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Paula Scolnik, 90
ANDOVER, Mass. - Paula Scolnik died at her home in Andover, Mass., on Aug. 5, 2018, at the age of 90, with her husband of 67 years, Louis, at her side.
Paula was born in New York City in 1927, the daughter of Meyer and Ada Revitz. Raised in Washington D.C., she graduated from the University of Maryland in 1949 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in psychology. She continued her studies at the George Washington University Graduate School of Clinical Psychology where she co-authored "The Assimilation of the New Child into the Group," an article which was published in Psychiatry: Journal for the Study of Interpersonal Processes. She later earned a Master of Science in Education degree from the University of Southern Maine.
In 1951, she was employed by the U.S. State Department as a research analyst in the office of Herbert Marcuse as part of the Northwest Europe Division of Intelligence Research. That same year, she married Louis Scolnik of Lewiston, Maine, then a second-year law student at Georgetown University Law School. In 1952, the couple moved to Maine where Louis began the practice of law, eventually rising to the position of Justice on the Maine Supreme Judicial Court.
While Paula and Louis raised their three daughters, they became very active in Democratic Party politics, Civil Rights, the Peace Movement and the work of the League of Women Voters. Paula created an intellectually and musically vibrant home, filled with books, paintings, sculpture, and LP recordings. She was a protective and intensely devoted mother, instilling in her daughters a deep appreciation and passion for literature, poetry, music, art, and dance. Anyone who met Paula recognized her sharp intellect and independent spirit. She was provocative, unusually perceptive, unconventionally funny, and had zero tolerance for phoniness.
For many years, Paula taught English at Edward Little High School in Auburn, Maine, where she founded the school's first literary magazine, "Parnassus." She organized cultural trips and enrichment activities for her students, opening doors to the world beyond the classroom. Paula's refreshingly candid style, her commanding presence, and a deep personal interest in her students made her a cherished and beloved teacher.
After retiring from teaching, Paula immersed herself in numerous community service organizations, including work as a court-appointed special advocate for children (CASA), often testifying in court in child custody cases. She also worked as a hotline volunteer for the Abused Women's Advocacy Project (AWAP).
As chairperson for two terms of the Lewiston Public Library Board of Trustees, Paula guided some of the library's most critical decisions in personnel. When LPL & APL, now LA ARTS, was first instituted, Paula was program chairperson and successfully brought interesting high-level concerts to the Lewiston-Auburn community.
In 2001, the first of several waves of immigrants fled from Somalia and resettled in Lewiston, eventually numbering 5000 by 2011. In the first crucial stages of Somali immigration, Paula devoted herself to helping facilitate employment for the Somalis, thereby enhancing their integration into the community. She was also a volunteer in Lewiston's Adult Learning Program teaching in the "English as a Second Language" curriculum.
In 2007, Paula and her husband moved from Lewiston to Andover, Mass. She adored her three grandchildren and relished spending time with them. In her last years, she received loving care from her nurses, Sandy Pasco and Tony Martinelli.
Besides her husband, she is survived by a sister, Marilyn Greenberg of Bethesda, Md.; daughters, Nina Scolnik (Jack) of Laguna Niguel, Calif.; Donna Scolnik, of New York City; and Julie Scolnik of Brookline, Mass.; and grandchildren, Theodore Jack of New York City, Sophie Scolnik-Brower and Alexander (Sasha) Scolnik-Brower, both of Boston. She was predeceased by a brother, George Revitz, of Alexandria,Va.
A memorial service will be held at the Lanam Club in Andover on Aug. 26, 2018 at 2 p.m.

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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Aug. 8, 2018.

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Oconne

August 2, 2022

I can still see her walking into my English literature class, full of passion for life and willing to share that energy with her students. So glad I had her in my life. She inspired me. Thanks Mrs. S.

Karen Lia Schlick

August 2, 2021

I remember her as a role model in my teenage years, when good role models were so important...in the 1960´s. Her passion for the arts supported me, a budding artist and art teacher, and it was her encouragement and support that lead to a career as an art teacher and a degree in art education. Without her support my life would have taken a different path. She was there for me at the crossroads and I remember that with gratitude.

Karen Schlick

August 2, 2020

“Fare forward, voyager...”. Among the many teachers who influenced me and impacted my life, you are at the top. When I finally found my direction in the arts, it was you who I turned to for advice. Your support and encouragement opened the doors to getting my BFA and the career I had as an art teacher. It is lovely to remember you here, and express my gratitude for being there at a pivotal moment in my life. Thank you.

O'Connell

August 2, 2020

Mrs.Scolnik was a great teacher who made literature come alive for her students. She also introduced us to poetry when she held poetry readings at her house. She was one cool lady

Mary Dore

August 12, 2018

Paula was one of my favorite teachers at Edward Little, back in the late 1960's. She was witty and smart, and showed personal interest in our writing projects, and in our lives. My condolences to her family, and others who benefitted from her wisdom and kindness.

August 9, 2018

Mrs.Scolnik was my favorite, most important, adult role model in the fast moving 60's of my youth. She was such a gem of a human being. It was a privilege to be taught by her. Condolences to her family on the passing of this great lady.

Karen Schlick

August 9, 2018

Mrs. Scolnik was the first person to see and believe in me, as an artist. Her encouragement and support changed my life. I have always thought of her with great appreciation...one of those individuals one is so fortunate to have met.

cheryl perrino

August 9, 2018

My condolences to the family. Paula was one of my favorite customers when I was the manager of Bookland and I am so grateful I had the opportunity to consider her friend. I know she will be missed deeply!

Your neighbor..

August 8, 2018

Our sincere condolences to the Scolnik family in the loss of your dear love one. Our prayers are as yours, that God provide his care and comfort you each day.
- Psalms 145:18,19

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