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Carol C. Whitman
1954 - 2025
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Carol Whitman Obituary
1954 - 2025
West Springfield
Carol passed away on October 13, 2025. She grew up in Chicopee until moving to West Springfield in 1983. Her parents were Fred Kokoszka and Catherine (Zuchowicz) Kokoszka who passed away when she was very young. She was raised and nurtured by a very special uncle, Robert Kolasz, and aunt, Emily (Kokoszka) Kolasz. She also had a very special aunt, Gladys Kokoszka. All of whom have predeceased her. She is survived by her husband, Ned Whitman, and daughter, Abby Whitman. She also has many many cousins who loved her and will cherish her memory. She graduated from Chicopee High School in 1972 and Our Lady of the Elms College in 1976. Carol worked for 12 years at the Holyoke Health Center and then changed careers to becoming a realtor until retiring in 2025. All services are private. The family invites family and friends to join them in a celebration of Carol's life at the Shortstop Grill 99 Springfield Rd Westfield Saturday October 18, 2025, at 1PM.
In lieu of flowers please make donations to Tunnel to Towers, the Wounded Warriors, or the Dakin Center. The Toomey-O'Brien Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.
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DANIEL CZELUSNIAK
October 16, 2025
Ned & Abby,
The Virginia Czelusniaks are all saddened by the loss of your life partner and mom. We were so fortunate to have Carol in our lives. May the memories you made together stay in your hearts and bring strength and peace in time.
Holly
October 15, 2025
I am very sorry Ned and Abby. Carol was such a great person. She was always supportive of the Klineview Team and loved to cheer for Abby and Risto! Such wonderful memories we have to cherish. Holly
Karen post
October 15, 2025
I am so sorry for the loss of carol. I am lucky enough to have known her through the horse world. Cookouts at the house. So many memories to share. Sending love, hugs and prayers to all. Especially Ned and Abby. Nothing can fill the heartache and loss but we all cherish our memories that we shared
Barry Shear
October 15, 2025
Ned, Sorry to hear about your and Abby's loss.
Patty Budri
October 14, 2025
Ned and Abby,
Please accept our deepest sympathy on the passing of Carol. She will be missed by those of us who were lucky enough to know her. May she rest in peace.
Pat and Mike Budri.
Jeannine & James
October 14, 2025
Ned & Abby,
We are so sorry to learn the passing of Carol. Such a lovely lady. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Your neighbor,
Jeannine Phillips & James Duquette
395 Morgan Road.
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