He was born in Augusta on June 6, 1955, a son of Robert and Germaine (Jacques) Pare.
Mr. Pare was a graduate of Cony High School, class of 1973, and was a communicant of St. Augustine Catholic Church.
He worked for over 30 years in the food service industry, most recently at Pine State Trading Co.
Mr. Pare was a member of the National Rifle Association and the North American Fishing Club.
Ray was an avid fisherman. His happiest times were on the lake trolling in his new boat. He loved camping and spending time with his family and friends. He also enjoyed hunting and being outdoors.
He was predeceased by his mother, Germaine (Jacques) Pare; and a brother, Gerard Pare.
Mr. Pare is survived by his wife, Lisa A. (Arbour) Pare, of Sidney; two daughters Jennifer M. Pare and Sarah E. Pare, both of Sidney; his father, Robert Pare, of Augusta; a brother, Tony Pare, and his wife, Jane, of Augusta; two sisters Jeannette Eaton and her husband, Rod, of Litchfield, and Patty Wilbur and her husband, Eric, of Hermon; his mother-in-law, Lucienne Arbour, of Augusta; his grandmother-in-law, Maria Arbour, of Augusta; a sister-in-law, Susan Mitton, and her husband, Fred, of Sidney; nephews Jeremy Pare his wife, Melissa, and their children Mason and Ava of Manchester, Matthew Fontaine and his wife, Shelby, of Seattle, Wash., Brandon and Devan Eaton of Litchfield, and Eric and Alex Wilbur of Hermon; nieces Melanie Martinez and her husband, Chris, and their daughter, Gabby, of Augusta, and Nicole Emmons and her husband, Ryan, of Sidney; as well as several aunts, uncles and cousins.
At his request, there will be no public visiting hours. Following cremation, a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, Nov. 12., at 11 a.m. at St. Augustine Catholic Church, Northern Avenue, Augusta. Burial will be at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Ray's memory may be made to either Harold Alfond Cancer Center, c/o MaineGeneral Health, Office of Philanthropy, P.O. Box 828, Waterville, ME 04903-0828; or Bread of Life Ministries, 2 Mulliken Court, Augusta, ME 04330.
Arrangements are under the direction of Plummer Funeral Home, 16 Pleasant St., Augusta, ME. Condolences to the family may be expressed via the funeral home website at www.plummerfh.com.
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Tina
November 13, 2010
Lisa,
So sorry to hear about Moe, God be with you and your family. I bet he and Steve are catching up on old times right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Tina White (Brawn)
Rita Pare
November 11, 2010
I have a feeling that Moe is in a place where the fishing is great and there's no limit. Lisa, Jenny, and Sarah, may you enjoy the memories to help you overcome the loss. My sincere condolences.
Ann Cavanaugh
November 11, 2010
Jeannette
Please except my sincerest condolences on the passing of your brother. You are in my prayers and thoughts
Ann (Hamlin) Cavanaugh
Kellie Cummings
November 10, 2010
Dear Lisa, Jenny & Sarah,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I will never forget my camping/fishing trips with Moe! He will always hold a dear place in my heart. Very sorry for your loss.
November 9, 2010
Dear Lisa, Jenny & Sarah,
You continue to be in my thoughts. I plan to see you on Friday and hope to meet others in your close knit family. I have tried to send an electronic message several times today without success (unless you find a gazillion unfinished notes from me because I was directed to another page!! It can be very frustrating to send a very simple condolence about a very terrific guy!!
X0,
Nell
gail; manley
November 9, 2010
my deepest sympathy to you all. I am so sorry for your loss.
Key Bank
November 9, 2010
Jen and Family,
Our thoughts are with you during this time of sadness. Remember the good times and keep them close to your heart.
Deborah Nowe
November 9, 2010
Mrs Pare, My sincerest condolences to you, your family, and friends. I have had the pleasure of knowing and working with Ray and always enjoyed his humor and great advice. May God be with you and your family during this difficult time, Sincerely in prayer, Debbie Nowe
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