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Cathy
April 19, 2025
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Nancy Feerick
April 19, 2021
Dear Walt, You are remembered every day, and I miss you. There are so many happy memories that will stay with me, especially your kindness and generosity. Things are quite different now, as we are suffering from a pandemic. Cass and I have been trying to get together, but it was not possible, but we are hoping the summer will give us a chance to do that. You can be so proud of Cass, as she has carried on your legacy in so many ways, doing all the things you used to do together. Although it is difficult for her, she does it because these things remind her that you are always near. She is a woman of courage and faith, and this has sustained her every day.
I talk to you and I know you hear me too. Please rest with the Lord, and all our dear relatives, and in a special way, your dear Son, Steve. He was a courageous man, and a loving father, brother, and son. You can be so proud of all your family carrying on your values and convictions. God be with you, Walt. My love always,
Nancy
Catherine Rhoades
April 17, 2020
Hi to my sweetheart Walt,
We still miss you down here on earth. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and thank you for everything you were to me and for everything you have given to me. In this time of isolation from the Coronavirus, I thank God and you for leaving me this beautiful home and life to live in, even if you aren't here. I have it so much better than many other people with a roof over my head and some money to buy food.
Thank you for our sons who constantly call and look after me to make sure that I am safe. I worry for them in these troubled times. Walt being a doctor and visiting with patients both in the hospitals and at their homes. I pray he is safe. Dave comes and does my shopping for me whenever I need food but he is out and may be in danger of catching this deadly virus as well. Please send down your loving fatherly care to them.
I received some pictures of our grandsons after not having any for about 7 years and they seem to be healthy and enjoying their lives. I'm sure that Steve will be glad about this too. He loved his children so much and missed them when he didn't see them. I pray that they remember their dad who loved them so much and that they have good memories of him and his love.
Grace and all of our family are doing well. She has grown so tall and is so beautiful and intelligent. I hope you are looking down at all of us with God and taking care of us. Give my love to Steve and all of our relatives up there in heaven with you.
Love you always,
Cathy
December 10, 2017
My dearest Walt,
The saddest news a mother (and father) can ever have is the loss of their child. Our sweet Steve left us this past November 1st. Without a goodbye or a smile, he left our world to go into your arms. Please wrap him in your love and welcome him to eternal life with our Lord.
I still miss you like crazy Honey, never more than now but I'm counting on you to take care of our baby and to send down your strength to me and our boys to get through this unbelievable hard loss.
Love you forever,
Cathy
Tracey Rhoades
March 24, 2012
Hi Dad,
Walt and I saw a beautiful red cardinal the other day. It made me think of you. We love you.
Tracey
Tracey Rhoades
March 9, 2009
Hi Grandpa,
I just wanted you to know how much Mommy and Daddy think about you and miss you. We love you.
Love,
Grace (and Mommy and Daddy!)
July 21, 2008
July 21, 2008
December 9, 2007
December 9, 2007
First day of Pre-School
September 14, 2007
Nancy Feerick
May 22, 2007
Dear Cass and Family,
There are so many memories of Walt and his love for you Cass, Walt,Steve, Dave, Tracie and Tracey.
I know he is especially looking down and being so proud of his grandchildren - Matthew, Grace, and Michael. The great blessing is that Walt will live on forever through his family. Be assured of a special remembrance in my prayers and thoughts during this time, and I know Walt had a special birthday with the Lord and all his family and friends in heaven. We shall miss him always, but we shall never forget him. To his brothers and sisters, I know Walt will be there for you and your families also. He was a man of Faith and he showed this goodness to everyone he met.God will bless all of you.
lovingly,
Nancy
May 17, 2007
Dear Walt,
We will always remember your birthday with much love and affection for you because that is what you gave to all of us.
Your godchild, Kris, will be a
bride soon, and we know that you
will be with her as she walks down
the isle to begin her new life.
We couldn't have asked for a
more wonderful godfather and uncle
to both our girls. Thank you for being the best brother anyone could
ask for - always there, no matter
what.
We love you today and always!
Steve and Peg
Rita and family
May 16, 2007
Hi Walt,
Your special day has come and gone. It was so beautiful and special same as you. We hope you felt our love 'cause we're still feeling yours. Just want you to know you were the best of everything to all of us and we miss you deeply big brother. Happy Birthday and much love to you.
Tracie Rhoades
May 15, 2007
Happy Birthday Grandpa RoRo.
We sure wish you were here to play with us. We know you would have been a great playmate just like our Daddy - he learned from the best! We love and miss you!
Hugs & Kisses.
Matthew and Michael, Mommy and Daddy too.
Cathy Rhoades
September 23, 2006
Hi Folks,
Yesterday I fulfilled a phase of life that Walt never had a chance to do....I retired from my job at Lehigh County Courthouse. Hurray! It feels good and I know that Walt is looking down from above celebrating with me, knowing that I can now devote more time to our family, our sweet grandchildren and my artwork.
I wish Walt had lived long enough to retire and enjoy some free time and of course to know and play with his grandbabies. But God had other plans for him, to join the ranks of the angels in heaven. Walt worked hard here on earth, a devoted husband, father, son, son-in-law, brother, uncle, friend & mentor. He was devoted and loyal to his co-workers and company. He tried to make this world a better place for all of us and he succeeded. I hope that I can live up to his example.
Cathy Rhoades
September 16, 2006
Dearest Friends and Family,
It has occurred to me that I missed a most important entry in my Walt's memory book here. Last April (05) a new little member of our family was born. My sweet little red-headed, blue-eyed "Michael Walter Rhoades" was born to Steve and Tracie. He is such a sweet baby and I know that we are all blessed to have him here with us in our growing family.
Michael has fair skin and red hair from his daddy's side of the family, but my daughter-in-law Tracie finally has a little one who looks so much like her. He has her eyes and smile that can light up a room.
Everytime I see my sweet little M & M boys and my darling Grace, I see their granddaddy in their playfulness. I know how much he'd love to babysit and spoil them, so I try my darndest to make up for that.
There could never, ever be a man who loved children as much as my Walt did. I miss him terribly but our sons and grandchildren are a warm and lasting comfort to me.
