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Sandra Henry Obituary
She was born in Bangor on Jan. 30, 1947, the granddaughter and the adopted daughter of Walter and Addie (Barnes) Barron. She graduated from Skowhegan Business School and Kennebec Valley Technical College. She married Francis Henry on April 12, 1974, and they spent their married life in Norridgewock. She was employed at Redington-Fairview General Hospital for 24 years, retiring in 2001 due to ill health. She then took on a new career, researching and focusing on her rare and aggressive illness. She was a member of Norridgewock Baptist Church where she served on the Executive Board and spent many hours volunteering and doing a monthly newsletter. She belonged to several breast cancer support groups.
It was through these organizations that she met new friends and they in turn shared a journey together. One special person is Dottie Cayford, whom she met on this journey and together shared a never ending bond. In December 2004, 2005 and 2006, she went to the Annual Breast Cancer Symposium in San Antonio, Texas, as an ambassador for the online HER2 support. She had many online friends around the world and would spend evenings supporting them on message boards along with doing phone support.
She lived for these two passions, her church and inspiring others who traveled with her on this journey.
She is survived by her loving husband, Francis Henry, and beloved son, Jason Henry; two brothers, John Barron and his wife, Lorraine, of Athens, and Robert Barron and his companion, Nadine Roberts of Grapeland, Texas; and a brother-in-law, Bob Rice of New Caney, Texas. She leaves three nephews, two nieces, several cousins and many wonderful friends.
She was predeceased by a sister, Gloria Rice, in 2006.
To my beloved husband I leave my everlasting love. For 33 years you were by my side. Together we had a son and you both gave me many blessings.
To my beloved son I leave you my blessings. I hope you can lean on your loving Dad as you have leaned on me.
To my relatives and many friends I leave my favorite verse:
"For God so loved the world he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish but have everlasting life." John 3:16.
Per request of the deceased there will be no viewing. A service of celebration of life will be held at 2 p.m. Tuesday, June 5, at the Norridgewock Baptist Church with Pastor Joseph Bougie and Pastor Earle Meola officiating. Arrangements are under the direction of Giberson Funeral Home, Madison.
Donations may be made to Norridgewock Baptist Church, Main Street, Norridgewock, ME 04957, or HER2 Support Group, 6973 Mimosa Drive, Carlsbad, CA 92009.
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Memories and Condolences
for Sandra Henry
Dawn Butt
June 11, 2007
I did not know Sandy personally, but through many tough times, she gave me advice to bring a smile to my face and help me overcome the hurdle I was facing. I imagine Sandy to be a very loving, helpful, kind person to know and will truly miss her support and wisdom on line.
My deepest sympathies in her passing I know you miss her dearly, as we all do
Dawn Butt
pattyz
June 9, 2007
Sandy's presence online was of an amazing and unique woman. To have known her in person had to be such a priviledge and pleasure.
Yes, her online friends will miss her dearly. But my heartfelt deepest condolences go out to her family and real-time friends.
Sandy's spirit continues to shine brightly for all time.
Debbie Slack
June 7, 2007
Sandy was an inspiration to me ...she had so much knowledge about the disease of breast cancer. If she did not know the answer she would surely find it. She will be missed at the HER2 Support site. I know one day I will meet up with her in Heaven. To her husband and son, what a compassionate person she was. My prayers go out to the both of you. May the Lord Jesus give you comfort..
Dede Shupe
June 7, 2007
She is so very missed by her friends on the her2 site. We love her!
Bev Brunetti
June 6, 2007
Family and Friends, My deepest condolesces. Sandy touched us online at a time when most of us after diagnosis felt so frightened and confused.
In her replies, she saw the forest not the trees. She always knew what was important and could respond to that.
She was very kind, always remembering to acknowledge birthdays. I always meant to tell her how much I liked her new hair style and color.
We will miss her terribly. Bev
Theresa Williams
June 6, 2007
My deepest condolences on the passing of you dear loved one. I only knew Sandy through this site.
