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J. Marilyn Zender

Crestline: J. Marilyn Zender, age 76, resident of Wildwood, FL and longtime Crestline area resident, died Wednesday, October 5, 2011, in Wildwood, Florida.

Born August 11, 1935 in Greensprings, Ohio to Herbert and Jeannette (Baker) Sheidler, she had been a Crestline area resident the majority of her life and had been living in Florida since her retirement. She was a 1953 graduate of Bloomville High School and had been a homemaker. Marilyn had a strong interest in music and enjoyed playing various musical instruments. She also enjoyed fishing, golfing and watching the Florida wildlife.

Survivors include her husband, Richard "Gene" Zender, whom she married December 23, 1953; one son, Michael (Kathy) Zender of Bucyrus; one daughter, Sandra Krebs of Lexington; five grandchildren, Cory (Monica) Zender, Jeremy (Christy) Zender, Kailey Bashline, Julie and Robert Krebs; five great grandchildren, Cole and Carley Zender, Nevaeh Krebs and Alden and Easton Bashline; numerous nieces, nephews and other relatives.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by two brothers, Duane and Gene Sheidler and one sister, Judy Marx.

Graveside services will be held 11:00 AM Tuesday, October 11, 2011 in Crawford County Memorial Gardens in Crestline with Reverend Walter Keib officiating. Friends may call Monday from 5:00 to 8:00 PM at the Barkdull Funeral Home in Shelby. Memorial expressions may be made to the Grace Brethren Church of Lexington Youth Group.

Online condolences may be made at barkdullfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by News Journal on Oct. 7, 2011.

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joyce sheidler

October 7, 2011

Aunt marilyn was always so much fun. I will miss her smiles and laughter. I would love to be there to see the joyous reunion in Heaven,I'll bet the whole family will be playing in the band, Dad on the harmonica,Uncle Duane on banjo and Aunt Marilyn making that steel guitar "talk" like only she could! Sending my love and prayers to all.Joyce Sheidler

Pat (Bollinger) Leibengood

October 7, 2011

Gene and family,
I sure remember the fun times watching you, Marilyn and Jr. playing in your band. Sending thoughts and prayers to all of you.

October 7, 2011

MIKE, SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR MOTHER. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU & BE WITH YOU IN THIS TIME OF NEED.

PENNY KOZSEY (COTSAMIRE)

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