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Thomas William DePeter

1936 - 2019

Thomas William DePeter obituary, 1936-2019, Portland, ME

BORN

1936

DIED

2019

Thomas DePeter Obituary

SCARBOROUGH - Thomas (Tom) William DePeter, 83, went to be with his Lord on Aug. 23, 2019, in Scarborough, after a long battle with multiple health issues. He was born Feb. 3, 1936 in Portland, Maine. The son of the late Jerry DePeter and Florence (Cleary) DePeter, they resided in the Thornton Heights area of South Portland until he was eight years old. Shortly after his eighth birthday, Tom and his family moved to Scarborough where he lived out his life.

Tom, always a hard worker, held multiple jobs as a young man. From a farm hand at Prouts Neck, to a fish factory in Portland, etc. he was dedicated to whichever job. At 18, Tom joined the U.S. Army as an infantry soldier and was stationed in Germany for most of his military career, eventually achieving the rank of sergeant. After serving, Tom worked at Union Mutual (UNUM) in the maintenance department for 12 years, attaining a supervisor position. After UNUM, he began his career at SMVTI (SMCC) working his way up to campus Plant Engineer. The first recipient of the Unsung Hero Award in 1993, Tom retired after 35 years of selfless service, but remained a consultant for a few years. Growing up in Scarborough, he met and married his wife Glenna (Pooler) DePeter of 58 years, on September 10, 1960. After retirement, Tom and Glenna enjoyed many winters in Largo, Florida with cousin Edward DePeter and Barbara Watson. Tom's hobbies in the army were baseball and boxing. His love of baseball continued after service as a member of the Connecticut Valley Semi-Professional baseball league, Men's slowpitch softball league, and Senior League baseball. A family oriented man, whose interests included cribbage, music, and woodworking, where he developed into a master of scroll sawing. Tom loved his dogs, Foxy Lady (16 years) and Domino.

Tom is survived by his wife Glenna, two daughters Brenda Larain and Lori DePeter; two sons, Tom DePeter and Michael Flick; as well as Elsie Clements and Florence Marr; granddaughter, Amanda Anan and husband Michael; grandsons, Ryan Rand, Charles Raybine III, Anthony Simoneau, and Zachary Wilson; great-grandchildren Reid and Scarlett Anan; brothers Charles DePeter, Robert DePeter and wife Charlotte; sisters Geraldine Curlew, Grace Gallant, Joanne Crooker, and many extended family members. He was predeceased by brothers, Francis and James DePeter; and sister, Sandra Flick. A special thank you to home care nurse Sarah Hawk for her dedication and compassion.

Visiting hours are 5-7 p.m. on Tuesday, August 27, at Scarborough Free Baptist Church, 55 Mussey Road, Scarborough, where a celebration of life will be at 11 a.m., on Wednesday, August 28. To express condolence's or to participate in Tom's online tribute please visit www.DolbyBlaisSegee.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Aug. 25, 2019.

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August 26, 2019

May the God of comfort bring the family peace in their time of grief.

August 26, 2019

Glenna, sorry to hear of your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers for sure.
Bill Griffin

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Gavin & Marcia Ruotolo

August 26, 2019

Thoughts and prayers are with the family~

Karen (Weimer) Varney

August 26, 2019

So very sorry for your loss - rejoice in the knowledge he is with Our Father and that you will be reunited in eternity. Cherish the memories, love one another, hug one another xoxo

August 26, 2019

Thank you for your service.

Deb Cook

August 25, 2019

Glenna (Grandma Sim), Lori, Charlie, Anthony & Family: We are so sorry for your loss. Cherish the memories you share knowing they will always be in your hearts! We love you and we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers❤. Deb, Matthew(Cookie), and Max (little Cookie). Cook ❤❤

Pat Thomes

August 25, 2019

Glenna and family - sorry to learn of Tommy's passing. It is never easy to lose a love one.
Be assured my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Blessings

Jim & Vicki Peary

August 25, 2019

Dear Glenna & family, So sorry for your loss. We enjoyed Tom as our neighbor for so many years and he will be sadly missed. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Jim & Vicki Peary

Peggy-Ann Emmons

August 25, 2019

In Loving Memory, of a Wonderful Man. He will be Sadly missed by All.

Cheryl Cote - Huntley

August 25, 2019

I strong, gentle man I remember walking the rooms of church. I pray Gods arm surround Glenna and his family and friends as they celebrate his leaving to his final home and struggle with no more conversations. Peace knowing your next meeting will be heavenly.

Rita Dickinson Weimer

August 25, 2019

Dear Glenna and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. May the Lord wrap His loving arms around you and give your comfort. Love, Your friend Rita Dickinson Weimer

Karen Lawson

August 25, 2019

Aunt Glenna, my deepest sympathies to you, Brenda, Lori and the rest of the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
My heart is with you.
All our love,
Karen & John

August 25, 2019

I miss my uncle he always pick on me all time he sweet man a lot I love flo

August 25, 2019

Thank you for your service to our country. Rest In Peace.

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5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Scarborough Free Baptist Church

55 Mussey Road, Scarborough, ME

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Celebration of Life

11:00 a.m.

Scarborough Free Baptist Church

55 Mussey Road, Scarborough, ME

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