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Julius Pandl Obituary
Julius L. Pandl, 73, of Allentown, died peacefully April 8, 2012 in the Phoebe Home surrounded by his family. He was the husband of Joyce S. (Gerber) Pandl. Born in Allentown, he was the son of the late Julius L. and Theresa (Granitz) Pandl. He was a partner in the former Roundhouse Restaurant, was a salesman/supervisor for the former Letty Lane Candy/Valley Distributing, and was a salesman for Snap-On Tools for 22 years, retiring in 2000. He was a member of St. Anns Catholic Church, Emmaus, where he sang on the choir and was a lector. He was active in the Boy Scouts for over 50 years, earning an Eagle Scout Award, was a leader for many years, and was involved in Camp Serranova and served as president. He was a member of the Lehigh Valley Harmonizers and sang in a barbershop quartet. He was an avid high school and college sports fan, Phillies fan, and was an active member of the Human Performance Center. Survivors: Wife; son, David L. Pandl and wife Lisa of Columbus, NJ; daughters, Cynthia M. Pandl of Allentown, Julie A. wife of Dave Unger of Alburtis, Lynn A. wife of William Nahrgang of Allentown, and Jennifer L. Pandl of Phillipsburg, NJ; grandchildren, Rebecca, Rachel, Danielle, Jessica, Zachary, and Alexander; sister, Elizabeth wife of John Parise of Fountain Hill; Companion, Ellen Fehnel. He was predeceased by a sister, Helen Coachys. Services: Funeral Services Friday, April 13, 2012 at 10:30 a.m. in Schantz Funeral Home, P.C., 250 Main St., Emmaus, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial in St. Anns Catholic Church, 415 S. 6th St., Emmaus at 11 a.m.. Viewing 9 to 10:30 a.m. in the funeral home. Interment will follow in Calvary Cemetery, Emmaus. Online condolences may be made to www.schantzfh.com Contributions: In lieu of flowers contributions, may be made to the American Cancer Society, 3893 Adler Place, Suite 170, Bethlehem, PA 18017 or to Boy Scouts of America, Minsi Trails Council, 991 Postal Road, Allentown, PA 18109.
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Nick Nicholas
April 4, 2025
Remembering good times together. Bob Nick Nicholas. Rest in peace.
Holding Riley Rae Mills for the first time...undescribable joy and love!
April 4, 2020
Hi Dad,
It's been a while, but since I received my annual reminder from Legacy.com I felt the need to post a short message. I can't believe it's going to be 8 years since I said goodbye to you.
Ironically, Lisa and I were speaking about you and Mom this morning. Lisa made me Palatschinkes for the first time this morning and they were fantastic. It brought back the memory and story (which I spoke) of the ONLY time Mom made you Palatschinkes and how excited you were when you came home and smelled them. But when you saw them and that they curled up like canoes you told her to throw them away...your mistake since she never made them for you again...LOL!
Our beautiful granddaughter (your 2nd great grandchild) is 3 weeks old today and I'm sure you and Mom are smiling for Becky and Justin--prayers truly do get answered!
Love and miss you Pop!
David
Jean Pierre Azar
April 4, 2020
So many great memories of you Jules. Too many to list but still thinking about you and your family I grew up with. Thanks for the memories.
What a beautiful view!
April 23, 2019
Good Morning Dad,
It's very early on day 3 of our family vacation in Lake Lure, NC...and it's absolutely beautiful! Our entire family (even 2 of our dogs) are all here...and you and Mom are too...wonderful yellow Monarch butterflies are everywhere we go! We spent all day on the lake yesterday...I rented a pontoon boat. Not five minutes after we left the dock, a yellow butterfly nearly landed on my shoulder as I captained us out to open water...just the perfect start to a perfect day!
Thanks for being here with us!
Love You!
David
Can't wait to hold my grandson again!
April 11, 2019
Hi Dad,
I've been thinking of you so often this week. Please watch over our family and pray for safe travels when we will all be reunited in N. Carolina. We are all very excited for our family vacation. Put in a word with "Mother Nature" to bless us with some sunny weather as we have lots of outdoor plans.
Love You Always,
David
J.D. meets his great grand Aunt Liz for the first time!
December 27, 2018
Merry Christmas Dad! I know it's been a while since I posted a message, but you know how often I still think of and pray for you. We had a beautiful family gathering at our house about 2 weeks ago. Love and laughter filled our home to join with the joy of the Christmas season. Many times I could see you and Mom there with us. It was wonderful to have Rachel and our grandson Jeffrey David there with us as well. Unfortunately, we couldn't have our ENTIRE family there for one reason or another. However, since I couldn't get a picture of you holding your great grandson, I had to use the next best thing--your beautiful sister and J.D.'s great grand Aunt! Continue to watch over us in 2019, especially loved ones who are truly in need of your prayers and blessings.
All My Love & Your Proud Son,
David
JLOYS...IBTA!!
June 12, 2018
Hi Pop,
What a beautiful day June 8th has now become for Shane and Rachel and our families. Jeffrey David Leedy entered the world 8 weeks early...4lbs and 16 1/2 inches. Lisa and I now start another wonderful chapter of our journey through life...we are grandparents. Continue to watch over all of us and I ask for your special prayers for your first great grandchild and his parents.
Your Proud Son...and New Pop Pop!
David
May 25, 2018
Hi Pop,
I'm going to be doing a little trout fishing in Northampton tomorrow morning. I'll be thinking of you as it would've been "The Big 8-0" birthday for you. I promise to have a drink in your honor...but only if you have one with me from up above.
Your Loving and Proud Son,
David
Forever in our hearts!
March 18, 2018
Hi Dad,
Our dear daughter Danielle sent me a text and a picture this morning to remind me that it was 6 years ago today...the Pandl family's "Last Supper". I can't believe it's been that long already. You continue to live on in all of our hearts and I know a piece of you grows in the heart of your great grandchild who we will soon welcome lovingly into this world.
All my love Dad...your proud son,
David
Merry Christmas Dad...Love You!
January 4, 2018
Hi Dad,
I thought of you often over the holidays as that will never change. What wonderful news that Lisa and I will be grandparents in 2018 as Becky and Rachel are both with child. I close my eyes and can picture you bouncing your great grandchildren on your knee while singing "Pony Boy" or making them laugh teaching them the "Topnotcher" song. I'm certain I'll feel you with me as I take on that beautiful responsibility. Continue to watch over all of us with your love and pray for our health and happiness throughout the year.
Your Loving & Proud Son,
David
P.S. It's only been "smokeless" day #4, but with your help I feel strong and confident that this time...it's FOREVER!
November 22, 2017
Hi Dad,
I'm pretty sure that I'll never stop thinking of and missing you as much as I do at this time of the year...holiday season. I'm just so very thankful for the time we had, the love we shared, and the many wonderful memories we made.
Your Son,
David
With love and prayers in our hearts.
September 7, 2017
Hi Dad,
Thanks for all the little "reminders" you've sent my way lately...I truly love and appreciate them. As I've asked Mom, I ask the same of you...please watch over our loved ones in Florida and pray for them to stay safe and free from any fear or harm.
Your Proud & Loving Son,
David
Thinking of you...with pride in my heart!
