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Anne Dicarlo Obituary

Anne Kathryn (Bingham) a life-long learner of anything and everything,Irish Football loving,aspiring author,nonstop boss and friend,who relished being a loving wife and mother passed away on Friday,April 5 at Mercy Hospital in her home town of Merced after a ten month battle with Leukemia. A voracious reader,she excelled in academicsand played flute in the band at Merced High School. Upon graduation in 1993,Anne went to Harvard College, leaving after two and a half years to return home for a breif period before attending UC Santa Barbara. It was here that Anne found (not knowing) the love of her life, Tim DiCarlo. At the time, Anne found him to be nice,but "unable tokeep his attention on any one thing for more then a few seconds."
After college Anne worked as a social worker in Tulare County. Within a few years, Anne wanted more learning. She went to ,and fell in love with the University of Notra Dame. Here, Anne's passion for learning, football, career, and most importantly-faith in god were rekindled. After earning an MBA, Anne lived in San Jose, criss-crossing the country recruiting for intel. Anne's passion for learning overpowered her,again. She moved to Philadelphia to obtain a PhD at Drexel University. After seven months, "rescued" her, causing Anne to receive the only poor grades of her academic career.
Upon moving back to Merced, Anne passionately worked to help others transition to bigger and better things. Anne worked at UC Merced and Merced College, helping students make it to the next level. While being a career woman, new mom,and mommy to be, Anne earned her Doctorate of Education from CSU Stanislaus before deciding to split her time between JUST being a career woman, mom, author, fitness junkie, and a member of Soroptimists.
During her life , Anne developed close ties with both the family who adopted her, and her biological family. She held both dear,and loved both severely. Anne is preceded in death by her adoptive father,Lowell Bingham. She is survived by her adoptive mother Kathy Grissett, brother Nicholas,as well as many aunts and uncles from this part of her family. Anne is also survived by her biological mother, Connie Jones, sister Alison Jones, biological father Bruce Poole, stepmother Mary Marshall, and a large pool of Pools from that part of the family. Anne's passing also leaves behind her husband Tim,and two children,Emma Grace and Matthew David Sale... as well aas a myriad of friends whom Anne loved.
Services will be held to celebrate Anne at 11 a.m. on Saturday, May 4, 2019 at Central Presbyterian Church. The services are open for all who wish to attend. There will be light refreshments following. The church is located at 1920 canal Street, Merced.
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Published by Merced Sun Star from Apr. 26 to Apr. 29, 2019.

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Dr. Len Wynn-Summers, Ed.D.

April 20, 2025

Anne is still a part of daily prayers.

At times, her presence is felt like a gentle breeze catching you by surprise.

~Len
Stan State 2017

Dr. Len Wynn-Summers

April 20, 2024

They say, "Time...heals everything and the memories last a lifetime".
You are not forgotten through my daily prayers. Somehow, I feel you are in a place near God spreading your love. Gone but not forgotten!

O. Powell

December 21, 2023

It has been a almost 4 years and I still think of you and our chats. You were an angelic presence and such a beautiful soul friend. Love you!

Anne deOliviera

April 20, 2022

You are still so often in my thoughts, Dear Anne, you and your father, Lowell, both.
Missing you does not get easier. But the memories and just being grateful for having known you goes a long way in healing.

My love and concern for Tim and your two children endures.

Dr. Len Wynn-Summers, Friend and CSU Stanislaus Classmate

April 20, 2022

Still missing you, Anne!

Daryl Fitzgerald

December 19, 2021

I was saddened to learn of Anne's passing this past Thursday. I send my condolences to her husband and family.
I had the privilege of working with Anne for several years. She was a wonderful person, intelligent, energetic, collaborative, and a great colleague. May God continue to give strength to her family.

Len Wynn-Summers

April 20, 2020

I cant count the numbers of times Ive tried to write this note. Even after a year, Im still shocked and perplexed by her not being here and not being able to say to her, Hello. I still tear-up because it brings back memories of the sudden passing of my late-wife from a drunk driver in 2009.
Moreover, she sensed that I was having a tough time fitting-in with our fellow classmates at CSU Stanislaus, so we she worked me on class assignments. I never got the chance to thank her for being so understanding. This is why Im crying as I write this note.

Len Wynn-Summers

May 10, 2019

I am so fortunate to have gotten to know Anne during my doctoral program at CSU Stanislaus, including all the projects we paired together. I'm so deeply saddened but certain you are still spreading your love in heaven.

Anne deOliviera

May 6, 2019

I first met Anne when she was a serious, quiet and beautiful six year old. I was friends with her father. Throughout Anne's life she has achieved academically, but her true legacy that I feel blessed to receive a part in is her kindness, joy and generosity. Matthew and Emma Grace, you have a great mother. Tim, my deepest sympathy for your loss. You were a wonderful husband. Anne loved all of you and all the rest of her family so very much.

Jeanette Benson

May 2, 2019

Anne was truly angelic. Her inner and outer beauty combined with her kindness, intellectual and emotional intelligence set her apart from the crowd. You could feel her presence in the room. I was blessed to have known Anne and my prayers are with her loved ones. My condolences to her family.

Pam Kamenski

April 26, 2019

An amazing woman whose life ended way too early. May God Bless her husband Tim, children and all family members, R.I.P. Anne, you will be truly missed.

Kimberly Wood

April 26, 2019

An amazing woman whose life was cut too short. My love and prayers

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