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Fred Obayashi Obituary

Fred Obayashi Passed away suddenly in Truckee, CA on January 14, 2020. He is survived by his daughter Tate (Nic), ex-wife Diane, brothers Roger (Carol), Harry (JoAnn) and nephews and grandnieces. Born in Canada, Fred lived in Marin County for over 30 years. He loved playing guitar, cooking a great meal, snowboarding and spending time with friends and family. If you knew Fred you loved Fred. His memorial will be in Muir Beach on February 8, 2020. We miss you Fred.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal on Jan. 29, 2020.

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Stace and Josh

December 26, 2022

Fred, We always LOVED you so very much. You were more than a friend, but a loved family member in more ways than one. Josh had a wonderful time playing golf with you, but Stace cherished the times when you came to our place in celebration of our shared friendship. We were (and are) so fortunate to know you. May BLESSINGS abound to you and your incredibly beautiful family. WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH,
Stace & Josh
PS. Josh enjoyed celebrating his 50th Birthday with you. Just so wonderful that you came and played miniature golf (3 holes) in our backyard.

Sherry Barson

February 26, 2022

I've spent much of the past two years on the east coast and only recently learned of Fred's passing.
I only knew Fred from Robata, but I was so fond of him - what a lovely man. My belated condolences on your loss. I miss Fred - and also Robata. Very sad. May his memory be a blessing.

Robin McNally

January 21, 2022

I have been so saddened by this news and especially since I. hadn´t heard it sooner. Fred was a dear man. He always greeted me so warmly. Robata has been our family sushi place for years it felt like home due to Fred´s warmth. He will be missed.

Philip and Sarah Andrews

May 4, 2021

The whole experience of Robata began with Fred. He had this great way of making you feel special - to have known him for 30+years has been my honor. I think most of Marin will miss Fred.

David and Riva Berelson

March 9, 2020

For some 30 years we've always looked forward to seeing Fred, always at the helm of Robata, always with a smile, great comments, and his sincere welcome.

We can't imagine our world without Fred, and take solace in knowing that all he did at Robata will continue to draw us to his restaurant jewel.

March 5, 2020

We are also shocked and saddened to learn of Fred's death. Tate, we talked to your dad about how you were doing every time we dined at Robata's. We will miss him so much!

Love and sympathy to the family,
Alison Quoyeser & Gerald Kawamoto

Elie

February 2, 2020

I am shocked by this news!
I met Fred 27 yrs. ago......doesn't feel that long ago.
Fred has always been kind, sincere, generous, fun/funny, the real-deal, and overall good human.
Fred will be sadly missed.
Much love to all family members.

Teresa Sameshima

January 30, 2020

Tate, I am so sorry for shocking loss of your wonderful dad. He was the most upbeat, laid back, fun loving person from my childhood and he remained like that his whole life. Smiling and laughing in his presence was the norm. He will be missed. Teresa

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