April 29, 2017
Hi Dad,
Just a quick entry to let you know that I finally finished and put up a flag pole in my yard. It's something I wanted to do for a long time. Since I finished it, every time I look at it...I think of you. I can hear the pride in your voice telling me, "Great job son...it looks wonderful!"
Your Loving and Proud Son,
David
April 9, 2017
Hi Dad:
It's so hard to believe that five years has already passed by. So much of life is taken for granted every day and it's not until you lose someone that you have to remember to embrace every moment you have with all your loved ones. I don't know why, but for some reason yesterday was a difficult one for me. I believe it was because the sun was shining down just like it was the day I said goodbye to you. I don't want to just remember that day though because there are so many other wonderful memories to hold on to. So as I sit here thinking of you and remembering those fond memories, I want to thank you for all the laughs we had together, the few arguments we struggled thru, and most of all, the love you shared with me and my family.
I love you Dad,
Lynn
Love & miss you Dad!
April 8, 2017
I sat in my garage this evening and looked at the framed picture of you and the lyrics from Rascal Flatts I made. I decided to play "My Wish" on the CD while looking at the picture. While it played, I glanced up and noticed the wood plaque you gave to Lisa and I when we camped together in Tennessee...just another one of SO MANY great memories!!!
Your Son,
David
Trout fishing in NJ...but thinking of you Dad!
April 8, 2017
My wish for my family too!!!
April 8, 2017
Hi Dad,
What a beautiful day it was today. Opening day of trout season in New Jersey. I went fishing with my best friend Mike Smith and his son Michael at Wickecheoke Creek. The bad news is we didn't see or catch any fish. The good news is that I thought of you all morning. I was doing pretty good until about 9:09AM when your grand daughter Rachel text me and said, "Can't believe it's been five years today without Pop. So much has happened in these past five years that I wish he was here for. Miss him every day. Love you so much daddy! J.L.O.Y.S. and I.B.T.A.!" I got her text at a perfect time when I was sitting by myself on a large rock at the creek just enjoying nature's sounds and thinking of all the great times we had. Well, I'm sure it comes as no surprise that I read her message and broke down in tears. I'll leave it at that...but the warm sun on my face was all I needed to let me know that you were up in heaven and shining some warmth down on me and into my heart. I love you Dad...and I will always miss you, but I will forever cherish every great time and memory we shared together. Please watch over and pray for me tomorrow and next Sunday as I have to read The Passion and the Easter Sunday Readings at our parish...St. Andrew's Church. Please fill my heart with happiness as I always find Easter to be so difficult. Although it is the most glorious day of our Lord's Resurrection and the day on which both you and Mom were called by Christ to join him in heaven, I struggle to find joy, peace, and happiness on Easter. I know my heart will be heavy as I will be thinking of you and Mom...Deeply Missed and Forever Loved!
Always and Forever...
Your Loving and Proud Son,
David
March 22, 2017
Hi Dad,
I can hear the final words we spoke to each other 5 years ago today at Camp Serranova...it seems like only yesterday.
I sure do miss you Dad, but the many great memories continue to bring peace to my heart and a smile to my face.
Your Proud Son,
David
I know you'll always be there, if I just believe!
December 24, 2016
Hi Pop,
This year I did something new and played Christmas music on my boom-box while I decorated the house. It was the perfect addition to get me in the holiday mood. There were several songs that made me smile as I could swear you were standing next to me...singing with me! I could hear your voice and feel your presence. Thanks Dad for all the wonderful Christmas days and memories. May you always know that your love was the best gift you could've ever given me.
Merry Christmas,
Your Loving and Proud Son,
David
The handsome and beautiful Mr. and Mrs. Shane Leedy!
October 15, 2016
Hi Dad,
Well...two down and one to go! What an epic wedding day it was...so much love, joy, and happiness! As if I didn't feel your presence with me enough that day, my sister in-law Lois said this to me after I struggled through the tears to make my toast, "Oh my God David...I could hear, see, and feel your Dad in you." Just when I thought I had no more tears of joy to shed, hearing her words truly meant the world to me and they were so true! Thanks Pop for always being there with me...forever my "Best Man"!
Your Loving and Proud Son,
David
Our Wish for You
I went for a short walk this morning
The coolest since my arrival in Punta Gorda
Absolutely wonderful memories flooded my mind
How my life has been so blessed by our good Lord
What have I done to deserve such wonderful things
A loving and caring wife by my side
Three fantastic children who fill me with pride
And one who is today's most beautiful bride
As if that isn't enough and more than I should get
God has given me another reward as part of his plan
He's filled my daughter's heart with love and happiness
Another son for meand for her lifethe perfect man
If you are ever blessed with a son
And no matter what Mother Nature deals you
Just please do us all one big favor
For God sakedon't name him Matthew
ShaneI must admit that at first I thought you were a bit rough around the edges
One of those quiet and geeky kind of guys
But I quickly learned to look past all that
When I saw the special twinkle you put in my daughter's eyes
Getting use to your crazy and colorful fashions
I must admit that it took me quite a while
But I've grown to admire and respect your outfits
And today I just consider them, Shane's style
Our common interest in music and playing guitar
Are one of the reasons the Man Cave rocks so loud
The only thing I wish to make louder and clearer is this
Having you as a son in-law makes me so very proud
How could I as her father deny your request
Although that day I gave you a piece of my heart
It wasn't just my blessing for her hand in marriage
We confirmed a family of which you became a part
In June of 2014, there was another special young man
Who became my first official in-law son
But truth be known that years before he came into my life
I already felt and considered you in-law son number one
I've seen your love grow for nearly a decade
But as I walked her to were you stood to become one
I finally realized something important
I wasn't losing a daughterI was gaining a son
If you don't remember a word that I say to you now
Please just remember this special lesson in life
If you ever want or need to keep something a secret
You can NEVER EVERtell your wife
My beautiful RachelMany years ago when you were very young
My Mom told me, She's gonna pull at your heartstrings
You'll never know the joy and pride you've given us
As we watched you grow and do so many special things
You'll forever be in Mom and I's hearts
And as we age we'll try not to be too needy
But that'll be tough since I walked you in as a Pandl
And then had to watch you walk out as a Leedy
How special it has been to watch it grow
A beautiful bond between sisters since you were little
Out of our three girls, I think you have been like
The sweet white cream in an Oreo's middle
My car is over 6 years old, but it's approaching 200,000 miles
Being an Ursinus field hockey player had something to do with this
But if you were to do it all again
There wouldn't be a game that I would miss
You're so beautiful, but you'll forever be my little tomboy
Some of the crazy things you did were a bit wild
So much laughter and happiness you've given me
They perfect mold and fit for our middle child
As I walked you to Shane
Memories of my life filled my mind
And remembering the part you've played in our family
Will always be the memories of the very best kind
How can I express or explain
The deepest feelings in my heart
Just take a look in my eyes
For in every tear of joy you are a part
A beautiful wedding in every way
Our love for you will forever remain the same
For Mom and I know this truth
The only thing that changesis your last name
No matter what lies ahead or what the future has in store
You know where to find me on your best or toughest days
All you have to do is just look over your shoulder
Until the end of timeI'll be there always
Such a wonderful and loving couple
May time go slow for all your days together
And as today's newlywedsShane and Rachel
May your life and marriage be blessed forever
So raise your glasses for this toast
To this married couple whose love is so true
For decades of joy and happiness
That is Our Wish for You
The future Mr. & Mrs. Shane Leedy
September 26, 2016
Hi Dad,
I certainly couldn't leave you out. Rachel and Shane's Big Day is less than 10 days away. I sure wish my "Best Man" were going to be there to have a drink with me. I will think of you often as that will never change. Your and Mom's pictures are in the slideshows I've prepared. I'm sure they will bring a few tears to the bride-to-be as I'll be wiping my eyes right beside her! Please put in a few good words to "The Big Guy" for safe travels for all who are attending. I'll get the first round...if you promise to join me!
