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Suzette Selvaggi Obituary
Suzette E. Selvaggi, 41, of Allentown, died July 7, 2004 in Lehigh Valley Hospital, Salisbury Twp. She was the wife of Frank Selvaggi Jr. They were married for 13 years in April. Born in Staten Island, N.Y., she was a daughter of Ellen (Coady) Moyer of Pinehurst, N.C. and the late Gerard Book. She was a member of St. Joseph the Worker Catholic Church, Orefield. Survivors: Husband; mother; son, Nicholas F., and daughter, Shayla S., both at home; brothers, Richard of Bethlehem, Jay of Allentown; sisters, Deborah Prato of Newtown, Patricia Moller and Shannon Anastasi, both of Lebanon, N.J., Ellenpat Book-Cozze of Narvon, Megan Bauer of Schnecksville, Tara Book and Shauna Mendez, both of Allentown; 11 nieces, 11 nephews. Services: Mass of Christian Burial, 10 a.m. Monday, July 12, St. Joseph the Worker Catholic Church, 1879 Applewood Dr., Orefield. Call 7-8:30 p.m. Sunday, July 11, J.S. Burkholder Funeral Home, 16th and Hamilton streets, Allentown.
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Anthony Sidtis
March 10, 2021
Sorry it’s late but I just found out. I will always remember Suzette as a Waitress at the Spinning Wheel Diner. Back in 87, I took her recommendation to take the apartment In Clinton where I’m still there now. The Clinton House, Towne Restaurant, Red Mill, and all the good times and good friends I have and will have I owe all to her advice. I know she’s in Heaven. Thanks to her, I’m enjoying a slice of Heaven which is what the Town of Clinton is.
Erin Puffenberger
August 9, 2004
Frank, Shayla and Nicholas,
Dear Suzette was so well known to the Fogelsville School community. As a parent of a student at Fogelsville, and a dance student with Shayla, I extend my sympathy. You are all in my prayers and thoughts.May God embrace you with his love and support.
Sincerely,
Erin Cashen Puffenberger
Marie Concannon
July 31, 2004
My deepest sympathy to the Book family. I did not know Suzette, but I am a friend of Tara's. Tara loved Suzette so much. She was very close and is feeling the lose of a great friend. I'll help Tara my friend to see that she was blessed with a great friend & sister. God bless. Marie Concannon, Allentown PA
Ginny and Leigh Kline
July 28, 2004
We were so shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Suzette. Our prayers are with her family. We first met Suzette at the Town and Country Bank in Clinton, NJ and then had so much fun with her in a bowling league. We would see her always with that wonderful smile. She was a wonderful person with a personality like no other. Our hearts go out to Shannon and Mike and all of her family, she is in a better place and her journey has just begun.
Tammy John Sean Emma and Jacob Toney
July 17, 2004
Frank, Shayla and Nicholas,
Our hearts and prayers are with you now and forever. I am so blessed to have had such a great friend as Suzette. There are not any words to ease this tragic loss, but we will always be here for all of you. Suzette is an inspiration to all others moms, and that is how much she loves her children and her Frank and just how proud you made her always! There was nothing like that twinkle in her eyes and that was there because of the love for her family, and yes that is ALL of her family. You are truly blessed to have this unconditional love to help carry you on. God Be with you now and forever.
We love You! Miss Tammy
Mrs. Mastropieri (Mrs. M)
July 14, 2004
Dear Shayla and Nick,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. She always had a smile on her face every morning when she dropped you two off at school. She loved the two of you so much. May God Bless you both and your Dad!
Take Care!
Love,
Mrs. M & baby Tyler
LaBar Family
July 12, 2004
Frank,Shayla & Nicholas - Suzette was such a huge part of our family and that is what you all are to us. No words can describe the Love we had for Eya. We were blessed to have her in our lives for 5 years - Which seemed like an eternity. There is a piece of Eya that will live in all of our hearts forever. We had so many traditions among our families that we will continue to honor in her memory. All of our Love & Prayers -Dave,Cheryl,Austin and Braedon .... Eya will be in our hearts forever ...
Rossana
July 12, 2004
Dear Frank, Shayla, Nicholas, Dick and to all whom have been touched by Suzette's love,
My prayers are with each and every one of you.
Since I was a teen, everytime I saw Suzette I wasn't sure who became more excited to see each other, myself or her. But to tell you the truth I was always more excited to see her! As us New Yorkers would say she was "da bomb" and she sure was!
She told me once, "Oh, you spoil my Shayla." And in my heart the answer is because I love Shayla, but more it was because I loved Suzette.
May her precious personality and pure soul be loved forever and be an example of atleast half the person we all want to be.
