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Vivian Updegrave Obituary

Vivian A. Updegrave, 86, of Coopersburg, passed away Wednesday, December 23, 2020 in her home. She was the wife of Curtis O. Updegrave. They celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary in June 2020. Born in Philadelphia, she was a daughter of the late Ralph and Emilie (Ehret) Miller. Vivian was a graduate of Palisades H.S. She worked as a bookkeeper for Updegrave Lumber Company for many years. Previously, she was a receptionist for Upper Saucon Twp. Vivian was a member of MorningStar Moravian Church, Coopersburg. She was a former member of the Red Hat Society. Years ago, Vivian enjoyed bowling, golfing and going to the gym.

Survivors: Husband, Curtis; Sons: Scott C. and his wife Deborah of Calgary, Canada, Michael L. and his wife Corrine of Charleston, SC; Grandchildren: Andrew, Alyssa, Emma; Brother: Richard Miller and his wife Janet of Mequon, WI. Vivian was predeceased by her sister Diana Moore.

Services: Private. Arrangements by Stephens Funeral Home, Inc. www.stephensfuneral.com.

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Published by Morning Call on Dec. 24, 2020.

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Denise Kopinski

May 28, 2022

I just passed your Mom's house on Charles Street and did not see that beautiful lamp in the window. I feared the worst, but hoped maybe she finally convinced your dad to go into a retirement village. I contacted a friend, to find out the sad news that she had passed. I absolutely loved Vickie with her quit whit and had some great conversations with her. She was full of wisdom and had great advice. She will truly be missed. I am so sorry I could not attend the services to express my condolences. I hope your dad is doing well.

paulette adams

December 26, 2020

Enjoyed your visits at Uncle Paul and Aunt Mary Erat's home. It was nice
to talk of current things and memories of Grandparents Erat's home. Our
prayers for your family.....Paulette and Lynn Adams

Cathy Rhoades

December 26, 2020

Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. She was a friend of mine through The Red Hat Society and a very nice lady.

peg and clarence jones

December 24, 2020

so sorry for you loss curt and family she will be missed by all of you peg and jonesy

Kathy Newhard Yons

December 24, 2020

So very sorry to hear about the passing of Vivian. I so remember her smiling face and our shirt visits when I walked Coopersburg with my kids. My sympathy to everyone in your family.

Dean B Mohr

December 24, 2020

Curt and Family, please accept my condolences on your loss.

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