Kathy Hochheiser
September 14, 2006
Walt,
I just love to read your book from time to time. I know you would love it. Not because of the praises for you. You would love it because it tells of the love and warm feelings in those you loved. It is an ongoing tribute to you that others want to come here and talk to you and to talk to others about you. I like to think of you above somehow listening, glowing and enriched by it all. Miss you. love, Kathy
June 10, 2006
Hi Grandpa,
We just thought we would share some pictures of us with all your family and friends.
We love you very much!
Matthew Stephen, Grace Josephine, and Michael Walter
(to see Grandpa's angels, just click on the view the photo gallery)
May 21, 2006
May 21, 2006
nancy feerick
May 17, 2006
Dear Cathy,
Walt and Tracey, Steve and Tracie, and Dave.
All of you are remembered in a very special way during this time. I still look for Walt everytime we are together, and I miss him so much. He was truly a great gift to us, and to everyone he met. Whenever I would visit he would talk about how wonderful his family was. He loved each of you for being so wonderful, and he was very proud. I know in a special way he is very proud of you Dave, on your graduation. He wanted only the best for all of you, and it is evident you have the best. For each of you are just as kind, caring, and loving as he was. It is a great legacy that many people do not have, but you can carry this proudly. Matthew, Grace, and
Michael are beautiful children and they are so fortunate to have such loving wonderful parents. God will bless you for all your sacrifice, as Jesus said, "let the children come to me, for of such is the kingdom of God. So these children came from God, (with a little help from Walt) and they will bring us to him always by their beauty, simplicity, and love.
God bless each of you.
And Cass, I did not forget you as I was writing, because you were right there with Walt, creating a beautiful world for your famiy. You deserve much praise for your commitment to God and Family. And now Walt wants you to continue to tell his story to your grandchildren, for he was truly blessed with a loving wife who put her needs last, and her family's first. Now it is time to sit back and enjoy the rewards of your labor and love through your loving family and grandchildren. And Walt is right there beside you, and he will never leave you. You have been blessed and I am so happy for all the memories we shared and that we will continue to share. I love you and pray for you everyday, and I pray to Walt for I know he is close to the Lord.
Happy Birthday Walt, from a cousin who misses you and loves you very much.
love to all,
nancy
Tracie Rhoades
May 15, 2006
Happy Birthday Grandpa. We sure wish you were here so we could sing to you and blow out your candles.
Mommy and Daddy still miss you very much. And just in case you didn't know, our Daddy sure is the greatest because we hear he had the best teacher! Hugs and Kisses. Love, Your Grandsons,
Matthew and Michael
kathy
April 20, 2006
Walt,
Miss you so much. The world is not as kind and gentle without you. You have the most beautiful grandchildren. They need you to help take care of them and guide them through the world. If only for that, I believe in angels.
Cathy made you the most beautiful headstone. Like all her art, you would love it. Such a beautiful tribute to you and you and her as a couple. I know that was your greatest treasure. We have to work hard not to let our missing you keep us down. I know you wouldn't want that. Love you. Kathy
Laurence Olson
February 17, 2005
Dear Cathy and family,
I never sent a sympathy card after Walt died because he meant - and still means - so much to me - it was too hard to do him justice. He was first my boss, then mentor, advisor, co-conspirator, defender, calming influence, sounding board, and always my close friend.
So often in the last couple years I have missed his fellowship and advice, through my downsizing from PPL, job search, and new career in submarine fleet support with Knolls Atomic, the adoption of my second daughter, the illness and death of my father, and the simple joys and humor in everyday life.
He was affectionately known as "Uncle Walt" to me and other friends at PPL, but he was closer than a brother, and I miss him greatly.
May God bless you with His grace and peace, Cathy.
Nancy Feerick
July 11, 2003
Dear Walt,
A few weeks ago I met two beautiful babies - your grandchildren. Are they beautiful! I can see that Matthew
has a strong right arm so I'm sure he will love the fishing trips at the shore. And Grace, well she is
definitely a dancer.At her christeneing, did you know that Matthew sang ( actually he kept us all on key) - he had many babysitters too. And Grace well she just smiled at everyone and said ok, let me sleep now so I can have fun when I wake up. You can be so proud of your family and I know that they will never forget you. Walt and Steve are great Dads, and Tracey and Tracie are great Moms. And of course, we can't forget that beautiful grandmom, Cathy. She is just so
happy but she missses you so much. But you will live on in those beautiful grandchildren. So I just wanted you to know that you are remembered everyday. Thanks for being so wonderful.
lovingly,
Nancy
Tracey Rhoades
July 1, 2003
Dear Dad,
Yesterday, Grace and I watched "Mommy and Daddy's" wedding video. I haven't been able to up until now, because I knew it would be difficult. It was very hard. I miss you very much. I know that Grace will miss so much by not being with her Grandpa, but you will always be in her heart, as we will share our memories with her. I wanted you to also know what a wonderful Daddy Walt is. You would be proud of him.
Love,
Tracey
Matthew Rhoades
May 15, 2003
Happy Birthday Grandpa Rhoades.
I wish so very much that you were here for me to tell you in person. I know my family is very sad that we never had the chance to meet but I want you to know that you are thought about everyday and always will be. I love you.
Your grandson,
Matthew
Cathy Rhoades
April 4, 2003
Hello to all of Walt's Friends and Family,
I loved your entry Donna and wanted to let everyone know that there has been big events in our family this week. Baby "Matthew Stephen" has been born to Steve and Tracie on Saturday the 29th of March. He is so very blessed & loved. Steve, Tracie and Matthew are doing well.
Not to be upstaged, 2 weeks early & delivered by emergency C-section yesterday afternoon,
Baby "Grace Josephine" was born to Walt Jr and his wife Tracey. Mom, Dad and Baby are doing well this morning.
"Grandma" & "Uncle" David are very happy.
Much Love to all of you.
