Search by Name

Search by Name

Heather Bouchard Obituary

Heather Dawn
    Bouchard, 24
     MADAWASKA AND YARMOUTH - On April 15 at 5:30 postmeridian, the world lost one of its warmest and brightest flames. Heather Dawn Bouchard was driving on the 295 when her car veered off the highway into oncoming traffic and was struck by a news van. She was on her way to work from her home in Yarmouth, where she lived with her loving fiancé Matthew Wasco. Born of Eric and Judy Bouchard on May 24, 1983, Heather grew up in Madawaska. As a child, Heather was the consummate playmate of her brother Kristofer, with whom she enjoyed the riches of youth well spent in northern Maine. Together and with the children of the community, they explored the depths of their imaginations, transforming their surroundings to participate in whatever paths their minds were on. An exemplary student of the Madawaska schools system, Heather was salutatorian of the graduating class of 2001 and earned scholastic awards in science, history, and English. She was also an active participant in several sports and extra-scholastic activities. After graduation, she attended the University of New England, where she excelled academically, being named to the Who's who among students in American universities and colleges. She earned degrees in both medical biology and psychology. It was during her time at UNE that Heather's innate love for children and desire to help others found its expression in her chosen career of assisting autistic children. With her glowing smile and infectious humor, Heather's life brought light to all who knew her and she was loved by all. Heather was taken from us too soon, and our loss is profound. Though she will be missed deeply, her life will never fade from our memory and our heart will always be with her. Heather, we love you and miss you. A Funeral Service will be held 10 a.m. on Thursday, April 24 at the St. Thomas Aquinas Church in Madawaska. Friends and family may call at the Daigle Funeral Home from 6-8 p.m. on Wednesday and from 9 a.m. until time of service on Thursday.
    In lieu of flowers, contributions in Heather's memory may be made to: The May Institute for
    Autistic Children
    95 U.S. RT. 1
    Freeport, ME 04032
     Heather Dawn
    Bouchard

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Apr. 19, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Heather Bouchard

Not sure what to say?





Breneda&Dan Dubay

May 18, 2008

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Nicholas Roy

May 13, 2008

Here

You are not here
Like the steady sun
That rises and sets each day
At the edge of the Earth.
Nor are you
Like the ocean tides
That rise and fall nightly
Under the hypnotic spell of the Moon
Rather, you are here
Like that one perfect sunset
Whose amber radiance inspired two people
To vow love to each other forever.
Or that one afternoon
When the receding sea left tide pools
That sparkled like drops of melted gold
On the sun-drenched beach.
That is how you were here.
-Nicholas Roy

Tom and Millissa Gass

May 6, 2008

Judy and Family and loved ones,
We are so deeply saddened and our sadness continues as the days pass for your loss. We think of you and Heather often. Hope you can find some light in the coming days. Our deepest sympathies.

Heather Carll

April 29, 2008

Heather worked for Support Solutions for just over two years. Although she had worked in various homes with children with disabilities she consistently worked in one home over the two years with an autistic child. Her dedication to this family and their child was evident from the first time I met Heather. This dedication only grew over the year that I worked with her. Even when she became a full time case manger for Spurwink she still stayed on with Support Solutions to continue her work with the family.
Heather actively advocated for the child she worked with. She observed his speech therapy, his schooling and every new program the family implemented. She attended all his family meetings, quarterly reviews and planning meetings. She met and/or spoke with me weekly advocating for his needs. In fact the last time I saw Heather, a few days before her accident, she stopped in to see me to advocate for a request from the family. I once recognized for her dedication and commended her on how far the child she worked with had come because of it. Being Heather she refused to take credit saying that it was the works of his team not her alone that had gotten him where he is.
The times I spent with Heather and the child she worked with are memories I will carry of her forever. I will remember Heather dressed up like a dinosaur at the children’s museum helping the child she worked with put on a play. I will remember lying on blankets in the family’s backyard and naming the shapes the clouds took in the sky. I will remember the science projects that fizzed and changed colors, making play dough houses in the basement, coloring pictures and making a giant manmade spider web at a Halloween party.
Heathers loss is best described by her family and friends: “profound.” She will be missed by all whose lives she touched. Our hearts go out to her family for their loss. Heather, we miss and love you.


