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Gloria Smith
November 3, 2024
I would like to wish my son Reggie a happy 56 heavenly birthday it has been 22 long hard years with out you mom misses you More than you will ever know keep watching down on us and I know you are up there with your daughter and the rest of your family .
Love in miss you some day I will be with you again but for now my job here is done .
Love , Mom ( Gloria Smith)
Tonya Garnett
December 15, 2023
Well big brother it’s been 21 years.tonight. 21 years ago the call that changed my life and me forever came through. 21 years of of not hearing your voice. 21 years ago you called and my last words to you was I can’t stop by right now I’ve got things to get done. 21 years of not seeing your beautiful face 21 years of missing you and feeling a hole in my soul that left with you that night. 21 years of wishing if I prayed hard enough god would send you back even for a moment so I could see you and tell you how sorry I was that I wasn’t there. 21 years of being angry sad but thankful for you at the same time. You were my best friend my protector my shoulder to cry on and lean on when the world got to heavy. There has been so many times these past 21 times I’ve needed that and my heart has aches because you weren’t there. My life has changed so much some good some bad but some amazing. And I’m so sorry you aren’t here to share and see the amazing. But I hope you are up there looking down proud at how strong your little sister has become. I love you and miss you always and forever. Till we meet again. You are forever in my heart.
Your lil sis Tonya Ann
Pam Gandy
December 11, 2023
Reg I miss you so much I can’t believe you have been gone 20 years it seems like yesterday I got the phone call saying you were gone on my wedding day at that I wish you were still here miss your sweet smile and your sillyness love you til we meet again Auntie Pam
TONYA GARNETT
December 10, 2021
Another anniversary is approaching one more Christmas I muddle through with a broken heart. A birthday just went by a month ago. This time of year kills me each and every year. On the outside I'm fine inside I'm a broken mess. My mind full of memories unanswered questions. The same old questions. I miss as much today big brother as I did the day you left this earth. My life changed that day and I had to learn a whole new life. A life without you in it. It's still not an easy life to live you are suppose to be here there were so many memories still to make. So many things you still had to do and see. And that's what I learn to live with. And every year I get thrown back to that. I love and miss you so much. Your legacy never dies in my eyes. Forever with me. Love your Lil sis
Gloria Smith
December 13, 2019
In Memory of Reginald S. Metcalf
Remembering you at Christmas Son & Brother
Nov. 3, 1968 - Dec. 16, 2002
The rolling stream of life goes on, but still the empty chair reminds us of the face, the smile, of one who once sat there. We think of him in silence, no one can see us weep. But still, within our aching hearts, his memory we keep. God saw the road was getting rough, and the hills were hard to climb, so he closed your weary eyelids, and whispered "Peace be thine." The blow was great, the shock severe, we little thought his death so near. Only those who have lost can tell the sorrow of parting without farewell. May the winds of love blow softly, and whisper so you'll hear.... We will always love and miss you, and wish that you were here. You're not forgotten, son dear, nor shall you ever be, as long as life and memory last, we shall remember thee.
Always in our Hearts,
Mom, Mike and Bernie
Tonya Garnett
December 10, 2019
Big brother.
Here we are another year another birthday another Christmas is approaching another anniversary is quickly coming and I feel like I'm stuck right where I was 17 years ago. Life moves so quickly but these 2 months every year I feel the same. I miss you so much. A hole was cut out of my heart the day you left. A hole so deep it went straight to my soul. I will never learn how to do this without you. You were my best friend my protector my rock. I miss you as much today as I did the day you left. Watch over us big brother keep us safe. Loving you always.
Till we meet again love your lil sis
PAMELA GANDY
December 10, 2019
Reggie I love in miss you
Tonya Garnett
December 31, 2018
My dearest Big Brother.
Another year is coming to an end. Your birthday has come and gone another Christmas and misc other holidays. Nieces and nephews grow grandchildren continue to grow and multiply haha. You would be so happy and proud at all the new additions. But it's also been another year of silently missing you and wishing you were here to share all this with us. Time goes so quickly and nothing stays the same but one thing they stays consistent though it all is the whole you left in my life. The day you left this earth a piece of my heart and soul traveled with you and that piece remains with you today. I love and miss you greatly
Till we meet again all my love your Lil-sis
Gloria Smith
October 29, 2017
Reginald S. Metcalf
Nov. 3. 1968 - Dec. 16, 2002
Happy Birthday
If roses grow in heaven, Lord, please pick a bunch for me. Place them in his arms and tell him I love him and miss him and when he turns to smile, place a kiss upon his cheek and hold him for a while because remembering him is easy I do it everyday but there's an ache within my heart because I'm missing him today.
I love & miss you very much. You and Dad take care of each other.
Happy Birthday Son & Brother
Love and miss you,
Mom, Mike & Bernie
Wendy Jipson
February 16, 2017
Missing you still...
Tonya Garnett
November 2, 2016
Hey Big Brother,
Your birthday is tomorrow and another year without you is quickly approaching. Some days seem to go easy some so difficult this one is a little difficult tomorrow I'm guessing will be even more difficult and that's ok. I'm alright with the hard days even if some don't understand why it's still so hard after all these years. Missing you has become as normal as breathing now and some days I realize it and feel the pain of the realization of you being gone and some days it's just a normal feeling and I just go about the task of living. I know people don't understand and some think I should be over it by now. But you are my big brother, my protector, my shoulder to cry on, lean on even a match maker a time or two :) I love you and miss you every day..