Donna Cerruti
April 3, 2003
As we,(some of Walt's friends)met for lunch today (Vietamese Rest.)we discussed how much we all miss you Walt! We have been blessed in all aspects with your caring touch of love, compassion, and humor. We are so glad to have you into our lives. We discussed that you are still holding the record for "spilling" red sauce all over your white shirt! How we miss you.
I wish your family (growing with grandchildren) all the luck and love that's available. They are blessed by having you as their husband, father, and grandfather!
Kathy Rhoades-Hochheiser
November 13, 2002
CIS, an organization which provides help, including mentors, to at risk young people, recently paid this tribute to Walt in their newsletter. Cathy was sweet enough to share it with some of us but I think anyone who looks at "Walt's site" would like to see it as well. It tells a small part of the story of why we were so lucky to have him as ours. Here's CIS's tribute:
Walt Rhoades, a personal mentor to CIS student, Brian Kemp, was fully committed to creating that positive relationship which is at the core of CIS. Not satisfied resting on his laurels after raising his own sons, Walt volunteered as a basketball coach and worked within his congregation to assist teen mothers. When he saw an appeal at PPL for CIS mentors he immediately applied. When told that the need was in Easton, he willingly agreed to make the trips from Allentown.
Walt and Brian, matched a year ago, wasted no time in becoming friends. Within minutes, Brian was showing Walt his hobbies. Sharing a love of tinkering with electronics and a fascination with aviation, Walt loved Brian and wasn't afraid to show it. Walt became in Brian's words, "his best friend, a brother, sometimes even a father." Walt would oversee Brian's homework, celbrate his successes, and worry about his challenges. Sometimes he just listened. Once in a while there were special outings, the most memorable--a flight in a Cessna, to Reading for lunch in the pilot's lounge. They had plans to build a table together this Summer.
This Spring Walt was suddenly stricken with an aneurysm and died. Knowing how much Brian had meant to him, Walt's family made arrangements for CIS staff to break the news to Brian. During the funeral homily, his special relationship with Brian was mentioned. Tickets from his outing with Brian to see the Sixers play were in the casket, along with Walt's favorite hat.
Walt seized opportunities to share his talents and himself with those who will grow into tomorrow's adults. As a person beginning to think about retirement he could have chosen to pursue a personal interest in his spare time. Instead, he made a deep commitment to others by becoming a personal mentor to Brian. Walt turned those few months into an extraordinary, caring relationship with a teen who will never forget that support. As a tribute to Walter Rhoades' loyalty and devotion to youth in need, let us all find ways to create positive relationships with at risk teens.
Cathy
November 1, 2002
Dear Friends & Family,
More good news here! Walt Jr. and his wife Tracey are expecting their first child in April. I think I echo the words of my children when I say that their dad is making sure that no one in our family will be sad next spring.
Cathy
August 22, 2002
Dear Friends and Family,
We wanted to share our good news with everyone who cares about us.
Walt put in a good word up there in heaven and now there will be another new Rhoades to join our family next March. Steve and Tracie are expecting their first child.
Cathy Rhoades
June 19, 2002
Today, June 19th would have been our Wedding 37th Anniversary. Although it is not the way I would like it to be, I feel blessed that I have had so many wonderful years with the man I love more than anything in the world. He was always the best husband anyone could want. He treated me like his queen and always told me how beautiful I was and how much he loved my smile. I miss hearing these special words from him and hope that he knows how much I miss his comfort, protection and most of all, his love.
Deborah Robbins
June 17, 2002
My heart and prayers go out to Cathy and all of Walt's family and friends, belatedly, as I have just learned of his death. He is a dear, sweet man. He is surely in Heaven, but I know how much he will be missed.
Rhoades
June 16, 2002
As I ponder the love that I saw in his eyes,
A Godly love, given without compromise…
I recall many times that he stood by my side,
And prodded me on with great vigor and pride.
His voice ever confident, firm and yet fair,
Always speaking with patience, tenderness and care.
The power and might of his hands was so sure,
I knew there was nothing we couldn’t endure.
It’s true, a few others provided insight,
Yet, he laid the foundation that kept me upright.
He’s the grandest of men to have lived on this earth,
Although he’s not royal by stature or birth.
He’s a man of great dignity, honor and strength.
His merits are noble, and of admirable length.
He’s far greater than all other men that I know,
He’s my Dad, he’s my mentor, my friend and hero.
(Author Unknown)
In honor of a wonderful father who is so greatly missed.
Happy Father's Day.
Cathy Rhoades
May 28, 2002
Dear Family,
Thank you for your generosity in maintaining Walt's Guestbook online. I know it has been a source of much comfort to you all, just as it has been to us. Many people have told me that they look forward to checking it on a regular occaision. It has been a wonderful gift to all of us.
walter rhoades,jr
May 21, 2002
I have so many good and great memories of my father, it is difficult for me to do any justice to him with what I am writing.
I remember driving out to Iowa with my father. I was going back to school, and he had to go there for work, so we drove out together. It was fun to go together, and we got to talk a lot, but I especially remember when we got there. He told me how proud he was of me, and I remember thinking how wonderful that made me feel. I thought that this man, who worked so hard at his job, who knew so much, who had always provided for me and my brothers and mother, and was always helping me;this man whom I so admired was proud of me, and wanted to tell me. It made me feel good about myself.
Now, that I am married and would like to be a father myself someday, I can only hope to be half as good an example of a father as mine was for me. I am still in shock that he is gone. But I know that having such a wonderful father will live on with me for all my life, and that death can't take away all the gifts that he has given me. It can't take away his love, his wisdom, his joy, his desire to help others, his dedication to work, and his love of life. All these things he taught me by his example, and many more. I guess I just wanted to say, despite how much I feel robbed, how much I truly feel so lucky to have had such a man for a father.
Your loving son
Bruce Swoyer
May 21, 2002
First Walt was my boss-then my wine partner and my friend - forever. This past weekend Joe Zola and I and our families bottled the last batch of wine that Walt had made. Walt loved making the wine and loved sharing it with others. Like he did his time and his wisdom.
There are a few words that I find comfort from in the writings of Kahlil Gibran’s The Prophet:
“And let your best be for your friend. If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also. For what is your friend that you shooed seek him with hours to kill? Seek him with hours to live. For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness. And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart find its morning and is refreshed.”
