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LYLA CARIS Obituary

LYLA KAY CARIS 8/20/1943 - 9/11/2025 Lyla Kay Caris, age 82, of Paulding, OH passed away on Thursday, September 11, 2025 at Lutheran Hospital, Fort Wayne, IN. Kay was born on August 20, 1943 in Van Wert County, OH to the late John and Ruth (Swartz) Wilkin. On August 26, 1961 she married James "Jim" Caris. Kay grew up in Wetzel, OH where she worked at her family's grocery store, the John W. Wilkin General Store. She was a member of the first graduating class of Lincolnview High School, class of 1961. Kay had many activities she loved in her life which included, reading, cooking, baking, canning, crocheting, and the music of Elvis Presley. She enjoyed going to car cruise-ins with Jim, watching Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy!, and spending time with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Kay worked for 20 years for Paulding Exempted Schools in the cafeteria and later as a custodian. She was involved in Music Mothers when her children were in school, coached little girls softball, and was a presiding judge for the Paulding County Board of Elections. She is survived by her husband of 64 years, James "Jim" Caris, Paulding, OH; children:Sharon (David) Arens, Sherwood, OH; Bruce (Cheryl) Caris, Sherwood, OH; James (Angie) Caris, Fort Wayne, IN; Brian (Susan) Caris, Fort Shawnee, OH; Karen Caris, Defiance, OH; sister, Joyce (Ron) Weck, Paulding, OH; brother, Roger Wilkin, Wetzel, OH; grandchildren: Madison (Garrett) Jones, Bailey Caris, James Paul Caris, and Maykayla Belle Caris; great grandchildren: Ryann and Cameron Jones. Kay is also preceded in death by her brothers John "Butch" Wilkin and Larry Wilkin. Private services will be held at the convenience of the family at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made in Kay's memory to the Paulding County Carnegie Library or to the Caring and Sharing Food Pantry. Online condolences may be shared at www.denherderfh.com.

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Published by Monroe County Beacon from Sep. 17 to Sep. 24, 2025.

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