Forever & Always Your Proud Son,
David
"Deeply Missed and Forever Loved"
April 8, 2016
Hi Dad,
Thinking of you in a special way today with much love as I will always do. Especially on this day in April.
Your Loving and Proud Son,
David
P.S. I thought of you so often during the Final 4 games. I'm sure you enjoyed that Villanova game from those "Special Seats" above.
Leona Green
January 20, 2016
Dear Jules,
I had one of the best experiences of my life and you were the first person I wanted to tell. After waiting 26 years, I finally had the opportunity to see a Duke game at Cameron Indoor Stadium. I was one of the Cameron Crazies!!! It didn't matter that Duke lost. I was on Cloud 9 and it was one of the best days ever. I even got into Cameron before the game, saw all the championship banners, sat in Coach K's chair, and took a few shots. I felt like Dorothy when she entered OZ.
One another note, I have been in touch with Billy McCaffrey and am supposed to "catch up" with him after the basketball season. I'll have to keep you posted.
Leona
Merry Christmas Mom & Dad
December 26, 2015
My Christmas Wish
Yesterday, I stopped by for a visit
And although I didn't stay very long
The warmth of your love in my heart
Your presence with me was so strong
I prayed for your help to make some changes
For you know I've done things you're not proud of
To be a better son, brother, husband, and father
To the many special people who I truly love
I hope and pray with this coming New Year
For the strength to do what must be done
To prove to myself and especially to you
I'm trying my best to be the perfect son
I placed another cross at your place of rest
Every tap of the hammer I felt you by my side
You both placed your hands on my shoulders
I heard your voices which filled me with pride
I have many things to do in twenty sixteen
And I realize they won't happen in a wiz
The first one on the list is to kick the habit
With the help and support of my wonderful Aunt Liz
So I may be busy with what lies ahead
But I know you'll always be with me in your special ways
To continue to love and guide me down life's path
And to give me the strength on my toughest days
I have so many things to be thankful for
A loving family and always food on my dish
But to hold your hands one day in Heaven
Yes, that would be My Christmas Wish
Forever and Always,
Your Loving Son,
David
December 25, 2015
Merry Christmas Dad! Wishing you were here with us, but you'll always be with us in a special way.
Your Proud Son,
David
December 13, 2015
Hi Dad,
I thought you should know that our train is still running...one year later! Although I haven't done much with the display, I still "Believe" you'll be with me when I get back to it. Thinking of and praying for you often...continue to watch over our family over the holidays.
Love you Dad,
David
...and still going strong!!!
August 24, 2015
Hi Dad,
Just wanted to say "Thanks" for all that you taught me in life. A wonderful day today...30 years of marriage to my wonderful wife! It's been quite some time since I've seen that butterfly...but your timing couldn't have been any better...than to be fluttering around my backyard today!
Love you Dad,
David
A place I can always go where you'll be with me in a very special way!
June 17, 2015
Don't Ever Let Me Go
This past weekend I flew solo
On my short road trip to Alburtis
Cranking my music and singing with the bands
In Heaven I'm certaineven you and Mom heard us
A small family gathering at the Unger's
To honor Jessica the York College grad
But all the while I couldn't stop thinking
How much this coming weekI'll be missing you Dad
Soon I'll be surrounded by those who are so dear to me
For today is a special oneyour Son has turned 50
But you know one of my biggest wishes
Would be for you and Mom to be here with me
There's no doubt I'm already feeling your presence
For in my heart the two of you always stay
The wonderful and never-ending memories
Are even more special to me today
We have plans for this weekenda gathering at The Mills
A cookout with family to honor certain men in a special way
Just another time I'll be lovingly thinking of you
As we live, love, and laughand celebrate Father's Day
When I returned from my short road trip
I thought of stopping by yours and Mom's place of rest
To say Hello and to talk and pray with you
But I decided to stop at the spot where I feel your love the best
A very special place where you and I last spoke
I felt your hand in mineI can recall all that you said
I thanked God for blessing me with you as my Father
As I knelt at Our Spot and prayed as I bowed my head
Thanks Dad for all that you've given me in my life
I celebrate the beauty of my childrenalong with my wonderful wife
I'll continue to make you proudjust thought you should know
Continue to watch over meand Don't Ever Let Me Go
Happy Father's Day
Your Loving & Proud Son,
David
May 26, 2015
Happy 77th Dad! I'll be thinking about you today and remembering the many special times we spent together.
David
May 19, 2015
Hi Dad:
On Sunday, I decided it was time to vacuum up the darn whirly birds that fall every year just before it's time to open up the pool. I brought the shop vac outside, plugged it in, and halfway thru, as I was sweating my butt off (which doesn't take much these days), what went fluttering by my head, but the yellow butterfly. I think it was your way of telling me that it's about time I got out there and sucked those darn things up!!!! Seeing that put a big smile on my face and made the remainder of that chore much easier to tolerate. Thanks for visiting me . . . . . it seems that this time of year is when I see you the most. Hey, if you're going to continue this ritual, could you give us a hand opening the pool next weekend???? Love you Dad and see you soon.
Lynn
May 16, 2015
Hi Jessica,
WOW!!! Wish I were there with you and your parents...to do a celebratory shot! All the best to you in your future life...Nurse Unger!
Love you so so much,
Pop
My "Best Man"...My "Best Friend"
April 8, 2015
Hi Dad,
Can it really be 3 years already? Where has the time gone? It seems like only yesterday when we were together...like the last time we sat around the fire in my back yard enjoying a drink and each others company...and always a few laughs! I miss those times...I miss you...yet the wonderful memories always bring a smile to my face.
Easter morning I was driving Holly to the park for a run--a beautiful morning it was. My radio was tuned to a station I rarely ever listen to. I heard Elvis on the radio singing "Love Me Tender". Sure I know it's a love song intended for his female audience, but quite a few of the lyrics had me thinking of you..."never let me go...you have made my life complete...and I love you so...take me to your heart...for it's there that I belong...and we'll never part."
Thanks for the memories and see you around!
Always and Forever...
Your Proud and Loving Son,
David
April 8, 2015
Good Morning Dad,
It is hard to believe that you are gone 3 years already. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about you and Mom. I hope you are taking good care of her. Saturday at Julie's we all missed you two so much. I watched the NCAA Men's basketball championship Monday night and kept looking at the picture of you with your Duke sweatshirt on. We had so many good time with all of our basketball games. Remember how much I love You.
Love,
Cindy
January 11, 2015
Hi Dad,
Today's Gospel reading from the book of Mark certainly had me thinking of you as it was one that I read to you at your bedside Easter morning just before you left me (for a while). I couldn't fight back the tears, especially when it came to the final verse, "And a voice came from heaven: “You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased.”
Whether it's you or God, please continue to speak to my heart.