“And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered? Only when you drink from the river of silence, shall you indeed sing. And when you have reached the mountaintop, then you shall begin to climb. And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then you shall truly dance.”
I miss you Walt!!!
Charlie Hollenden
May 21, 2002
You must have been my inspiration
To be able to write such a dedication.
There once was a man by the name of Walt
a person in whom I could find no fault.
You can always ask his wife
How he affected everyone's life.
He helped the kids to read at school
They all thought he was really cool.
You don't have far to look
Just read what everyone wrote in his book.
He was a loving husband and father
To him nothing was ever a bother.
If you could pick your brother in law
He would be the best pick of all.
Now I hope and pray
He will help me everyday.
To be as good a man as he
Would be the best I could want to be.
God I know is in our hearts
As now we are so far apart.
I will always hope and pray
To be with you again some day.
I know you don't want us to feel so sad
Please say hello to my dad.
On this the closing night
I have thought of this to write.
We love you Walt this is true
We will miss you in all we do.
I know you know I'm far from a poet
now all our family must really know it!
Your loving brother-in-law and friend,
Charlie
Charles Hollenden
May 20, 2002
You personally guided me with your knowledge into the computerized world. And with this I will be able to begin my future career.
We all dream about having a happy marriage, having lots of friends, but few of us can achieve it. We all would like to spend our final hours with our loved ones happily among the roses. Alot of us are 'dream'ers but few are 'do'ers. Every man dies, but not every man really lives. Uncle Walt, you really lived your life like few of us only dream about. You touched so many in the short time we all have to live. Although your life was cut short, you'll be in our hearts always.
Michael Hollenden
May 19, 2002
Dear Uncle Walt,
You were one of kindest people I ever met in my whole life. I will deeply miss everything about you, like when ever I would see you, you would alway be smiling or when ever we went over to your house for a family party you would make me feel right at home. I will love you always.
Love,
Mike
Tracie Rhoades
May 16, 2002
Happy Birthday Dad Rhoades!
I miss you very much.
Love, Tracie
steve rhoades
May 15, 2002
Happy Birthday Walt.
I hope you knew how much you were loved and how deeply you'll be missed.
Cathy Rhoades
May 15, 2002
Dearest Family & Friends,
Today is the perfect day to let you all know how much your touching tributes to my Walt mean to me and our family.
The pain and shock that is in our hearts is indescribable and we are missing him so very deeply. So deeply that I wonder if we will ever be able to go forward without him. But, you all know what a special force he was and continues to be for us, so I feel that he is somehow sending us strength to cope. (I hope he sends even more.)
When I was a young girl, I can remember a teacher in school who reminded the students to choose a life partner who would help make us a better person and to bring us closer to God. I chose well.
Walt has not only enriched my life but our children's lives as well. He will continue to be our inspiration.
I know that he loved all of you and cared deeply for his family and friends. He was a patient, kind, and generous man. A man that I will always be proud to have had as my sweetheart, friend, and husband.
He was my everything. I celebrate his life today, his birthday, and will continue to do so everyday.
I hope you all will join me in a quiet prayer of thanks to our creator for allowing Walt to share his life with us.
Gratefully,
Walt's Cathy
Nancy Feerick
May 14, 2002
HAPPY, HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY TO OUR WALT
It is difficult to believe that it
is almost a month since our beloved
Walt was called home. But what a
joyous celebration there was in
heaven that day - for as it was
mentioned by the parish priest at
Walt's funeral Mass - Walt wrote a
Gospel everyday, and this way of life will be a guide for all of us. As adults and young adults, we
have talked about the beautiful life
that Walt has shared with us, and I
have thought also of his wonderful
life that was shared with so many younger people - the babies and
children. Therefore, I would like
to start with the words Jesus spoke
to us so many times in Sacred Scripture " Let the children come to
me, for of such is the kingdom of
heaven." It is safe to say that this gospel message was a part of
Walt's life, as we all know the great love he had for children. It
was about four years ago that I hadthe privilege of going to Ireland
to visit relatives, and to my great
surprise, I was blessed with the
wonderful presence of my dear cousin
Cathy and her husband Walt, and my
dear cousin Mary. We had a great time and many laughs, and many
beautiful sights to see. Near the
end of our trip, I returned to my
cousin Mary's farm, and introduced
my cousins to them. Needless to say
they welcomed us with open arms and
loved Cathy, Walt, and Mary. My cousin Mary, whose farm we visited,
had two little boys - one was just a
year old ( James ) and the other was
just 2 1/2 ( Gerard ). Gerard was
just learning to do puzzles, and he
immediately sat with "Mr. Walt" to do the puzzles. He never left his
lap. No matter what he wanted to do
Mr Walt did it with him. He loved Mr. Walt, so much so that when it was time for us to go visit the
farmland where my father was born,
he chose to go with Walt,Cass, and
Mary, while I went with his mother
in her car. It was evident to me
that through the eyes of a child, he
could see the presence of a loving
Father. Gerard had never seen Walt
before, but he cerainly proved to be
a favorite of his forever. The
gentle, kind manner of Walt was so
evident, that this little child felt
safe and secure in the presence of
this wonderful man. I share this
story so that all those little ones
who cannot speak their love for Walt
can have their voices heard. This
was just one more way the Gospel of
Jesus was lived by Walt Rhoades. In
the name of all these children, I say Thank you, Walt, for sharing
your life with us. We will miss you
and pray to you. And I also add my
prayers to that, Thank you, Walt, for always being so special in my
life. I miss you and I shall pray
to you. We all love you here, and
I know you will remember us to our
loving Father up there, and we shall
never forget you. God bless my
wonderful cousin Cathy, her sons,
and daughters-in-law, and all our
relatives and friends, and grant us
the grace to carry on the good work
that Walt has begun for us. We all
have been blessed.
P>S> Just a little note that my
cousin Gerard loved us too, and he
cried when the "cousins from America" left. But Walt was the
special man who could do all the
puzzles and everything just right.