Cherish all of the great memories and keep her spirit alive. May God bless you all and give you strength. With love...
Joyce Lindabery
July 12, 2004
I will never forget that lovely laugh and great smile. I feel blessed to have known Suzette. Even though we had not seen each other often during the last few years I kept track of her thru my daughter Lori Wadle. I spoke to her a few months back and it was like old times. That same cheerful voice.
My prayers are with all of her family.
Joyce Lindabery
Damein Harned
July 12, 2004
Dear Frank,
I can only pray that God heals your heart. I will forever remember the endearing smile that would cross her face and the warmth that she would radiate. I am thankful that I was able to see her before she left us. Suzette has touched many people's lives and will forever be in our memories and our hearts. Let her spirit lift your soul and look over your children. Your family is in my thoughts and my prayers.
Love,
Damein
Michele Palulis
July 12, 2004
To Frank, Shayla and Nick and the Whole family:
My condolences go out to all of you. Suz was the best babysitter that RJ had. RJ loved Suz like a 2nd mom. Suz was the best person that could be here on earth. The will be keeping an eye on all of you like she did when she was here.
Michele Palulis
Jerry Miller
July 12, 2004
Frank, Shayla and Nicholas;
My Wife Jo and I were so saddened to hear of your loss. Suzette was such a good lady and the very first one to introduce herself to me when I moved into Penn Ridge Estates. I realize no words can ease the pain, but know she will always be with you forever in your heart, that she is part of you, both bodily and spiritually. Her life has influenced who you are today and what you will be tomorrow.
God Bless all of you,
Susan Maurer
July 12, 2004
Dear Frank, Shayla, Nick & Entire Book Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your unfortunite loss of Suzette. As another writer had accurately mentioned; her zest of life was quite evident and I pray that you'll find comfort that Suzette will watch over each and everyone of you with Gods help and by his side; with the same zest, selflessness and untiring will to help all in need.
Sincerely,
Susan and Donald Maurer
(Friends of the Jay & Kathi Book Family)
Liliana Major
July 12, 2004
Suzette was the kind of person that you could not help but love. I had the priviledge of Knowing Suzette at the time that I lived in New Jersey as a exchange student at the Lindabery's house (1980) and a year that I went to Rider College (1981) before I moved to Atlanta (1982). I loved being with her and you could not help but laugh with her. Even at the young age of 18, Suzette had become a wonderful person. I have and will always remember her as someone that was always kind, gentle and sweet. My deepest sympathy to Suzette's husband, children and her family. I am sure that this is a terrible and very tragic event. May God provide much comfort in these difficult times. Liliana Urrea Major
Melissa Sutovich
July 11, 2004
Frank, Shayla, & Nick,
We are so sad about Suzette's passing. Although we only knew her for a short time, she had the biggest heart of gold. She was someone I was proud to call friend.
She was always there for Shayla and Nick at school as well as every child in their classroom. Every child loved her back as much as she loved them.
She will be sadly missed.
Mark, Melissa, Ryan & Adam Sutovich
Peggy Anastasiou
July 11, 2004
My heart goes out to all of you. I've been around your family for many years and I could see the love you all have for each other. Suzette was a very special person always smiling and full of life, she will be missed. Suzette, is now in a better place where there is peace and happiness. God be with you all through this difficult time and may He give you strength for your loss. Love Peggy and Pete Anastasiou
Salvatore Nicrone
July 11, 2004
Dear Frank and family--
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Losing a loved one is always tragic and sad, and when so young, makes it even more difficult. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Sal Nicrone/Deborah Hoysan
Tony&Tracy Campanell
July 11, 2004
Even though we only knew Suzette for a short time, she touch our lives forever. We can only hope that when it is our time to cross into eternity that we be so blessed and honored to be greeted by Suzette Selvaggi.
Tony,Tracy,Anthony,NicholasCampanel l
June Angelucci
July 11, 2004
Ellenpat,John,Shaneah & Hunter
We are so sorry on hearing of the loss of your dear sister Suzette. She was such a fun and happy person to be around. She will truly be missed by all. Our hearts go out to you and your family in your loss. Your in our prayers.
Love, The Angelucci Family
Kathi Mello
July 10, 2004
Rich,
I was incredibly and deeply saddened when I learned of the loss of your beloved sister. I recall many of our conversations while students at PSU and then back again in Allentown and how much you loved her. I can only imagine what a difficult time this must be for you, your family, and for Suzette's husband and children. You are all in our thoughts and many prayers during this difficult time. God Bless +
Love,
Kathi, Rick, Lily, Harrison and Cooper Mello
Donna Tinjar
July 10, 2004
Frank, Shayla and Nicholas,
We are so terribly sorry to hear of the sudden loss of Suzette. We can only imagine the hearache you feel at this time. Suzette was an incredibly warm and beautiful person both inside and out. Please accept our deepest sympathy while we continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Donna, Arnljot, Aileend and Kayleigh Tinjar
Michael & Dawn Epter
July 10, 2004
To my "Big Sis" in Heaven...
