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Carlos Rendo
March 24, 2023
Not sure what to say other than 'Zan would always know what to say'- fearlessly and with an open heart. If any tribute is fitting it'd be to live with that treasured excitement for what comes next, and of course the selflessness and compassion for others that she always had. Zan shinned brighter and lived with greater zest for it than anyone. Still hope I'll see Xanadu in spirit as wonderous as ever.
K L
December 21, 2020
Dearest Zan,
I will remember you with fond memories of the innocence of youth. Your energetic positive energy will be missed dearly. I am deeply saddened to find out this news. Thank you for the unconditional friendship throughout the years.
Sean House
December 7, 2020
I just heard from Patricia Rose D. Jim, Gail, and Katie, Lisah and I send our deepest condolences for your loss of Zan. Our hearts and prayers go out to you in this already difficult time.
Debbie Lenny
December 7, 2020
Zan sounds like a beautiful person whose loss will be deeply felt by her friends and family. The world needs more like her, although she seems amazingly unique. My heart aches for you all and I send my deepest condolences.
Matthew craig mukai
December 5, 2020
We would like to say we are sorry for your loss, but we will pray for u guys. God bless u all.
Reenie Henry
December 3, 2020
Zan was a wonderful addition to our Pain and Wellness group at the Pittsburg health center. She had a beautiful soul and was a joy to be around. We were fortunate enough to hear her play her ukelele and hear her beautiful voice. I recorded her the last time she joined us and have shared the video with the other members in our group so we all have a special something to remember her by. She will be dearly missed. All I can think of is that God needed another Angel in heaven and he chose our beautiful songbird. My deepest condolences.. I will never forget Zan
Reenie Henry
December 3, 2020
Can was a wonderful addition to the Pain and Wellness group at the Pittsburg health center. She played her ukelele and sang for us. She also brought in art supplies and did creative art projects with us. She was a beautiful soul with the voice of an angel. I will miss her good nature and positive energy that she shared with us. I am so sorry for your lost and ours. All I can say is that God must have needed another Angel and that is what Zan was. I was fortunate to record her sng to our group on zoom video and have shared it with the other members of the group. She is deeply missed.
Sylvia Turner
December 3, 2020
Zan was amazing! I'm part of a chronic pain group that Zan would visit, once a month, through the Contra Costa Regional Medical Center, Pittsburg Clinic. She would bring a project for the group to do. We got to hear her sing and play her ukulele and we truly enjoyed seeing her. Reading her obituary, I had no idea of all her accomplishments because she was so humble. We were in shock when we heard the news of her passing. The county cut funding and she was "laid off" so the last time we heard her beautiful voice was in August. Sending virtual hugs to her family.... she will be missed.
jo sopko
December 2, 2020
I only knew her in the symbolic real Zan took my sandtray class when I taught at CIIS and she also took 2 of my sandtray and metaphor workshops over the years. I know her as a bright spirit of compassion and passion. Her love of the metaphor and symbols was so exciting to witness.
She was gift to where ever she entered,
Sending love and blessings to her family and friends and so sorry to have lost such a seeker and giver on the path. Blessings to her life and journey ahead love jo
Alan Thiele
November 28, 2020
The world has truly lost a bright light and a wonderful spirit in Zan Morris. We grieve for Jim, Gail and Katie in their time of very difficult loss while remembering what a gift her life was. She made her time here really count.
Although I only saw Zan in passing over the years, and did not know her well, I was always so glad to hear of her progress through life while sad to learn of the challenges to her health. On one occasion when she was very young; Zan asked Jim and Gail if the "scary boys" (my brother and myself) were coming over. Our strange cycling clothing and appearance made quite an impression on her, and we were always happy that she gave us such a cool name.
May her memory and example lift up everyone who knew her. We will always remember the blessing that was her life
Marcia
November 27, 2020
My heart goes out to Zan's family and to Justin. Love from Andy and Marcia in Forest Knolls. x
Nicole Koethner
November 27, 2020
Being with the shock and grief of losing a bright spirited soul, Xan (Alexandra) Morris ( Xandra Mo) on November 9th, who showed her gifts in many forms, a talented healer and artist, who touched others with her light. Knowing inside out the struggle of chronic pain, she never gave up, persistent and consistent in her way of showing others, there is light in the dark and dark in the light.
I will miss her dearly. She was a student in my group supervision class at CIIS and then became an Associate intern at the Expressive Arts program at CCRMC, while doing an internship at the hospice concurrently and creating trainings and workshops. She was a bright soul and gifted Expressive Arts therapist, who had just finished her hours, ready to take her exams and apply for licensure. She inspired and touched me with her generous spirit and her positivity albeit all the struggles and challenges she faced.
