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Stephen Umhoefer Obituary

Umhoefer, Stephen James

MADISON – The Rev. Stephen James Umhoefer, age 81, of Madison, formerly of Janesville, passed away peacefully on Thursday, Dec. 2, 2021, at All Saints Memory Care in Madison. He was born in Wausau, Wis., on July 12, 1940, the eldest son of James and Zita (Reuter) Umhoefer. Father Umhoefer is survived by his siblings, John Umhoefer, Charles (Pam) Umhoefer, Mary (Terry) Gliedt, Thomas (Alison Townsend) Umhoefer and Robert (Molly) Umhoefer; 14 nieces and nephews; and a church community throughout Southern Wisconsin.

After attending St. Patrick Parish Grade School in Janesville, Wis., Father Umhoefer completed his high school and collegiate studies, including philosophy and theology, at St. Francis Seminary in Saint Francis, Wis., and pursued graduate study in German at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Father Umhoefer was ordained to the sacred priesthood by The Most Reverend William P. O'Connor, Bishop of Madison, on May 28, 1966, at St. Raphael Cathedral, Madison. Father Umhoefer began serving in the Diocese of Madison as a parochial vicar at St. Francis Xavier Parish, Cross Plains. He then served the students in various capacities at Holy Name Seminary, Madison, including as a full-time instructor, German teacher, and forensics instructor. Father Umhoefer continued his service in the diocese as pastor of St. Paul University Catholic Center, Madison, St. Victor Parish, Monroe, and Nativity of Mary Parish, Janesville, from which he retired from full-time active ministry. He served as the originating director of the Office for Radio and Television, which later became the Office of Communications for the diocese, and served as a member of the Presbyteral Council.

Steve was interested in many aspects of life--classical music, art, and history. He also loved to read and was a great photographer who enjoyed the outdoors. In 1958, at age 18, he and a friend canoed from Sauk to Prairie du Chien, launching Steve's many decades of canoeing Wisconsin rivers, and a few trips to the Boundary Waters. Along the way, he became a birder, tracking his Life List of sightings. In 1959 he submitted a photo of his grandfather's snow-covered garage that won him $500.00 in a Milwaukee Journal photography contest. This launched his interest in photography, which led him to make two movies on the priesthood, and become the first media director for the Madison Diocese.

He traveled extensively around the U.S., but also visited every continent except Antarctica. Teaching German at Holy Name was an added benefit when traveling in Germany, searching for the Umhoefer ancestral home. He had an avid interest in family genealogy, along with two other cousins. They were able to locate and reconnect with relatives in Germany. In 1998 the Umhoefer family celebrated their sesquicentennial of living in Wisconsin by holding an extended family reunion in Menominee Falls, their U.S. homestead. Even a relative from Germany and his family attended. Steve cared deeply about all his parishioners from four different parishes. He was a counselor and leader, visiting the sick and working late into many a night. He always helped those who had difficulties in their lives. He was well loved and respected. Steve so enjoyed getting together with his family, and also his cousins from the Colby, Wis., area. These were joy-filled times of reconnection with much laughter and reminiscing. One cousin dubbed him the family patriarch. For the last 20 years all five brothers would arrange an annual Play Day, picking a historic site, museum or event and spending the day together.

The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at NATIVITY OF MARY CATHOLIC CHURCH, 117 N. Wisconsin St., Janesville, WI, on Friday, Dec. 10 at 11 a.m. The Most Reverend Donald J. Hying, Bishop of Madison, will celebrate the Holy Mass, with The Reverend Father David Timmerman as homilist. Recorded livestreaming of the funeral Mass will be available through Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/Nativity-of-Mary-Parish-Janesville-WI-993856040679399. Visitation at NATIVITY OF MARY CATHOLIC CHURCH will be held on Thursday, Dec. 9 from 3 p.m. to 7 p.m., when the Rosary will be prayed, and on Friday, Dec. 10, before the funeral Mass, from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. Burial will take place at MOUNT OLIVET CEMETERY, 1827 N. Washington St., Janesville, immediately following the funeral Mass. A luncheon will be served at the ELKS CLUB, 2100 N. Washington St., Janesville, following the burial. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made to Nativity of Mary Parish, Janesville.

Priests are invited to concelebrate the Holy Mass of Christian Burial. Please bring an alb (stole provided). Please celebrate three Masses for the repose of Father Umhoefer's soul and offer intercessory prayers in your parish.

The family of Father Steve requests that masks be worn and are certain that Father Steve himself would make this request to protect the lives of the families of all those he held dear.

Schneider Funeral Home & Crematory is assisting his family. For online condolences and guestbook, please visit www.schneiderfuneraldirectors.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Madison.com from Dec. 5 to Dec. 8, 2021.

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Rita Koster

December 9, 2021

I was Fr. Steve´s secretary for 12 years at St. Victor in Monroe, so I knew him as a kind and good man and a very dedicated priest. He touched many lives and will be missed.

Alice Vickerman

December 8, 2021

He was so kind to my siblings and I when our father died and then later our mother. He was a wonderful priest and will be greatly missed by many.

Tom and Peg Umhoefer

December 8, 2021

Steve was my second cousin once removed
( ! ) and we spent many fruitful hours together and by emails, along with other cousins, researching our family genealogy, seeking all the Umhoefers we could find !

Janet Fisher-Hughes

December 6, 2021

I am so sorry to see the news of Fr Umhoefer's passing. He was a young priest at my family's parish, St Thomas Aquinas in Madison, WI. He was so kind and his homilies were so engaging and thought-provoking. May his memory be a blessing.

Bernard Lynch

December 5, 2021

I was so surprised and sad to hear of Fr. Steve´s passing. It brings me back to my days at Holy Name Seminary, where he was one of my teachers. I have many good memories there; I respected him, and am grateful for the influence he and so many others there have had on my life.

Sally Stevens (Vander Heiden)

December 5, 2021

I have fond memories of Father Steve. He was a relative on my Mom´s side, and lived across the street from me during my college days in Madison. Prayers and condolences to Father Steve´s family.

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Visitation

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NATIVITY OF MARY CATHOLIC CHURCH

117 N. Wisconsin St., Janesville, WI

Dec

9

Rosary

7:00 p.m.

NATIVITY OF MARY CATHOLIC CHURCH

117 N. Wisconsin St., Janesville, WI

Dec

10

Visitation

9:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

NATIVITY OF MARY CATHOLIC CHURCH

117 N. Wisconsin St., Janesville, WI

Dec

10

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

Recorded livestreaming of the funeral Mass will be available through Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/Nativity-of-Mary-Parish-Janesville-WI-993856040679399

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Dec

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Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

NATIVITY OF MARY CATHOLIC CHURCH

117 N. Wisconsin St., Janesville, WI

Dec

10

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MOUNT OLIVET CEMETERY

1827 N. Washington St., Janesville, WI

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