Till I see you again always always in my heart <3 Your Lil Sis Ton-Ann
Gloria Smith
October 25, 2016
In Loving Memory on Your Birthday
Reginald "Reggie" Metcalf
Nov. 3, 1968 - Dec. 16, 2002
I know you're feeling sad today because I had to go I know you have so many things that remind you of me so.And though you cry as you recall the times you spent with me. I know your pain would turn to joy if you could only see. I'm in Heaven with Jesus now. We laugh, we sing, we play. He holds me gently in His arms. I know no pain today. And though we're parted for a while Jesus has promised me He'll someday bring you here where we'll live for eternity.
You and Dad take care of Each Other.
Love and Miss You Both
Mom, Michael & Bernie
Missing you Today and always
Tonya
December 25, 2015
Tonya
December 25, 2015
With each passing year it gets harder and harder with out my big brothers smile.And I know with each passing day it's one day closer till I see you and dad again but I could sure use some help right now. I know it must be a beautiful sight in heaven sharing Jesus's birthday but you are so missed here on earth. <3 This is never good bye it's always till I see you again Merry Christmas and I love you Love your Lil-Sis Ton-Ann
pamela gandy
December 21, 2015
Merry Christmas to you and dad up in heaven
Gloria Smith
December 18, 2015
In Memory of Reginald S. Metcalf on Christmas
Nov. 3, 1968 - Dec. 16, 2002
Son & Brother
Oh, please don't feel guilty it was my time to go. I see you are still feeling sad, and the tears just seem to flow. We all come to earth for our lifetime, and for some it's not many years I don't want you to keep crying you are shedding so many tears. I haven't really left you even though it may seem so. I have just gone to my heavenly home, and I'm closer to you than you know. Just believe that when you say my name, I'm standing next to you, I know you long to see me, but there's nothing I can do. But I'll still send you messages and hope you understand, that when your time comes to "cross over," I'll be there to take your hand.
We Love & Miss You.
I know you'll be there waiting for us when we are ready to cross over. You and Dad take care of each other.
Always in our hearts,
Mom, Mike & Bernie
Wendy Jipson
September 29, 2015
And still....
Gloria Smith
November 3, 2014
In Memory of my Son
On his Birthday Nov.3,1968 - Dec.16,2002
If roses grow in heaven, Lord please pick a bunch for me, place them in my Son's arms and tell him they're from me. Tell him I love him and miss him and when he turns to smile, place a kiss upon his cheek and hold him for awhile, because remembering him is easy, I do it everyday, but there's an ache within my heart because I am missing him today.
Happy Birthday!
Love & Miss You Very Much
Mom
Gloria Smith
October 9, 2014
In Loving Memory of My Son
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov. 3, 1968 - Dec. 16, 2002
Reggie we miss you so much. I feel bad because you are missing so much. You have a wonderful daughter, she has a wonderful husband. They have 3 beautiful children. I know how much they would have meant to you.
I know it wasn't your fault you had to leave us. Our world will never be the same. I only wish your life had been different. The hurt and grief we feel no one knows, I wish you had only talked to someone maybe then you would be here today. I pray that the pain you felt in your time on earth you do not have to live through any longer. We all love and miss you very much. You and Dad take care of each other.
Someday we will all be together.
Love & miss you,
Mom
Jasmine
October 3, 2014
12 years later and I still can't express the pain I feel. It doesnt get any easier, just get better at hiding it. This deep lingering hole swallows me sometimes and its the hardest thing to escape. I look around at my life and see all that your missing... all that I can't share with you. My babies that will never know you, God that alone kills me. Times when I'm hurting, upset, angry or feeling lonely in a crowded room and I want to turn to you but your not there. Everything reminds me of you, you are every where I go...just not enough. I miss you and grampy more and more every day. Not a day goes by you 2 don't cross my mind....over and over..and over again. And at night when I cry when I think no one's looking..I feel you there ? I know your there. I just can't see you, but I feel you. I can't wait to just hug you again...if heaven wasn't so far away.
Wendy Jipson
February 1, 2014
Missing you still.....
Gloria Metcalf Smith
October 30, 2013
In Memory of Our Son & Brother on His Birthday Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
We think of you in silence and make no outward show, but what it meant to lose you no one will ever know. You wished no one farewell, nor even said goodbye. You were gone before we knew it only God knows why. Your golden heart stopped beating with tender hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove he only takes the best. To some you may be forgotten to others a part of the past, but for us who loved you dearly our memories will always last. Nothing can be more beautiful than the memories we have of you. To us you were someone special, you see God thought so too. In Loving Memory of our Son & Brother
Love & Miss You,
Mom, Mike & Bernie
Taylor Wood
December 14, 2012
Hey Uncle Reggie. Mom and I are sitting here thinking about you.. We miss you.. I was only little when you died, so I don't remember much.. But I know Mom thinks about you every day. She really misses you, yanno. I do too, so do the boys. But we were just little.. I can't believe it's been ten years already. I would give anything for just five more minutes with you.. I would change every last word I said to you... I think about the last words I said to you and cry about it a lot. I really miss you.. Todays going to be a hard day for our family.. But I hope you're having fun up there, tell big Uncle Reggie I said hi. I love you both. This isn't goodbye, it's a see you later. Love, Taylor <3
Tonya Bagley
December 14, 2012
It's been ten years since I've seen your face, ten years since I've heard your voice. I remember every day the impact you had on my life, the smiles, the laughter, and the protection you gave me. Your life is taken away from us, but you are never forgotten. Love your little sis, Ton Ann.
