Homes - Elsie

221 E. Main Street, Elsie, MI 48831

Apr

9

Burial

2:00 p.m.

Eureka Cemetery

2252 E. Hyde Road, St. Johns, MI 48879

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221 E. Main Street, Elsie, MI 48831

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