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Ralph Harding Obituary

Ralph Jenkins Harding Jr. ODESSA-Ralph Jenkins Harding Jr. (Bud) passed away Sept. 10, 2015, following a short illness. Bud, 91, was born May 16, 1924, in Grande Ronde, Ore., the second child of nine. Bud proudly served his country during World War II as a PFC in the 38th infantry in New Guinea. Following the war he returned home to Oregon opening a restaurant with his best friend. It was here that Bud met and married the love of his life, Mary Lucille Ham of Lubbock Texas. They moved to Lubbock in 1948, where they had a wonderful life, and raised two boys. During his life he spent his free time with his wife and boys, enjoying the outdoors - camping, mountain stream fishing, hunting, and working on the Lake Brownwood home while everyone else played. Bud was heavily involved with his boys and their activities. Bud was an extremely hard working, personable individual who never met a stranger or missed an opportunity to help out his neighbor. Bud was preceded in death by his wife, Lucille on April 3, 1993, and seven of his siblings. Bud is survived by his two sons, Ralph Jenkins Harding III and his wife, Ginger of Odessa, Texas, and Stephen Layne Harding and his wife, Tammie of Azle, Texas; plus six grandkids; and six great-grandkids. Visitation will begin Sunday, Sept. 13, 2015, from 1 to 9 p.m. at Odessa Funeral Home with a family gathering from 4 to 6 p.m. Graveside service will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday, Sept. 15, 2015, in City Of Lubbock Cemetery with Dr. Jimmy Braswell officiating. Services with Odessa Funeral Home. In Lieu of Flowers Family requests donations to be made to Permian Basin Honor Flight (which honors local Veterans).

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Published by Lubbock Avalanche-Journal on Sep. 13, 2015.

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Ken & Sharon Bachelor

September 21, 2015

So sorry for your loss. We know that you can find solace knowing that Bud is in heaven and truly at peace now. He will be missed but never forgotten.

Eddie & Kathy Rhodes

September 15, 2015

Ralph & Ginger,
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this time of loss. We will lift you up and pray for God's surrounding.

The Jarma family

September 15, 2015

Bud was such a sweet man and we always enjoyed seeing him when he came to visit at scout meetings. He will be missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all during this sad time.

September 13, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with Bud and his family. God bless you.
Ed and Twynette Putty
Lake Jackson, Texas

Karen Mills~Crawford

September 13, 2015

I am honored to have met Bud and his remarkable family, their love and faith for each other is a true testament. In Deepest Sympathy

Tina Johns

September 13, 2015

Ralph, Ginger and Mark -- I'm praying for your comfort at this very sad time. You took wonderful care of Bud and I know you all loved him deeply. My sincere condolences.

George Allison

September 13, 2015

To the family sorry for your loss and to say I put the satellite in for Ralph shortly before his wife passed away several years ago. I just wanted to say he was always fun to be around and everytime I say him he seemed to be in a good mood and I enjoyed visiting with him. Again he was a great guy and sorry to know he passed away.

Michelle Grant

September 12, 2015

Steve, my thoughts and prayers for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

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13

Visitation

1:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Odessa Funeral Home

1700 North Jackson, Odessa, TX 79761

Sep

13

Memorial Gathering

4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Odessa Funeral Home

1700 North Jackson, Odessa, TX 79761

Sep

15

Graveside service

11:00 a.m.

City Of Lubbock Cemetery

TX

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1700 North Jackson, Odessa, TX 79761

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