Sent with love always on Walt's
birthday - May 15th.
Cathy's loving cousin,
Nancy
(aka Sister James Anne)
Brian Hollenden
May 5, 2002
Uncle Walt,
You were the kindest, smartest, most humble person I have ever had the pleasure to know. You always made a point to find out what was new with me. We would talk about school, work, the future and you would tell me how proud you were of me. I guess I never told you how proud I was to have an uncle like you. You have touched so many lives. So many of us are better people because of you. You really did make a difference by living the gospel. My mom has told me many stories about how you have helped, looked after, and taken care of her; for this, I thank you. You appreciated life to the fullest and we will never forget you. Although we can never completely understand why you were taken from us, I can begin to take comfort in the fact that someone must need you more in heaven than we do on earth.
Rita Hollenden
May 3, 2002
My big brother was a very special person. All these written tributes tell of a little part of that specialness. He meant so much to so many people. His farewell memorial was given by a very sincere priest who said his life was his gospel and he lived it to the fullest. As his life has been an example of this, I believe he wants us to realize that very thing with his passing. Take each moment and make something special of it. Share your love and talents with those less fortunate. He did! We all have so much to give without even realizing it.
Sonny was a family nickname we called him when we were little and sometimes even now I would slip. He wasn't really crazy about it but he never seemed to mind when I would call him that. It was ok. He just made me feel that everything I did was ok with him. He had that way about him. He was my mom's pride and joy and my dad's firstborn son. He helped look after us when we were little; checked our homework to make sure it was done and corrected our mistakes. He did these responsible tasks to make things easier for my mom. He cared so much about other people even as a little boy. So many of us depended on him. You could always call him with help for anything. He was happy to do it he would say. I admired everything he ever did and unfortunately never got around to telling him so.
I know he is in a better place now and will watch over his family and keep them out of harm's way. He's the angel that Cathy has always been painting and will be a forever presence and strength that Cathy and their three wonderful sons with their wives will be able to draw upon when needed. I'm hoping that the many happy memories you have of him will help sustain you in your times of saddness. I miss him so much but I know he will live on in all of our hearts forever.
Tracey Rhoades
May 2, 2002
Those who know me, rarely find me speechless. Today, after nearly two weeks, I still remain so. Nothing could have prepared me for the loss of my father-in-law. He was a truly special man. I know in my heart that he would have done anything for me, as if I were his own daughter. I will miss him immensely and feel blessed for the short amount of time that he was in my life. I hope somehow that he knows how I felt. My father-in-law touched so many lives. It has been my priviledge to know him and to have married his son Walt.
The Snickerdoodlers group
April 29, 2002
Dear Cathy,
We are so sorry to hear of Walter's passing. As members of your email
family, we knew him through your trip reports and other missives, and we
got the sense that Walter was a wonderful husband and father. We share in
your loss and our thoughts are with you.
Lee Suckow
John Atkinson
Scott Lowe
Kathryn Gehrs-Pahl
Frances Rhoades
April 29, 2002
Most of all I will remember my brother Walt for being a great listener. What a rare quality to be found in an individual today! Whenever we spoke, I knew he was listening, quietly he would ask the right questions. A trouble, a burden - he'd always make it lighter, just by listening, being there. And I always knew I could count on him if I needed anything.
Whenever I asked him, "and Walt, how are you doing?" He'd allways reply, "Oh, I'm fine."
Before we left for this trip, there was a message on the answering machine from him. "Franny, I want to wish you, Richard and Scott a wonderful trip." He never missed an opportunity to wish you well. His messages always were so sincere - even his VoiceMail at work - I'm sorry I can't take your call right now, but leave a mesasge and I WILL get back to you just as soon as I can - he really cared about people and their feelings. He was so geniune - no political correctness for him. He always spoke from the heart! And how he loved - an did - for his family. There wasn't a selfish or unkind thing about him. My brother had a truly beautiful soul. I will miss him sorely.
Suzy Takeuchi Geli
April 29, 2002
To Cathy & Family:
So sorry for your loss and deepest sympathies to you and your family. I was recently at a memorial service and someone there said that when a loved one leaves this world, they are not really gone because they are still in your hearts and the eyes of your children. Please take time to heal and remember the happiest of memories. My prayers are with you and your family.
Pat Stephens
April 28, 2002
I have known Cathy and through her, her whole family and life, on an e-mail group for over 10 years. She has shown us what I preceived as a real family in these times. My heart goes out to her and all of hers!!! Pat, Amber, Oliver Stephens
Stace Kahn
April 28, 2002
Oh Cathy, I am so shocked and sad. Please know that my thoughts are with you, my friend.
Kathy Rhoades-Hochheiser
April 27, 2002
Through Walt’s Eyes
My turn here is over. I would have liked it to be longer but I guess it was okay—my time was much longer than many others.
I sure had the best though—my Cathy, my beauty, I can’t believe I got her; my sons, no one was more blessed (and what wonderful wives Walt and Steve found); my mom and dad sure loved me; my brothers and sisters were great—crazy, but great; all the rest of my family and Cathy’s, well, I really was fortunate; and what great friends I knew starting from when I was young and all the way through. Whew, I had the best.
Yeah, I had a lot of responsibilities. Sometimes they felt like a lot. But, I actually found I enjoyed them. Life might have been easier without them but it wouldn’t have been the same without them. I guess now those responsibilities will pass to others—I hope they will pass to others—since I wouldn’t want to see them unattended.
I think I picked a good field for myself. Work didn’t work out exactly as I would have preferred. But you have to work and I had it better than most. They never made me president of the company, but, heck, that’s a lot of work and if they had, I never would have had the opportunity to meet many of the people I had the pleasure of working with and getting to know and enjoy.
Gosh, did I love my maker and my faith. What would life have been like without them. I didn’t understand why he did everything the way he did, but I believed there must have been some good reason.
In addition to my beloved family and friends, there were all the things I enjoyed, that made life so full…so rich—travelling (all the beautiful and interesting places Cathy and I saw), putting our house together, playing basketball, our garden, the birds, the sixers, history, making wine, eating, laughing.