I am glad that you are now in peace with our Lord and Savior
TheressW
Liz Jordan
June 6, 2007
Dear Francis and Jason,
My deepest condolences on the passing of you dear loved one. I only knew Sandy through this site but always looked forward to her upbeat stories. Sandy, may you now walk in green pastures with our Lord.
Sincerely,
Liz J.
Anita Wood
June 6, 2007
I will miss Sandy more than words can say. She was such a support for me on the HER2 support webpage. I loved her posts of her green shoes and her stories of how she kept the doctors and nurses laughing all the time. When I get down and depressed, I always thought and will continue to think of Sandy and her wonderful, sweet, witty attitude. I always say to myself, If Sandy can do, I can do it too. I was never fortunate enough to meet Sandy in person, but she demonstrated to me what it means to live the 23rd Psalm. Her kindness and giving was unwavering even in times of darkness. What trust she showed in the Lord. I will miss her dearly.
Cathy
June 6, 2007
Sandy, You are an inspiration to us all...Thank you for your guidance ~ I will remember you always.
Kim Larson
June 6, 2007
I have come to know you through the Her2support. I could always count on you to bring my spirits up. You took the time to help anyone of us who needed help. You only saw the "good" side of things. Also, the good in people. You make me want to be a better person. You really do. God bless you Sandy. Much love - kim
Jeanette Hayes
June 6, 2007
I did not know Sandy personaly, only thru the HER2 site. She was a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. We shall all miss her. Every time I see green shoes I will think of her. Soar with the Angels Sandy, Til we meet again
Susan Veitch
June 6, 2007
Sandy,
You will be truly missed in our Her2 Support Family. I wish much love and peace to your family.
Susan V of PA
Roz HUNTER
June 6, 2007
Sandy, You will always be in my thoughts. You were such an inspiration and will be sadly missed.
Esther Butler
June 6, 2007
I met Sandy in 2004 at the San Antonio Breast Cancer Conf. She was such a cheerful, inspiring woman. I will never forget her presence and her helpful spirit.
She continued to be a source of strength and support via the her2support group.
We'll miss you and love you always, Sandy!
Frances
June 5, 2007
Thank you, Sandy, for your wonderful heart and warm smile. You helped me a lot.
Adriana Mangus
June 5, 2007
I will forever miss you Sandy, I just loved your smile and your happy face will surely be missed by all of your sisters. I loved and will miss your postings on our site her2support.org. God bless you, Sandy.
Juanita Sample
June 5, 2007
I will miss Sandy so much. She was such an inspiration to all of us. The her2 support group won't be the same without her.
Eric Tinn
June 5, 2007
I want to offer my thoughts and condolences to all of Sandy's loved ones. I was fortunate to get to know her through the her2support group and she will be greatly missed by many on the site so I can only imagine the impact she has had on those around her on a daily basis.
Barbara Holz
June 5, 2007
I knew Sandy through the HER2 support group. Her messages were uplifting and always full of hope. She seemed to have a mission to help anyone in need. We miss you Sandy.
Barbara Holz (Newton, MA)
Lolly Gast
June 5, 2007
I met Sandy on the HER2 Support site, and immediately knew that she was an American Original. Over the years I've been alternately amused, comforted, and enlightened by her insightful advice and comments. She never "spoke" an untrue word, and was kindness and compassion personified.
I'm going to miss her dearly, but will always picture her in her green shoes and funny socks, "telling it like it is"!
Margerie Manning
June 5, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of Sandy. I will miss her on the support board. She took the time to help me find a medical bracelet like the one she wore. I always knew her great spirit would take her places. I hope heaven is worthy. She will always be smiling in my memory.
Joannie Willhite
June 5, 2007
I read many posts that Sandy wrote on the HER2 breast cancer board. The amount of time she took to care for other's concerns was heart warming. We are all so sad for your loss.
Debra King
June 5, 2007
I never met Sandy in person but felt a warm connection with her through the HER2 support group. She is an individual that I will always remember and miss seeing her posts on the HER2 site.
