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Ellen Mitchell Spiller
December 23, 2013
A friend since elementary school. He always kept me up to date on what went on with the class of 54. We will miss him.
Jim Dudka
December 21, 2013
A great man. Was my coach in baseball at Tenaya and football with little guys. Playing sports ingrains persistence, effort, teamwork, and sacrifice into you at a young age; an attitude that pays dividends for the rest of your life -- and Coach Hayes set the example. I have thought of him often over the last 35 years, especially him yelling, "NO EXCUSES!" when you messed up at practice. A great man who made a big impact on my life that continues to this day. I am deeply saddened by your loss.
Frank Russell
December 21, 2013
Marilyn and the Fam--
So sad to read of my ol' buddy's passing! We had some great times together, especially those years he coached and played "hard-pitch" for our BULLFROG team. We also coached, bowled, and especially laughed a lot together. I remember all of you kids well and thought the world of you.
A life well lived, my friend Slugger!
Niki Mussotto
December 20, 2013
I remember Mr Hayes when he taught Math at Hoover. He was the only teacher I knew that would try to help his troubled students (me) and not judge them. Later on we met again and I could call him Slug now that I was a adult.LOL..He was a get caring person . I am so sorry for your loss.
Michelle
December 19, 2013
Mr. Hayes,
You were always so good to me during my first years as a teacher. You always welcomed me with a smile and a hello! You took great care of all of us at Tenaya. I was blessed to be among the Best of Tenaya's Dinosaurs!
Gary Parker
December 19, 2013
Very good friend. I admired him very much, and will miss him.
Elanor Muratore - DeMartini
December 19, 2013
May God grant you peace and eternal rest. Ray "Slug" has been a friend since elementary school. Ray was a natural leader who included everyone in his circle of friends. Under Ray's leadership the MUHS Class of 1954 enjoyed many festive reunions. Thank you, Ray. It is my honor to have been your friend.
Debbie Rodrigues Wolgemuth
December 19, 2013
Mr. Hayes was always great to me when I was at their home spending the night with Lisa. I remember him playing baseball games with my Dad...teaching me math shortcuts...enjoying reading the newspaper on the weekends. You all shared many wonderful years with Slug and I know that he will be dearly missed. Sending my love and prayers for the peace of God to comfort you in the days ahead.
Dave Delany
December 16, 2013
Sorry to hear of Slug,s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Don Surdich
December 16, 2013
I don't remember when I first met Slug. I went to Galen Clark and I think he went to John Muir. ...he did have a 1934 Ford when he worked at the service station at the corner of 16th & N...the parking lot now of the BoA. One memory that I will take with me when I leave is the Bears were playing Fresno High at the Civic Park out by the fairgrounds. He came up to bat and points to the left field fence.(like Babe Ruth did), and everyone cracked up...but, ya know that he jacked ont out of the park for a home run. He emailed me jokes during the week...I knew something was wrong...did not get any for a while. He was our historian for the Class of 1954...one of a kind. [email protected]
Cindi Ellett
December 16, 2013
So sorry to hear about your loss.
My Prayers are with your family at this time.
Penny Rodrigues/Hadsel
December 15, 2013
Dear Marilyn, I sent your Christmas card yesterday. Robin and I will be there for you on Friday. My love, Penny You two had some wonderful years together.
Judie Bell
December 15, 2013
Thinking of you with love and prayer.
December 14, 2013
Rest in Peace Uncle Slug.
Dave Fusi
December 14, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
I was one of Mr. Hayes' students at McSwain Elementary during his first two years of teaching. I will remember him forever, he was a special person in the lives of many students over the years.
Cal Penrod
December 14, 2013
Marilyn & Family This is such a shock. Iam so sorry. Ray & I were friends for 65 yrs. He was a great man and will be so missed. May God Bless and keep you all. Cal Penrod
Pat Bryson Watson
December 14, 2013
Such a legacy for your family to remember. Will always remember Barbara's big brother and how I wish I had one too. Prayers for all the family. May each of you be comforted by the memories and love that will continue with you forever.
Manuel N Joann Chavez
December 14, 2013
Thoughts and Prayers, to Slugs family, We have known Slugs for many yrs. AS My Boss at Tenaya, but most of all as a friend. May the faith you have help you all get through this difficult time..
Joy (Jordan) Mitchell
December 14, 2013
So sorry to hear of your loss. Wish I could be there on the 20th but my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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