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Vida Fleming Beard Ruppe

1930 - 2018

Vida Fleming Beard Ruppe obituary, 1930-2018, Wilmington, DE

BORN

1930

DIED

2018

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Vida Ruppe Obituary

Vida Beard Ruppe, of Wilmington and Dorset, VT; born in 1930 in Boston, MA, the daughter of David Fleming Beard and Margaret Cook Beard; died January 9, 2018 in Wilmington after a long illness. She lived in the New York City area and went to the Edgemont School in Scarsdale until 1944 when her family moved to Louisville, KY. She graduated from the Louisville Collegiate School in 1948 and from Bennett Junior College in 1950. Vida worked as a photographer for an advertising artist before marrying Ernest F. Ruppe in 1952. During his career with the DuPont company they lived in Wilmington four times; Fair Haven, NJ; Fairfield, CT; Parkersburg, WV; Victoria, TX and Geneva, Switzerland.

She was an active parishioner of Christ Church Christiana Hundred for many years, serving on the Altar Guild, the Vestry, and the Green Show, and was president of the Women of Christ Church. She was a member of the Junior League of Wilmington, The National Society of The Colonial Dames in the State of Delaware, a former member of the Junior Board of the Delaware Hospital and of the Delaware Curative Workshop, and a Lady of Dumbarton. She was a member of the Wilmington Country Club, The Dorset Field Club and the Ekwanok Country Club.

Vida formed a nurturing home for her family in every one of the diverse communities to which they were sent, devoted herself to service there, and from even temporary stays reaped permanent friendships. She relished travel, and could recall every meal she and Ernie ever enjoyed as they explored the world together. And she loved planning those trips and family vacations almost as much as taking them. Her grandchildren adored their "Grammy," and Vida cherished each of them. And whoever coined "it's a dog's life," never met Vida; she treasured her terriers and Corgis.

Possessing a reflexive friendliness, Vida loved and was loved by her friends, especially her long-standing bridge club and circle of chums from her teenage years in Louisville. She was an accomplished cook, expert needlewoman, peerless navigator, devout believer, exuberant grandmother, lavish mother, and precious wife.

She is survived by her husband Ernest of 65 years; daughter Helen Ruppe Stevenson and her husband Frank, of Dallas TX; son David F. B. Ruppe of Mosier, OR; five grandchildren: Caroline Stevenson Brownworth, Louise Stevenson, John Stevenson, William Ruppe and Frances Ruppe; great-granddaughter Rowan Brownworth; brother William Robinson Cook Beard and his wife Barbara of Louisville, KY; niece Breckinridge Beard Peabody.

A Celebration of Life was held at Christ Church Christiana Hundred on Saturday, January 13 at 11 AM.

In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the endowment at Christ Church Christiana Hundred, PO Box 3910, Greenville DE 19807 or to The Louisville Collegiate School, 2427 Glenmary Ave., Louisville KY 40204.

For online condolences please visit chandlerfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Manchester Journal from Jan. 19 to Feb. 9, 2018.

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January 17, 2018

Dear Ernie: Vida was a person who would not give up. She worked at her golf with passion as she lived her life. Our love goes out to you and the loss you have to endure. Joanie and Rich Tilghman

Michael Powers

January 16, 2018

Ernie: our condolences to you and your family. How well I remember meeting Vida and you at the Dorset Field Club when you first started vacationing here. Vida was so regal, stoic and above all friendly. Her struggle with an insidious disease has ended and she has entered into eternal rest. she will surely be missed by all fortunate to have known her. Fondly Mike & Barbara Powers

Millie and Bob Henning

January 15, 2018

Thinking of your family. We enjoyed knowing Vida in Vermont. Such a lovely person. Sincerely Millie&Bob

January 15, 2018

Dear Ernie Ashley and I are so sad for you and your family losing
valiant V. So brave, so tough living with the inevitable, she stands
out in our minds as a pillar of loving strength and warm. She was
extraordinary these past few years as her illness kept advancing and
she kept fighting, coming to church with a big smile, an avatar for us
all who have yet to face what she went through. Our deepest
condolences and hopes that you will continue to be in our lives in
Vermont and the Chapel. You may know that Joanie Madeira died recently
here, a staunch supporter of the Chapel and Zions She and V are now
happily united with warm memories of all their friends here. With much
warmth and great respect for her and you, Hoyt and Ashley

CHARLIE WEYMOUTH

January 11, 2018

FROM THIS DISTANT ADMIRER, SHE ALWAYS GAVE THE PRESENCE OF NOT ONLY UNIQUE LOVELINESS BUT CLASS, WHETHER AT A WORLD AFFAIRS COUNCIL CONVENING OR ATTENDING A CHURCH SERVICE----SHE WAS A CONTINUED ANCHOR OF THAT GENERATION. MY FEELINGS WITH AND FOR EACH MEMBER OF THE FAMILY. CHARLIE WEYMOUTH

January 11, 2018

Our condolences to the family. May God fulfill his promise of binding up the brokenhearted. Isa 61:1

Megan

January 11, 2018

Please know you are not alone during this time. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family. May the God of comfort continue to be with you. 2 Thessalonians 2:16,17

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Christ Church Christiana Hundred

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Christ Church Christiana Hundred

Greenville, DE

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