Heather J. Carll
Program Manager
In Home Supports
Support Solutions
April 23, 2008

Evelyn St. Cyr

April 26, 2008

Dear,Eric, Judy, Kris, & Matt,
I had the good fortune of working with Heather for a short time at Spurwink. I was off the day of the accident and saw the news at noon... and I had a horrible feeling that it was Heather. I called the office praying someone would tell me she was there and was alright and I was just overreacting, but that did not happen. I left her a message on her cell phone asking her to call me or our supervisor just to put my mind at ease as it didn't sit right with me. Around 5 I knew it was her and the shock set it and still has not left. Our entire office mourns with you as we lost "one of our own", someone who always brightened up your day and always seemed so positive. She threw herself into new job and learning everything she could and she was doing an amazing job. I too wish I could have been at the service. Please know that she touched the lives of everyone who knew her, however brief and we will never forget her. May time ease your sorrow.

Chanelle Albert

April 25, 2008

I remember when Heather...
* babysat Jacques and I
* and Pam played cards with me at the
camp
*had huge smiles-which lit up rooms
*gave loving hugs
Thanks for the memories...
Love, Chanelle

Joshua West

April 24, 2008

Mr. and Mrs. Bouchard, Kris, Matt and the Wasco Family,

Although Heather and I were never all that close while working at American Eagle together-she was a very special part of my life. Heather said something to me almost two years ago that I will never, ever forget for the rest of my life. And, I truly feel like it has inspired me to be the person that I am today.

Heather used to bring me home frequently long ago when I did not have a car... I had recently escaped a terrible relationship and gave up everything I had, except my soul-so I thought. The last time I rode in her car, we got pretty deep into conversation about life, etc. I told her things that I had never told anyone before... And, it ended with her telling me "You're an amazing person, Josh... You have incredible abilities, and you have the strength carry on. You just have to dig deep down and find it sometimes. Just don't ever give up hope..."

Within a month, I got the job I currently still hold. And, got a car. And, became a much happier person. I feel that I owe it all to Heather-since it was then, after 9 months of sadness and lack of inspiration, that she picked me up and drove me forward and made me believe that I could be "somebody" again.

She changed my life... I will be forever grateful for being able to be in her presence. And, I will never forget her. I am so sorry for your loss. I honestly feel that she changed every person that she ever looked at, in some way... Because, every time you saw her she was smiling.

I am very happy to have been given the opportunity to meet you last night. Thank You for bringing such an unforgettable person into this world. She was a direct reflection of you. And, she will be missed each and every day.

I always thought I would be able to get together with her and thank her for making such an impact on my life. And, tell her how proud I was of her for following her dreams. Thank You for giving me the opportunity last night to look up to her and tell her silently how I felt.

Daigle's Furniture and Sport Center Management and Staff

April 24, 2008

To all the Family and Friends of Miss Heather...Please be assured of our prayers in these sad and painful times. May God hold you all in the palm of his hands! Peace to all of you...

Allen & Joyce Branscombe

April 24, 2008

Dear family and friends of Heather. How do we try to even understand why a young person like Heather and so many other young people who have just started making a life for themselves, are taken from us in an instant. There is a reason for all this and only one knows whom is God above. It hurts today and will for days to come but you will see her again when she comes through the gates and welcomes you with her smile and her arms opened wide. She must be happy up above surrounded with beautiful little children who have also passed on. Our deepest sympathies to everyone whom she touched.

Jill Beals

April 24, 2008

Dear Heather's family and friends,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I had the honor of getting to know Heather, when we had the opportunity to work together with a family. I was able to witness the gift that she gave to the family with whom we worked, being a ray of sunshine, advocation, and holding on to hope. Although we grieve the loss of Heather please know that she has planted seeds with those that were blessed to work with her. In her life and passing she has taught the family and I what it means to be passionate about something, and part of the healing will be to continue to hold that ray of hope that Heather continues to instill in us.
Fondly,
Jill Beals

Nancy Lavertu

April 23, 2008

How does one grieve the loss of such a marvel of God's creation...I do not know..but we do offer you our deepest condolences. Heather and her radiant smile, healing eyes, contagious laugh, and faith in God. She will be dearly missed as well as live on in the lives of so many...many we do not even know of...Allen, Nancy, Michelle, Mark, Nathan, Susan, and Adam Lavertu

Amanda Voss

April 23, 2008

Dear Judy, Eric, Kris, Matt and Family

I'm so sorry for the Loss. I was with Heather on I-295 telling her that is world be ok and to hang in help is coming. Heather you are with God and you have NO Pain you are Free, May God bless you all.