Your Loving and Proud Son,
David
Merry Christmas from your children!
December 26, 2014
Of course, I needed to post this picture to your Guest Book as well.
"Trains move quickly"...if you just BELIEVE!
December 25, 2014
Hi Dad,
I've been wanting to post something since the 14th, but I thought I'd save it all up for Christmas. I finally got around to doing something that I've wanted to do for quite a few years...I resurrected YOUR Lionel train set from when you were a young boy. I put together a basic display in my garage with a simple oval track and some cottages and a few accessories (for now). The BIG test came when it was time to put the engine on the track and see if it would run. At first, I could hear that it was getting power and the light on the front was illuminated...but it would not move...forward or backward. So I did some
basic cleaning, applied a bit of oil here and there, and checked to see if it was something easy I could fix...but still no movement. Then I tried to give the engine a "helping hand" both forward and backward...it lurched for a second...then stopped. Then, a beautiful Christmas song came on the radio...one of my very favorites. I turned and looked at your picture and said, "Come on Dad...I BELIEVE this thing will run...if you just give me a little help here." At almost the exact point in the song were the lyrics say,
"Trains move quickly..." the engine magically began to roll...and she's been running ever since!
Joy filled my heart Dad...it will forever be at the top of my greatest Christmas memories! I plan to put some work into "our" train display as it has rekindled the kid in me. I remember the wonderful train and slot car MEGA display you helped me put together in your basement before it was finished. I remember how you often took me to the tire company (wish I could remember the name) on 7th Street and in the back was all their AFX and Tyco slot car gear...and you'd buy me whatever car I wanted...another great memory!
Merry Christmas Dad...with so much love and pride!
Your Son,
David
November 28, 2014
Happy Thanksgiving...you big turkey!
Sure would've loved to go to a few HS football games with you this fall...and of course to "The Rail" afterwards!
Miss and Love You...Your Proud Son,
David
rachel pandl
October 13, 2014
Hey there pop pop,
been going through some rough times at work, doing a lot of thinking on my way home and I can always feel your presence. Its brought a tear to my eye a few times now. I truly miss you pop pop. Played last weekend at west Chester.. Scored the only goal. I'm sure you were there watching with your son, just a different seat. Him and I miss you more than you can imagine.
A day doesn't go by that I don't think of you. I always wonder if you know how much I loved you and adore ya pop. Choosing my college blanket to cover you always is something that will be with me the rest of my life.
I love you always.
"The Gang" is back togther again!
September 11, 2014
Hi Dad,
Well, I recently heard that the "final" angel has rejoined the gang. The "3 J's" and their wives are now together once again...what a party it must be up there in heaven. Although I am certainly in no hurry as I have so much to do and live for here in this life, I can't wait for the day when I see you and Mom again...and I know and believe it will come!
Fill my mind and my heart with your love so that I may do and say all the right things that would make you proud.
I love you Dad...Your Proud Son,
David
Me & My Baby Girl...
August 31, 2014
Hi Dad,
I just wanted to say "Thanks" for everything you did for me during our lives together. For providing me with the opportunity to help our daughters' with special events in their lives and to help make their dreams come true! Please watch over our baby girl in Florida and our home in New Jersey. It looks like things will be a lot quieter by the end of September as Lisa and I will have an empty nest...except for Holly of course!
I love you Dad and I still miss you dearly, but think of you often with love in my heart.
Your Proud Son,
David
August 14, 2014
Hi Dad,
Boy...I sure could use your love and grace. Speak to my heart and help me to always be a better man, husband, father, and brother.
Your Proud Son,
David
August 2, 2014
Dear Dad,
Please place your hands on the shoulders of your good friends Dick and Nancy to let them know that Brian has joined you in heaven...so they will know that he is alright and they will see him again.
Your Proud Son,
David
Mr. & Mrs. Justin Mills - June 21, 2014
June 23, 2014
And here's a picture of the newly weds!
Love you Dad,
David
Becky and me dancing in Texas...I know how you and Mom loved to dance!
June 23, 2014
Hi Dad,
The only thing that could've made this weekend more beautiful and special, would've been to have you, and Mom, and my father in-law Al there with us in person. I now get to experience a whole new joy and pride in my life...a man's voice that calls me Dad. Since the wedding, Justin has already taken our relationship as faher and now son in-law to an even more special level. Hearing him call me "Dad" makes me think of you every time so far. I will also leave you (for now) with another special picture and the speech and poem I wrote to Justin and Rebecca for my toast.
Your loving and proud son (who now has a son of his own),
David
“I Do”
As you start your married life together
A piece of Mom and Dad's heart is torn
For a parent's love is something so deep
Especially when you are your parents' first born
A knight from an Indiana Jones movie
Quoted the line, “You have chosen wisely”
I think the same can be said of you both
And may your love grow as fast as ivy (not the poison kind)
Lately, I've looked at thousands of pictures
Of life…both past and present
I can't think of a better and brighter future
Then the one with the two of you in it
I can already picture some of your nights
Cuddling on the couch and watching TV
Enjoying a glass of wine and each other's company
And I'm certain the movie will be a Disney
Never forget those you've loved and lost
For they'll always watch over you from above
The special angels who will guide you
And forever fill your hearts with love
Justin…I'm certain you will help fill the void
Left by the loss of my dear Dad
I hope to share the same wonderful relationship
With you…that him and I always had
You asked for my permission and blessing
For my beautiful daughter's hand in marriage
You promised to always care for and cherish her
Just remember to take turns…pushing the baby carriage
Stay humble, faithful, and true
Never be misled by any badge or gun
For being a loving husband and proud father
Will always be second to none
My Dear Rebecca…Born in the little town of Baerum, Norway
You were the first of three Air Force brats
I'm sure it'll come as no surprise that today's slideshows
Have plenty of music by the band Rascal Flatts
You've filled our lives with endless joy and pride
For twenty-six years Mom and I have watched you grow
Please understand our tears and mixed emotions
Because it is so difficult for us…to let you go
May you always know how dear you are
A beautiful woman both out and inside
Although you will start a new journey
In our hearts forever you'll be…the most beautiful bride
You'll always be our loving daughter
But mom and I are even more proud and glad
For as of today a wonderful young man
Becomes the son that her and I never had
You've been such a great big sister
For the two that came after you
Stay as close as you have forever
For they've got your back too
Be a wonderful and caring wife
And understanding to your man in blue
Be a perfect role model for your children
Just like your mother showed you to
I may have given Justin your hand
But the good Lord gave you two you see
I'll never be far from your side
Always ready to hold the other…is me
She lovingly takes your surname
Pandl is replaced with Mills
This makes my heart leap for joy
For now you have to pay all her bills
No matter where your journey takes you
You'll never be alone for you will know
Your life's partner will be at your side
To hold your hand wherever you go
May your years ahead be so blessed
And your guiding light always stay true
Days filled with sunshine and laughter
And children…I'm hoping, at least, for two
So as you begin your life together as one
May we all stand and toast this couple so new
Always remember the special vows you took
Forever bound together by 2 simple words…“I Do”
To Justin and Rebecca
June 17, 2014
Hi Pop,
I wrote Mom a poem, but I would fall short if I didn't also send you my love on my special day. After all...it takes two to make one!
All my unending love to you...
Your Proud Son,
David
June 15, 2014
Dear Dad,
Just a short note to tell you how MUCH I miss you...and think of you so often!