Lisa Tyson
May 26, 2012
Reggie, I'm so sorry I just learned that you had left us for your home and my first thought was of that infectious smile you had when we were all hanging out back when we were teenagers. You had that smile that lit up the room and that boyish grin that got us out of alot lol. I hadn't seen or spoken to you in years before your passing but my memories of us all hanging out will always be with me.
Reggie & Gloria Metcalf
December 23, 2011
In loving Memory of Our Son and Brother at Christmas
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov. 3, 1968 - Dec. 16, 2002
Another Christmas without you. We miss you so much. I know you are always here with us.
Sad and sudden was the call, of one so dearly loved by all.
His memory is as sweet today as in the hour he passed away.
The blow was hard, the shock severe, as we never thought death was so near.
But only those who have lost can tell, the pain of parting without a farewell.
Sadly missed by his family.
Merry Christmas Reggie
Love,
Dad, Mom, Mike & Bernie
Tonya Gervais
December 12, 2011
I cried when you passed away. I still cry today. Although I loved you dearly,I couldn't make you stay.A golden heart stopped beating,hard working hands laid to rest.God broke my heart to prove to me,he only takes the best... Reggie, your always in my thoughts and in my heart. I miss you more every day and so many times I wish to see you or hear you one more time. That awful Dec. morning feels like my heart was torn out of my chest there's an empty place nothing can erase. love and missing you your lil-sis Ton-Ann
Tonya Gervais
November 3, 2011
Today is your Birthday,you have no idea how much I wish I could look at you and say these words. Happy Birthday Reggie I love you so much. You're in my heart and my thoughts everyday. I can't explain or understand what happened the day you left us and that's the worse. These are the worse months hunting season your birthday and christmas and the anniversery of you leaving us. I miss you more than words can explain but I know you are now my guardian angel you watch over me 24 hrs a day and that brings me some peace. I'm not afraid when I feel like something is there when there isn't or when i feel like someone is watching when no one is there cause I know it's you and for that I am thankful. God has you under his wings and you have me under yours. Happy Birthday Big Brother I'll see you on the other side someday for I know you'll be there waiting. Love your Lil-Sis Ton-Ann
Reggie & Gloria Metcalf
November 2, 2011
In Memory of Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Remembering you Son on your Birthday
Nov.3,1968 - Dec.16,2002
Happy Birthday Reg!
You are celebrating with the Angels, down on Earth we are still coping with the loss of the one we loved so much.
For those who have their Sons treat him with tender care you will never know the emptiness until you turn and he is not there.
Don't think of him as gone away his journey's just begun, life holds so many facets this earth is only one just think of him as resting from the sorrows and the tears, in a place of warmth and comfort, where there are no days and years. Think how he must be wishing that we could know today, how nothing but our sadness can really pass away. And think of him as living in the hearts of those he touched for nothing loved is ever lost and he was loved so much.
Happy Birthday!
Love & Miss you,
Dad & Mom
Pam Gandy
October 23, 2011
Reggie your birthday is coming up on November 3 wanted to wish you a happy birthday and to let you know we all love and miss you so much
Love aunt pam
Candice Gatcomb
October 17, 2011
Hey Reg, I know I didn't know you very well & I only remember meeting you once, but i miss you so much, & your always in my heart, And I can't wait to visit you again someday, hopefully we'll get to know each other better. I love you & miss you lil reg, I can't wait to see you again. Love always Candi.
Tonya Gervais
July 4, 2011
Happy 4th of July Reggie. I miss you so much every day. Wish you were here it's camping season b-b-q's and swimming. My world just doesn't seem the same without you. I love you big brother..love your lil-sis Ton-Ann
Bernard Metcalf
March 7, 2011
Hey Bro, Just seen you smile. I didn't want to open my eyes. Thanks for helping me through. I love and miss you.
Lisa Gatcomb
February 17, 2011
hey Reg, just saying I miss you and you will always be in our hearts...we think of you everyday...love Lisa, Rob and girls
Tonya Garnett
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas Reggie.Wish you were here with us, but I know your looking down watching over us. Forever in my heart and memory. Love your lil sis Ton-Ann
Gloria & Reggie Metcalf
December 20, 2010
In Memory of Our Son
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf at Christmas
Nov.3,1968-Dec.16,2002
Another Christmas without you, its so hard, its not the same anymore, we never knew what a broken heart was until we lost you. We love and miss you so much.
We wish we could see you one more time come walking through our door. But we know that is impossible, we will hear your voice no more. We know you can feel our tears and you don't want us to cry. Yet our hearts are broken because we can't understand why someone so precious had to die. We pray that God will give us strength and somehow get us through, as we struggle with the heartache that was caused by losing you.
We know God is watching over you now and we know he is helping us get through this. You will always be here in our hearts.
Merry Christmas Son!
Love & Miss You!
Mom & Dad
Bubba J
December 17, 2010
Hey Uncle Reggie.
I'm not really good at righting letters and such but I figured I'd tell you that i haven't forgotten about you and that I really miss you.
I don't have many memory's of you but i do remember that you were my first motorcycle ride:)
i love and miss you very much.
Taylor Wood
December 15, 2010
Hii Uncle Reggie.
I miss you.
I wish you were still alive.
I may not remember you that much, but I miss you like crazy.
I love you very much.