Cheryl,CheyChey,Kat. Keaton,Seevers

April 23, 2008

My Deepest Sympathy Gos Out To Heathers Family.
I was Kind of just tossed to Heather so to speak.My Case Mannager transferred my case to Heather.With Fear in my mind for the Knew Case Mannager with my Two Girls,That I will Call Kat And CheyChey.I was afraid of a knew worker because of the change in routine for my girls.Heather walked threw my door with a Smile on her face so big she shined.It sort of spilled out of her and into the girls.I loved my many long convoes with her.She became more than just a case mannager to my family.We talked daily.She was a strenghth in the darkness for me and my girls.I saw the news and my heart sank so deep.We loved Heather how are we going to cope with out her I thought.Then I relized and just out came a smile.Heather may not be in frount of me ware I can see her,But she is all around her Familys that she worked with,and her own family.Heather is still by my side plugging away with me to do the best for my girls.We love you Heather and can't waight to travel with you agin in the next life.
The Keaton Seevers Family.

Madeleine Theriault

April 23, 2008

Judy, Rick, Kris, & Matt,
We were so shocked to hear of Heathers sudden passing. She touched so many lives in her short time, but know that she will help you through this difficult time...just ask her. Alison & I are sorry we will not be able to attend the wake or furneral, as we are in Southern Maine. She was in our thoughts as we passed on the 295. We can't imagine how difficult this has to be, but she will give you the strength to move on. Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our hearts and prays go out to you. We will visit you sometime soon, so that we can give you the support and a shoulder to cry on. We love you.
Madeleine, George, Alison & Lee

Kendra Deschaine

April 23, 2008

Mr. and Mrs Bouchard, and Kris,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Your in my thoughts and prayers during this immensely difficult time, I will keep you close in my heart.

Roger, Donna, & Matthew Labbe

April 23, 2008

Dear Rick, Judy, & Kris,
"Mourn with those that mourn." We have been praying for you ever since the day we learned that you had suffered such a great loss. Please know that we will continue to pray for you in these most difficult days. We would have preferred to offer our sympathies in person but that is not possible. We're praying that God will give you comfort, strength for each day ahead, and wonderful memories of Heather. Sending you our love,

Rebecca Violette

April 23, 2008

Eric, Judy, Kris, & Matt,
May your sorrow lessen with each passing day. GOD has his little angle back in his arms now. You will see her again. She is no longer here in form, but remains with you in spirit. She is all around you. She is in the air you breathe, the sun that shines bright on your face, the wind blowing through your hair. She is everywhere. I am thinking of you all and have been since the night we met in SCU 4 here at MMC. I'll never forget you or Heather Dawn. I send my love and prayers to you in hopes that you will gain strength in your faith and yourselves in the challenging days ahead. May you and your families find peace and comfort.

Louise, Bob, Timothy, Christopher and Elizabeth Beaulieu

April 22, 2008

Dear Judy, Eric, Kris, Matt and Family...as we were traveling north today on the "I-295" from visting with "Tim" we said a special prayer for dear Heather. God certainly wanted another Angel by his side in Heaven. He only takes the best...We are so very sorry for your and our loss and we wish we could take all the pain away. Please feel God holding you in the palm of his hand and know that he is certainly carrying you through these very hard times. Peace to all of your hearts...love each other, hold on to each other and most of all, remember your beloved "daughter", "sister", and "fiancee" as a precious gift that God lent you...With all of our deepest sympathies

Cheryl Dow

April 22, 2008

Judy, Eric, Kris,
Please accept my deepest sympathies for your personal grief and depths of despair. I fondly recall and value shared times with "Heather Boo."

Curtis Cyr

April 22, 2008

Dear Judy, Eric, and Kris,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Heather was an angel on earth and will be in heaven as well.

Brenda Libby

April 22, 2008

Dear Judy & Family;

I read about the loss of your beautiful daughter, Heather.

I'll never forget what a wonderful teacher you were for my son, Billy, when we moved to Madawaska. You helped him during a difficult time in our life... and I will always be grateful to you for that. That is why I was so saddened to hear of your loss. I simply can’t comprehend just how sad you must feel.

I'll pray that your pain will decrease and that your spirit will gain strength again.

My Deepest condolences,

Pamela Bouchard

April 21, 2008

Rick and Judy,
My heart and tears are with you. Heather has left behind a thousand memories that will live in your heart forever. Please know at this difficult time, that you are in so many thoughts and prayers. I will be in touch. Love you.