May God wrap you in his arms Sandy and comfort you through your next journey as well as comfort your family as they progress through healing with their loss.
Andrea Budin
June 5, 2007
Sandy was a radiant Soul who shared her heart with the women on this site and so many others. We were her Sisters. She touched us with her warmth, caring, kindness, humor and loving nature. She has gone on ahead of us -- passed on to the next dimension, the next phase of "being", in the Spiritual Realm, which is the home of us all. It is where we came from and where we will return. In time, those in her life will be reunited with her. Death is not the end of her story. Sandy still is. She is just someplace else, someplace where there is only joy and peace. She is watching over those she loved and remains with them. You cannot see her, you cannot hear her, but she is just over your shoulder, a breath away... God bless you Sandy, and all you love! Let us all be thankful for having her in our lives. And let us cherish each day, as she would surely want for us to do. With my heartfelt condolences to her family and LOVE, Andi
Tricia Keegan
June 5, 2007
Sandy was such an inspiration to all of us on the her2 site and we'll truely miss her big smile and words of wisdom. My deepest sympathy to all her family.We all feel her loss and will miss her.
Kate McCarthy
June 5, 2007
Although I never met Sandy, I know her well from the HER2 support website. She was always there to offer encouragement, advise, or just a shoulder to cry on to anyone who needed it. She was an amazing women so full of life who touched so many lives. She was an inspiration and she will be sorely missed by many. My sincere consolences to her family.
Rina Schneiderman
June 5, 2007
I am a member of the Her2 Support Forum and wish to extend my deepest sympathy and extend my condolences. Sandy touched many lives of many women on this site and she will forever be remembered for her willingness to help others, her incredible sense of humor and her positive attitude.
janie Rogers
June 5, 2007
sandy I never knew you personally but through this site you gave me the spirit, and confidence to fight this thing! Bless you. My heart goes out to your lovely husband and son.
Thank you Sandy. May you rest in peace in heaven.
Kimberly Lewis
June 5, 2007
Sandy will be greatly missed online. She was a wonderful cheerful friend to us all. I have only seen her picture but feel like I will enjoy her friendship on the other side! Blessings to all her family and friends. Kim
Marie G
June 5, 2007
My Little Green Shoes
When I look down at my feet and I see my Green Shoes,
I shall not cry, I will push away them blues.
For the one thing you taught me was how to stay strong,
To get ready for the fight in case it long.
I look at my sick husband and what do I see?
An Angel is inside and her name is Sandy.
I Thank You for the wisdom, the support and the love,
And I know you are smiling down from above.
Because my Green Shoes are on and they remind me of you,
So with that in mind, how can I be blue?
My Deepest Heartfelt Sympathies Everlasting, Believe51 and Husband
Marie G
June 5, 2007
When I look down at my feet and I see my green shoes,
I shall not cry, I will push away them blues.
For the one thing you taught me was how to stay strong,
To get ready for the fight because it may be long.
I look at my sick husband and what do I see,
An angel is inside, and her name is Sandy.
I thank you for the wisdom, the support and the love,
And I know you are smiling down from above.
Because my Green Shoes are on and they remind me of you,
So with that in mind, now how can I be blue?
My Deepest Heartfelt Sympathies
Everlasting 'Believe51' and Husband
Pat Markstrom
June 5, 2007
I was a member of Sandys Her2 support group. She was a very
kind person who was truely concerned for everyone and had
a wonderful spirit. God bless her
family and be with them at this
time.
Pat Markstrom
Vi Schorpp
June 5, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. What a gentle spirit Sandy was. May your memories comfort you. I so enjoyed reading her posts on the Her2 message board. She will be sorely missed.
Emelie Berezowskyj
June 5, 2007
I can not express the gratitude I have for the gift of comfort that Sandy gave me through her words of inspiration on the Her2 website. She always relieved my fear of the unknown and helped me to see the positive in all of this. She will be missed by all of us who were fortunate enough to be touched by her spirit.
