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John Longenderfer Obituary

It is with great sadness that we share the sudden passing of John Edwin Longenderfer, 82, of Emmaus, PA, on Friday, May 29.

Born in Lancaster, PA, he was the son of the late Abram and Elizabeth Longenderfer. John proudly served his country in the U.S. Navy on a submarine tender, responsible for maintaining and repairing submarine sonar systems (1957-1960). He earned his degree from Franklin and Marshall in 1968. John worked for forty-one years at Lutron Electronics and formally retired as President and CEO in 2010. Following his retirement, John went on to consult and provide leadership at Lutron for another ten years. John was actively involved with PBS Channel 39 for nearly two decades and recently served as Chairman of the Board. He focused on advancing essential public services in education, providing successful outcomes for children, and promoting civic leadership across the region.

John was a loving and devoted husband, father, grandfather and uncle. Throughout his life, he had a passion for music and history. He sang in many church choirs and loved to play the piano. Having visited over thirty countries, he enjoyed traveling, often with his family and a good book by his side. In 2019, John completed a life-long goal of driving across the nation visiting many national monuments and parks.

John was predeceased by his loving wife Carole Ann (Rapp) Longenderfer, with whom he shared 54 years of marriage, as well as his brother Jim Longenderfer of Lancaster, PA. Survivors include Sally Reeser, his loving companion; John's five children, Wendy Longenderfer of Macungie, PA; Mark Longenderfer, husband of Dana of Richmond, VA; Matthew Longenderfer, husband of Carolyn of West Chester, PA; Gretchen Clay, wife of Shawn of Allentown, PA; and Michael Longenderfer, husband of Megan of Breinigsville, PA. John was also blessed with three grandsons Nicholas, Jack and DeWolf as well as eight granddaughters Katherine, Riley, Emily and Madison; Teresa and Samantha Clay; and Sarah and Anna.

Funeral services are under direction of Stephens Funeral Home in Allentown, PA with memorial services and burial at Zion Lehigh Evangelical Lutheran Church. Services are private and limited to immediate family due to current COVID-19 restrictions. A celebration of John's life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, contributions are appreciated to PBS 39's Lehigh Valley Reads initiative - a regional literacy campaign to ensure all Lehigh Valley students read on grade level by the end of third grade. www.lehighvalleyreads.org.

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Published by Morning Call on Jun. 2, 2020.

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Gretchen

May 29, 2025

Dad,
5 years, it does not seem that long since I held your hand and said goodbye. I can still see your face and hear your words of advice. I treasure those words because I recall them often during times when I need some extra support.

I miss you, give mom a big hug from me! Love you always!

Gretchen Clay

May 29, 2024

4 years and all I can say is that I miss you. There is a lot going on right now with my family and I wish you were here for support. I remember our conversation and they help. You were always there for us and I know you still are and that helps me get through.
Love you Dad!

Gretchen

Gretchen

May 29, 2023

Dad, it´s now 3 years since you left us and are now with Mom. There is not so much pain but good memories of long talks, family gatherings, swimming and so much more. I still talk to you often and wonder what advice would you give. I miss your guidance, your support and I miss you!!! Like always, tell Mom we say Hi and give her a big hug from us and keep watching over us, till we see you again.

Love you,
Gretchen

Gretchen

May 29, 2022

Dad,
Two years have gone by since you physically left us but I know you and Mom are watching over us. I try to remember that every day so I feel your love, support and guidance. I miss both of you so much and days like today are so difficult but the wonderful memories will get me through the day with some tears and laughter. I love you and I know we will be together again. Give Mom a big hug for me!!!

Gretchen

May 29, 2021

Dad,
It has been a year since you left to join Mom and that is what brings me peace that you are together again. It has been a difficult year without you, I never knew how much I truly relied on your guidance. I am learning to trust my decisions even though I still talk to you about every one of them. Sometimes I imagine you shacking your head and saying what is she thinking. The one thing I always appreciated is that you would give advice but in the end it was up to me to decide and then you supported me on whatever decision I made even if it was not the decision you would have made. I am trying my hardest to follow in your footsteps with the girls.

I miss you dad so much, we all do, I rely on the memories of many talks while listening to music to help me through the pain of losing you. Thank you for all your love and support and tell Mom I love and miss her very much too!

Love Always, Gretchen

Dévis Mulunda

June 9, 2020

My deepest condolences Micheal, Wendy and to the Longenderfer family. I am saddened by this news. John was a very kind, gentle and focused man. He was also a great mentor who trusted his reports and his teams to get the job done. He taught me to inspect what you expect.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Wendy Santini

June 8, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about John's passing. He was a wonderful and gentle man. My heart goes out to his family.