And I'll keep a smile on my face just for you.
Gloria & Reggie Metcalf
December 15, 2010
In Loving Memory of
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
(Remembering You Son)
Nov.3,1968-Dec.16,2002
It's hard to wrap our hearts and minds around the fact that you've been gone 8 years today. We miss you more as each day passes, and our hearts ache waking up each day knowing you are gone. We have peace knowing that you are always watching over us, and will always cherish our memories shared with you, as they forever warm our hearts. Your contagious smile will continue to brighten our lives.
Missing and loving you always.
Dad & Mom
Tonya Garnett
December 15, 2010
Hey Reggie Taylor went and had her pictures taken over to Jasmine's the other day'they came out so good. I got to spend some time with lil Reggie, you would be so proud. Today and tomorrow is one of the worse days I miss you so much. If I could have one wish it would be to see you and tell you how important you were and still r in my life. Your memory carries me through the hard times. I can hear you say it's all right and you'll take care of it. Reggie you are and always will be my big brother. We may have been born cousins but we r as close as brothers and sisters could be. forever in my heart love your lil sis Ton-Ann
TONYA GARNETT
December 4, 2010
Reggie,Well here I am back in our home town. The big town of Machias, can't believe I'm back here. So many things change I wish you were here to see those changes with us. I'm sorry it has been so long since I've wrote on here. Not for one minute have I forgotten or stopped missing you. The days pass and the years go by but not one goes by that I don't think of you. Your birthday has come and gone, hunting season is about over and Christmas will soon be here, these days are the hardest. I love you and miss you more then anyone could ever imagine and I thank God he allows you to look over me and keeps you close. For as long as I have memories and you in my heart you are never far away. Forever in my heart your lil-sis Ton-Ann
Wendy
November 16, 2010
Missing you still....
Gloria & Reggie Metcalf
October 30, 2010
In Loving Memory of Our Son and Brother on His Birthday
Reginald (Reggie) S. Metcalf
Nov. 3,1968 - Dec. 16,2002
Dearest Son and Brother
Never Will we forget you!
We each wish to wrap our arms tightly around you for a birthday hug today. Still in the midst of our grief we are thankful God provides us joy through memories and hope to wipe away our tears in heaven.
We love and miss you so much. Nothing will ever be the same without you. Someone said time heals, but for us the pain seems to intensify each year you are away from us.
Sadly missed and loved
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Mom. Dad, Bernie and Mike
Gloria & Reggie Metcalf
October 2, 2010
In Loving Memory of Our Son
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov. 3, 1968 - Dec. 16, 2002
You'll always be our child - we think of you each day, even though you must remain so very away. A love as strong as this, we've never felt before; but you had to go away - up through heaven's door. You'll never have to suffer, or feel pain or hate, just peace and love and happiness - God has given you this fate. We hope that you can feel just how much we care; and, when our days are over, in a flash - we will be there. Pure abounding joy! We'll never have to part. You'll be right by our side and not just in our hearts. But, until that day, when our dream is real we think we understand, just how we should feel... "Mom and Dad I am fine!" this must be what you would say - "Please don't be so sad, we'll meet again one day. I'm with God above - so don't cry for me, our parting is but a moment compared to eternity."
We love and miss you very much.
Dad & Mom
September 30, 2010
hey Reg, its been awhile since i have talked with you and i know people think its crazy to do this but to some of us this is how we deal..i have visited a lot of facebook sites of friends that we have lost and it is just a place for us to go and feel like you were here with us and to let you know you are always with us and will never fogotten...always in my heart..ur cuz Lisa and family
lisa gatcomb
July 5, 2010
hey Reg, its 4th of july weekend, i remember all the cookouts we had as kids..the whole family use to get together at papa and nanas house. what i would give to have that all back. I miss you and miss what family use to mean..i promise i am going to try to get this family together like it use to be ..love and miss you every day...
Reggie & Gloria Metcalf
June 25, 2010
In Memory of Our Son
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov.3,1968 - Dec.16,2002
Reggie,
We know you're home with God above. But you're still not far away. Our hearts weep tears of sorrow, and our thoughts are of you still. But your pain is gone forever, and we know it was God's will. We know he'll guide and keep you until we meet you up above. Until that day, our special Son we will send you all our love.
For those who have their Sons treat him with care. You will never know the emptiness as when you turn and he is not there.
Love and Miss you,
Mom & Dad
lisa gatcomb
May 16, 2010
hey Reg, You would be so proud of becca, she is graduating..family meant a lot to us when we were growing up.Reggie I dont want u to ever think you r ever forgotten and no matter what the celerbration is ..you will always be a part of it in our hearts..your memory will always live on in our hearts
Gloria & Reggie Metcalf
May 14, 2010
In Loving Memory of Our Son
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov. 3,1968-Dec. 16,2002
On Memorial Day
To the living, I am gone.
To the sorrowful, I will never return.
To the angry, I was cheated,
But to the happy,I am at peace.
And to the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot speak, but I can listen.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.
So as you stand upon a shore
gazing at a beautiful sea
As you look upon a flower
and admire its simplicity remember me.
Remember me in your heart.
Your thoughts and your memories,of the times we loved,the times we cried, the times we fought, the times we laughed.
For if you always think of me, I will never have gone.
You are always in our hearts.
We Miss You so Much.