Stacy Martin/Michaud

April 21, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Theresa ,Dave and Crystal Page

April 21, 2008

Dear Judy and family


We are so sorry for your lose. Our prayers are with you.

Daniel Levin (as in Michelle's daniel)

April 21, 2008

Dear Judy and Erik,

You are loved by so many, as is clearly the case with Heather. I hope you can dedicate these days to celebrate Heather. Try not to do to much right now.

I am sorry we can not be with you on Thursday, but know we will be with you spiritually.

Love, your friend

Dawn Gordon

April 21, 2008

Please accept my deepest condolences on such a sad loss. I had the pleasure of working with heather briefly at Sunsations Spa and than would see her when she was working at AE. She was such a happy person with such an amazing outlook. She touched many lives and will continue to do so. I am so sorry for your loss.

Jill McDermott

April 21, 2008

Dear Judy, Kris, Rick, and Matthew,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I cannot recall my childhood without thinking of Heather's smile, the wild adventures, and the joyful light she brought to every single thing she did. I am so fortunate to have been her friend, and to have been so welcomed by your family. Please take pride and comfort in the beautiful woman that she was. Heather's spirit will live on in every soul she touched, and for someone so young, it was a great many people.

Mary Guillerault

April 21, 2008

Heather was one of the most wonderful people my family has ever known. She worked with my 5 year old son through case management...She was so thoughtful, and helpfull...We will miss her very much

Arnold and Huguette McHenry

April 21, 2008

Rick and Family

Deeply sorry for your lost. Our prayers are with you .

Jessica Fitts

April 21, 2008

Judy, Eric, Kris, & Matt,
My heart is with you and your family as you grieve for the loss of Heather. I am so lucky to have worked with her for a year at AE. Although I had lost touch with her for the last year and a half my heart broke when I heard she had passed away. She was such an awesome person. She had such a wonderful and caring soul and never had a bad thing to say. She was so determined and had a huge thirst for life. She worked hard for everything she had and deserved every bit of it. She spoke highly of her family and of the children she worked with. I wish I had the chance to thank her for leaving an imprint on my life as it has changed for the better because I had the great pleasure of knowing her. May your memories of her console you as you grieve for her.

Roseann Gendreau

April 21, 2008

Rick,Judy,and Kris, God welcomed an angel on April 15, and this new angel will now be watching over each and every one of you. Talk to her and share your deepest feelings. I'm sure she will be there to comfort and guide you. Heather left her mark with all who grew up with her and worked with her. Many have shared testimony to how she touched their lives. I remember her best as the vibrant young lady who always had a thoughtful word to share and showed enthusiasm in whatever she pursued. Unfortunately, God at times only shares our children with us for a little while and claims them much to soon. We'll keep praying for you. God bless you all.

Tim Roberts

April 21, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Bouchard family and friends for a loss that can not be put into words, I am deeply sorry for this immense loss. I have been best friends with Matt since the first day we met back in college, one day this amazing girl came along, Heather, at first I was not sure what to think she was so loud and boisterous. But after just a few hours of being with her and Matt I realized how perfect for Matt she really was, she was the girl of dreams, and someone that would make my best friend happy for a life time. Heather was person that could make you feel like you were the most important person in the room with her caring heart and great smile. She was full of life and had a heart so big that she was ready to fix the world and she made little steps towards that everyday with every person she met. For only knowing Heather for a short three years she made a huge imprint on my heart that will never fade away. I am deeply saddened for the loss of a great friend and amazing person, Heather you will be missed. My heart goes out to those that knew Heather and had the opportunity to have be apart of your life, even if it was just moment.

Kristiana Wright

April 21, 2008

Dear Eric, Judy, Kris, and Matt,

Heather was a beautiful and wonderful young lady who was full of life. We will all keep the memories of her in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time!

Gene Durrell

April 21, 2008

Eric, Judy, and Kris I am a close friend of Mat's. Mat brought Heather over to our home several times. She was beautiful person. I am truly sorry for your lose. When she came over to visit us with Mat she was always smiling and talking about the childern she was helping out. She was a very giving person. I will miss seeing her. Mat I know that Heather was everything to you. Take care and if you need anything let me know.

