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Patrick Tocci Obituary
Patrick A. Tocci, 58, of Palmerton, died Saturday, September 9, 2006 in Baltimore, Md. Born January 30, 1948 in Fountain Hill, he was the son of Marjorie (Phanner) Tocci of Bethlehem and the late Patrick Tocci. He was the loving husband of the late Marcia (Diehl) Tocci, who died in August of 2000. Patrick was a structural steel designer for 20 years, owning and operating the former Tees Drafting Service, Palmerton. For the past two years, he was employed by Szoke Iron Works, Walnutport. He served his country during Vietnam in the Navy. Pat was actively involved in wrestling for more than 30 years including coaching stints at Parkland and Palmerton. He was the director of the Talon Wrestling Club, a U.S.A. wrestling organization of Bethlehem for 12 years. During his tenure as the director, the club hosted numerous high school international meets, from 1993-2003. He also served as a team leader on a tour to China in 2001. One of Pats true loves in life was sailing on his boat. Survivors: In addition to his mother, Marjorie, he will be lovingly remembered by his sons, Patrick Tocci and his wife, Marisa, of Lititz, Pa., Ryan Tocci of Kutztown; daughter, Erika Soldridge and her husband, Thomas, of Allentown, Joleen DelVecchio and her husband, G.P., of Byram Township, N.J.; brothers, Robert Tocci of Bethlehem, Michael Tocci of Slatington, David Tocci of Coopersburg, Greg Tocci of Bethlehem, Joseph Tocci of Walnutport; sister, Susan Tocci of Bethlehem; grandchildren, Sydney, Mackenzie and Phoenix DelVecchio, Patrick Stefano, Nico and Marco Tocci, Jenna and Gage Soldridge. Services: The family will receive friends from 6-8 p.m. on Friday, September 15, 2006 in Church of the Manger, 1401 Greenview Drive, Bethlehem. A memorial service will follow at 8 p.m. Connell Funeral Home Inc., 245 E. Broad St., Bethlehem, is handling all arrangements. Send on line condolences to www.connellfuneral.com. Contributions: May be made to Surfrider Foundation, P.O. Box 6010, San Clemente, CA 92674-6010.
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Bette Rusnock
September 27, 2006
Dear Erica, My deepest sympathy. I am here for you whenever you need to talk. I truly believe by talking about your pain and your father you help yourself. I'm there for you especially at work just let me know you had enough and your gonna have a melt down. Love Bette
Larry Moyer
September 27, 2006
Deepest sympathy to the Tocci family.I will miss working with Pat at Szoke Iron Works.
Sarah Degiglio
September 26, 2006
To The Tocci Family
My deepest sympathy goes from my heart to yours.
I met Pat at my first Christmas party at Platz's only to learn he that he would become one of my "best buddies" as we called
each other.
I was very heartbroken when I
realized that I was going to be out of the country for Pat's services but thanks to great friends I was there for a little bit with help of our cell phones.
Every day is hard since Pat's
death but thank God for so many memories to help us get through each day.Pat is the sunshine in everyones day.My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Sue Ann Collotty
September 25, 2006
I am very saddened to have just learned of Pats death. I believe I am still in shock and very upset at the fact that I missed all the services, as Pat was a VERY important part of my life for such a long period of time. I worked for Pat, and we had such a nice relationship and bond, he became a father figure to me, always caring and supportive. We had the best times together, both at work and outside~ and he will never be forgotten! I will never forget the fun times including the Szoke Iron works Christmas party. Could never find a more caring ~ compassionate boss/friend!! He will be sadly missed!! My heart goes out to the family, and those who truly knew and loved Pat as I did!~XOXO~
Joe Simeone
September 21, 2006
Pat, Ryan, and the rest of the Tocci family,
It is with deepest sympathy that I say I am sorry for Pat's(your father's) untimely passing. He was a great man and mentor. I will most definitely miss him.
Joe Simeone
Flo McCandless
September 20, 2006
TO THE ENTIRE TOCCI FAMILY,
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND MANY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME OF SORROW.
CHERISH THE MANY MEMORIES!!
MAY GOD BLESS YOU, BE WITH YOU, AND GIVE YOU STRENGTH.
STEW & FLO McCANDLES
JENN & RICKY STOUT
Joe Tocci
September 20, 2006
To My St. Luke’s Family:
In this time of sorrow and sadness it brought me great comfort to know that I had so many caring and concerned friends. The overwhelming response that I have received from friends and coworkers is so touching, to say the least. I cannot tell you how much your kind words and support meant to me and my family to help get through this difficult time. This organization really shows its true colors to come to the aid of one it employees when the chips are down. I am so blown away from all the calls, cards, and gifts that were sent our way. It was especially touching to see all of my fellow employees who came to the Memorial Service to pay their respects. I am writing this letter because there were so many who showed their concern and I did not want to leave anyone out. I would like to especially thank the staff of St. Luke’s North, Dr. McGinley, Jim Thorpe Urgent Care, Dr. Folander, and Helene Oplinger! I want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your gracious gifts and the donations to the Surfrider Foundation.
My brother loved to sail the sea and I find comfort in knowing that he died doing something he loved. This tragedy has taught me and many of my friends and family just how important life is. Please take the time to tell your loved ones just how much you care for them. Once again, thank you on behalf of the entire Tocci family for your kindness and prayers.
Sincerely,
Joe Tocci
Bryan Callahan
September 19, 2006
To the entire Tocci family,
My heartfelt sympathy to all of you.I lost my wife two weeks ago and since then I can never just glance over the Obituaries again without feeling a deep sadness for the families who have lost a loved one. I was stunned to read of Pat's passing.
I had the opportunity to coach little Pat at Liberty and I can honestly tell you that no parent enjoyed and loved watching his son wrestle more than Pat. He just beamed with pride.