A very "Happy Father's Day"
To my Best Man...and Best Friend
My day was filled with wonderful memories
For my love for you will never end
Only 6 days until the wedding
What a very special day
I know you and Mom will be there
To say "I Love You" in a special way
Thinking of you on such a wonderful day
And wishing you were here with me
To just hold my hand and to talk
It's my heart...but you hold the key
Forever Loving You,
David
June 15, 2014
Happy Father's Day Dad. I hope you're enjoying your special day. . . . But not too much! Miss you dearly and think of you often.
Love,
Lynn
June 13, 2014
Happy Anniversary Dad! Keep on jitterbuggin' with Mom!
Your Proud Son,
David
May 27, 2014
Hi Dad,
I simply ask the same of you...as I did of Mom.
Your Proud Son,
David
Keep Dancing Mom & Dad
May 26, 2014
"The Spirit of 76"
May 26th of 2014
A special day of the year
Grillin' some burgers and dogs
Enjoying an ice cold beer
They call it "Memorial Day"
As a vet I should be glad
What makes me even happier
Are the memories of you Dad
Today is normally a day
When I'm honored with pride
But it's me who is proud
To have walked by your side
It's a beautiful morning
So too is the love we shared
The many thoughts I have of you
I know you always cared
As I type out these words
Sending you this birthday wish
Feeling your love in my heart
For it's "The Spirit of 76"
Your Proud Son Forever,
David
P.S. Go have a dance with Mom!!!
May 11, 2014
Hey Pop,
Do me a BIG favor...give that wonderful Mom of mine a hug and kiss from me...and tell her I love her dearly!
Your Proud Son,
David
April 30, 2014
Hi Dad,
Just wanted to let you know that I've been thinking about you a lot lately as well. The deep and true love that you and Mom shared has now been rekindled in Heaven for truly what God has joined, no man or woman can ever separate!
Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace...Amen.
Your Loving & Proud Son,
David
Julie Unger
April 8, 2014
Hey Pop,
Just because I have written for quite sometime, not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I can't believe that it's been 2 years already but it just doesn't get any easier having to live life without you. We all love and miss you very much.
Please continue to watch over us and keep us safe.
I love you Dad.
Julie
April 8, 2014
Hi Dad,
I'll be thinking of and praying for you on this special "remembrance" day. I can't believe it's been 2 years already. At times it seems like just yesterday and then there are those times when I really miss you that it seems like an eternity. I find it a bit ironic that Becky and Justin's wedding day is just 73 days from today...the same as your age when you left us. I know you'll be with us on that day...no keeping you from a big celebration like that! Please continue to be our guardian angel watching over our family.
Your Son,
David
CINDY PANDL
April 8, 2014
Good Morning Dad,
It is so hard to believe that it is 2 years that your are gone already.There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about or miss you.
Love, Cindy
March 27, 2014
Hey Pop pop. Just sitting at work late at night, miss you dearly! Things are going pretty well, and things seem to be getting better with work. Another Easter coming up, don't know if that Holiday will ever get easier without you. Love you very much!
Rachel
March 25, 2014
“Time Cannot Erase”
Another year has past
Since you and I spoke last
Your voice is still so clear
And I feel you are near
You touch my soul
From within my dreams
Only a breath away
That's how it seems
Your memory won't die
For in every tear I cry
A piece of you is there
From the life we did share
It was harder this year
The second one without you
A proud son I've remained
To my word I am true
Before you left for heaven
You stayed in the House of Devon
My father and my friend
I held your hand near the end
My heart will never let go
For in every mirror I see your face
So many wonderful memories
“Time cannot erase”
February 9, 2014
Watching the winter Olympics' figure skating competition last night, I couldn't help but think of you and smile...Shleggy Pemfleck!! Oh the funny names you came up with...what a Dorgy Coznonovitch. I went skiing myself last weekend...first time in 26 years...this "kid" still got it! Lisa and I had a great time with Rachel and Shane. Miss you pop and still think of you so very often.
Love you,
David
January 19, 2014
Dad,
The last few times I've spoken to mom she sounded very positive. She also said that she's praying often and she even mentioned God several times. I can't tell you how happy this makes me and I'm not sure if you had anything to do with it...but I thought I'd say "Thanks" anyway.
Love you,
Your Proud Son
November 25, 2013
Hi Dad,
As Thanksgiving and Christmas approach, I find myself thinking of you more often. Please watch over our families during the holidays and know that I will surely be thinking of and missing you.
Your proud son,
David
October 31, 2013
Hey there Pop. Last week a girl on our team showed me her Grandpa sitting on the sideline for one of our big games and said "He's at every game." I told her that mine was there too, it almost made me tear up. Being around field hockey again always makes me think of you just because I know how much you loved to watch me play. Keep watching over us and keep us in good health with the holidays coming up.
I love you very much pop!
Rachel
September 28, 2013
Hi Dad,
On my drive home from work the other day, a good song came on the radio that reminded me of you. Shortly after it began, a truck came up beside me that brought a few tears to my eyes. I know you're out there watching over me. Thanks...always loving and missing you.
David
P.S. We had a nice family get-together and picnic at Camp Serranova 2 weeks ago to mark the one anniversary of the Pandl Pavilion dedication. I surely felt your presence...I could still hear the words that you spoke to me on our last trip there together.
August 13, 2013
Hey pop. Been thinking about you a lot lately. Started a new job coaching. Thinking about coming to visit you soon and talk to you. I need your strength lately. Love you very much. Please watch over me.
July 11, 2013
Hi Dad,
I've been meaning to post this picture and comment for a few weeks...better late than never.
Our "baby" Danielle has graduated from high school and is enjoying her summer very much. She's registered to start college this fall at Burlington County College. Please continue to watch over her as she starts the next chapter in her life.
I thought the first year without you would be the hardest. However, our Open House wasn't the same without you physically there...a first for a family function at our Columbus home. I'm quickly realizing that this year may be even tougher...trying to accept the fact that you are truly gone...that when my phone rings and I answer...it won't be your voice that I long to hear on the other end.
I still think of you so often...so many things that I see, hear, and do cause wonderful memories to flood my mind. I pray they never end...until I see you again.
Your Loving Son,
David
P.S. May you keep a "special watch" over Debbie and Ed as they mourn the loss of a loved one...Ed's mother, Grace. Our prayers and thoughts are with them and may you and Aunt Helen welcome Grace into the eternal light of Heaven!
June 16, 2013
I will see them every time I take Holly for a walk at the park. They will remind me of you as it was my honor to call you Dad.
June 16, 2013
I always thought there would only be one place my name would ever be engraved in stone. However, my wonderful children surprised me with a very special gift for Father's Day and my birthday. Now I too have a special marker which bears my name. The stones are along a pathway named "Walk of Honor" as part of the Veterans Memorial in our town's park. I sure thought of you many times today Dad. Thank you for being my best friend and the best father a son could ever have.
Happy Father's Day,
David
June 16, 2013
Happy Father's Day Pop pop! We love and miss you lots<3
May 27, 2013
Happy Birthday Dad.
I want you to know that I kept my promise and planted all the flowers in the yard for you. They look so beautiful and I thought of you as I planted each one. I'm sure you and the boys are celebrating your big "75" today. Watch out for the glass curio cabinets!!!!! Love you and miss you very much.