April 21, 2008

Gisele, Art, Gregoire, and Anna

April 21, 2008

There's an extra star up in the sky and though it's far away, its brightness and warmth still reach us here. Let memories of Heather warm your heart and lead you through this very difficult time. Our deepest sympathy...

Maria (Desjardins) Toussaint

April 21, 2008

To Heather's Family and Fiance, I am so very sorry for your loss. It is obvious that Heather was a very loving and giving person during her short time here. Please accept my deepest sympathy.....

Carlene Zullo

April 20, 2008

I did not know Heather but I was on the highway that day....I was praying for her to make it through and that night I was so saddened to hear that such a young girl lost her life. My condolences to you. God Bless.

Matt Wasco

April 20, 2008

Eric, Judy, and Kris, I can't find the words to describe what has happened and how we feel. Heather loved you all very much and looked forward to every moment that she got to spend with you. The time that I spent with her was absolutely unforgettable, she changed my life in a way that I cannot even begin to express. I loved your daughter/ sister, and will never forget any moment that I shared with her. She had the ability to light up any room. She took all the qualities that were instilled in her as she was growing up and used them to help others to the best ability that I have ever seen. You should be proud in knowing that you brought up such a bright, intelligent, and loving young woman. I am glad to have had the chance to love her and she will always be in my heart. She loves you, and I love you.

Michele Dufour

April 20, 2008

To all of Heathers Family and Friends ~
It is very difficult to find the words to express just how sorry I was to hear about Heather. I remember I always saw her with a smile on her face, such a sweet, caring, and smart young girl with a big heart and so much potential. Her life has ended too soon...but rest assured she is being taken care of and will be watching over you. My deepest condolences are with you all...

Pam Pelletier

April 20, 2008

Eric, Judy, Kris, and Matt
Our prayers and thoughts go out to all of you. We are so sorry for your loss. You will be in our prayers.

Pam, Chuck, Clint, Lance, Danielle, and Karen Pelletier

Mandy Belanger-McCabe and Michelle Belanger

April 20, 2008

Eric, Judy, and Kris, You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will always remember Heather smiling, as she enjoyed everything she did. Her love for life was contagious.

Ginette and Rick Albert

April 20, 2008

Dear Judy, Eric and Kris,

Our deepest sympathies at the loss of your beautiful Heather. I know of no words that can make you all feel better know that you are in our prayers. I will always remember Heather as a shining, smiling, beautiful young lady who brightened up a room with her energy. May God bless you and your family during these hard times

Helen Michaud

April 20, 2008

No words can express the deep sorrow I feel for your loss.

Rose (Pelletier) Robichaud

April 20, 2008

To Heather's Family and Loved Ones,
May our Loving Father heal your hearts quickly, bless you abundantly, and surround you with loving, caring people as long as the need is there. Hold on to your special memories of your beautiful daughter, and take comfort knowing that you shall meet again in eternity. Time will soften the edges and ease your burden. God bless you all.

This is Heather with her firend Jill McDermott.

April 20, 2008

Linda McDermott

April 20, 2008

"And the vision that was planted in my brain, still remains..." But Heather's vision is not gloomy silence, it is laughter. She was perfect, she was such a nice person. Our house was always cheerful and lively when Heather was visiting! She still manages to make us laugh even now in the midst of our deepest sorrow. Judy, Rick, and Kris, and all Heather's friends and relatives, I am so very sorry for your terrible loss. I pray to God to give you strength through the memory of Heather. Allow her to live on always in your heart to help you embrace the good side of life.

Angela St.Jarre

April 20, 2008

Dear Judy, Eric, Kris & Matt,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. She was a remarkable young woman. May the peace of God carry you through this difficult time. My heart aches for all of you. Take good care of each other. My prayers are with all of you.

Lisa Matos

April 20, 2008

Our family had the honor of knowing your caring and loving daughter. Heather, she was always was smiling and happy everytime she came to our house to see my 3 children she worked with through case management. Heather was like no other case manager we had and my kids loved her like she was part of our family and we were all devistated by this tragedy and would like to send our sympathies to your family. Heather brought so much joy to my children and for that I will always be so greatful for.