Love from Both,
Mom & Dad
Gloria&Reginald Metcalf
April 29, 2010
In Memory of Our Son
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov. 3, 1968 - Dec. 16, 2002
Reggie your little Grandson's Birthday will be May 6th he will be one year old. You would be so proud of him.He has a wonderful Mom & Dad. I know you are up there looking down watching him grow. His Birthday party is Saturday I know you will be there with all of us. I know you were very happy with his name Reginald Scott. You have a beautiful Daughter. We all Miss and Love you very much.
Love from both,
Mom & Dad
Lisa Gatcomb
April 11, 2010
hey Reg, I am sitting here missing you and thinking i am so glad you are up there with my brother, John
William..I miss him so much, I will never forget him, nor you, you are both in my heart each day...Love sis and cous..
Tonya Garnett
April 5, 2010
Reggie, spring is here. Time for cook outs and before you know it everyone will be camping. Makes me think of our childhood,all the family camping trips.I miss you so much and everyday I hope you see how important you are,how much you changed so many lives.How many people you made smile.Reggie so many people miss you and you remain in so many hearts. I know you will never leave mine. I love you big brother forever and always,untill we meet again your lil sis Ton-Ann
Wendy Jipson
April 3, 2010
Missing you still...
lisa gatcomb
March 28, 2010
hey Reg, its so hard for me to come back here... I see the people you worked with everyday, no one else has that.. I feel so blessed that i can feel your presents everywhere around me i see the truck you drove ..i can see you now in it..lol and when i show up to get rob in the garage i picture u there listening to cookie tell you guys what ur going to do the next day...I miss you so much Reg, but i feel closer then ever cause i know i am with the people that were ur family till the end and driving trucks was what you loved....never forgotten....love lisa and rob and whittens
Reggie & Gloria Metcalf
March 12, 2010
In Memory of Our Son
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov. 3,1968-Dec. 16,2002
It's coming our 44th Anniversary March 17th I Think of the wonderful parties we used to have and how much we miss you. It was always our three Boys in our heart you will always be here.
It's hard to pick up the pieces like they say we should do. As I think of the past, all the pain and hurt you went through. As I stand here and wonder, I look up and smile back at you, and a tear slowly falls, my heart is talking to you. Oh, we love you so, we'll never stop talking to you.
Love forever Son
Mom & Dad
Jasmine Rumery
December 29, 2009
Dad we miss you very much. You would be very proud of your grandson.You are not forgotten and Reggie will know what a great man you were..You are always in our thoughts and prayers.Till we meet again,with all our love Jasmine,Donnie,and Reggie
Tonya Garnett
December 25, 2009
Merry christmas Reggie I miss you every day and wish you were here to share the holidays with. Not a day goes by that I dont look at your pictures and tell you about my life. I miss you advice help and support. I love you and miss you so much Love your lil sis Ton Ann
Reggie & Gloria Metcalf
December 23, 2009
In Loving Memory of
Our Son And Brother
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov.3,1968-Dec.16,2002
It's been 7 years since you passed away and the tears are still flowing. We look at your pictures and remember how much you mean to us and how much we love you and miss you, especially now that it's Christmas. Our memories of you and our love for you will never go away. You will be forever etched in our hearts.
Your Loving Family,
Dad, Mom, Mike & Bernie
Reggie & Gloria Metcalf
December 13, 2009
In Memory of Our Son at Christmas
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
Nov.3,1968-Dec.16.2002
It's been 7 years since you suddenly left us. There is a bridge of memories from here to heaven above that keeps you very close to us; it's called the bridge of love. As time goes by without you and days turn into years, they hold many memories and silent tears. To us you were special, what more is there to say, except we wish with all our hearts that you were here today.
Happy Holidays!
Love always,
Mom & Dad
Lisa Gatcomb
December 10, 2009
Reggie you would not believe after all this time we still come back here to talk to you. I cant count how many times your name gets brought up, you need to know you will never be forgotten in our lives or hearts..love and miss you so much...lisa rob and girls
Cami Hood
December 5, 2009
Merry Christmas and you and all the family up in heaven have a good New Year. Love you and Miss you forever and always.
Tonya Garnett
November 12, 2009
I'm sitting here thinking of you today. I could never explain how much I miss you.Your birthday has come and gone, christmas is slowly coming and I think of all the years you should of had. The holidays you still should see and enjoy.Lil Reg you were and still are so important in so many lives. And not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind I look at your picture and have so many things to share with you.I know your still here with me and you will never know the peace that brings me. I love you so much. Untill we see eachother your always in my thoughts. Love your lil-sis Ton-Ann
Tonya Garnett
November 3, 2009
Happy Birthday Lil Reg I love and miss you every day. Your always in my thoughts. Till we see eachother again Love your lil sis Ton Ann
Reggie&Gloria Metcalf
November 2, 2009
In Loving Memory of Reginald S. Metcalf
Nov.3,1968-Dec.16,2002
Dearest Son,Dad,Brother&Grandfather
It's like it was a lifetime ago and only yesterday all at the same time. The missing you goes on and on, but so does the love we hold in our hearts everyday. We are so blessed with such wonderful memories of you and we cherish each one-a part of you will always be with us. We will love and miss you always. Happy Birthday!
We all Love and Miss you,
Your Family
Reggie & Gloria Metcalf
April 8, 2009
In Loving Memory of
Our Son on Easter
Reginald S. Metcalf
Nov.3,1968-Dec.16,2002
It's lonely here without you; we miss you more each day. For life is not the same since you were called away.