Lynn
May 26, 2013
Hi Sweetie,
Spring has arrived and I have been busy out in the yard. Last year I had the front walks relaid. This spring I made flower beds on both sides. I remember you like flowers.
I miss you Sweetie. If I could take all my tears that I have cried for missing you, they would be as deep as the ocean.
Today is your birthday. My gift to you for eternity is the ring you placed on my finger and I wear everyday to show my devotion to the world the endless love I have for you.
Sweetie, gather all your friends and celebrate this day, your birthday.
Love,
Ellen
May 26, 2013
Happy 75th Birthday Dad!
Just a short note to say "Thanks" for the beautiful reminder the other day--I know you're watching over me and that you are truly in Heaven. I think of you often...the love and many great memories we shared.
Your Proud Son,
David
May 17, 2013
Hey Pop. In all of a week I have graduated from college and turned 22. Missed you last week but knew you were there the whole time. On the ursinus website is a picture of me in my cap... at the bottom it says Pop. I love you so very much. I miss you everyday.
May 11, 2013
“Class of 2013”
How can I show you
The pride in my heart
Or the riches I have
Although we are apart
Today was so wonderful
A great memory for my age
As your beautiful granddaughter
Walked across the stage
Another received her degree
In a house filled with fools
Yet one thing was missing
Her Pop…Jules Tools
But you were there
In a cap and a gown
And you held her hand
As she walked on down
She felt your presence
She knew you were there
You stood beside her
Your favorite Ursinus Bear
A beautiful day
One filled with much love
Only completed
With your presence from above
Her cap “Beared” your name
“Pop” was written on top
A beautiful tribute
For a love that won't stop
To a man in her life
She loves with all her heart
And forever carries that with her
On the journey she'll now start
A good man she has chosen
To stand by her side
If I am to set her free
I will wish her the best ride
So continue to watch over her
An angle on her wing
You graduated life in the “Class of 2012”
But she graduated a Bear…
In the “Class of 2013”
April 21, 2013
Relay For Life was last night. Couldn't stop crying once I saw the bag with your name on it that I bought for you. All my laps were for you last night Pop
Rachel
April 8, 2013
It's hard to believe
It was one year ago
When the Lord called your name
To the “Promised Land” you did go
So many memories I've had
In the year since you've passed
Countless smiles and tears
For my love will forever last
My first pro baseball game
You took me to “The Vet”
Where I saw many Hall of Famers
A trip with you I'll never forget
In the driveway shooting hoops with you
Just me and the neighborhood boys
Or sticking M80's in the dumper
Of my favorite Tonka Toys
That week in Arizona
When we rafted the Grand Canyon
What a wonderful time we had
For I was a barely a man then
I'm sure I tested your patience and love
For as a teen I was a bit wild
But you always stood behind me…
As you told mom, “He's a good son”
Then you looked at me and smiled
You were the Best Man at my wedding
In your pocket, our rings somehow stuck together
Although we did panic trying to pull them apart
It was a sign that my marriage would be forever
No matter where the Air Force took me
You traveled far and wide to visit us
So many great times with you, mom, and my family
In Norway, Texas, Michigan, Picatinny, McGuire, and Columbus
Your grandchildren will always remember you being there
To watch them sing, act, graduate, or play their favorite sport
Your love of athletic competition…like when you took me to see
Eddie Feigner…and “The King and His Court”
I was jamming in my “Man Cave”
Just the other night
My music and guitar were quite loud
That's when it came into sight
It was the most unique looking butterfly
But to me, I really didn't care
For it was your special way to remind me
That you will always be there
Your bracelet is worn on my left wrist
A silent way to remind me to pray
I have no plans to remove it
And there it will always stay
These words just seem to come to me
I simply put them into rhyme
But instead of more poetry
I wish we would've had more time
For you were not only my Dad
You were truly my Best Friend
If only I stayed a few more minutes
I could have held your hand at the end
But I asked the Lord to take you
That Easter morning…before noon
Although He answered my prayer
My heart was broken far too soon
To see you there…so peaceful and still
Your forehead I kissed
Although it was God's will…you'll always remain
“Forever Loved…Deeply Missed”
I think of you so often Dad…I miss you.
I will always remain proud to be your son.
Continue to watch over all of us as we make our journey.
Until we meet again, when I can hold your hand…
In Heaven.
Your Loving Son,
David
April 8, 2013
Pop,
It's amazing that it's been one year already. It's just simply not the same without you. A few nights ago I sat down to watch the first Phillies game. I couldn't help but think of you after every pitch. On the Saturday before Easter, my Mom, Alex, and I stopped by to see you. We all said what we had to say, and we got back in the car to go celebrate Easter with the wonderful family that you helped create. On the car ride there, I couldn't stop thinking about you, and I started to wonder why, because you weren't always the most polite or friendliest person in the world, and then it hit me. I couldn't stop thinking about you because you are my Grandfather, my one and only. You were always there for me, and I know that you still are today. As I was sitting around the campfire on Friday night, I was just wondering how much more amazing it would be if you were sitting right there with us. Then I thought to myself, why am I sitting here, thinking about what could have been, when I can be reminiscing about the wonderful times we had, like our first trip to camp Serranova together, seeing you at my first baseball and football games, or even just spending some quality time with you, my Grandfather. So I just wanted to let you know that I'm still thinking about you every single day, and that I won't stop until the day that we meet again.
From you Grandson,
Zach
April 8, 2013
Hey Pop pop. Been tearing here and there this morning as I think about this day last year. Saw it only fitting that I try a poem of my own for you. Love you
I still remember it clearly,
this day you left us last year.
Although it was hard to endure
It was something I always feared.
You never wanted to miss a game,
My very own number one fan.
The passion you shared burns inside me,
I know it was all part of your plan.
The absence of your embrace,
and memories I will always save
If there's one thing you truly taught me
it was to always be brave.
A video from Freshmen year
Let's me replay your voice,
Your sweet tone and vibrato
Allows me to rejoice.
You chose my school blanket,
to cover you as you sleep
I can't express how much that meant to me
It's a memory I will always keep.
As I choke back my tears,
I don't think the pain of losing you can stop.
You meant so much to me,
I truly miss and love you Pop.
Love Rachel-Rachel
April 8, 2013
Good Morning Dad,
It was one year ago today that God took you to your final resting place. It is so hard to believe you are gone 1 year already and I still miss you so much but I know you are in a much better place. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you and wish you were still with us. I am moving into the Borough of Emmaus this week to the Meadows by Mom and how I wish you were here to visit me and my new motif. Please watch over me as I start a new chapter in my life. I Love and miss you very much.
Your Daughter Cindy
April 7, 2013
April 8, 2012 - "Your Last Breath"
I awoke on that day
just the same as any other
no idea of how the day would unfold
it started with a text from my brother.
At 9:50 AM on Easter morning
David let us know
he was sitting with you praying
as your face had a certain glow.
As Bill and I got ready
to go spend Easter with his family
we decided to go to Phoebe first
after picking up our fruit medley.
We walked into your room
to find Aunt Liz by your side
It was hard to fight back the tears
it was close to the end of your "ride".
The nurse came in to tell us
that you would leave us within the next day
so I left your room to make phone calls
to let everyone know your were on your way.