Joanne PINSONNAULT

April 20, 2008

First off, I'd like to express my deepest sympathy to the Bouchard Family and Matt's family for the tragic loss. Heather was an individulal that brought glow into the room. I got to know Heather while she took her trainings for the work she did with Support Solutions. Heather always has a smile on her face and the type of person who always made you laugh. She was an inspiration for all in the classroom enviroment and very committed to the work she did. I remember hearing the news report early in the morning a jumping up thinking "OH my Gosh it can't be our Heather" I went to work early that morning to only have confirm the news that is was indeed Heather that had worked with us. The loss at such a tender young age is by far understandable, but the lives she touched will never be forgotten. God Bless her family and may they find some comfort from eathother at this time of sorrow.

Scott & Cindy Walbridge

April 20, 2008

To Heathers Family, Fiance, and Friends,
I had the great fortune of knowing Heather as a Case Manager and a coworker. I cant believe a wonderful young woman so full of life was pulled from us so early. Heather was such a help to our family. I had talked to her the night before and the morning of her tragic accident and still cant believe I wont see her sitting at my kitchen table again. Her smile and laughter was contagious. We shared a song together on our way to a meeting and Heather told me that everytime she heard that song it would make her think of me and she would smile. Now, that is what I have left to hold of Heather. I hope and pray that somebody was able to come forward with some information to help figure out what caused that horrible accident. Out thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Peggy, Andy, & Megan Daigle

April 19, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sherry Nelson-Locastro

April 19, 2008

Dear Judy, Eric, Kris and Matt: My deepest sympathies go out to you at this time of unfathomable loss.
"A Beautiful Rose"
A rose once grew where all could see, sheltered beside a garden wall, And as the days passed swiftly by, it spread its branches, straight and tall...
One day, a beam of light shone through a crevice that had opened wide-the rose bent gently toward its warmth then passed beyond to the other side
Now, you who deeply feel its loss, be comforted~the rose blooms there~its beauty even greater now, nurtured by God's own loving care.
My thoughts, my heart, my prayers are with you dear Cousin.

Joey/Barbara Bouchard

April 19, 2008

The pain with loosing a child is relentess!
We are so sorry! We knew her so briefly, but she was the light of the Bouchard reunion at our home in Pine Pt.,we instantly wanted to know her and welcome her into our lives. such a delightful young lady!
Our prayers are with you.
Joey and Barbara Bouchard

Duncan Hopkins

April 19, 2008

I had the privilege of being Heather's Nurse Practitioner during her first two undergraduate years at UNE. My heart twinged when I heard the radio news report initially identifying Heather as the seriously injured driver in the accident, and my heart broke when I heard, again listening to radio news, that Heather had died. I have treated thousands of patients over the years-Heather was one of only a few dozen of all those thousands that I remember well, and remember fondly. I will continue to remember her fondly. I pray that God will lovingly guide her loved ones through the terrible pain of her untimely death.

Harley Cyr

April 19, 2008

Mon oncle Rick, Ma tante Judy, and Kris,
Heather will be tremendously missed in our home. We have many good memories of her. When we think of her, we think of her big smile and how she brightened up the room. She'll be with you always and will be another angle of yours. We love your family and you're in our prayers.

Beth Eilers

April 19, 2008

My heart goes out to Heather's family and loved ones. Heather took care of my children many times over the last three years. She was kind and bright with an infectious sense of humor. My family will miss her dearly.

Joe, Marlene, Dayna & Alex Dechaine

April 19, 2008

We want to express our deepest sympathy to you Judy, Erik and Kris. We'd like to think that "Memere Dechaine" met Heather at the gates of heaven with our God. May you find peace in God's love.

Dan and Rita Dionne & family

April 19, 2008

Dear Judy and family,
Our hearts ache for you and we are so very, very sorry for your profound loss. We know nothing can take away the tremendous pain you, Eric, Kris and Matt are feeling at this time. We know Heather was a very precious daughter, sister, fiance and friend. We have such fond memories of all the soccer games, sleepovers, campouts, skip day, night outs and fun times our daughters and their friends shared while growing up. It was also wonderful how they always kept in touch with each other and looked out for one another while going about the different paths their lives took after graduation. They truly had a special bond and friendship. I know those happy memories will carry you all through this sorrowful time and will help you find your smiles once again. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.

Jesse Peterson

April 19, 2008

I'll never forget those apple crisp pies you would have waiting for matt and I after a long day of hunting in the woods Heather. Words cant describe our loss. My heart goes out to Matt, family, and friends during this time of suffering.

Hannah Nadeau

April 19, 2008

Uncle Rick, Aunt Judy & Kris,
I am at a loss for words...
Sharing in your sorrow
Thinking of you and wishing
I could be there to hold your hands.
Mom and I will see you soon.
I love you all.