If I could have stayed until I retired, I would have enjoyed more free time. There were a lot of things I would have liked exploring and I would have liked to just relax. And, there seemed to be so many people who needed some help. They seemed to have it tough. Made me so aware of how good I had it. I would have liked the opportunity to make it a little better for them.
I guess I just didn’t get to the free time part, but I sure did have the best of the rest.
(In memory of my dear brother, Walt. Love, Kathy)
David Matchick
April 26, 2002
Dear Mrs. Rhoades and Family,
I would again like to offer my heartfelt sympathy to your family at the loss of a simply amazing young man. Please know that the whole of the PPL Nuclear Department will miss him greatly. Each and every one of us liked and respected him like no other.
Walt used to playfully call me "Lucky", and I, in a show of feigned formality, would call him "Walter." I often wondered at how he arrived at his moniker for me, but have found out in a way that neither of us would ever have fathomed.
It turns out that I was just so very lucky, as so many of us, to know, and to be able to call a friend, a person as wonderful as Walt.
He was, in a way that cannot begin to bespeak the depth of his true kindness,
A Beautiful Man
Scott Lowe
April 26, 2002
Cathy
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart goe out to you and your family.
Walter sounds like he was a great husband, father, friend, brother and boss.
As part of your email family I share your loss.
God bless you and your family at this difficul time.
Joan Klucharich
April 26, 2002
Dear Cathy and Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. Walt was such a great person. Always making you feel important. I remember when I started working with him again, he always took the time to find out how things were going and wanted to know all about my family.
I will miss his daily hellos and always asking me for quarters!
Take care everyone and help each other to get through this difficult time. We'll miss you, Walt!
John Feerick
April 25, 2002
Walt was always a gentleman and kind person to everyone.We who were fortunate to know him are better for it.For my cousin Cathy,we will always have fond memories of Walt.May he rest in peace in the arms of Our Lord.God Bless Walt-We will miss you
Danny Reinsmith
April 25, 2002
I only have fond memories of working (at PPL) and playing (lunchtime basketball at Salvation Army) with Walt. He was well respected by, and had sincere respect for, all those whom he came into contact with, on and off the court. God bless all those who were close to him.
Michele Fogarty
April 25, 2002
Walt was my supervisor yet so much more. Over the last few years he became a mentor and a friend. During the last year as I was struggling with a mid-life crisis and the question of “What do I want to be when I grow up”, Walt was right there helping me to figure it all out. What he helped me to realize was that the question was not What rather than Who. Well I now know that who I want to be is a person just like Walt, a loyal friend, an adoring spouse, a devoted parent, a selfless volunteer, a compassionate leader, …
Tom Oldenhage
April 25, 2002
Walt was the first person at PP&L that I knew; he interviewed me and hired me as an engineer in his group. Although I left his group about a year later and moved around a lot in the Nuclear Dept., he continued to be a truly good friend. He was a wonderful person who always took time to talk with you and find out how you were doing and help you through any issues or problems you were struggling with. He had a way of always bringing a smile to your face.
He had a knack for making you feel special and important…I remember one time when I worked for him, we were discussing something and his phone rang. He reached over and switched off the ringer. I asked him why he did that and he replied, “you’re here with me and you’re more important than someone who just happened to call me at this time”. This was typical of Walt and the way he acted.
I was very saddened to hear of his passing. I feel lucky that I knew him and I will miss not having him around. He will truly be missed by everyone’s life that he has touched, as a supervisor, a co-worker and a friend.
Mike Rhoades
April 25, 2002
"To My Big Brother"
No words could ever tell of the sadness I feel over the loss of my big brother. Walt was the oldest of my brothers and sisters, and a gulf of over 18 years separated us in age. That would be enough for most brothers to avoid the encumbrances of having an annoying
little brother around. That was not Walt though. Walt would always
make an effort to include me in the things he did. He was a symbol of
gentle strengh for me, a model of what a real man should be--strong,
capable and smart--but tempered with sensitivity, humility and caring. I always knew that no matter what would happen in life, I could count on Walt. This gave me a sense of safety and comfort I know I will never again have in this world.
His time here was too short. But in that time, I know Walt lived life. He did not wait for the world to come to him, as so many of us do, he went to it. He embraced each minute that he was given. I know that he was taken early because heaven needed an extra angel, and God knew the right man for the job.
I will miss you Walt, for the rest of my days.
Newton Caldwell
April 25, 2002
Cath,
I was terribly saddened to learn of your enormous and sudden loss. Only the passage of time will help alleviate your sorrow. You are in my thoughts.
Newton
Rosemarie Ford
April 24, 2002
I did not know Walt Rhoades very well, although I wish I did. He is my brother in law Steve's brother. When I heard of Walt's sudden death, I just could not believe it. The last time I saw him was at Krissie's graduation party. Cathy and he walked out the door with Bill and I. He was joking and laughing. It seemed as though whenever I saw him, that was what he was doing. I often listened to stories about how Cathy and Walt had done so many special things with Kim and Kris. It was obvious that they adored the girls and they felt the same about their aunt and uncle. Walt's kindness, his generous spirit, his love for his family were always so evident. He truly was a beautiful person. Cathy and Walt - perfect together. He will be missed by many!
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Know that Walt will touch your lives with many little miracles. Open your hearts to the gifts he will continue to give you.
Rosemarie Ford
Kathy Hayes
April 24, 2002
Dear Family, Co-Workers, and Friends,
Like the rest of you, I am so very sad when I think of our great loss.
For our Walt was such a wonderful person and perhaps even someone's boss!
Sometimes at family get togethers, Walt would often say...
He'd like my writing poems and telling a story in a rhyming way!
I always meant to write one for him but unfortunately didn't get around to it,
So please bear with me, as now I'd like to share his life with all of you and finally do it!
Hailing from West Philly, as the oldest child in a family of six,
Walt's family always adored him and even loved his tricks!
Walt was always the devoted older brother!
And encouraged his two brothers and three sisters to always love one another!
Right after graduating from West, while still in his teens,
Walt met my cousin Cathy - the girl of his dreams!
