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Bruce Fraser
April 5, 2022
Our family misses Bob and our father Andy Fraser. I have great memories of the Christmas Tree Inn and Bob. My condolences to the BaRoss clan.
John BaRoss (Jr)
April 22, 2019
Uncle Bob epitomized a beloved family patriarch. Together with his younger brothers Tom and John Sr. (my Dad), the branches of the BaRoss family experienced almost half a century of role model care and oversight as Uncle Bob and his brothers (and his sister Elaine) had heartfelt regular phone calls that included updates on the extended families always ready to offer advice, guidance and more.
Consider the early formative years of Uncle Bob and his siblings in the 1930s. The boys were all born in the family farmhouse home on 54 Wells Road in (then) rural Greenlawn, New York. They never knew either of their grandfathers as their Dads Lous father [John Baross] died in his early 40s and their mother Lucilles father [Louis Menninger] divorced and remarried both when Uncle Bobs parents were in their early teens. In addition, in the early years of The Depression, Uncle Bobs father Lous oldest brother [Al] was killed in a work accident. Thus days after turning 28, Bobs father Lou was thrust into being the Baross/BaRoss family patriarch during the brutal years of The Depression (Lou was also responsible for a younger brother [Joe], then in his teens and his fathers mother [Matilda]).
As mentioned during the funeral service on April 19, 2019, Uncle Bobs father Lou headed the Town of Huntington (NY) Highway Department for decades. Lous bosses were in a publicly elected political position thus could be a Republican or Democrat. To keep ones job when political party control changed any election cycle, Lou learned the secret to success was to make people like you. Lou shared that advice with my Dad [John Sr] and certainly Uncle Bob and Uncle Tom as evidenced by how well all three BaRoss brothers were thought of by all their respective contemporaries.
Throughout our lives, whether via a phone call or in person, Uncle Bobs voice was one of comfort. His lifelong appetite for knowledge was inspiring and contagious (going back to tales of Uncle Bobs childhood, reading with a flashlight under his blanket after his mother Lucille said lights-out). Without a trace of bias from this nephew, Uncle Bobs insights and wisdom could have been carved on tablets. Coupled with his kindness and generosity paragon comes to mind.
Living at least 6 hours from Maine, while not experiencing quantity-time with Uncle Bob like the Doering family did, there were cherished quality-times over my 6 decades that were many but never enough. Before my memory began my first flight was as an infant from NY to Maine. During the early 1970s were many annual Thanksgivings at The Christmas Tree Inn, as well as a few Summer visits. Between my Junior and Senior years at Ball State University (also in Indiana as Uncle Bobs attending Purdue was my beacon to attend college in the Midwest), during the Summer of 1978 I was an intern at Chadwick-BaRoss, doing market research at state capitals in ME, NH & VT a innovative project Uncle Bob conceived to get better insights into competitive activity. In July of 1981 Uncle Bob & Aunt Bev traveled to Michigan City, Indiana for my wedding with Kim, then in the 90's and 00's their love extended to our daughters Carolyn and Kristi on visits together in Maine, NY, NJ & FL.
Fast forward almost 50 years and Uncle Bob in his late 80s and early 90s understood my quest to build a global non-profit industry association to help bring mobile money and other forms of mobile financial services to billions of unbanked globally. While Uncle Bob was hard on himself about not being a savvy Internet user, he still understood the foundational pillar of mobile commerce, plus always thinking of ways to help, Uncle Bob brokered an introduction for me to the local (Maine) founder of a non-profit industry association in the wood pulp industry. During my visit to Uncle Bob & Aunt Bevs Cape Elizabeth home in early Summer 2015, Uncle Bob and I walked and talked at the historic site in South Portland where over 30,000 workers built hundreds of Liberty ships built during WW2 then later that evening with Aunt Bev we had dinner at DiMillos Floating Restaurant in Portland of which he also had a role. Also during that visit Uncle Bob and I drove inland, enjoying the countryside, points of interest, and a delicious lobster sandwich at a local roadside shop near a scenic marshland. Every visit was special, memorable - imparting knowledge, leading by example as the epitome of an informed, engaged citizen.
As many know, Uncle Bob gets the credit for institutionalizing the long-a pronunciation of our surname (Bay-ross) because he liked the simple, crisp version of how Hoosiers at Purdue pronounced our name.
