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Scott Chatoney Callaway, age 93, of 1322 Horner Street, Elizabeth City, N.C., died Sunday, May 3, 2009 at his residence. Mr. Callaway was the son of the late Fountain Gallatin Callaway and Fannye Mary Chatoney Callaway and the husband of Bernice Naylor Callaway of the residence. They were married April 3, 1942. He was a Staff Sergeant in the US Army serving from August 28, 1942 to November 27, 1945 in North Africa and Italy during WW II. Mr. Callaway was a member of First United Methodist Church for over fifty years, a choir member and Sunday School Teacher. He graduated from Grenada High School, received a B.A. from the University of Mississippi and Master of Music from the University of Michigan. He taught at Duck Hill, MS, University of Mississippi, Lexington, KY, and was the Band Director for Elizabeth City High School from 1949 - 1969 and at Northeastern High School from 1970 - 1983 and volunteered with the Community Concert. He was inducted into the National Carolina Bandmasters Association Hall of Fame of Band Directors on November 9, 2008 in Winston-Salem, NC. He was a member of the NC Music Educators Association, NC Association of Educators, National Teachers Association, member of and served as President for two years of the Elizabeth City Music Club, member of and served two terms as President of the NC Retired School Personnel since 1983, member of and served two terms as President of the Elizabeth City Lions Club since 1950 and published the club's bulletin, "The Lion's Den", Honorary Member of River City Lions Club who presented him the Melvin Jones Fellow Award and Life Membership into Lions Club International Foundation in 1996, member of NC People with William Friday, member Arts of the Albemarle, longtime member of Museum of the Albemarle, former member of the Board of Directors of Albemarle Area Widowed Persons Service. He was presented The Order of The Long Leaf Pines by Gov. James B. Hunt in November 1995, and was presented life member of the NC Foundation. He received Recognition from the City of Elizabeth City by Mayor Jack Weeks in 1982 and Mayor Rick Gardner in 1985. Besides his wife, he is survived by three sons, Clark Naylor Callaway and wife, Debbie, of Beaufort, N.C., Scott Callaway, II, of Vancouver Island, Canada, and William "Bill" Fountain Callaway and wife, Melodye ,of Wanchese, N.C.; three sisters, Frances Wilson of Brandon, Miss., Lillie James of Huntsville, Ala., and Sue Ward of Grenada, Miss.; five grandchildren, Lillie Bernice Callaway and William "Buddy" Thomas Callaway both of Wanchese, N.C., Christopher Callaway and wife, Caroline, of Cincinnati, OH, Amber Keeter and Candi Keeter both of Beaufort, N.C.; two great grandsons, Ayden Callaway and Logan Callaway of Cincinnati, OH; sister-in-law, Barbara Callaway of McGee, Miss.; and several nieces and nephews. He was pre-deceased by a daughter, Joy Bernice Callaway; a sister Mary Callaway Bridges, and a brother, Charles Allison Callaway. Funeral services will be Thursday, May 7, 2009 at 2 p.m. at First United Methodist Church with the Rev. Mike Frese officiating. Burial will follow at West Lawn Memorial Park Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the funeral home from 7 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. Wednesday and at other times at the residence. Memorial donations may be made to a church or a charity of one's choice. Twiford's Memorial Chapel, 405 East Church Street, Elizabeth City, N.C. is in charge of arrangements. You may express condolences to the family by visiting www.twifordfh.com.

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Published by Morning Call on May 5, 2009.

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Deb Markham Borgman

May 15, 2009

Mr. Callaway was an awesome person and a great influence on all that passed through his life. We will never forget you! God bless your family! Thanks for all the great memories!

Leverna Lamm Copeland

May 15, 2009

Mr. Callaway ranks number 1 on my list of influencial people.He was a great teacher and a fantastic band director.Because of him, I became a teacher, but even more important because of him, I am a better person. He taught me the lessons of self-discipline and the attitude of "never give up." He gave me a passion and appreciation for all genres of music.He demonstrated a caring for us band students that was not just teacher duty.Yet, Mr. Callaway was so humble. He always wanted us to recognize the importance of Uncle Miles and put his contributions on the back burner.I appreciate Uncle Miles and his help to the band, but Scott Callaway holds my respect and admiration. To the Callaway family I send my thoughts and prayers. Please know Mr. Callaway positively touched many lives.

TJ JAMES

May 7, 2009

I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MR CALLAWAY WAS A GREAT MAN. I WILL ALWAYS HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF HIM IN BAND, AND MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

Linda Allen Briggs

May 7, 2009

My deepest sympathy to the Callaway family. Mr. Callaway was a champion among band directors. I was privileged to be under his tutelage from 1970-1972. He was a great teacher--strict, but fair. I pray that you feel God's presence with you now and in the days ahead.

Mike Rogers

May 6, 2009

I taught 8th and 9th grade band at ECJH in the 80s. Scott Callaway was a great mentor and a dear friend. The lives he has touched and influenced was and still is an inspiration to me. My deepest sympathies to his wife Bernice, surviving family, and those who hold his memory dear. A special soul has gone to glory.

Sheila Strickland Glasscock, Class of 1985

May 6, 2009

Mr. Callaway was an icon for the Elizabeth City school system and the music/band program. Even though we currently have (Wayne James) and have had (David Albert) great directors, NO ONE will ever replace Mr. Callaway. He was a great teacher and even a better person. His caring nature and tough love were very much appreciated...now more than ever. He was one of the reasons I became a teacher. We have all suffered a great loss. All my thoughts and prayers go to the Callaway family. He will be missed!!!!

Ronnie Tillett

May 6, 2009

May 6, 2009

I am very saddened by the passing of Mr. Scott Calloway. He was a certainly a positive influence in my young life and I always admired his commitment, firmness and guidance. He will be missed and fondly remembered by so many of us, that reflect on our time with him. He was so talented and we all are fortunate, that he shared his passion for music with us. Godspeed old friend.

Ray Jennings

May 5, 2009

Music was secondary to his caring for the young people he influenced. Many have gone on to be great citizens because of his guidance. He recognized musical talent, but also recognized that not everyone was a musician. All the same, he treated all his student with respect and in turn, we all respected him. A great teacher and humanitarian.

Susan Haskett Parker

May 5, 2009

Mr. Callaway was the best teacher I ever had. I always try to remember the high expectations, kindness, and respect he showed us when I teach my own students.

Angel Smith

May 5, 2009

You will TRUELY be missed.

Ann Sanders Smith

May 5, 2009

Mr. Callaway was a great teacher and wonderful role model. He was strict but yet loving. I always admired him. I played clarinet under him for 8 years. My sympathy to Mrs. Callaway and the family members. He will be missed.

Janet Riddick Roberson

May 5, 2009

Mr. Callaway was a special person, He helped us all to enjoy music even more. I well always remember his remarkable smile….

Emily Weston

May 5, 2009

Mr. Callaway .taught ,me 7th,8th and 9th grade.I was 1st chair playing the flute .I loved that sound,and loved MR.CALLAWAY HE WAS VERY PATIENT,with his students.he will be very missed by many people.GOD BLESS HIS HEART .

Lisa Schultz Pitcher

May 5, 2009

Mr. Callaway was a great band director and teacher. He used his God-given talent and blessed so many people in so many ways. I have never forgotten what he did for me. My deepest sympathies to Mrs. Callaway and family.

Jerry Jackson

May 5, 2009

Mr. Callaway was a very special person to me.I will never forget his tough love when it came to his students. He is directing the Lord's Band now.

Jim Cartwright

May 5, 2009

Mr. Callaway taught me much more than music. He taught me about life and caring.

Jim Cartwright '64

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