I write this with trembling fingers and faint heart to hear of your passing. It is not often that you meet someone who is truly a wonderful person and brings so much love and happiness to those around her. For me, Suzette was that person.
When I was a skinny, yet-to-be teen in SunnyHill, you befriended me and introduced to your wonderful family. You encouraged me to sing my first song ("Lean on me") amidst 300 people on talent night that Thursday night and since then our relationship grew so very strong. Whether it was dancing, playing bingo, board games, monte carlo quiz, sun bathing, or otherwise, there was never a dull moment when we were together. Eventhough I was not your blood brother, you always referred to me as your "little bro" which warmed my heart every time. Each year we shared so many memories and only 21 days ago, you were with me and my new wife Dawn at my wedding - the biggest moment of my life. I remember the day as if it were yesterday - you were the happiest person there and your smile was as wide as could be. You reflected on how just 13 years ago, I was at your wedding and we now came full circle. I will never forget your smile or warmth that day or any other day that I am fortunate enough to be alive and ask that God Bless You and keep your soul forever.
While we are here, I know that you will guide all of those whom you loved - your beautiful children, wonderful husband, caring family, and long list of friends. I thank you for placing an indelible stamp on my life and all of those whom you encountered and for allowing me to see Jesus in your eyes...
I (We) Love you Always & Forever,
Your Little Bro - Michael
Michael & Dawn
Sherry Suter
July 10, 2004
Only 6 weeks ago I had the pleasure of meeting the Book family at EllenPat's 40th birthday celebration. I am saddened by the passing of Suzette who amongst all of the family had a great zest for life. I feel trully honored to have met such a wonderful and beautiful person. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. God Bless each and every one of you.
Dan, Shelley,Steve, Ben, and Abby Perkins
July 10, 2004
We are so very sorry to hear of the sudden loss of such a beautiful person. Suzette had such a love of life and brought such joy to everyone she was with. She was but a piece of heaven on earth for such a brief time. God bless you Frank, Shayla and Nick. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Monica M
July 9, 2004
Did you notice the Blessed Virgin Mary just above Suzette in the photo? She must have been called for a special purpose. Sympathies to your families.
terri wentz
July 9, 2004
There are no words that can express the sadness upon my hearing this devastating news. She was a joy to work with, a special person with the gift of life all around her. May God watch over her children, her dear husband Frank.. and the rest of the Book family.
in much sympathy,
Susan Sodano
July 9, 2004
We share in your devastation and deep sorrow. Just 3 weeks ago we partied, danced and laughed at Michael's wedding and looked forward to another year at Sunny Hill. The bright light of the Book family. With deep saddness, much love and many prayers for Suzette and her family. She'll remain in our hearts forever. Susan, Rob, Rachel and Andrew Sodano
Michael, Lisa, & Jonathan Quier
July 9, 2004
Frank,
We are so sorry to hear about Suzette. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you, Shayla, Nick, and the entire family.
Jim and Michele Bleiler
July 9, 2004
At a time like this, words just don't seem adequate. But I feel the need to convey our deepest sympathy to Frank, the children, Suzette's family and friends. She was a ray of sunshine in this cloud covered world of ours and heaven is surely lucky to have her. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
The Trabucco Family
July 9, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. There are no words to express the sadness this brings. Your bright smile and loving personality will live in our hearts forever. All our love, Karen, Tony, Anthony, and Samantha
Julie Malloy
July 9, 2004
Shayla & Nick,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom, she was a very nice lady. I remember she was always taking you both places. God Bless you both and your Dad!
Take Care!
Mrs. Malloy
Diane Snell
July 9, 2004
To Megan and Scott:
So sorry to hear about your sister's passing. She is so pretty and so young to die so soon. My deepest sympathy to you.
Diane Snell
Joey George
July 9, 2004
Suzette was a great person. She will be greatly missede by my brothers and I. We loved her like a sister. We will never forget her.
Jane George
July 9, 2004
You and your family are in our prayers. You were a special, wonderful person,and we were honored to have had the pleasure of sharing many SunnyHill memories with you. It will never be the same. You were taken from us to early. May God Bless You and your family.
With Love,
The George's
Jane, John, Michael, Jesse, Johnny, & Joey. xoxoxoxoxoxo
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