Even as painful and shocking Xan‘s death, is it is also an encouragement for me to live fully in the moment with presence, warmth, kindness and love. We never know when our end may come.
Thank you Xan for sharing your light with us. You will be remembered. We lost a bright light and shining star on this earth plane and to our Expressive Arts field. Now your gifts continue to live on in our hearts. Many condolences to her family and friends.
Anupam (AJ)
November 23, 2020
I am shocked to hear the news. Zan and I took a few entrepreneurship classes together at Berkeley. We did many class projects together and celebrated our birthdays almost on same days. I remember Zan prepared a surprise for my birthday even when we didn’t know each other well. Speaks a ton about how she was full of energy and kindness. I am grateful for the time we spent together and will take me a long time to come out of the shock. - Anupam (AJ)
Liz Gottlieb
November 23, 2020
I was one of Zan's coaches/teachers at Marin Academy high school. Zan was both a xc and track & field stand out at MA. (In XC picture below she is holding my dog .) I shared many miles with her on the trails nearby campus. I was able to hear about her day to day life at MA and her dreams and plans for the future during these talkative trail runs. She was always mature & positive. She was in my first graduating class; graduating 4 years after I arrived at MA. She was a stand out in the classroom, as an artist and as an athlete-- She held her own on the track and field team amongst a team that had everything; humor, talent, academics, stories, theater/art, leadership, activismthis team did it all and truly excelled on the track & field. This team set so many school records during this period. Zan contributed to all of these variables and stood out as much as anyone else on the team. Chris Beaver reminded me that for her senior speech, Chris played guitar & Zan sang! (they were good friends on/off the track & field). Zan was competitive and empathetic and always a great sport and had the most inviting laugh. I loved running into Zan the last few years at Good Earth in Fairfax and around Marin and hearing about her work as an adult. Such a giving & talented person and such a light to be with! My thoughts & prayers are with Zan's family! Sending love! xxxxx Liz
Steve Bardwil
November 22, 2020
What a beautiful tribute to Alexandra. She truly was an extaordinary woman who lived an amazing life. I wish I had gotten to know her. Catherine and I are sending Jim and Gail lots of love and prayers.
Dyana Hesson
November 22, 2020
Gail and Jim,
Words cannot express our feelings of sorrow for your family over the passing of your beautiful, beautiful daughter. What an extraordinary young woman, and what a tremendous loss for you, your family, and all the people she touched in her lifetime.
We extend our condolences and will be praying for you all as you navigate your grief and loss.
With love,
The Hesson Family.
Ali Martnez
November 21, 2020
As I sit here still reeling from the shock of hearing about Zan's passing, I want to send my most sincere and deepest condolences to Jim, Gail, Katie. I am completely devastated by this news and cannot fathom the pain and hurt you all must be feeling right now. To say Zan was a special ray of light, is an understatement. She was brave, intelligent, unique, beyond kind, optimistic and compassionate, funny, empathetic, creative, strong and so much fun. Her perspective on life never ceased to amaze and inspire me. She was good at everything she did (music, art, photography, singing, academics), she was so talented and always had sage words of wisdom to share.
What was so special to me about Zan is that we could go months, even a year or more without talking, and as soon as we reconnected, we picked up right where we left off, as if no time had passed. She introduced me to so many interesting and beautiful things, particularly around art, hypnotherapy and spirituality. She had a unique way of making you feel understood, making you feel seen and being very present with you. And she had so much beautiful energy to share with people. She was so generous with her time and her love. I will cherish our many years of friendship greatly, from high school on to adulthood. Her gifts to this world are many and I will miss her very much.
-Ali
Brycken Olive
November 21, 2020
I feel so sad to hear this... Xan was a bright light and so full of energy and Creative Spirit! Her path was a generous one, giving to so many! I will miss dancing with her. She came to my dance classes and shared so much joy through her big smile! She always lifted the space! Awes, I am definitely going to miss her, I wish I had one more dance with her! She was so talented and engaged in Life! Shine On Beauty!
Tina Renard Offner
November 21, 2020
Gail and Jim, this is such a beautiful tribute to your beautiful daughter. Although I never met Zan in person, I knew her first through pictures on my mom and dad’s refrigerator in St. Louis. Whenever I came home from out of town, my mom would talk about her and Katie as if they were her own grandchildren. It was fun to watch her grow up on my parent’s refrigerator door. Then, more recently, I became Facebook friends with her and got to see some of her beautiful artistic creations and got a glimpse of her life. Reading this obituary, I see just what a deep, caring person she was and why she was so dearly loved by all. I cannot imagine what you myst be going through right now but I believe Zan is continuing her healing work by sending you comfort as you get through this difficult time. Blessings to you and your family.
