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Susan Grover Obituary
CUMBERLAND - Susan Patricia (Taylor) Grover, 41, passed away peacefully at home with her husband by her side on the morning of Sunday, July 24, 2005. Susan's family is proud of the courage she showed during her battle with cancer.
She was born in Portland on June 6, 1964, the daughter of Albert and Kathleen (Bridges) Taylor. Susan graduated from Greely High School, Class of 1982. She attended the University of Southern Maine's Therapeutic Recreation Program and in 1985 traveled around the United States and China with “Up with People.”
On Dec. 16, 1988 Susan married Benjamin Grover of North Yarmouth at the Cumberland Congregational Church. They started their family of four in North Yarmouth, later building the home of their dreams in Cumberland Center.
The center of Susan's heart and soul were her children. She was an extremely devoted mother who never missed an opportunity to participate or volunteer in any and all of her children's numerous activities. She could be seen at every basketball game and school field trip there was. Susan's love and participation in 4-H, especially the Ossipee Valley Fair, was shared by all of her children.
She also dedicated her life to helping people. She worked at Brentwood Manor, St. Joseph's Manor; LL. Bean, and The Caring Place Child Care Center and most recently the Freeport YMCA in Adaptive Services. She put smiles on all the faces of those with whom she worked. Susan was also a volunteer and licensed EMT for the Cumberland Rescue Department for 23 years. She was also a Certified First Aid and CPR Instructor.
Susan is survived by her husband of 16 years, Benjamin; children, Lee, Molly, Tricia and Meagan; mother, Kathleen Taylor; sister, Judy and her husband David Gagnon; brother, Jeff Taylor; Benjamin's parents, Alwin and Sandra Grover; 16 nieces and nephews; and a large extended family,
Susan was predeceased by her father, Albert Taylor; and a niece, Allison L. Gagnon.
A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. on Wednesday, July 27 at the Tuttle Road United Methodist Church, 52 Tuttle Rd., Cumberland. Interment will be private.
Arrangements are under the care of Jones, Rich & Hutchins Funeral Home, 199 Woodford St., Portland.
Memorials may be made in her memory to:
Mercy Hospital
Oncology-Hematology Center
144 State St.
Portland, Maine 04101
Susan was so very thankful to all of the friends who supported her, including the Mercy Hospital Oncology Staff, who cared for her and those special acquaintances she made while there. It was among Susan's wishes to thank each person who extended care and compassion to her and her family.
Susan Patricia
(Taylor) Grover
Jones, Rich & Hutchins
Funeral Home & Cremation Service
775-3763
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Memories and Condolences
for Susan Grover
Mary Joyce-Satake
August 8, 2005
I was a former Greely classmate of Sue's and she was a wonderful, caring person. She always had a smile on her face. I moved away from Cumberland 15 years ago and only learned of this sad news from my Father, Tom Joyce. I want to express my deepest sympathy to the Grover and Taylor families.
Kimberly Hamilton Basch
August 6, 2005
We have known you all for so long and have such special memories of growing up together. You and your families are in our hearts and prayers.
With love and sympathy,
Kim, Andy, and Theron Hamilton
Arlene Nason
August 5, 2005
Our prayers and love go out to Susan's family. I just learned about her death. I am so very sorry. Susan cared for so many people in her short life and was the best mother; she was always on the go doing things for her children and family. I'll always remember her spunk and determination in whatever she attempted from youth through her marriage. She will be missed by many. So sad to lose her so young. With love, The Nasons
Diana Dearborn Strano
July 30, 2005
I have two memories of Suzie that I hold dear to my heart, and for me, clearly demonstrate who Suzie was - kind, giving and compassionate.
My first day of kindergarten was later in the year, because my family and I moved to Maine in the fall of '69. On that day, the teacher introduced me to Suzie, who offered to share her fat crayons with me. We quickly became "best-friends" for many years! My second memory is from just a few years ago when she came to my father's funeral. We hadn't spoken in years, but her hug and kind words settled gently in my heart. Since then, I have thought of her often, sometimes laughing at my memories of us, sometimes sad that I hadn't stayed in touch.
Today, the sadness is great. My heart reaches out to her family and friends as I pray that God will continue to guide them through their loss.
Peace be with you, Diana
Tyra Elizabeth (Klev) Tarbox
July 28, 2005
I was shocked and incredibly sad when I learned of Sue’s passing. Sue and I were friends at Greely and the news has made me feel very nostalgic. I have been consumed with thoughts of Sue and my other friends these past few days. This has also made me slow down to appreciate how precious and fragile life is. I also have 4 children and I have hugged them silly for the last few days! Sue and I would often run into each other at the schools or around town. She would always wave and flash her big smile. It was so good to see someone from my life BC! Ben, Lee, Molly, Tricia & Megan – I am so sorry for your loss. It seems so unfair. Sue was a very special person and will be missed by many. My thoughts are with you. (Oh, btw, we have a dog named Bear too!)