To your resting place we visit, place flowers there with care, but no one knows our heartache, when we turn and leave you there. Words cannot express how much we miss you. Missing you always, loving you forever.
Love from Both,
Dad & Mom
Bernie Metcalf
February 19, 2009
It took a minute to hit me, but as I was having my morning cup of coffee a little voice reminded me that your daughter had honored you in a way that I know would make you proud. I would like to announce your Grandson, Reginald S. Metcalf Rummery.I will be sure to carry our stories to him and be sure he knows what a great man you were. Your daughter has turned into a wonderful woman and has warmed our hearts. Thank you for blessing us all. Love you my brother.
reggie&gloria metcalf
February 8, 2009
In Loving Memory of Our Son
Reginald S. Metcalf on
Valentines Day
Reggie it doesnt seem that 6 years has passed. It's hard to put into words,as to how much you've been missed, because every day we think of you. At times it's hard to go on, but we hear you telling us its ok. We Love and Miss you so very much. You have our Love with you and we have your memories. We know you are watching over us. We know you will never leave us.
Love and Miss You Very Much!
Dad & Mom
Gloria & Reginald Metcalf
December 16, 2008
In Loving Memory of Our Son
Reginald S. Metcalf on Christmas
Nov. 3,1968-Dec. 16,2002
Six years have passed, this day doesn't get any easier. Our hearts and minds are filled with love and great memories of days and seasons gone by. You are greatly missed but never forgotten. The day you left us a piece of our hearts went with you.
To this day every tear, every heartbeat, every breath is bringing us closer to seeing you again. We love you always. Merry Christmas
Love Forever, Mom & Dad
gloria & reginald metcalf
November 1, 2008
In Loving Memory of Our Son
Reggie S. Metcalf on his 40th Birthday Nov.3,1968-Dec.16,2002
Happy Birthday to the one we love and will never be forgotten.
Another Choice
I don't know how you do it, I couldn't
have done the same. These some-
times are the words I hear as I say my son's name.I had no other choices, is often my reply. I must learn to live without him, as each year goes by. It's when you do not see me that I cry my silent tear, or feel the empty hurt inside, because he is not here. I would choose it to be different, I would choose to feel no pain, I would choose to only smile, as I say my son's name. So if you wonder how I do it, I will quietly raise my voice, I wouldn't have done it this way, if I'd had another choice.
Love And Miss You Very Much.
Happy Birthday Dad & Mom
cami hood
October 14, 2008
hey lil reg, hows things up in heaven? i miss you. theres alot of people that miss you down here. i hope your looking over your mom and dad and jazzie. i wanted to write just a short note to you to let you know i am thinking about you alot. well i will write again soon. love you.
Gloria and Reggie Metcalf
August 28, 2008
In Loving Memory of Our Son
Reginald (Reggie) Metcalf
We cried tears of joy the day you were born, now we cry from
sadness as we still mourn; nothing could have prepared us for that horrible night when we found out God had taken you away; while we cherish the memories and the times we had, they make us laugh - but also make us sad; we know our God makes no mistakes, although we don't understand and our hearts still break; we try to hide our heartache and deal with the pain, cause we know our loss is heaven's gain.
We can't wait until that day comes when we can all be together again. We miss you more then words can ever say. We know you are with us everyday.
Love and Miss You
Mom & Dad
Tonya Garnett
August 25, 2008
Lil Reg, I miss you so much. It seems I need you more as the years go by. I know when my time is over I'll see your face again but it's hard to carry on without you. I know I carry you're strength with me thats what gets me through. even though your gone I want you to know you save my life everyday. I love you. Untill we see eachother again. Love your lil sis Ton Ann
reggie and gloria metcalf
June 1, 2008
In Loving Memory of Our Son
Reggie S. Metcalf
Well Reg Jazz will soon be getting Married. I wish you were here to give her away. We will all be thinking of you. We miss you so much I know you will be standing right beside her.
Our lives go on without you, but nothing is the same. We hide our heartaches when someone speaks your name. Sad are the hearts that love you, silent tears still fall. Living our lives without you is the hardest part of all. Always loving and missing you.
Mom&Dad
Gloria&Reggie Metcalf
May 15, 2008
In Loving Memory of Our Son and Brother Reggie S. Metcalf on Memorial Day
Reggie you would be so proud of your Daughter, she is doing so good. She is going to be Married. She has a real nice guy. I only wish you were here to give her away. We will always be here for her I know no one could ever take your place. I know you are watching over her. We all Love&Miss you
Beautiful memories are
wonderful things,
They last the longest day:
They never get lost,
And Can never be
given away.
To some you may be forgotten,
To others a part of
the past,
But to us who loved
you and lost you,
Your memory will always last.
Sadly Missed by Mom, Dad, Mike, and Bernie
pam gandy
March 27, 2008
Reggie,
I am sure by now you have met ur lil cuz he has been there since the 2 of march well hun would u please take care of him i know he is in good hands with the good lord and i have no worries but would u let him know that nana and papa and his daddy and shaina and kim and melissa and marissa and cheyenne misses him and love him and let him know that we think about him all the time and let him know that his sister lexis and his brother jayden are ok and they love in miss him to and bub we all miss u here like crazy to. Reg your mom and dad still misses u and loves u they talk about u all the time they will never get over what happened to you .