- Tina Renard Offner
Antonio Contreras
November 20, 2020
I was introduced to Xan when I was filming a short fashion film exactly two years ago.
Her cousin Carole Wells starred in the film
and invited Xan to play a the role of an intern in a fashion magazine, Xan asked me what should she wear abs I simply said Chanel.., the day of the filming she showed up dressed in Chanel head to toe with her lines memorized and ready to have a blast.
I am devastated by the news and I hope her family and friends can find comfort knowing she is LOVED.
Edna Johnson
November 20, 2020
She was the bright light when she entered the room, her smile was infectious if she was in the room speaking with others you would want to be part of her conversation.
She is gone to soon and I will miss her and I'm glad I met Xan
Isaiah
November 20, 2020
Zan was a truly beautiful human being! She was, and will always be deeply loved and appreciated by so many...
One thing I loved about Zan is how fully she showed up. She showed up with a big smile, gracious and generous spirit, ready to live life with full intention and passion.
Throughout the years of our friendship, I often wondered why she did so much? I thought it must be because her neurological condition limited her in her younger life. She seemed to be living twice the professional and personal lives of most people. Maybe she was intuitively aware of what these days could bring.. No matter the reason, her desire to live fully and actively inspired me! When I get lemons, I will be making lemonade because of you Zan!
We love you, and we will forever remember and appreciate you for the kindred, kind, incredibly gifted and warm woman that you were.
I’d like to finish by acknowledging you Zan for always making the best out of any situation. You truly believed that you could make a difference in the world. And you did! The messages, pictures and praise will continue to pour out of All those you touched for a long time to come. We miss you. We love you. We send prayers to you and your family.
Vanessa Garcia
November 20, 2020
Zan, thank you so much for the memories you have given me. From the deep conversations which led to personal growth/spiritual awakenings to the goofy times of rapping to Tupac while partying in college, you were truly an amazing friend.
I broke down crying about your passing. It only seems like yesterday when we met during our first year in the dorms at UCLA. So full of life. So unbelievably talented. Singer, dancer, photographer, painter, counselor. You comforted me when I came out and I attended your graduation/art shows in LA. You were just so awesome!
You were that spiritual gangster who had that special gift of relating to anyone you came across. You saw people for who they were and accepted them wholeheartedly, flaws and all. You had that gift. Even when you were fighting your own health battles you healed. I don’t know how you did that, but I always admired you for being the light everyone needed.
I will never forget our last hang out/conversation. You were so happy to show me around your Grad School and introduce me to your classmates. I even had the pleasure of seeing you so happy in your element. It ended up with you saying you accepted me for who I was as I cried in your arms. You were present for me as I was with you. You were one of the rare friends who truly connected with me on a soul level and, for that, I thank you. You taught me how to be kind, humble, confident and selfless.
I was hanging up led lights in my room the day I found out about your passing. I wanted to create a sense of “safe space” away from all the chatter about COVID and death. One particular light setting illuminated off the photo of the jellyfish you had gifted me after one of your art shows. My Mom was the one who pointed it out because the jellyfish looked so life-like underneath the lights. It was that day that I learned of your passing and I’m convinced that was a sign from you comforting me as always. Very much a true story which I’m still crying over today.
I will miss you, Zan. Thank you so much for being such a light in my life and the life of others. Thank you for encouraging me to be my authentic, creative and unapologetic self. May you rest in power and sing to all the angels! RIP Zan ❤
Miriam
November 20, 2020
Xan was my friend, and the one who inspired me to come live in Marin. Everyone that knows her would agree, she was just a positive Human being that chose to focus on giving light to the world.
Many memories of our time at school.
No words to describe what a loss this is to our community and our world. Sending much love to her family in this difficult time.
Noel Frankie
November 20, 2020
I became friends with zen tru my good friend justin since we open my restaurant is lagunitas arti , she was so great to my daughters , she was fun ,Loving , friendly I saw , we can’t still believe she is gone that too early
Condolences to entire family family
Rip zann
You will missed
Cheryl Thompson
November 20, 2020
Zan touched me in so many ways. She always had a bright smile in spite of her health challenges and pain. She is a shining example of unconditional love. She loved her family and all of her friends. I am extremely proud of her accomplishment of earning her Master's in MFT. Zan keep shining your light and love on next journey. I love you...
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