My prayers are with her family as they pass through this difficult time.
Emelie
Tammy Terpstra
June 5, 2007
I know we will all miss Sandy's bright personality on the Her2 boards..It's a comfort to know that know she is in the arms of her Creator.
Joy Alexander
June 5, 2007
Sandy was such a joy to know on-line as she was such a prominent, positive force on the HER2Support site. I can only imagine what she was like to know in person. Her beautiful photo brought so much inspiration to so many. The world feels emptier without her.
My thoughts and love are with her family now and forever.
with love,
Mary Jo Cyr
June 5, 2007
I have never met Sandy personally but got to know her on our her2support group online. She was such a positive, happy and kind soul. For her personally, I am happy she is at home with her Lord and Savior and out of any pain and our earthly struggles. I pray for God's Peace to surround the family.
Until we meet in Heaven,
Mary Jo
Jean Bergen
June 5, 2007
Dearest Sandy,
You will be greatly missed by your Her2 Sisters. Your beautiful smile will always remain with me along with your gentle kindness that you so willing gave. I know that you are wearing those green shoes in Heaven and smiling down on us.
Jean
Ross
June 5, 2007
To Sandy's Family,
It must have been wonderful to be around Sandy, I can only imagine. I am thankful for her dedication to the work she has done for HER2 & BC.
She touched my heart and had the right answers for a husband looking for help to understand my wife's diagnosis & struggles. Thank You! Sandy
Laurie Kessel Hunter
June 5, 2007
Sandy was the first person to respond to me on the Her2 support group. She really made me feel like I was not alone in this fight. She is a true inspiration to me. We were all blessed to have her in our lives.
Suzan Wharton
June 5, 2007
To Sandy's Family, I "met" Sandy through the Her2 forum in Aug. 2005. We corresponded frequently and I loved her wisdom and her sense of adventure and humor. Her "Green Shoes" stories illustrated her love for life and her family. She will be greatly missed. I am honored to have "known" her.
Marlys Weathersbee
June 5, 2007
I will miss Sandy with her "Green Shoes" and Pink Sweater. I fell in love with her bright smile and cheerful personality. I wish for her family to know how much she has meant to so many and pray that their pain will be alleviated as time goes by. I will also miss hearing about Yoda. I fell in love with him too.
Christine and Joe HER2 Support Group
June 5, 2007
Sandy will be truly missed not only by us but also by the many people she has touched and helped in their struggle with cancer.
It was our honor to be blessed with Sandy's presence at the San Antonio Breast Cancer Symposium for the past few years.
At the last symposium in December 2006. Sandy was introduced to the President of GlaxoSmithKline and also shared a room with Ginger Empey a pioneer in Herceptin treatment.
In recognition of Sandy's work with IBC, we added a special message board on our website for these women. This board will remain in honor of Sandy.
Mary Anne Butler
June 5, 2007
Sandy lived the "tough love" philosphy, and by doing so touched my life at a critical moment in my BC journey as I know she did so very many others. I am grateful for the way she blessed my life. I will miss her so.
June 5, 2007
Sandy's thoughts over time on the HER2support website are very precious to me. In a world that has many terrors, of which cancer certainly is one, she brought such a feeling of pure soul and heart. I thank her family for all the time she spent with us.
AlaskaAngel
Jo Howell
June 5, 2007
I didn't know Sandy personally, but felt as if I did through her consistently upbeat, supportive and cheery postings on the her2support discussion board. She was always ready to offer comfort and hope to all who visited there. I will miss seeing her smiling face and kind words of cheer. My condolences to her family and friends - you will miss her so much I know, but I hope memories of Sandy will bring you sunshine through your pain.
Mary Jo Di Angelo
June 5, 2007
I will miss Sandy's messages on Her2Support.org. But I am glad that her spirit is free and she doesn't have breast cancer any more. God bless Sandy's family, friends and little Yoda.