Uncle Ken Nelson

April 19, 2008

Judy, Rick and Kris; Words cannot express the loss of Heather to give you any comfort during this time. I wish I could be up there now, but will be there soon. I shall miss her dearly. May God bless you and your family during this time of loss.

Barbara Fournier

April 19, 2008

Eric,Judy and brother Kris
At a time like this it is very difficult to find the words. Heather was a beautiful, energetic, smart young lady with a big sense of humor. When you met her, she made you feel as if you had known her your whole life. Heather was a very smart girl with a lot of potential. Her life has been cut short, but you have to know that GOD ONLY TAKES THE VERY BEST. You are in a better place and you are an Angel. Heather I will miss you and my prayers are with your family.

Chantal Marudas

April 19, 2008

Mrs Bouchard,Rick and Kristopher,
I am so very saddened by the loss of your beautiful daughter/sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. It was so nice to talk today and all the fond memories I have of your family. I'm sending my hugs to you and please keep in touch.
Love and miss you
Always
Chantal(Zullo)Marudas

Sue Berube Nadeau

April 19, 2008

Dear Judi, Eric, Kris, and Matthew, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Words will never truly express the extent of our feelings for your loss of such a beautiful daughter, sister, and fiance. Our prayers and our thoughts are with you.

Ashley Thibodeau

April 19, 2008

Mrs. Bouchard,
I am so sorry for your loss and Heather was a very bright girl and made a difference in everyones life.

Val and Joey Dufour

April 19, 2008

Ric, Judy and Kris, We are so saddened by the sudden lost of your precious daughter. No words can explain how we all feel. We have fond memories of Heather that we will cherish forever. God has chosen her as a very special angel. Stay strong and be assured that Heather will be watching over you. Our deepest sympathies.

Jolene Fournier

April 19, 2008

I am so sorry for the loss of Heather. She was a great person. I will always remember her and of the many memories that my sister and her had. It is just sad to see her in heaven at such a young age. I am truly sorry and my condolences goes out to Heathers family and to Mike.

Aunt Barb Kifer

April 19, 2008

Heather Dawn was the light of my life.I was so proud to be there when she graduated from NEU.I miss her so much I have no words. I am crying as I write this,but I know she is always going to be safenow.M y thoughts are with Judy,Ric and my nephew Kris.Also Matthew,with whom Heather shared her Dreams.

victoria CLOSSON

April 19, 2008

I did not know Heather. I read of her life ,here today. What a precious human spirit this world has lost. Now an Angel to watch over her loved ones and all of the little ones she loved so dearly.
I feel that we are here for such a short time. Heather did so much in a very short time.
We all are reminded at times like this, to treat others as if we may never see them again.
My heartfelt Prayers are with you all. May God give you the comfort,strenght and hope that you will need in all the days to come.
Gods Peace be with you all.
In His Love, Victoria Closson

Charlie and Monique Cyr

April 19, 2008

Dear Eric, Judy, Kristofer, and fiance Matthew...

We are so very sadden by the loss of your precious Heather. She will always be a special part of you in spirit and soul watching over you from Heaven. Our prayers and deepest sympathies are with you always during this time of sorrow. With love...

Eric and Joni Daigle

April 19, 2008

What a beautiful daughter and sister. We are so sorry to hear about your great loss. She is truly an angel in heaven now. May God give you the strength to go on. Take care and may her memory live in your hearts forever.

Lucien Deschaine

April 19, 2008

Although I have already signed this guest book earlier, I did want to express our deepest regrets to Heather's fiance, Matthew. It may seem like your world has stopped, but She will help to pick you up and pray to her for guildance. You will be amazed. With time, Matthew, it will become less hurtful. Please know that others have traveled this road and have found ways to climb out of the pain. God Bless You.

Jean & Derek Beaulieu

April 19, 2008

Judy, Eric and Kris we would like to extend our deepest sympathies to your family. Keep your memories of Heather close to your heart and they will help to carry you thought this most trying time of your life. Your family will be kept in our prayers. God Bless you all.

Linda Beaulieu

April 19, 2008

Im so sorry for your loss. my prayers and thoughts are with you and your Family.

