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Alyse McConnell Roach

Alyse Roach Obituary

Alyse McConnell Roach 10-28-1921 - 3-27-2009 passed away peacefully in San Jose while on one of her many trips to California to visit her daughters, Margaret Scheitrum of San Jose and Kathleen Roach of Petaluma. A lifelong resident of Philadelphia, Alyse considered San Jose her second home, and her presence graced many events in the lives of her California family over the last 30 years, including countless birthdays, graduations and even 3 UCSB graduations. A very talented seamstress, avid reader, loyal fan of the Phillies, Eagles, and Flyers, hard-to-beat card player, but most of all, a very devoted and loving wife and mother. Alyse is the beloved wife of the late George Roach and mother of the late Francis Roach. She is survived by her children Margaret Scheitrum (Mark), Raymond (Candace) of Philadelphia, Michael of Austin, TX, Kathleen and Timothy (Cindy) of Cinnaminson, NJ, her San Jose grandchildren Matthew, Daniel, and Melissa Scheitrum, beloved sisters Anne Simons and Catherine Schneider of Philadelphia, and numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren in the Philadelphia area. Friends are invited to attend a Memorial Mass, Mon.,, March 30, 2009, 7 PM, at Leontyne Chapel, Bellarmine College Prepatory. Please park on campus. Arrangements BY LIMA-CAMPAGNA-ALAMEDA MISSION CHAPEL 408 288-9188

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Mar. 29, 2009.

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Cathy Stroup

July 3, 2009

Marge,

It was wonderful to meet your mother at the Fashion Show, Although she didn't know me, we seemed to have instant rapport. I remember her casual elegance, compassion, and sense of humor. I know you will miss her. You are in my prayers.

Barbara Gress

May 17, 2009

Dear Marge,

I am so sorry about your mom. What a wonderful person she was, truly. I didn't know her well - mostly through you and your stories. But the fact that she made a blanket for Julia continues to touch me. That, and her down-to-earth friendly manner and the spirit that came through your stories of her, as well as Danny's eulogy - she was wonderful - what else can I say...I wrote to "the nuns" and asked for their prayers in her memory as well as prayers for you and your family. Love, Barbara

Lana Vornik

April 8, 2009

Dear Margaret,
I was so deeply sorrowed when I learned about the passing of your mother. However inadequate any words are at a time like this, I hope it may comfort you a little to know how many people across the country are thinking for you at this difficult time. My heart goes out to you.

Alyse Roach, Matt's UCSB Graduation Party, 2003

April 7, 2009

Blanca Navarro

April 7, 2009

Dear Margaret,

I was very saddened to hear of the passing of your beloved mom, yet I am gladdened by the thought that you both were given the opportunity to be near each other, in her last hours. The passing of one’s mom can never be easy, but may it ease the pain, just a little, to know how many people share your sorrow and stand with you in your time of need. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Emily Scheitrum

April 7, 2009

Hi Aunt Marge,

I wanted to extend my condolences to you and your family. Alyce was a wonderful woman, a pleasure to be around and even like a third grandma to me and Colleen. I loved her sense of humor and wise cracks. As I write to you now it's hard to contain my sadness. She will be dearly missed.

I understand you'll be visiting the East Coast this week. Please, if there is anything my family or I can do to support or assist you and your family, let me know. Alyce will be in our memories forever.

With lots of love,
Em

Kelly Phelps

April 5, 2009

Dear Mike and Family:

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family in this difficult hour. It is my hope that a blanket of comfort and peace be with you.

Ellen Cardoso

April 4, 2009

Dear Margie, Raymond, Michael, Kathleen, and Tim,
We are so sorry to hear about your mom. She was a amazing person and always made us feel like part of the family. I have many, many fond memories of her, both in Philadelphia and San Jose. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you at this difficult time.
With love,
Ellen, Tony, Lauren, and Allison

Louise Cook

April 4, 2009

Dear Michael and family,
It seems so inadequate to say "I'm sorry for your loss." My heart and thoughts are with you at this time.

Paul Raila

April 3, 2009

Dear Michael and family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Your friends wish you the best in these tough times.

Sue Basko

April 3, 2009

Dear MIchael, Kathleen, & Roach family,

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I had the pleasure to meet your mom at Michael's law school graduation. She was so pleased to watch Mike graduate. She was a proud, good mother and such a classy woman.

My love to all of you, Sue Basko

Rachelle Scilingo

April 1, 2009

Dear Kathleen & Family, I know in my heart that your Beloved Mother appreciated your endless devotion, caring & especially to be able to be here in California with you and your sister. May your times of grief be more bearable in knowing always that you all were graced with your Mother's love & that she will always have your never ending love, too. Blessings, Rachelle & Ian

Bob Cretti

April 1, 2009

Kathleen,

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. Hold your loved ones close and know that your mother will always be with you in spirit and that in time the sadness will lessen.

Take care of yourself,
Bob Cretti

Tricia (Blastic) Voss

April 1, 2009

Dear Margie, Michael, Kathleen, Raymond and Tim - Rick and I are so sorry to hear about your Mom's passing. She was truly a remarkable woman. Her caring, kindness and strength were an inspiration to me as a young child and to this day. I will miss her. Our prayers are with you all.

nan heflin

March 31, 2009

Dear Dear Kathleen,
Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time. I hope you find some comfort in knowing what an amazing mother she must have been to have been loved so dearly. With deep affection,

March 31, 2009

Dear Kathleen and Family: I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that you find peace and comfort in all your memories of your dear mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of deep sorrow.

Rosalyn Miller, San Geronimo, California

Alyse McConnell Roach through the years....

March 30, 2009

Cathy Hall

March 30, 2009

Dear Kathleen and Family: I am so sorry for your loss.Your are all in my thoughts and heart

Rita Widergren

March 30, 2009

Dear Kathleen and Family, I share in the heartfelt expression of saddness expressed by so many at this painful time of sorrow and loss. May you many precious memories of her begin the journey of healing and peace. Sending you love, presence and prayer. Rita Widergren

Maureen Donohue

March 30, 2009

Dear Kate, Moochie, Margie, Tim and Raymond,
I was sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. I remember many times gathering on Fanshawe St before setting out on some teenage adventure.I cannot believe how the years have passed since those days.
I will forever remember your mother fondly and will hold all of you in my thoughts and prayers as you pass through this sad time.
Best regards,
Maureen Judge Donohue

Jon Wyatt

March 30, 2009

To Michael and Family: I am deeply sorry for your loss. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

Rob Hill

March 30, 2009

Dear Michael and Family - I'm sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. My closest knowledge of her is through knowing Michael for a short time, and his compassion and genuineness are great testaments to her. She, and Michael and the family, will be in my thoughts.

Janice Kehl

March 29, 2009

Dear Kathleen, Margie, Raymond, Michael & Tim and Families: I was very saddened to hear of the sudden passing of your mom. She was such a memorable part of my teenage and young adult days. Her kind heart, common sense nature and great wit will remain with me for the rest of my days. She truly will be missed by all who knew her. She will be in my thoughts and prayers as you all will be with your families.

Janice Kehl & Family
Rancho Bernardo, California

Jan Hurd

March 29, 2009

Dear Marge & Family, I am so sorry to hear about your mom and I hope all your Great memories can help take away some of your sorrow. I remember all the fun times when Alice came to visit! My boys enjoyed spending time with her and Aunt Beanie! She will be missed!
Hurd Family

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