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1923
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2012
Patricia Rucker Obituary
April 25, 1923-November 27, 2012
Patricia was born in Newkirk, Ok. to Harold S. & Queen B. Burke as the forth of five children. They moved to California when she was 12. She graduated from Merced High in 1941. Soon after she met and began dating Robert F. Rucker. Rucker left to fight the war and Pat moved to Oakland to work. When Rucker returned she moved back to Merced and they were married in 1944. They had five children, Bob, Greg, Cindy, Gary & Bill. Pat was active in the community, serving as Honor Queen of Merced Bethel #65 Jobs Daughters in 1941. She wasPast President of Merced Womens Club, Merced PTA, United Methodist Women, also serving on various committes. She was honored by the Merced Old Times Association and loved to play Bridge with her Bridge friends. Patricia was preceded in death by her parents and siblings Brother Louis and Sister Margerie of Newkirk Ok., Harold S. Jr.(Hal)&wife MArgaret of Mountain View & Beatrice Lewis(Richard) of Merced. Pat was also preceded in death by her husband Robert and son Greg of Merced, nieces Janet Lewis Swenson of Salinas and Valerie Lewis of Sacramento, also in laws Tom & Ethel Rucker, Monte Hall & June Rucker Hall of Merced and nephew Steve Hall(Val) of McKinleyville.She is survived by children Bob(Micki), Cindy, Gary(Leslie) & Bill, nephew Richard H. Lewis (Pat), & her dear long time friend Carolyn Price. She also leaves 10 Grandchildren, 15 Great Grandchildren, 1 Great-great Grandson, and many favorite nieces & nephews. A graveside service will be at Merced District Cemetery on Friday December 7th at 10:00A.M., followed by a Celebration of Life at the United Methodist Church, 899 Yosemite Parkway at 11:00A.M. Memorial contributions would be appreciated to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation or the Alzheimer's Association.
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Teppera Chesher
December 17, 2012
Everyone in our family Orien, Tom, Teppera, MK and Chris send out love and Respect. You are in our hearts and so is your family.
December 13, 2012
Bob Rucker So sorry to hear the passing of your MOM. I worked many years with her at UCB. She was a kind and warm person. Please accept my sincere condolences.
ROSIE PEIRCE
December 7, 2012
So Sorry to hear of your loss.
George and Dona Widlund
Springfield, Mo.
Ernie Williams
December 5, 2012
Bob, Micki and family, I was so sorry to read this today. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Ashley Hiser
December 5, 2012
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Steve & Valora Teranishi
December 5, 2012
Dear Bob & Micki, and family,
We are so saddened to learn of your Mother's passing. She lived a long & rewarding life. We remember her from our days of working at the bank (UCB-FIB), years ago, back when banking was a personal service business. Times have changed. We understand the sense of loss that comes from losing one's parents and nothing quite fills that void, but if you keep her memory alive in your hearts, she will continue to live on forever. Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your families.
Sincerely,
Steve & Valora Teranishi
Chris Kirby
December 5, 2012
Growing up and being accepted into the Rucker family was a privilege and the most fun. Aunt Pat's love and patience was felt by all. May your happy memories comfort you. God's blessings to all.
Keesha Romero
December 5, 2012
Grandma was the most beautiful, loving, caring, fun and supportive Grandma. I have many many memories of and with her. She will be missed very much!! from your graddaughter what loves you!! xoxo
Niki Mussotto
December 5, 2012
Prayers go out to your family for your loss! May your memories keep her alive in your hearts.
Wayne Kirby Mariposa
December 5, 2012
Bob,Cindy,Gary,William,and family.So sorry for your loss. Some of my fondest memories are at the Rucker home. I just know your dad and Greg,as well as others aare loving and hugging her.Knowing my dad will be there with a big hug as well.All my love to all of you.
Jackie Partch-Parker
December 5, 2012
Bob: I am sorry to hear of your mothers passing. Its hard to lose your mom as I well know. Please accept my sincere condolences.
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