Bert and Rina Cyr

April 19, 2008

Dear Judy, Eric+ Kris
We were so sad to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter. It seems when a beautiful flower blooms one day, and is gone the next day, life can seem so unforgiving. Your beautiful flower is spiritual and everlasting now. She will be your guardian angel from up above. The loss of a child is very deep. May god give you strength to carry on during this most difficult time. Hang on to the good memories. Keeping you in our thoughts prayers.

Lucien, Judy , Andrea Deschaine

April 19, 2008

I came upon the accident on that day and in my wildest dreams , never did it cross my mind, it could have been your daughter/sister. I knew it was someones loved one and just know, someone from Madawaska was there to pray for her as was everyone else around her. Judy, Andrea and myself are so sorry for your loss. For your gifted daughter to not only acheive so much, but to have the Heart to share it with the difficult challenges of the less fortunate , there is no greater reward for you as parents, brother, and her community. She is in great Hands now. Much to soon.

Jamie @ Radio Shack

April 19, 2008

Judy and Family,

I did not know Heather. But working at school with you Judy, I knew how much you loved her and how special she was to your family. You talked very nicely of her and always had pictures and stories to share. I am very sorry for your loss, and I dont know how to say how sorry I am to hear about this tragedy. Keep strong, and be there for each other during this tough time. Take care, and again, my sympathies.

Patrice & Jim Daigle

April 19, 2008

Dear Judy, Eric & Kris,
Heather was your pride and joy in life and she will be your strenght in death. We will all miss her and never forget her smiling face. Our deepest sympathies.

MARK AND MIMI EPSTEIN

April 19, 2008

Dear Ric, Judy and Kris,
We are so very sorry to hear about your beloved daughter and sister. We are keeping your family in prayer,God bless you and keep you during this difficult time.

Tina Martin

April 19, 2008

Judy,
I'll never forget the day you received that aweful phone call and finding out that Heather had been in a horrific car accident. I hoped and prayed that she would be ok and was really sad when I found out that night that she had passed away. Andrew and Heather were classmates and were pretty close in school and I remember her growing up and that she was such a sweet and caring person and I don't think I ever saw her without a smile on her face. She will surely be missed by all who knew and loved her. Judy, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and if I can do anything for you at all, you know where to find me!

Jessie Chessa

April 19, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bob and Claire Marquis

April 19, 2008

Rick, Judy, and Kris,
No words can express the sorrow we feel for you at this very difficult time. Please know that we are thinking of you and that you are in our prayers.

Amy & Scott Castonguay

April 19, 2008

May god help you all during this tough time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Myriam Loiselle

April 19, 2008

Mr. and Mrs Bouchard, and Kris, My thoughts and prayers are with your during this immensely difficult time, I will keep you close in my heart.

Sara Levesque

April 19, 2008

Judy, Eric and Chris,
there are no words that can fix this but just remember that there are lots of people standing behind you ready to help at any moment. Her smile, sense of humor, attitude toward life, and everything about her will be missed. Your whole family is in my prayers.
Sara

jim & linda cyr

April 19, 2008

judy,rick,chris know that we are sadden by the loss of dear dear sweet heather her beautiful smile and her humour will be engrave in our hearts forever love you guys you're in our thoughts and prayers

Elaine L Thibodeau

April 19, 2008

Dear Eric, Judy & Kris,
I was deeply saddened to hear that Heather had left us. Losing someone without warning is shocking. Keep her alive in your heart by talking about her. She was a bright and shining star here on earth and will be your own special shining star in God's heavenly sky. Take care of each other and she will take care of you and help you through your grief.
You are in my prayers.

Pauline Colbourne

April 19, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jayne Alley

April 19, 2008

What a beautiful soul! I'm so sorry for your loss.

Peter, Diane, Marcus and Tonya Bell

April 19, 2008

Our sympathies go out to Judy, Rick and Kris. May memories of Heather comfort you all in this time of sorrow.
Our Prayers are with the family and friends who knew her.

Laurie Smith

April 19, 2008

Sorry About Her Death I did not know her ,but would like to send my prayers to her family.May God be with you.

Jim & Linda Madore

April 19, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Rick & Georgette Vaillancourt

April 19, 2008

Please accept our deepest condolences and know that our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time,
may you find comfort in knowing that we care. Such a tragedy!

Montfort & Jackie Chasse

April 19, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sorrowful time.

Erny & Edwina Levesque

April 19, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Showing 1 - 100 of 101 results

Make a Donation
in Heather Bouchard's name

Memorial Events
for Heather Bouchard

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Heather's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Heather Bouchard's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more