After dating for three years, June 19,1965, became the happiest day of his life,
For that's when he and Cathy married, becoming man and wife!
I was happy to be in their wedding and always admired them so
Even though, I now look back that it was so many years ago!
After honeymooning in Cape Cod and having the time of their life,
Walt and Cathy got an apartment near Drexel and returned to the strife!
Those early years, were extremely grueling!
Raising a family, working at GE, and tons of night-time schooling!
As the years followed, Walt and Cathy were very blessed!
For three wonderful sons - Walt, Steve, and Dave were born to carry on the family crest!
Walt loved moving to Allentown and working as his beloved PP&L as an engineer!
He'd often remark how happy he was and glad he met so many people who became very dear!
Walt and Cathy were so very glad...
PP&L were part of their life and thankful for all the trips they had.
Their recent trip to Germany last fall...
Will always remain a treasure for Cathy to recall!
Walt's last few years have had lots of ups and downs,
Losing his Mom and facing his brother's Steve and son's Steve illnesses would often make him frown!
But Walt and Cathy had always wanted five children to share their life!
They were elated but guess they couldn't decide on a name, cause Tracie and Tracey became their daughters and Walt and Steve's wives!
As a devoted son, brother, husband, father, uncle, cousin, and friend,
Walt was always there for anyone who knew him even to the end!
Walt always had time to help with scouts, and all types of sports, especialy his beloved basketball!
It's no wonder anyone who knew him always loved him afterall!
There are so many more things to say about my cousin Walt,
His great wine, his love of life, and his love of others without a fault!
But, alas, it's time for me to end this little story,
I hope I've shared with you some of Walt's glory!
I am very thankful to have known Walt and was glad to read all the nice accounts of his life,
My last wish is for God to bless all of you and for you to please remember his wonderful family, especially, Cathy, his wife.
Love Always,
Kathy
Mariann Miller
April 24, 2002
I have worked for Walt on many occasions since 1979 and to know and work for Walt is to love and respect a truly compassionate and giving person. He cared so much!and he always made time to ask how you were doing or how your family was, etc. and he really listened. He was a mentor and a true leader to all of us who worked for him. We will miss him terribly. My deepest sympathy to Cathy and all of Walt's family ... the world is a lesser place without him.
Pat Farrell
April 24, 2002
Dear Cathy,
I just heard about Walt & wanted to say how sorry I am.. I know that words can't "make it better" but hopefully the sorrow will be lifted through your beautiful memories of your life with Walt.
Even though we have never met face to face I feel like I know you. I have enjoyed your e-mails over the years.
Please know that I am keeping you & your family in my thoughts & prayers.
Love,
Pat
Linda Gryczewski
April 24, 2002
Dear Cathy,
I am shocked and saddened to hear about Walt's death. My heartfelt condolences go to you and your family. You are all in my prayers.
- Lin
Tracy Bryant
April 24, 2002
I have had just one chance to visit with Walt and Cathy, when they came to San Francisco a few years ago. (I've known Cathy for years by e-mail). We all went out to dinner and had a fabulous time. Walt struck me right away as warm, generous, intelligent and funny, and I can see why so many have fond memories of him. I feel like I've gotten to know him a little bit, also, through Cathy's e-mails and through the remembrances posted here. I am greatly saddened to hear of his passing. I will be upholding you, Cathy, and all your family in my prayers. God bless you.
Jacquie Boller
April 24, 2002
My heartfelt condolences, my dear Cathy...although we've never met, I feel I've gotten to know you well over the years in email, and even got to know Walt with your travel stories, the weddings, and joyful times. Hold on to these treasured times and know many are thinking of you...
Randy Moyer
April 24, 2002
Walt was a true friend and personal mentor during my days in Allentown. As my supervisor in the early 1980's, he instilled trust, wisdom, and motivation in my daily work. Walt was aways a great source of encouragement to me. I could count on him for advice and help with most any problem or concern. We enjoyed many hours of basketball together, including trips to South Philly to enjoy a Pat's cheesesteak and a night with Dr. J and the Sixers. Walt and Cathy hosted a wonderful going-away party for me when I left PPL Allentown in 1989. I will never forget their kindness and friendship. We were all blessed with his life. I offer my heart-felt sympathy to Cathy and the rest of Walt's family.
Peg Rhoades
April 24, 2002
My brother-in-law, Walt, was one of
the finest persons I've known in my
lifetime. He was more of a brother to me - forget the in-law stuff. How he loved his family! His devotion to all of us and his interest in everything that touched out lives was remarkable.
When reading the email from his friend who was moving and Walt sat in the truck with the 16 year old young lady who wanted to drive, I laughed and cried at the same time, because I recall so vividly when I was trying to learn how to drive a stick shift and no one (not even my
husband!) would have the courage to
drive with me. There was Walt right
there in the car with me in the parking lot while I drove like a bucking bronco and gave the poor guy
whiplash, I'm sure! What a great sport he always was.
He loved our daughters as if they
were his own and they have such wonderful memories to keep with them
forever of Uncle Walt.
I loved him very much and will miss
him terribly.
My love to our Cathy, Walt, Steve and Dave, Tracey and Tracie.
Dr Zoe Backman
April 24, 2002
My heart-felt condolences on your loss. I know there are no words to help. Know that we are here, if you need us.
Courtney Cosenza
April 24, 2002
As a child I can remember going to Allentown for family occasions in the summer and winter months. Although sharing the backseat with my brother seemed like such a high price to pay, the reward of spending time with Aunt Cathy and Uncle Walt and all my cousins seemed to make up for it. I can remember spending countless hours roaming around the neighborhood, at the park, trying to keep up with all my cousins and Uncles on the basketball court, playing volleyball, staying out of the garden, the barbeques and all the enjoyment of just being together. I believe that things have been rather difficult for all of us the past couple years. People who have been such foundations of our lives have been suddenly plucked from our existence. No, it doesn't get any easier. Someday it blindsides you like getting hit with a Mac truck and other days you realize that you didn't think about it. People come and go in our lives but the one thing that remains when they are gone is all the memories that we each hold inside each other. And no one can ever take them away from you. I felt like I got hit with a ton of bricks when I found out Uncle Walt had died. It is amazing how there are certain people that you never realize are mortal. How things can never hurt them. Uncle Walt was one of those people. My father an other. And yes, it will always seem like it only happened yesterday. I can only imagine the pain, the loss that my Aunt and cousins are feeling. I can only imagine the pain of all my aunts and uncles and cousins. I can only imagine the loss that all Uncle Walt's friends and neighbors are feeling. My heart and prayers go with each and every one of you.
