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Derek Michael Gray

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Derek Gray Obituary

Derek Michael Gray

July 19, 2002 - July 24, 2022

Derek Michael Gray, age 20, passed away unexpectedly on July 24, 2022.

Derek was born July 19, 2002, in Lancaster, CA, an identical twin, was the third son born to Traci Pine and Donneil Gray. In his younger years, Derek and his family were members of Fountain of Life Church. Derek began participating in sports at an early age, playing flag football, followed by youth football for the Southside Raiders football program 4th grade through 8th grade. He participated in AAU basketball throughout middle and high school.

Derek attended La Follette High School, where he excelled both academically and athletically. As a freshman, he joined the Lancer's football and basketball programs. As a sophomore, he decided it was basketball that was his passion. Derek had the opportunity to play on the varsity basketball team during his sophomore year. In his junior year, he was especially excited to have the unique opportunity to play varsity alongside two brothers, twin David, and older brother Donneil, who was a senior. Derek graduated in 2020.

Derek went on to continue his education and lived and worked in Whitewater. At UW Whitewater, he majored in psychology and was a guard on the Warhawks Basketball Team. Derek was a gifted athlete. He loved his coaches and his teammates. Outside of school, he worked for Whitewater Manufacturing Company.

Derek was respectful and levelheaded, a thinker rather than a talker. He would quietly and thoughtfully consider various perspectives or circumstances before proceeding with decisions or offering opinions. He was a leader on and off the court; a happy and care-free young man who shared his beautiful smile with others. He has positively touched many lives.

Derek is survived by his parents, Traci Pine and Donneil Gray; brothers: Devyn Dockery (Tori), Donneil Gray, Jr., twin David Gray (Teja Moore); sister, Rhiannon Maestri-Gray (Dalton McHone); maternal grandparents, Debbie Brunner, Dennis Pine (Joan); paternal grandmother, Josephine Gray; uncles: Michael Pine, Nicholas Pine (Lisa), Daniel Gray; his nieces: Avianna and Naomi; a nephew that is soon to enter this world; and a host of relatives, cousins, aunties and friends.

Derek was preceded in death by his paternal grandfather Daniel Gray; and close friend Nicholas Cooke.

Your wings were ready, but our hearts were not.

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Published by Madison.com on Aug. 4, 2022.

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Laisha Cooke

July 29, 2025

What an amazing young men you were and now a beautiful spirit. May you always watch over your Mommy and loved ones. We´ll see you when we get there. -

Laisha Cooke

July 29, 2024

Still missing you and wishing you were here. #4

Bob Schuyler

August 5, 2022

My thoughts and prayers to traci and family.

Judy McNeal

August 4, 2022

To say that I will miss Derek is an understatement. I enjoyed watching him grow from a boy to a young man. He had so much more to offer the world but we're now left to cherish all that he left us with - his smile, beauty, showmanship both on and off the court, and most importantly his love. My thoughts and prayers continuously flows to the family and friends of Derek. I loved him like my own.

Laisha & Martell

August 4, 2022

I´ll never forget the love you and your family has showed for Nick, me and Martell. It was truly a pleasure to have met you, and talked with you. The kindness you showed us when we needed it the most is what I´ll take with me in my heart. Long Live you, Derek. Never forgotten, always loved and missed.

Melody homesly

August 4, 2022

Derek you were a great soul. I´m so sorry that your beautiful life was cut short, know that you left a lasting positive impression on this world. You will surely be missed and thought of often. Continue to watch over your dear mother and brothers. May you rest in perfect peace.

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