Henry

June 5, 2020

We enjoyed talking with John and his late wife Carole. John was an adventurous man who thoroughly loved traveling and vacationing. Well miss him and his smile as will all who knew John Longenderfer. May God bring peace to the entire family.
Rev. Henry and Jane Distler

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Kristin Culp

June 4, 2020

Gretchen and Family -

I'm so sorry for your loss - your home was my second home, and your dad and mom were like parents to me as a kid. So many fun memories at your house. Sending love, hugs and peace to you and the entire family.

LORI BRAWN

June 4, 2020

So very sorry for your loss. Many prayers for your family !

Stacey Kim

June 4, 2020

Dear Mike, Wendy and your families,
I am so sorry for your loss. John made such an impact on so many of our lives - as a mentor, a coach and a friend. What a gentleman. I am truly honored to have worked with him for so many years throughout my career. My prayers go out to you and your families. With Sympathy - Stacey

Patricia A. Young

June 3, 2020

Dear Wendy and Family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. My heart goes out to all of you at this time of great Loss. Peace to you and your Family.

Jane Billig

June 3, 2020

Dear Longenderfer Family and Sally and Family,
John loved cars and he loved to drive. I got to know the personal side of John at Daniels BMW as his Client Advisor. I am so lucky to have gotten to know John and hearing all about his family life and meeting Carole and then Sally, and his lil pup Mia. Test drives were never dull. John drove with enthusiasm and appreciated great German engineering which kept him safely connected to the road on the windy routes of Orefield. I loved his sense of humor; when he would say, he was trying each model to write for magazine reviews. He showed me the house he and Carole raised their family on Kernsville Road. I also had the pleasure of seeing John at Randalls on the Orchard which he seemed very pleased to enjoy a fine dinner and drink. Sally drove home : ) I think about John a lot and I will miss him coming in the door frequently and unexpectedly at Daniels BMW. You never knew if he was visiting for service or pursuing his next BMW. He talked about how Carole loved to cook and also weave. He loved having his children. John also spoke about Sally and her scrabble tournaments and he was most happy to escort her to the events. Then there were road trips from the east coast to west coast. I think John could have been a truck driver because he just loved to drive. I met mutual friends of John's from Lutron and also from PBS (which he was on the board and very active). John knew many people and I am glad I was one of the many. John was not ready to leave us, for he really had so much more to enjoy here. He was called to heaven and we will all meet him again. So honored to know John Longenderfer. God bless and Rest In Peace John. Fondly, Jane Billig/Daniels BMW and resident of Fogelsville.

Hugh Boyd

June 3, 2020

Dear Longenderfer Family,
My deepest condolences on John's passing. I offer prayers of peace for you. John was a terrific leader of people and the organization. He showed a personal interest in guiding me. I want to thank you for your support of his efforts. We will miss his physical presence, but his legacy and impact will be with all of us. I am better for knowing him, and give him a final salute.

Kristie Berdy

June 2, 2020

Dear Longenderfer family,
We were so sad to hear the passing of your beloved father. He was not only a great leader at Lutron and mentor to Brian, but your dad (and mom) felt like family to us. We cherished the special times we got to spend in Puerto Rico with them during our time there. Whenever we knew they were coming to Palmas, we got excited to share a delicious dinner together at one of our homes where we discussed fun things to do, places to shop and catch up about our families. They convinced me to try golf at one of those dinners. They were so patient out on the course when I was clearly the worst player in our foursome! The thing I remember most about your dad is how much he loved your mom and all of you.
John was an amazing person who lived a remarkable life. We feel so lucky and blessed to have known him.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences,
Kristie & Brian Berdy

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Miriam Levine

June 2, 2020

Wendy and Family,
I am so sorry to learn of your Father's passing. He was such a kind and decent man, and so very nice to work with. His kindness and wisdom will be missed by many. My deepest sympathies to you all.

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Jan Lewis

June 2, 2020

Dear Longenderfer family,
We are so sorry about the death of John. We have many fond memories of him and Carole. He was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.
With love and prayers,
Jan and Colin Lewis

Anna Crider

June 2, 2020

John,
You once shared with me that you regretted that you werent younger, so you didnt have enough years ahead to share with my mom. We all wish there had been many more. Your warm spirit will be deeply missed by all of us. Thank you so much for loving my mom and welcoming my sisters and I into your wonderful family from the time we were children. You were such a wonderful man.
Much love,
Anna

June 2, 2020

Thank you for your service to our country. Rest In Peace.

Joe Cassidy

June 1, 2020

What good times we had in Puerto Rico and Maine. I will miss you, my friend, and
I wish you peace in your new life. Give our love to Carol,
Joe and Marie

Gretchen Clay

June 1, 2020

Dad,
I want you to know that I have always felt your love throughout the stages of my life. We did not always agree on the course I would take but whenever I had problems you were there to guide me. Your wisdom and knowledge would help with the decisions I made. I did not tell you enough how important you were to me. Thank you for always being my rock. I truly will miss your guidance and support and most of all your love.
Gretchen

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