Within minutes, Bill came out your door
and told me to come back in
he said it was happening
and that on your face was a grin.
I approached your side
and took your hand in mine
I told you it was ok to let go
and leave your family behind.
With my head on your chest
and my hands holding you tight
I felt you take your last breath
before your wings took flight.
What I have now
are memories that we've shared
with a father that I loved
and for whom deeply I cared.
So each night before sleep
I lay down and I pray
for you to keep us all safe
until I hold your hand again one day.
After a whole year, that day is still so fresh in my mind. I miss you so much dad, and I think of you every day.
Thank you for touching my life and for loving me.
I love you Dad -
Lynn
March 29, 2013
Hi Dad:
It was a year ago today that you had your last visit to the home where all your children were raised. I remember wheeling you into the house and showing you the changes we made to the dining room and how happy you were to be there. Just as David would say, "what I wouldn't give to spend another day like that with you". I can still see you taking a bite of that super frank hot dog and the smile it put on your face - almost as though it was the first time you ever tasted it. We all miss you and can't believe it is coming up on a year without you already. I love you, Dad.
Happy Easter,
Lynn
March 22, 2013
“A Special Time with You”
It was a beautiful morning
I showed up around nine
You hadn't a clue
Where I was taking you this time
You were ready to go
We traveled together
The Lord surely blessed us
With perfect road-trip weather
Our trip was not long
For the destination wasn't far
We even had our own driver
In a van from LifeStar
Soon you would figure out
Just where we were going
Those wooded back country roads
You were the best at knowing
We arrived at the camp
That's when we broke down in tears
Our first time back together
In far too many years
We talked about your signs
As we made our way in
And the time we got drunk
On a bottle of good gin
We parked by the lake
I had another surprise
Fresh Emmaus Bakery donuts
You should've seen the look in your eyes
We laughed and we talked
As we enjoyed our treat
The sun was warm
My wish was complete
You told me you loved me
More proud than I could know
How you wished we had more time
But knew you would soon go
At times I really struggle
Without you in my life
Nobody realizes this more
Then my dear loving wife
I won't think of you less
Although you should know
I must be moving on
But I'll never let you go
You are not really gone
For you live inside of me
A special place in my heart
Forever there you will be
We didn't stay long
But no words were more true
Than the final time we spoke
That “Special Time with You”
Your Loving Son,
David
March 18, 2013
Hi Dad,
One year ago today, we shared our last Pandl family dinner with you. Many times I've looked at those pictures we took…never knowing then just how soon it would be until you were gone. I still miss you so much and would give almost anything…for one more day with you.
I'm certain I will be visiting your guest book several times over the next few weeks as you continue to fill my heart with thoughts and memories...that I simply put into words.
Your Proud Son,
David
February 18, 2013
Hey Pop pop. Feel like when I get frustrated with work at school I always come to post something on your guest book. Guess it always makes me feel better. I love and miss you very much! Keep watching over me as I finish my last three months at college! Love you.. wish you were here everyday.
February 15, 2013
Hi Dad:
A very vivid memory came back to me last night in my dreams. Can you recall what you were doing on February 14, 2000???? I can. You and 3 other barber shop buddies arrived at my work, with a rose in hand and serenaded a few beautiful songs to me. I don't think I ever told you this, but you made my day by doing that. I was going thru a rough time in my life, and you found the perfect way to lift me up. You were my own little "special valentine" that day and I will never forget the warmth you brought to me.
I love you Dad and there isn't a day that goes by, when I drive by that damn hospital, that memories of your smiling face coming flooding over me.
Lynn
PS - Thank you so much for the strings you pulled for our Mom. I am always amazaed at how your presence comes to us.
February 13, 2013
Hi Sweetie,
This is a special day for special people and couples. A year has past when I gave you a Valentine singing and dancing heart at your bedside.
My Sweetie, love is like your favorite cologne or perfume. You cannot pour onto others without getting a few drops on yourself. So my Sweetie, it is a great honor for me to have embraced your drops and make my everyday smell like Roses.
Thank you for being my Valentine for ever.
Love Ellen
February 3, 2013
Tonight the white snow falls so gently,
Like an angel's tears from above.
Could it be because the one who gave us life,
Has forgotten the meaning of true love.
My heart feels so cold and heavy,
As I stand out in the snow.
Wishing that a wonderful woman,
Could know how I love her so.
I don't wish for any of her treasures,
For no riches can replace,
A few more years with her,
To see and touch her loving face.
Such joy I've felt this day,
As our first-born chose her wedding gown.
But to not have you there…
To watch me walk her down the aisle,
Would certainly bring me down.
I love you so dearly,
As do all your children.
To think of life without you,
I can't even begin.
This one is not for you, Dad,
But I'm asking you to pray.
For our Mom who has decided,
She no longer wants to stay.
Her life could be so wonderful,
If she could only forget the past.
And live on in the present,
For our love will forever last.
I'm not ready to say good-bye,
I'm not even over loosing you.
Although my faith has helped me,
To sustain me…and pull me through.
We all have our faults…and short-comings,
We're not perfect as you can see.
If only she could realize this,
A better world it would be.
My Mom and Dad showed me,
Though I never claimed to be the greatest son,
How the love between a man and a women,
Can transform two into one.
For what God has joined together,
No man can separate.
So if she is to leave us,
Please be there to embrace her…
As she walks through heaven's gate.
Pop and his 5 kids!
January 31, 2013
I wanted to attach this picture to my previous message Pop, but unfortunately I am not as computer savy as my brother when it comes to all this technical stuff! However, I was able to figure it out after giving it my best shot.
So, here it is, a picture of you and your 5 kids.
We will never forget you and the many great times we had!
Your loving children!!!
January 31, 2013
I haven't been to your book in awhile,
oh how we miss your contagious smile.
I thought it was time,
to try my hand at a rhyme.
Inspired by my brother,
unlike any other.
We will always remember,
that day in December.
When we got the news the cancer had spread,
Eventually confining you to a bed.
Shortly thereafter, you went on your way,
It was around noon, that Easter Sunday.
We just want you to know,
that we love and miss you so.
You were the greatest Dad,
five kids could ever have had.
P.S. We now have an ill mother,
please pull whatever strings you can,
we cannot bear to lose another.
Your loving daughter,
Julie
January 27, 2013
Hi Dad,
Well...we just got home from Ursinus College. Today was the annual Field Hockey banquet. A special one as it was our last one...Rachel's senior year! It was the third and final year that I did the slide show which was viewed by all during dinner. I just wanted to let you know that I included two pictures of you in the "Special" tributes to the seniors. It was certainly the toughest job I've ever done...knowing that you would've been sitting there with Rachel, Shane, Lisa, and I...but you were there in our hearts instead...as always. I can't stop missing you Dad. Just when I think the pain and sorrow is less...I find myself missing you more. I miss my "Best Man"...my "Best Friend".
Your Proud Son,
David
"A gathering of angels...appeared above my head"..."I may not be with you...but you got to hold on"
January 14, 2013
Hey Pop pop. Today was the first day of classes of my last semester at Ursinus. I also was offered an internship in a school counseling office. Dad told me how proud he is of me. I can't help but to think of you so much while I am at school. Love and miss you a lot Pop pop.
