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Rachel McCarthy Obituary

Rachel Whitney McCarthy, 17
    CAPE ELIZABETH -- Rachel W. McCarthy, 17, of Cape Elizabeth, died Sunday, April 15, 2007, at a Portland hospital.
     Rachel was born in Portland, the daughter of Jonathan Edward McCarthy and Laura J. Palanza. She was a junior at Cape Elizabeth High School.
     Rachel had an infectious smile and was the eternal optimist. She enjoyed watching movies with friends. She could sing and loved to perform skits to entertain, especially for family and friends. She enjoyed working with children at a local daycare and the elderly at the Village Crossing.
     She will be deeply missed by her family and friends.
     She was predeceased by Lawrence Bourassa.
     She is survived by her mother, Laura Palanza and husband Peter of Cape Elizabeth, stepbrother Joseph Palanza and stepsister Donna Palanza, both of Germantown, Tenn.; father Jonathan McCarthy and wife Ann-Marie of Windham, and stepbrother Clay Bolduc of Windham; grandparents Bradley and Nancy Perkins of Cornish, John and Barbara McCarthy of Portage, Ohio, Roiann and Stuart Twitchell of Bethel, and Gisele Bourassa of Lewiston; aunts and uncles, Martha Perkins, Melissa Perkins, Benjamin Perkins, Marcia Stetson, Steven McCarthy, and Cathy Green; along with many cousins.
     Visiting hours will be held from 4-7 p.m. Thursday, April 19, 2007, at the Hobbs Funeral Home, 230 Cottage Rd., South Portland. A funeral service will be held 10 a.m. Friday, April 20, 2007, at St. Maximilian Kolbe Church in Scarborough. Interment will be private at a later date.
     In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to:
    Barbara Bush Children's Hospital
    Care of Development Office
    22 Bramhall St.
    Portland, Maine 04102
    Rachel Whitney McCarthy

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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Apr. 18, 2007.

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Heather St. Pierre

April 24, 2007

I heard about this in the worst way I could possible hear about it. A client told me of what happened to a young girl of Cape E. It instantly brought tears to my eyes when we exchanged names of the only 17 year old girl of Cape E. that I knew....Rachel. Laurie, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Lots of Love.
~Heather St. Pierre
Head Games

Lucy and Chris Wagner

April 24, 2007

Dear Laurie and Peter,
We are so saddened to have heard about Rachel. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. She will always be in our hearts.
Love,
Lucy, Chris, Erik and Elaina

Dave and Alta Harding

April 23, 2007

Brad, Nancy and Family,
We were so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
With Sympathy,

Thomas Schrank

April 23, 2007

Hi, this is Rachel's friend, Thomas, and I am writing this to tell you I am very sorry to hear about your daughter's death. She was a good friend.

John, Rebecca, Katrina, John & Josephine Nappi

April 20, 2007

You are in our thoughts & prayers. Rachel was a wonderful girl full of love. She will be missed by us and the kids

Vicki Perratto

April 19, 2007

Dear Laurie,
As a friend from many years ago, I will be here for you with love and support throuh this difficult time, as a mother myself, I will try to share with you your feeling of sadness and loss as we remember Rachel as the angel in your life, both on earth and in heaven.
Rachel had your beautiful smile and will always be smiling down on you and watching over you. May you find comfort in all of your precious memories.
Love, Vicki(Manos)Perratto

Jessica Clines

April 19, 2007

To Rachel's Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our daughter loved playing with Rachel at On Our Planet. She'll be very missed.
- Jess, Matt, and Charlotte Clines

Darla Pickett

April 19, 2007

I remember a little girl who came to my house with Grammy and cousin Jessie, pennies in hand to shop through my jewelry just for fun.A delightful child. I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you Aunt Darla

Hiromi Dolliver

April 19, 2007

Laurie and Peter,
Our hearts are with you. We know how heartbreaking this loss feels. Our blessings to you and all your family.
Hiromi and Dan

Janice Libby

April 18, 2007

Dear Pete and Laurie,

You are our thoughts.
Janice and girls

Katie and Maddie Gillespie

April 18, 2007

Rachel - Your smile will be missed at On Our Planet by Maddie and myself.