"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies ... Strength and honor are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come ..." Proverbs 31
Dorothy Moore
June 5, 2007
A sweet, innocent, smiling face will be sadly missed by all those who visited the Her2 website. Sandy may you rest in peace, your troubles in this life are over--May God Bless your family for their loss.
Bonnie (newgg) Krieger
June 5, 2007
Family of Sandy,
Her love of life and kind loving support gave many of us on the HER2 board needed warm fuzzies. Her love of those bright green shoes just made me do it....got some very bright orange ones. She is sending love and support to you even now.
Tricia Velasquez
June 5, 2007
Sandy, Thank you for all your words of wisdom and of love on Her2support, I know you have helped me in many ways. I know your walking with our Lord and that brings a big smile to my face. Sometimes God takes the cancer out of the person but this time he took the person out of the cancer. I know your in peace.
Donna Milliron
June 5, 2007
To Sandy's Family,
She was a God-send to us on the Her2-Neu forum - so positive and full of life as well as good counsel. We will miss her sooooo much! My sincerest condolences, Donna
Debra Moore
June 5, 2007
Dear Francis & Jason, I am so sorry about Sandy's passing; I know how you both must feel this terrible loss. Sandy was such an amazing wife and mother! Her gentle and quiet nature was non-assuming and never overwhelming. She was a powerful role model and one of God's truely beautiful and loving angels. Jason, Sandy was an excellent mother; she was always behind you and so proud of you. She was always a positive and encouraging mom; always giving even when it was difficult for her. We will never find anyone more loving, courageous, powerfully moving, and a strong advocate for family as she was. Many times I ask God "Why? Why does it seem like the truly good ones go?" His answer seems to be that "he needed his special angel in Heaven! Earth was blessed with her life here; now Heaven is blessed with her life there!" Jason, please try to find comfort in the fact that your mom taught you many of life's lessons, lessons that you will carry with you throughout your own life. She gave you so many, even if you are not aware of them now, lessons that will come to you when you are faced with one of life's many problems. Francis, try to remember every little thing about your life with Sandy. You are so lucky to have been able to do things together these past few years since her first diagnosis. God granted you the opportunity to travel together; to see some of the amazing places here on earth. You were blessed with your many trips together and the ability to retire and spend special times together. This past winter, the two months in Florida-many walks on the warm beach: memories that only you two could share; but your memories! Remember every word, every activity, every peaceful & quiet time together; never let her memory leave your mind! Sandy loved you so much! Sandy made the best out of every situation! She was so full of love and life! She loved everyone without judging them. Such a beautiful woman! There are very few women like her. Very few!!! Jason, remember the time you were here at Mark's birthday party? It had rained and there were great big puddles in my driveway! Well, as all children do, you wanted to play in the puddles and so did - but, slipped and was covered in mud: your Mom made you strip to ride home in her new car! Remember when Mom brought you down to our riverside beach one summer and you loved it. You spent time collecting those fresh-water clams! Do you remember those city kids came up with the owner of the small camp nearby? They swore they could eat these clams, even after we tried to tell them not to eat freshwater clams? They took them; I bet they got sick; what do you think? Francis, I remember taking those computer classes together. I will never forget Sandy saying that she weren't fond of the computer but did love her typewriter. She certainly learned to use the computer; all around the world! Francis, I remember Sandy saying that the time you both went up to your newly built camp, she so enjoyed the beauty and peace of the woods! Everytime you go back there, remember Sandy as I know she will always remember her time there with you. Sandy was one of God's angels. She showed others how to grasp every last bit of life that they had left and to never forget we are only here on earth by God's will. Francis and Jason: Sandy loved you both with all her heart and soul! Through her quiet nature, she spoke millions! Through her quiet love, she loved millions! Through her quiet touch, she touched millions! There is no one who can and ever will take her place on earth as well as in Heaven; this is why God brought her home! Sandy will always be remembered as that special woman who made an impression on everyone she came in contact with and thus touched! Sandy - we love you and salute you as one of God's angels who with quiet solitude touched so many of us! Thank you!!! Love you forever!!!
