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Steven H. D. Spencer

1953 - 2020

Steven H. D. Spencer obituary, 1953-2020, Ardmore, PA

Steven Spencer Obituary

Steven H. D. Spencer (March 22, 1953 - June 3, 2020) Steve Spencer died tragically on June 3, 2020 when a large tree fell on the car that he was driving. He was born on March 22, 1953 in Manhattan, New York, to Elliot and Helen Spencer. Steve grew up in Jericho, New York, the second of four brothers, and graduated from Jericho High School in 1971. He then attended Cornell University in Ithaca, New York, where he earned a degree in Industrial and Labor Relations in 1975. Upon leaving Cornell, Steve pursued a legal education at Columbia University. True to his lifelong emphasis on the importance of family, he lived with his grandparents and later with his uncle during his law school years. Steve moved to Philadelphia in 1978 to begin his legal career at Morgan Lewis. He initially practiced in Morgan’s Labor and Employment Practice Group, and subsequently moved to Morgan’s Employee Benefits/Executive Compensation practice, where he became a nationally recognized expert in the field. Steve was a mentor to many lawyers in both the Labor and Employment practice and in the Employee Benefits practice, serving for nearly 20 years in the latter, first as Deputy and then as Practice Group Leader. He retired in 2018 having spent his entire 40-year career at Morgan Lewis. Steve loved mentoring young and aspiring lawyers. He was a longtime adjunct professor at both The University of Pennsylvania Law School and Villanova Law School. Following his retirement in 2018, Steve became an adjunct faculty member at his beloved Cornell University, teaching courses in both the Law School and the School of Industrial and Labor Relations. Although brief, Steve considered his time teaching at Cornell to be a highlight of his professional career. Steve had a strong belief in the importance of community service and dedicated much of his free time to helping others. Steve served as head coach of the Lower Merion Soccer Club’s Special Needs Soccer Team for over 10 years. He was also a member of the Valley Forge Special Education Corporation Board of Directors and Chair of the Board of the Vanguard School. In recent years, he was the Chair of the Board of Achieve Now, an organization dedicated to increasing children’s literacy in Philadelphia, as well as an active volunteer with Rebuilding Together Philadelphia. But above all, Steve was dedicated to his family. Whenever anyone in the family needed anything, he was there. He loved sailing and mountain biking with his family at Lake Naomi, restoring old homes, and repairing whatever his sons broke. He was always on the sidelines or in the audience for his sons’ sporting and musical endeavors. His infectious sense of humor made him the life of many a family gathering. He is survived by his wife of 37 years, Lynne, sons Ryan and Chris, and brothers Scott and Brad. He was predeceased by his brother Jonathan and his parents Elliot and Helen Spencer. A Celebration of Life will be held at a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, donations in Steve’s memory may be made to Achieve Now, https://www.achieve-now.com/, or Rebuilding Together Philadelphia, https://www.rebuildingphilly.org/.

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Published by Main Line Media News from Jun. 15 to Jun. 21, 2020.

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Michael Littman

June 9, 2025

Lynne,
Marion and I think of you regularly. We hope that you and the kids are OK. We are older - no wiser - but still here. Steve's accident happened when we were all isolated due to COVID and his passing saddened us greatly - we think you, Pam and Scott, are still in the Philadelphia area - we should try to get together. Such fond memories.
Michael and Marion

Kathy Schiefer

May 25, 2021

Lynne, I am so sorry for your loss. The tribute written here says so much in such a short space. You are such a lucky person to have been the love of his life. It is abundantly clear that you and Steve raised a great family.
My sincere condolences to you, Chris, and Ryan.

Janet Wilson Smith

December 27, 2020

Dear Lynn,
I am so shocked and saddened to be reading this today, after being alerted by the Vanguard School Annual Report. What an horrendous loss for all of us, but especially for your family. My deepest condolences. Janet W Smith

Marion K Littman

December 18, 2020

Oh, Lynne. Michael and I just found out and are so saddened by Steve's death and the loss to you and the kids. We knew, just like Pam and Scott did, that Steve was a wonderful person, and that you had found the love of your life. Sending many hugs and much love.

Michael Littman

December 18, 2020

Lynne,

I just discovered about Steve's passing today by a random search - what a shame. I haven't told Marion yet - I am still at work. I will let her know this evening. Since moving away from Philly, Marion and I have lost touch, but our fondness for the two of you has never waned. So sorry to hear. I see comments from Pam and Scott - we have such fond memories of our Philadelphia days in the 1980's with you and Steve, and Pam and Scott - such good times we had - you guys were on Pine Street in English Village if I recall the name of your neighborhood correctly and we were on Locust near Wash West - and we used to get together often. Glorious times. We will call in a few days. Our deepest sympathy.

Michael and Marion

Elizabeth Herman

June 25, 2020

I, like many others, am unable to believe and accept that Steve is no longer with us. He exuded optimism and had one of those resting happy faces. Regardless of the challenge he always remained calm and gave the impression that "I've got this". Above all, he made my college roommate, Lynne, very happy and was an amazing dad to their 2 children. I know that he will be missed by everyone who worked, played, socialized or was taught by him. My sincerest condolences to all who loved him.

Biff Sturla

June 22, 2020

Steve ran the Lower Merion Soccer Club's Special Needs Program for over 10 years. He gave a lot of children the chance to play soccer who might not ever have been able to play with other children. He made it tremendously fun for the players and built up their self-esteem.

On behalf of all of Lower Merion Soccer Club, I want thank Steve for his tremendous dedication and passion when working with these children. I have always believed that the quality of a person's life can be valued on how much they were able to influence others, help others and make a positive difference in their lives. Steve was a giant for all of his work. We will miss you, thanks for all you did for the children.

Biff Sturla
President
Lower Merion Soccer Club

Pam Perry and Scott Buchheit

June 19, 2020

Lynne,
I met Steve when you started dating. We were a threesome for a time!! Steve lived at Gretchens in Center City remember drunk (?) chicken when you introduced Scott and I, and Joanie putting away the laundry when it was still wet. Your wedding at a beautiful country estate in the fall. Then, you bought a home on Pine Street one morning I heard someone whistling on their way to work I moved the curtains to see Steve walking by a happy guy!! Having babies Kevin and Ryan, and then Chris, and finally, Katie. A fun time in the jet tub in the Poconos!! Get togethers over the years, including the Cornell Glee Club at the Union League even though we had owed never to go back!! I am happy that you found the love of your life, and heartbroken that Steve left too soon . . . .
Love,
Pam

Lynne,
Many of Pams memories are also mine. The only additional one Ill share now comes from the night you and Steve were kind enough to have Pam and I over for dinner to celebrate our engagement. I will never forget your toast; you wished Pam and I the same happiness in our marriage that you and Steve found in yours. What a wonderful thing to say about your life with Steve, and that never did and never will change.
Love,
Scott

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June 16, 2020

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