Tonya Garnett
March 8, 2008
Reggie, there is another angel with you now. I know your watching over him and holding his hand. For your love for family and children had no end. I miss you everyday and wish you were still here. But I know I don't go anywhere where your spirit isn't watching over me. You helped me here on earth and your presence helps me still. I gather so much strength through you and your presence in my life. For that I will be forever grateful. God gave us a gift when he gave our family you. And you still touch our lives even after your gone. I love you lil-Reg Love your Lil-Sis Ton-Ann
Reggie and Gloria metcalf
March 5, 2008
In Memory of Our Son Reginald S. Metcalf
Your gentle face and patient smile with sadness we recall, you had a kindly word for each and died beloved by all. The voice is mute and stilled the heart that loved us well and true, ah, bitter was the trail to part from one so good as you. You are not forgotten loved one nor will you ever be, as long as life and memory last we will remember thee. We miss you now, our hearts are sore, as time goes by we miss you more. Your loving smile, your gentle face, no one can fill your empty place.
Miss & Love You, Mom & Dad
wendy jipson
March 2, 2008
Missing you still...
Lisa Gatcomb
March 1, 2008
A thousand times we needed you
A thousand times we cried
If love alone would of saved you
you never would have died.
A heart of gold stopped beating,
two twinkling eyes closed to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove
he only took the best.
Never a day goes by that your're
not in our hearts and soul....
unknown author
Love and Miss you Reg,
Lisa, Rob and girls
Bernie Metcalf
February 27, 2008
Each day that passes does not compare to the ones when you were here.I have given up my search for whys and how comes.Your spirit is so strong it's as if your still here. I can admire that, now that I have let go of my own selfish wishes for you. Thank-you for watching over me in my trying times. Thanks for giving me independence and a backbone. You are still my best friend,my brother. With you I will accomplish great things. I carry our family pride with great honor and will always respect your last wishes.
Tonya Garnett
February 5, 2008
Days go by,life has a way of moving forward. Even though at times it feels like it stopped in time. Memories are all we left, and hearts are forever true. Your life was taken so quickly with no chance of good byes. So today I look to the sky hoping you hear me say I love and miss you everyday.
Lil- Reg you presence is such a strong sense in my life. For I know your forever there.Years and no one can ever take that away. Your legacy carries on in the lives of those who love you. Untill we see eachother again. Your Lil-Sis Ton-Ann
Lisa Gatcomb
January 5, 2008
Hi Reg, here we are, up here next to you. I know you know this but I cant help telling you every time I go pass I blow a kiss and say I love you... I love it here Reg, I love talking to the guys u worked with, and they all remember you.. You Will Never Be Forgotten.....
Love Lisa, Rob and girls
Tonya Garnett
December 25, 2007
Merry Christmas big brother. I miss you as much today as I did yesterday and the day you left us.Sometimes I still wonder why? I know there are angels among us and I'm certain you are mine.The bond we shared could not be broken or stronger.Even through death. I love you and miss you so very much.Untill I see you again. Love your Lil-Sis Ton-Ann
reggie and gloria metcalf
December 11, 2007
In Loving Memory of Our Son and Brother on Christmas
His thoughts were all so full of us; he never could forget, and so we think that where he is, he must be watching yet. As angels keep their watch up there, Please, God, just let him know that we down here do not forget; We love and miss him so. The blow was great, the shock severe; We little thought the end was near, and only those who have lost can tell the pain or parting without farewell. Sincere and kind in heart and mind, what a beautiful memory he left behind. Thinking of you this time of year and missing you sadly.
We Love And Miss You So Much
Dad, Mom, Bernie and Mike
Tonya Garnett
November 3, 2007
Happy Birthday big brother.Your favorite season is here,and I can't help thinking of you hunting for a deer. I miss you today as much as yesterday. Time slips away but your memory remains. Sometimes I think if I turn quick I'll see you standing there. I know your not far from my side for you would never leave me alone. I gather strength from your memory and your angel like presence. Your always in my heart.Untill we see each other again I love you. Love your lil-sis Ton-Ann
reggie and gloria metcalf
November 1, 2007
In Loving Memory of Our Son and Brother on His Birthday Reggie S. Metcalf
In a quiet graveyard where the gentle breezes blow, lies the one we loved so dearly,whom we lost 5 years ago. Your resting place we visit and put flowers there with care, but no one knows the heartache as we turn and leave you there. Our thoughts are always with you; your place no one can fill. In life we loved you dearly; in death we love you still. We know you walk beside us and when our life is through, we pray that God will take our hands and lead us straight to you.
Sadly missed and always remembered. Treasured forever in our memory. So treasure him, Lord, in your garden of rest, for when on earth he was the best.
Lovingly remembered
Happy Birthday Dad,Mom,Mike and Bernie
reggie and gloria metcalf
October 9, 2007
In Loving Memory of Reggie S. Metcalf
Time takes away the edge of grief but memory turns back every leaf. You are gone but still are living in the hearts of those who stay. You were the baby of the family. We enjoyed you as a beautiful child and admired the young man you became . How can 5 years pass without you and still so many unanswered questions. We will continue to try to find answers. You will forever stay in our hearts. We Love and Miss You,
Dad,Mom,Bernie and Mike
Tonya Garnett
September 22, 2007
Hey Reg, My life is changing so fast and I need you here. Sometimes I feel like I'm at a dead end.I always looked to you for my next road. I miss you so much. Your strength ,your advice,telling me it was alright when everything felt wrong.I wish you was here,I really could use that right now.I love you Big Bro.and I'll never forget you. Untill we meet again your in my heart. Love your lil sis Ton-Ann
reggie and gloria metcalf
July 18, 2007
In Loving Memory of Our Son and Brother Reggie S. Metcalf
We miss you so much life will never be the same. Until Son we are together again. Everyday and night you are with us. I know God is taking good care of you.