Linda Nance
June 4, 2007
Thank you Sandy for the inspiration you have given me. You have answered so many questions about BC.
To Sandy's Family, I pray that you will have peace in knowing she is in the hands of our Lord.
She will especially be missed on the Her2 sight.
IRENE FERNANDEZ
June 4, 2007
To Sandy's family:
I did not know Sandy personally but became instant friends through our "chatting" on the Her2 support group site.
Word's can not express how saddened I was to hear of her passing. She will be sorely missed and I will always have the vision of her angelic smile in my mind.
Click away in those green shoes of yours in heaven my friend.
Terry Gunzinger
June 4, 2007
Francis and Jason: Over the many years I have gotten to know some awfully wonderful people through our varied activities. It is with great sadness and sorrow that I learned of Sandy's passing. You are all in my prayers and thoughts as you have been over these past few years due to the disease that you all struggled with. I can only hope and pray that your memories will far outweigh the sadness as God called his angel home as he does so very often. She was a wonderful person who always worked hard at solving all the things that challanged her and never accepted less than a full effort. She will shine down on us all as our life journey goes on. Should you ever just need a friend, feel free to call any time as I know how deeply she loved you both. Sincerely: Terry and Linda Gunzinger
Rendi Cotton
June 4, 2007
Woman of excellence example, amazing, and inspiration. My hugs and prayer goes out to her husband, son, and her love one. Sandy, I want to thank you and tell you, "I love you". God bless.
Sheila Rawlins
June 4, 2007
Sandy was an inspiration to all of us battling breast cancer on Her2 Support. I was privledged tomeet her in San Antonio last December. May you be dancing in heaven in your green shoes...you will be missed but never forgotten Sandy. My deepest sympathy to her family.
Kathy Sugio
June 4, 2007
Sandy will be greatly missed in HER2Support. Her gentle encouragement will continue to be inspiration for me in the breast cancer battle.
Nicola Stewart
June 4, 2007
Francis, Jason and Family,
Sandy was such an amazing woman, she brought so much love, kindness, compassion and inspiration into the lives of others. She uplifted my spirits on so many occasions and truly made me feel like I had a friend that I could turn to and who really understood because she too was fighting the good fight. She no longer has to fight this difficult battle, she is free and at peace now and resting in the loving arms of our Father and Saviour. I will always miss her dearly, I will never forget her and I will try to follow her loving example for the rest of my days.
May God bless you, comfort and keep you always in His loving embrace. May time heal your hearts and memories comfort your souls.
In my prayers always, Love,
Nicola Stewart
Rita Porter
June 3, 2007
For my dear friend Sandy. Your laughter and joy will be so missed. You gave me serenity to accept my own cancer and the courage to move on. I will miss our monthly luncheons and our email chats.
My prayers are with you and your family. Much love, Rita Porter
Ray & Brenda Hiltz
June 3, 2007
Francis & Jason:
Sandy was a special person, a truly good person. She has been a wonderful neighbor and friend. If you ever need anything let us know. We are sorry for your loss.
Dottie Cayford
June 3, 2007
Sandy is by very best friend, whom I will sadly miss, but he bond we shared will be forever. My thoughts are with you Francis and Jason at this time of sorrow.
Gary Bowman
June 2, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sherry Barstow
June 2, 2007
Dear Francis & Jason,
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Sandy was a loving wife and mother.
Jason, I know how very much your Mom loved you and supported you. She was always so proud to be your Mom.
I am so sorry she had this struggle with breast cancer.
To one of my favorite students and his Dad,
my thoughts are with you.
From your 4th grade teacher,
Mrs. Barstow
Margie & Mike Decker-Walton
June 2, 2007
Francis and Jason, Prayers have been offered for her journey into the spirit world... and for both of you as you continue on, carrying her always in your hearts...
Respectfully, Margie & Mike Walton
Doug & Diane Frost
June 2, 2007
Francis & Jason, Our loving prayers are with you. May you find comfort with God's arms around you. Sandy was special and will be missed.
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