Amy Cox-Schumacher
July 28, 2005
Kathleen, Judy and Jeff, My utmost sympathies and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. I am praying for you on the other side of the country. Love, Amy COX Schumacher
Karen Eggleston
July 27, 2005
My daughter Paige plays summer basketball with Molly. We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. God Bless.
Karen Eggleston
Shirley Williams
July 27, 2005
I didn't know Susan.But I do know the Grover's,my heart goes out for all of you.You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Shirley Williams
Dennis and Gail Jordan
July 27, 2005
Our deepest thoughts are with Ben and his children today. We didn't know them well, but see the Grover children "at the farm" or "at the family pool" quite often. God Bless all of you.
(We are Martha's in-laws. Martha is Ben's sister.)
Tammy (Foss) Farrell
July 27, 2005
I was shocked and saddened to see of Sue's death in the paper. Sue and I were very close as teenagers before marriage, jobs, and children came into our lives. Even though I had not seen Sue for several years I still considered her a very close friend. She was the matron of honor in my wedding, and I was in her wedding. She could always make you smile and laugh. The world has lost a bright star in her passing.
Karen & Charles Montgomery
July 27, 2005
We didn't really know Susan but we have been long-time friends of Al & Sandra. We extend our deepeset sympathies to the entire family. You are all in our thoughts at this time of sorrow. May your fond memories of this beautiful woman, wife, and mother comfort you in the days ahead.
Thomas Ek
July 26, 2005
Our daughter Amanda plays basketball with Molly in the YES Summer League. Our thoughts and prayers are with Molly and her family during this time of deep loss.
Sherrill
July 26, 2005
My deepest condolances to Susans husband, children, family and friends.
I worked with Susan at LL Beans and lost track of her after the season was over and I moved away. I was sadden to see her obit in the paper. I didnt know she was so sick.
Remember her smile and love of life..this will help in the days to come.
Ron & Candy Burgess
July 26, 2005
Sue was such a lovely woman with a delightfully bright, heart warming smile. We have many happy memories of her over the years...from Ben and her wedding, working on events together in town, having long chats, to seeing her a couple of weeks ago at Toot's with her colorful hat on and that wonderful smile on her face. We will miss her!
Just remember she is in a better place with no pain and is watching over each of you from above.
Our prayers and deepest sympathies go out to Mrs. Taylor, Ben and their children, Al and Sandy...along with all the rest of the family who were always there for Sue, Ben and the children.
Much Love,
Marla McEwen
July 26, 2005
Our deepest sympathies go out to Susan's family. Our thoughts are with you all in this time of sadness. Susan was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed by the Greely community.
Basketball Moms Cindy, Sue, Carol & Ulla at 7th Grade Basketball Wrap Party 2004
July 26, 2005
Brenda Anderson
July 26, 2005
I hardly knew Susan, I was her kids busdriver and will greatly miss seeing her and Bear at the bus stop. I will also miss seeing her driving around town taking the kids to school, with Bear hanging out the window. My heart aches for the kids during this time. You are all in my prayers. God Bless
Arlan and Ellie Jodrey
July 26, 2005
Although no words can take away the sorrow that you bear,May it be comforting to you to know that others care. We're thinking of you daily and our hearts ache for you.We know she is in a better place.
Charlene Arsenault
July 26, 2005
I was very saddened to see Sue's obituary in today's paper. I met Sue at USM and often socialized with her outside of the classroom. I have not seen Sue in many, many years and did not know her as a mother but I do know that she must have been a great one. My heart felt condolences go out to her family and those who loved her, especially her children.
Laura and Shawn Morrison
July 26, 2005
We wish to extend our thoughts and prayers to all the people that Sue touched through her life. To her family and her friends. Lives were enriched and trully brightened by knowing her. If we could only strive to be a mother to our children like she was hers. She will be missed, but her gift of love and kindness in this world will spider web out and continue to be shared in the lives that she touched just by being her. God Bless her family and may God bring you peace in the days and months to come.
Vicki Copp
July 26, 2005
Sue will be deeply missed by all, you are such a beautiful person, I cant imagine not having you there with me at the basketball games, I love you Sue love Vicki
Richard & Helen Thurlow
July 26, 2005
Our heartful prayers go out to the family of Susan
Dorothy Clement
July 26, 2005
Our family sends our condolences. Our daughter Rachel played basketball with Molly. Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family.
Linda Bowler (Reynolds)
July 26, 2005
I was so saddened to see Susan's passing in the paper. I was a classmate of Ben and also knew her sister Judy. From time to time I think about the people I went to school with and wonder about their lives. I express my deepest sympathy's to all.
eric and peggy cianchette
July 26, 2005
to our new neighbors and friends we are very sorry for your loss our sincere sympathy
Linda & Bill Dexter
July 26, 2005
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all
Sharon Tardiff
July 26, 2005
Sue always had a smile that would light up a room and a wonderful and infectious laugh.
Nancy Anderson Robinson
July 26, 2005
The first thing that comes to my mind when thinking of Susan, is that she always had a beautiful smile and a bubbly personality. I
will always remember her love of life. Cherish all your wonderful
memories. Love, Nancy
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