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Alexander Feldman Obituary

Alexander Feldman, 86, of South Whitehall township passed away on July 13th at Lehigh Valley Hospital.

Born in Brooklyn, NY on March 15th, 1934, he was the son of the late Meyer and Pauline Feldman and is predeceased by his brother Stanley.

Alex was employed by the Triborough Bridge and Tunnel Authority (MTA) New York City as a Bridge and Tunnel officer for 20 years, retiring in 1990. He also was a member of the Order of Knights Pythias for 25 years in Brooklyn and attained the rank of Chancellor Commander.

Alex graduated from Alexander Hamilton High School in Brooklyn and was a member of the Honor Society. He also graduated from the New York Institute of Criminology NYC with honors. Alex often spoke proudly about his experience of delivering two babies while on duty as a police officer.

But his true passion was the trumpet. Alex played with the 328th US Army field band for 3 years and the Allentown Pioneer Band for 10 years.

Alex was a kind, loving man who enjoyed music, traveling and spending time with his family. He always had a smile on his face and made new friends wherever he went.

He is survived by; Daughter, Heidi Valvo of Brooklyn, N.Y., his fiance of 19 years, Helen Lamparella of Wescosville, brother Herbert Feldman and sister-in-law Hannah of Ridge N.Y and several nieces and nephews.

His extended family include Carolyn Lamparella of Alburtis, Mark Lamparella and wife Vanessa of Atlanta, Chris Lamparella of Bethlehem and his five "Grandchildren" who he loved dearly, Gregory, Jackson, Luke, Matthew and Marisa.

Services: Burial will be private, no viewing, through Bachman Kulik Funeral Home Allentown. Internment at Wellwood Cemetery, Farmingdale, NY.

"Yes Alex, you did good!"

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Published by Morning Call on Jul. 17, 2020.

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Helen Lamparella

February 27, 2021

My dearest Alex, I miss you each and every day that goes by
My life began when I met you

Dawn Williams

July 28, 2020

My dear friend Helen,
What a beautiful tribute to your Alex. You filled each others lives with so much joy and happiness.
I know how much you love him and how deeply you will miss him.
Cherish the memories you have.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Love Dawn Williams

Dawn Williams

July 28, 2020

My dear friend Helen,
What a beautiful tribute to your Alex. You filled each others lives with so much joy and happiness.
I know how much you love him and how deeply you will miss him.
Cherish the memories you have.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Love Dawn Williams

George Sverha

July 22, 2020

Alex was my neighbor always kept an eye on my house when I went away. I started out helping him using my snowblower to clear his and his neighbors driveway. A friendship developed, I wouldn't take any money for what I did so he got my daughter a subscription to Highlights for kids which she enjoyed.
He will be missed !

Dean Godshall

July 19, 2020

Starting out as my customer you became a friend. Thank you for 15 years.

Stanley Deutch

July 17, 2020

Truly a man of character and conviction. Alex was never afraid to speak his mind. I always enjoyed hearing from him every few years to come over and discuss his painting needs. He kept his home in immaculate condition. We did work for Alex for 30 years. He was one of a kind and will be missed

Carol Kelley

July 17, 2020

My sympathy and prayers for this very special gentleman.

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