May you all find the strength to get through this very difficult time. God Bless.
Bryan Callahan
Carol, Jeff & Steve Boerner
September 19, 2006
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Jim Long
September 19, 2006
To the Tocci Family:
Pat was a terrific guy that was taken from us way too soon. I enjoyed the levity he brought to a sometimes trying industry and he will be sorely missed.
Randy Newnam
September 17, 2006
Dear Tocci Family,
My wife and I were boat neighbors with Pat for several years at Bowleys Marina in Middle River. He was one of a kind and we loved knowing him and have some great memories. Everyone in the marina who knew Pat is shocked and so sorry and we will all miss him, but never forget him.
Randy and Lorraine Newnam
September 16, 2006
To Ryan and Family,
I am deeply sorry to hear of your loss. You will be kept in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Jami Rothdeutsch
Virginia Hausmann
September 15, 2006
Dear Ryan and the Tocci Family
We are so very sorry for your loss. We know how hard this is for all of you and you will be constantly in our thoughts. Remember your father for always having loved you. Most sincerely with love and fondness Ginger, Gerard and Danny Hausmann
Joan Wolfe
September 15, 2006
Aunt Margie, Pat, Joleen, Erica, Ryan Susie and "the brothers"
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
Joan & Art
Rita Heidecker-Keefer
September 15, 2006
"When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure." Aunt Marge and Family you are in our hearts and prayers.
Keefer Family
Janet & Joe Konkolics
September 14, 2006
To Marjorie and Family :
Accept our deepest sympathy, you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
John Welch
September 14, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Michelle (Reiner) Newhard
September 14, 2006
My condolences go out to Pat's family. I knew him from Platz's and his Forest Inn neighborhood. He was a sweet guy, who always had nice things to say. No matter how long it had been since we last saw each other, he always greeted me with a great big hug. I'm going to miss that big smile of his. He will be truly, truly missed!
Chuck Yarnall
September 14, 2006
To the Tocci family, our sincere condolences. Our prayers are out to all of you. His contribution to Lehigh Valley Wrestling was wonderful. He gave kids a real chance to succeed and fulfill their potential, as well as introduce them to new cultures and appreciation for the sport. He will be greatly missed. Chuck & Marylou Yarnall
Sue Ney
September 14, 2006
hey guys- this is tough but if we all stick together we will get through this with a "little help from our Friends" Love You ALL.
randy bellis
September 13, 2006
To the Tocci Family,
my prayers go out to you in this time of sorrow. remember all the good times together, he will always be remembered in my heart.
The Grube Family
September 13, 2006
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
cindy Kindler-Thomas
September 13, 2006
Ryan and Family,
May God bless you and keep you at this time of trial.My thoughts and prayers are with you.
CRAIG SIDLECK
September 13, 2006
TO THE TOCCI FAMILY,
PAT WILL BE GREATLY MISSED AS A FRIEND AND A CO-WORKER. HE WAS ONE OF A KIND AND ONE OF THE BEST AND IS IRREPLACABLE AS BOTH.
THE SIDLECK FAMILY
Raeanne Whitaker
September 13, 2006
Farewell Lil' Buddy...we are destined to "commiserate" again.
Until then, find us some glasses up there, and I'll be sure to bring the vodka : )
sweet condolences to your family.
Roy & Elaine Detweiler
September 13, 2006
To the Tocci Family
Our condolences to the entire family,you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Shelley Mertz
September 13, 2006
To the Tocci family, My deepest sympathy to all of you. Pat will be missed. A fine, fun loving man and friend.
ROBIN HORVATH
September 13, 2006
TO THE TOCCI FAMILY,
SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL.
MARY MARZEC
September 13, 2006
DEAR MARGE AND FAMILY,
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO EACH OF YOU, MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS WILL BE WITH YOU. MAY GOD GIVE YOU COMFORT AND PEACE.
SINCERELY,
MARY MARZEC AND TOM, DAVE, AND JIM
Szoke Iron Works
September 13, 2006
To Pats family,
Our deepest sympathy from each of us at Szoke Iron Works. We not only lost a co-worker but a great friend. You are all in our thoughts. Your dad will always be remembered.
Kimberly Brinker (Althouse)
September 13, 2006
To the entire Tocci family, my heartfelt condolences. May the wonderful memories help you through the difficult times. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Alyssa Richter
September 13, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss.Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family.Adam Sr,Alyssa,AdamJr,and Hayleigh
Cindy Sterner, KNBT
September 13, 2006
Dear Ryan & family,
My heartfelt sympathies to you in the passing of your dad. You are in the thoughts & prayers of many people at this most difficult time.
September 13, 2006
To the Tocci Family
My condolences the entire family, you will be in the thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Hari
Michelle Sapiro
September 13, 2006
Pat was a happy and likable guy in the construction industry and will be missed.
Marian Zebrowski
September 13, 2006
Marge and Susie,
My prayers be with you, memories are the treasures of our minds to be kept forever in our souls and our hearts
Marian Zebrowski
Connie Skelly-Potts
September 13, 2006
My deepest heartfelt sympathies to the entire Tocci family. Rick was a genuine friend who I will greatly miss and hold in my heart forever.With thoughts and prayers for peace and strength,
Kevin Massa
September 13, 2006
To the Tocci Family, I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief and sorrow. Please remember the pain will subside and the great memories will live on forever.
Anthony Shalbert
September 13, 2006
So sorry Pat,Joleen, Erica,and Ryan. I will miss "Uncle Rick", seeing his picture I still hear his laugh. He is with Aunt Marsha now looking over all you guys. Love, Tony
Jeff Welty
September 13, 2006
To the entire Tocci family, my heartfelt condolences. My prayers are with you all.
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