January 5, 2013
Hi Dad,
I've kept the "Prayer Quilt" draped over the headboard of our bed for almost a year. I tied quite a few knots in it during that time as I would often say a prayer before falling asleep...and when I woke. However, 2 days ago I passed it on to a family who is very special to us...the Smith family...along with this note:
Dear Smith Family,
This quilt was hand-made by several ladies from our church parish of St. Andrew's in Jobstown. It's called a “Prayer Quilt” and is given to someone who is ill and in need of our prayers. When you say a prayer for the person whom it is for, tie a small knot in one of the many sets of strings on the quilt.
This quilt was originally made last year for someone very special in our family. However, we wish to pass this on to the Smith family--the power of prayer can be a wonderful thing and MANY prayers have already been said and marked on this quilt.
May your family stay strong and know that good friends are keeping you all in their thoughts and prayers during this difficult time…especially John.
With great love and admiration,
The Pandl Family
My best friend Mike Smith's oldest brother John doesn't have much time left and I felt this small gesture would help ease their pain...especially for their parents, Elmer and Anne.
Continue to watch over our family and I ask that you include the Smith family as well. They are very dear friends...our Jersey family...and we feel their sadness in their time of sorrow.
Your Loving Son,
David
"I sought my soul, but my soul I could not see. I sought my God, but my God eluded me. I sought my brother and I found all three."
December 29, 2012
In your memory...
Your Proud Son & Son In-Law
December 25, 2012
A Different Joy this Christmas...
Our Savior's birth
We celebrate again this year
But in our eyes
Is the presence of a tear
We decorate our houses
And we feel your love
For we know you are watching
From heaven above
Our families gather
To enjoy the presence of each other
But this year we are two people short
That of a sister and her brother
Lest we forget
That we must carry on
For it is "Your Wish"
Although you are gone
We raise a glass
Whether it be booze, wine, or beer
For we know you are with us
To join your family in a Christmas cheer
So many great songs and carols
From Sinatra, Como, and Bing
But nothing beats "Silent Night"
For that's when I can hear you sing
Listening to your voice on St. Ann's choir
Touches both my soul and my heart
Because I feel like you are so close
I know we are only a breath apart
I follow the news about Central
The records McDermott is breaking
To say I don't wish we were there to watch them
You would surely be mistaking
O'Brien and the Nittany Lions
Showed class--a winning record this season
Helen calling the shots with JoePa
Surely must be the reason
Uncle Paul is in his glory
The Fighting Irish may be #1
A fitting tribute to "Touchdown Jesus"
When his wife gets the blessing from God's Son
The first Christmas in a while
We had snow that was so white
It's beauty I believe was a sign
To tell us all you're alright
A tradition will continue
I took your place with Bill
We poured one for you
As we honored you by the grill
I visited your place of rest
And could not hold back the tears
My first Christmas without you
In forty-seven years
Your sister remains strong
The youngest is like gold
Certainly must've been her siblings
Who help perfect her mold
January 10th and April 8th
That's when your angel wings took flight
It's what brings me a different joy this Christmas
The First Noel...the most Holy Night
Merry Christmas Dad & Aunt Helen
I'm certain Christmas in heaven must be more beautiful then we can imagine.
December 23, 2012
Hi Dad:
It's two days until Christmas and for the past two nights I have been flooded with so many memories of you. Since I won't be able to see you this Christmas, I believe all these memories are coming back as your way to let me know you're with me. Decorating the front yard with you, the Pinto, looking for "aardvarks" while driving in the station wagon, singing on the choir with you, Fort Ti-ti-ti-conderoga, our little dinosaur hands out the window of our car - Bernie and FiFi, swimming in the pool, you teaching me how to cut the grass, co-signing my first car loan for me, watching numerous Phillies games together, hearing all the conversations you and Bill had with each other concerning everything and nothing, cleaning all those damn tools in your Snap-On Truck, enjoying hi-balls down in the basement while opening presents, camping down at Serranova, cooking weenies on the open fire for Zach and Alex, sitting together at Zach's baseball games, and so, so many more. We all miss you so much Dad and even though you won't be here with us physically we know you will be definitely be here in spirit!!!
Merry Christmas, Dad. . . I love you.
Lynn
Rachel Pandl
December 21, 2012
Hey Pop pop. Finished my last fall semester with only one more to go. I made the Dean's list with a 3.75 GPA, but I know I also made you very proud. It's going to be really hard not seeing you this Christmas, but I know that while I wear one of the rings you gave Nana I can always be strong. I think about you so much, and I really wish you could be here for my graduation in May. Please watch over the family over the Holidays, and know that we miss you so VERY much. I love you Pop pop.
December 19, 2012
Hi Dad,
It was one year ago today that you called me on the phone...another date and event I will never forget. Until that day, our conversations had always been about good and happy things going on in our lives, but this call was different. What I wouldn't give to have you call me again...just to hear your voice as I've been thinking of you so often lately. Every string of lights I hang reminds me of you. So many beautiful songs and carols during Christmas bring tears to my eyes...I can hear you singing to me. Please continue to watch over our family and keep us strong...we all will be missing and thinking of you during Christmas and the New Year.
Your Loving Son
November 22, 2012
Hi Dad:
It's the first family holiday without you. Sure is going to be different. But I know you will be there in spirit and definitely within each of your children. As we hold hands today in prayer, we will all be thinking of you and Aunt Helen and be thankful for the time we all shared together. Enjoy your dinner in heaven with the family and friends that are there with you and we will carry on down here. Guess what, this year Uncle Paul, Debbie and Ed will be with us at Aunt Liz's house. I'm so looking forward to spending the holiday with them as it's been quite a long time. Once again, it goes to prove that as hard as it has been to deal with your loss and Aunt Helen's, it has brought the family back together, and for that I am thankful.
Happy Thanksgiving Dad, I love you.
Lynn
November 22, 2012
Hi Dad,
Just wanted to let you know that I'm thankful for the life you gave me. Although it will be very difficult not having you with us during the holidays, I'm thankful for all the wonderful memories and the love we shared. But I'm most thankful to be your son. Keep visiting me in my dreams.
Happy Thanksgiving,
David
November 21, 2012
Hi Dad,
It is Wednesday afternoon and I am preparing things for my most favorite Holiday of the year. Unfortunately this year will not be the same without you. I am doing wash and I was just hanging out my sheets and and before I knew it the yellow monarch butterfly was in my presence and have not seen you in such a long time. Thank You for giving me a sign to let me know that you are still near. I miss you so much Dad and I wish I could be sitting next to you at the dinner table tomorrow. I will eat some turkey and filling for you. Make sure you keep a good eye on Gort and see that he gets some good pepperoni & provolone. I love You Dad Happy Thanksgiving
Cindy
Julie Unger
November 21, 2012
Hey Pop,
I haven't written in awhile even though I think of you often. Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and it just won't be the same without you. It's hard to believe that you are in heaven for almost 8 months already.Sure wish you could let me know how things are going up there!
Jess is maintaining her B average at York, Alex made the travel basketball "A" team, Dave is busy hunting, Chance is still barking and Gizmo is busy getting into whatever he can.
Just wanted to say hello and let you know how much we all love and miss you.
Rachel Pandl
November 17, 2012
Hey Pop pop. Started thinking about how excited I am for Thanksgiving break coming up and soon enough Christmas. Won't be the same without you. Love and miss you so very very much. Keep watching over me. Love you pop
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