Last year, Aunt Kathy took my son to the beach where Aunt Cathy and Uncle Walt had rented a house. Chase was so excited to see the "big sand box" and the water. But to hear the stories he tells of the time that he and Uncle Walt shared just brings a smile to your face. For that one moment in time, Uncle Walt was a two year old again. Getting dirty in the sand. Going out into the ocean. Chasing waves. When I received the news about Uncle Walt my son asked me "Mommy, why are you crying?" I told him that Uncle Walt had died. And that little 3 year old who only got to spend time with his Great Uncle Walt for that brief moment in his life...you know what he said. " No, Mommy. My Uncle Walt didn't die. No Mommy! Not MY Uncle Walt. I don't want him to." I think that pretty much sums up how we are all feeling right about now.
All my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Courtney
Allen Mushin
April 24, 2002
I never met Walter, but through Cathy and the "Mailboxers" e-mail group. I felt like I knew him.
My deepest condolences and may God Bless him and the family.
Lou De Scioli
April 24, 2002
I was terribly saddened to hear that Walt Rhoades passed away. I was married to one of his sisters for 11 years and we shared many Rhoades family celebrations together. I always found warmth and generosity whenever I visited him, Kathy and the boys. I have fond memories of Walt that I will cherish.
David Kostelnik
April 23, 2002
Walt was one of the most compassionate and caring individuals I ever new. He hired me as a CO-OP at PPL in 1978, and then later as a full time engineer in 1981. In all the time that I knew Walt he would always wake time to talk to you and listen to what you had to say. As a supervisor at PPL, Walt was a shining example of how to lead individuals and teach them to do the right thing in everything they did. He will leave a void at PPL that can never be replaced!
Krissie Rhoades
April 23, 2002
Uncle Walt was a wonderful man. He had such a big heart and cared so much about everyone. Uncle Walt was my Godfather and I couldn't have ask for a better one. He cared so much about me and was always there to listen when ever I needed to talk. He loved all of us very much and will be missed greatly. But I know that he will be up in heaven watching over all of us.
Steve Rhoades
April 23, 2002
"The Greatest"
The world is a lesser place with my brother's death.
Walt was truly one of the greatest people I've ever know.
To those of you who knew him, you understand. His compassion, his understanding, his generosity are unequaled; but his immense love for all his family and their love in return is the thing that really stands out the most in my memory of him.
I'll never forget his wicked sense of humor, his passion for basketball and his great spirit.
My mother knew this about Walt, he was always her favorite (lol). I was always jealous of that but I know she had many reasons to feel that way, he was someone really special.
I hope that we, his family and friends, can draw on the memory of his wonderful spirit and with this we'll get through these difficult days ahead.
We thank you all for your sympathies and we offer them back to all of you, Walt's friends and neighbors, for their loss as well.
Marie Tighe
April 23, 2002
Was Shocked and saddened to hear about Walt. Cassie is my husband's cousin. Walt and Cathy were soul-mates and she and her boys and their wives will surely miss him.
He was very loving as a husband and father.
If I can help in any way please contact me.
Love,
Mary Lou Tighe
Justine Adams
April 23, 2002
I've never actually met Walt, Sr., nor have I ever spoken to him. But, I feel as if he were a wonderful longtime friend. I am an e-mail buddy of his wife, Cathy. I've heard many funny, sentimental, happy, warm, caring and cute stories about Walt from Cathy. I've seen through her words what a wonderful man, husband and father Walt is. Her words have shown a man who is kind, thoughtful and loving. The other comments in this guestbook only serve to bolster this impression I have of him. This is a great loss to Cathy and his remaining family and I pray that God helps them through this great loss. Cathy knows that she will always have my love, support and prayers. With love and sorrow, Justine.
Donna Link-Cerruti
April 22, 2002
What words can do justice to Walt? He was such an honest, caring, and supportive person I know. Walt was my supervisor almost 20 years ago when I first started with the company. He encouraged me to go back to school to pick a field that I would enjoy.
Just recently, he helped me move back to Allentown with other co-workers. When my 16 year old daughter wanted to drive the moving truck around the block, Walt was the only one who would go with her! Talk about courage! He believed in living in the moment and experiencing all that one could.
I played on a volleyball team for many years with Walt and at times Steve and Dave joined us. We all had fun. I will miss you Walt. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Gary Shay
April 22, 2002
I have fond memories of working with Walt back in the early 1980s.
He alwawys had a kind word for everyone. He will be missed.
John Rothe
April 22, 2002
I have knowm Walt as a co-worker since joining PPL in 1981. He was a wonderful person of refreshing candor and strong integrity. He will be greatly missed by me and his co-workers. Walt and his family are in my prayers.
Dave Pai
April 22, 2002
I am very sorry to learn about Walt. I worked with Walt for many years. I want to express my deepest condolences and prayers to the family of one of the best people I had the pleasure to know. He was a great friend, kind, caring, and cheerful person. I will miss you, Walt.
John Murray
April 22, 2002
Walt was a good friend and a valued co-worker. He'll be missed by many, many people. My prayers and heart felt condolences go out to his family.
Susan Speicher
April 22, 2002
Family and Friends,
I was so sorry to hear about Walt. I worked on the same floor as Walt when I started in the Nuclear Department on GENA63. What a kind and caring man. My heart and prayers go out to you. We will all miss him very much. God bless you.
Rich Tombasco
April 22, 2002
I would like to express my deepest condolences to the family of one of one the best individuals I had the pleasure to know while working at PPL. In addition, Walt was a good friend and a longtime basketball teammate. I will really miss Walt!!
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