What a life. What a gift he was to all of us. While I was unable to nudge him to write an auto-biography on his remarkable life, maybe we can collectively cobble together his timeless story so it can be more fully understood, appreciated and enjoyed by future generations.
Thank you Uncle Bob - you remain solidly with us in our hearts. Love Johnny.
Kate Bedard
April 19, 2019
I first met Bob, "Mr. Baross", as a college student working summers at The Atlantic House and C E was my hang out. Bob was the kindest man and made a big lasting impression on me with his wit, business savvy, and endearing personality. Years past and as fate would have it, I met someone from town in MA who was close to Bob and the extended family and introduced me to the whole gang and all welcomed me to a memorable Christmas Tree Inn July 4th celebration. My heart goes out to Bev, Kathy, Steph, Steve, Paul and extended families.
Maria Fuentes
April 19, 2019
Bob was an icon in transportation in Maine. His company was always a strong supporter of construction and transportation and created many jobs for many people. I will never forget his kindness, his wonderful demeanor, his generosity and his sense of humor. My husband Jeff knew him through the Small Woodlot Owners and the American Chestnut Society. He will be missed. Our condolences to Beverly and his family.
Patricia Murphy
April 19, 2019
Bob BaRoss was a kind and gracious man. I feel blessed to have shared time with him and call Bob my friend. Healing thoughts for Bev and the family .
Alexandrea Taylor
April 18, 2019
Dear Kathy and Bev (and family), I was so sad to hear of the passing of your Dad and husband. Bev, you and Bob set a wonderful example of how a long-term relationship works. Kathy, I know your father was a generous, thoughtful man who helped create a great space for his family. His passing definitely puts out some light, and his good vibes will be missed. My love to you all, Alex Taylor. (Betsey Hinckley)
Ruth Dufresne
April 18, 2019
All, Bob truly made the world a better place. He is a beautiful soul and was always so helpful and supportive to our family. Dana and I love you all and send our heartfelt thoughts and prayers as you celebrate Bob's incredible life and grieve the end of his time on earth. Peace and Love, Ruth and Dana
Leslie Lampert
April 17, 2019
Paul and family. So very sorry for your loss. Bob was such a good man. He will be missed.
Beverlee Beers Richardson
April 17, 2019
Beverly and Family, I worked for Chadwick-BaRoss over 50 years ago on Forest Avenue, Portland, as a receptionist, answered the telephone and also did secretarial work for the Sales Manager. I enjoyed my time left there, a great working environment. I did not know at the time that Bob and I shared a birthdate, July 30th! I was married and had one child when I worked there, went on to have three more children, and lost my husband after 50 years of marriage.
My sincere condolences to all his loved ones. He was a remarkable man.
Michael and Nikki White
April 16, 2019
I had the opportunity to know Bob as a friend and councilor as many did. He was a special man. I remember my Dad saying the same thing as you did about boat rides when he rode with Bob in car. We're all were better people for the time spent with him. Our hearts go out to Beverly and the entire BaRoss family. God Bless
Anne Bartnett
April 15, 2019
The Bartnett family is sending its deepest condolences. We were very sad to hear this news.
George Corey
April 15, 2019
Bob was a dear friend. Bob always had good advise for me in business over the years. It was wonderful to sit back over a plate of oysters and listen to his interesting stories. Sherley and I will certainly miss him as will his friends and associates around the world.To Beverly and family, we are thinking of you these difficult days and know that time will help to heal the loss.
Michael Guilbault
April 15, 2019
Rest in Peace Bob and deepest condolences to Beverly and the BaRoss family. There was nobody like Bob. He was a singularly wonderful, sharp, kind, helpful, understanding and generous man. I've never met his match and don't expect I ever will. His friendship is already and forever missed very much.
April 13, 2019
Thoughtful words of guidance and the tone of the voice that spoke them.
Godspeed, Mr. BaRoss
Bruce Fraser
April 13, 2019
Our deepest sympathy from the remaining Fraser family. Our father Andrew Fraser and Jean passed away last year. My they all rest in peace. Bob was a good friend of my dad.
April 13, 2019
May god sustain you at this time of such great loss. Our condolences to you and your family.
April 13, 2019
Thank you for your service.
Sabine Borneman
April 12, 2019
It is such a wonderful blessing to have you had in my life. Find memories of you and your family will always be part of me and who I am.
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