God looked around his garden and found an empty place.
He then looked down upon the earth and saw a tired face.
He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest.
God's garden must be beautiful he only takes the best.
It broke our hearts to lose you, but you didn't go alone, for part of us went with you, the day God called you home.
If tears could build a stairway, and heartaches could make a lane, we'd walk a path to heaven and bring you home again.
Your Loving Family
dad,Mom,Mike and Bernie
Lisa Gatcomb
June 21, 2007
Hi Reg, I am always thinking of you, and I will always wonder why you had to leave us with no goodbye. But I know you would of if you could. Reg even though the years have gone by I never want you to think you are forgotten, you are so much a part of our lives today and always....love Lisa, Rob and girls
Reggie & Gloria Metcalf
May 15, 2007
In Loving Memory of Our Son And Brother On Memorial Day
Reggie S. Metcalf
We know we can't be side by side each moment of each day, but deep within our heart you're never far away.
For we enjoy remembering the good times that we shared, the little things you did and said, that proved to us you cared.
So when we are here and you are there we're really not apart, because we're holding you forever, in our thoughts and in our heart.
Until we see you again your loving family
Dad, Mom, Mike and Bernie
Arielle Metcalf
May 13, 2007
Uncle Reg,
I Love You Sooo Much And i miss you everyday of my life. I wish eveything was just back to the way it used to be. Hangingout with the family, Haveing family cook-outs. Well iam going to try and make it up to your grave and leave you some flowers. Todays mothers day and iam sure you mom is thinking about you alot right now. Wish You could be here I miss you TONS! I Love You and soo does all the family. LOVE YOU, MISS YOU.
XoXo Arielle-Nicole
Becca Libby
April 22, 2007
Uncle Reggie,
You Were, Are, And Always Will Be My Hero. I Love You So Much. Its So Hard To Enjoy My Birthday Now, Knowing That You Arent Here Anymore. I Love You Uncle Reggie. I Have Grown Up Sooo Much Since The Last Time I Saw You. You Will ALWAYS Be In My Heart. I Really Cant Wait To See You Again. I Love You So Much Uncle Reggie. You Are My Hero And Whenever I am In A Pucker; I Think Of You;; And Then My Problems Seem To Dissapear. Wow. You Mean So Much To Me. I Love You Unlce Reggie. I Cant Wait To See You Again. Love Always.
**Becca Dawn Libby
Lisa Gatcomb
April 6, 2007
Hey Reg I miss ya so much...our girls r growing up so much..
They will never forget Uncle Reg, Becca will be 16 this year, Candice is 13 and Portia , the last time you saw her she was just a baby..Reg,she is 5, you will always be a part or our family and I hope You will watch over my girls and keep them safe...love and miss you. Lisa, Rob and girls
I promise I will
Bernard Metcalf
March 30, 2007
Reg,
I always told myself time would ease the pain.As I drove by you the other day I felt a tear on my cheek and a lump in my throat.I couldn't contain my love for you or the love you had for me.I now realize that a bond was made between us that went far past being brothers.Till this day I still have found noone and nothing that can fill that emptiness you left behind.However I know that you still guard me in my times of trouble for your the first name I call when I have fear and it goes away.I just keep saying someday,someday... Dad's birthday is tomorrow and I know if he could be granted anything his wish would be to see you. I guess we will all have to be patient and wait our turn to say what you already know;we love and miss you.
Bernie
Reggie and Gloria metcalf
March 29, 2007
Reggie Metcalf Who Passed Away On Dec.16,2002
A special smile, a special face, and in our hearts, a special place no words we speak can ever say how much we miss him everyday. To hear his voice and see him smile,to sit and talk with him awhile. To be together in the same old way, would be our dearest wish today.
Sadly missed by his family
Dad,Mom,Mike and Bernie
Lisa gatcomb
March 4, 2007
hey Reg, we have all been thinking of you right now..Rob has done 22 hrs of plowing, you guys would have had so much fun. Its so funny when he comes home and we talk about what it would of been if you two would of been plowing together...Reg , I miss you and I want you to know that you are missed by so many people...
We all love you. Robert, Lisa and girls
Tonya Garnett
January 27, 2007
I wish you were here.Life changes so fast,sometimes I'm not sure I can keep up.Kids get older and time seems to slip away. Galen will be driving by himself in a little over a week with only a couple yrs left in school.And me it seems I keep going back where I started from. I miss you so much sometimes I look to the sky and it seems as though I can feel you watching over me but I wish I could see you again. Your encouragement and advice sure would come in handy right now. I know your there in my heart and you would never let your lil sis fall but sometimes I still feel lost.
I love you Reggie untill I see you again, forever missed and always in my heart your lil-sis Ton-Ann
Tonya Garnett
January 20, 2007
Hey Reg,
sometimes I feel your the only one who understands how I feel. I wish I could talk to you face to face.Life seems really low and bleak right now and I can't seem to get out of the rut of it all. I know they say God won't give you mountains you can't climb, but I got to tell ya I'm getting kinda tired of climbing uphill all the time. but anyways I miss you so much and thank you for being on my side, I don't think i could make it without your strength in my heart I love you big-brother
untill we meet again your forever with me your lil-sis Ton-Ann
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