Susan Hendrix

April 18, 2007

Laurie and Peter- Sarah and I are shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Rachels death. I will never forget how beautiful the girls looked when they dressed up for their very first formal dance, and how excited they were to be chauffered in Pete's big old Mercedes. I will cherish those pictures and memories forever. Sincerely, Susan Hendrix

Eddie and Kirsten Lancaster

April 18, 2007

Jon and Family;
We just wanted to say how sorry we are for a loss that no parent should ever have to endure! You and your family are in our hearts and our prayers in this sorrowful time.

Eddie, Kirsten, Hilarie & Alexis

~If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.~

Sherry Britton

April 18, 2007

Dear Laurie and Peter, We are terribly saddened by the loss of your beautiful girl. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Much Love,

Sherry, Emma, Nell and Will Britton

Richard and Nancy Marciano

April 18, 2007

Dear Brad & Nancy; So sorry to read of this tragic loss of such a vibrant young woman. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Mary Lou Jordan

April 18, 2007

To Laurie and Pete. Rachel will be missed terribly by so many who got to share time with her as I did living next door in Cape. She was so sweet. I'll miss her. Please stay strong.

Peter Murphy

April 18, 2007

Jon

Words can not describe how sorry I am to hear of your loss.

Steve & Diana Fournier

April 18, 2007

Laurie and Pete
My heart just aches for you and your families and we are all left only to ask WHY. We offer the most heartfelt sympathy in your time of grief.

David and Joanne Ward

April 18, 2007

Our prayers go out to you at this time. With love David and Joanne Ward

janet lampron

April 18, 2007

my heart is heavy with your loss. much strenth in the coming days. sincerly janet lampron and family

Meghan Donovan

April 18, 2007

Rachel is leaving CEHS a less sunny place with her passing, rest sweetly Rachel, you will be missed.

Anne Scheinman

April 18, 2007

Jon,

my deepest and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your beautiful daughter Rachel.

I hope that happy memories of time spent with Rachel during her all to brief life will give you and your family strength as you work through this difficult time.

Please know that I and many others will keep all of you, and particularly Rachel, in our thoughts and prayers.

Jeff and Heather Brannen

April 18, 2007

Pete and Laurie, Were so very sorry for your loss.

Janet McCollor

April 18, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with your Family.

Nancy Lancaster

April 18, 2007

We are so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Rachel Whitney.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Randy, Nancy, Bryan and Dylan Lancaster

harvey lipman

April 18, 2007

Dear Peter and Laura,

Please accept my deepest condolences and heartfelt feelings.

I am startled by your loss of Rachel. I pray that you find solace in her memory.

It is beyond our ability to
understand the meaning of life; why
Rachel was chosen and we are left, heartbroken, to carry on. In a
situation such as this, we can only understand God's purpose through
our faith in His wisdom.

I know that, within you both, meaning will come out of this.

Rachel was a beautiful young woman, just entering the prime of her life. As a mother, Laura has everything to be proud of.
She loved and admired her daughter. We especially share her grief.

Sincerely,

Harvey A. Lipman

Larry Beam

April 18, 2007

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that our thoughts and our prayers are with you all.
Larry and Becky Beam

Brenda Stevens

April 18, 2007

Our hearts go out to Rachel's famlies.

Rachel was always a pleasure to have in our home and her personality was always a breath of fresh air. We just loved her! Heaven is truly getting an angel.

May your family and friends give you the strength you need at this time and your memories keep her alive in your hearts forever.

The Stevens Family
(Brenda, Robert, Jessica & Tyler)

Dianne and Myron (Whitney) Bridges

April 18, 2007

Brad,Nancy,Laurie and families, our hearts and prayers are with all of you at this time of such sorrow and grief.It is beyond belief and comprehension that we should lose a child. Know that we are thinking of you. We did not personally know Racheal. But she must have had her mothers beautiful smile. May your memories sustain you and give you peace. You now have a beautiful guardian angel to watch over you.

Michael Doten

April 18, 2007

Sad regards from the Doten family

Stephanie (DuBois) Farmer

April 18, 2007

You are all in my prayers!! May she rest in Peace!

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