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Richard Herrera
February 15, 2024
Hi Efren. I was thinking of you recently and just wanted to stop by and say hello.
Anita Vasquez
June 7, 2022
I miss you!
Craig Wilbanks
July 9, 2021
I think about you often, and miss my drinking buddy!
Anita
July 7, 2021
Happy belated Birthday brother. I didn't post on your birthday, and NO, I did not forget it. I miss you lots and my heart still hurts for you. I wish you were with us. They say you are in a better place but I still wish you were here with us so you could see all the things Melissa has accomplished and to meet Pablo. You would love him. Until next time brother. Miss you all the time, everyday. XOXOXO
Pablo Lopez
February 17, 2020
Efren, Just want so say that your little girl is still in good hands. You would be so proud of what she's accomplishing in life. She has graduated from college and has landed a great job with the city. I love her very much, we are now husband & wife and looking forward to a future together. We know you're still watching over her but I still wish you and I had the chance to meet. Pablo
Anita Vasquez
February 17, 2020
Well brother, it's been 11 years since you left us. Not a day goes by that you are not thought of. Wish you were here to see all that is going on with the kids. You'd be so proud of Melissa. She has had so much going on with her these past few months. She married a wonderful man that we just love and adore, she graduated from SJSU and started a new job with the City of San Jose! We all miss you and talk about you often. A big piece of the puzzle is missing since you left. You know, people say time heals but sometimes I feel like it gets harder and harder without you here. But then, I think of all the good times we had and all the laughs growing up. Steven just gave me an album, yes an album from Lynard Skynard for Christmas. Made me and Julie cry but they were good tears. It's funny how our kids hear music and think of you and talk about you. We all miss our gentle giant. Until we meet again, rest well brother. I miss you everyday, all the time. Love, Nini
Anita Vasquez
February 17, 2020
You left us 11 years ago today and not a day goes by that you are not thought of. You'd be so proud of all of Melissa's accomplishments. She has had lots of things to celebrate...getting married to a wonderful man that we just love so much, graduating from SJSU and starting a new job with the City of San Jose! We all miss you and talk about you all the time. I miss you brother. I wish I could wrap my arms around you and give you the biggest hug. Until we meet again, rest easy my gentle giant brother. Love, Nini
Richard Herrera
February 15, 2019
Hi Efren. Its good to stop by for a visit now and again. Kind of like when we worked at Intel and I'd stop by and hang out through lunchtime. Time has a way of fading memories. I'm happy to stop by and remember the good times we had and funny moments. Thanks for being a friend.
Anita Vasquez
January 9, 2019
Hi brother. I miss you. Love you. Love, Nini.
Anita Vasquez
July 4, 2018
Happy 4th of July brother! Your birthday just passed and I played your favorite music all day long. I think about you everyday and miss you lots. Wish you were here to see all the babies and the kids. All are doing well. Melissa surprises me everyday in all that she does. She is such a beautiful person inside and out...like her Daddy! You would love Pablo. We all do. He is such a special person who has come into her life. I just love him. They are so cute together. You can see the love they have for each other. I'm at work right now, working hard and listening to my country music. I know, I know....but hey, we all have our favorites (LOL). All the cousins still share memories of you and we laugh...such a goofball! But that's what made you so special. I have to make my brownies for Pablo. Melissa and Ricky told him how good they are. Any way, I love you, miss you and will always carry you in my heart brother. Love you, Nini.
Melissa & Pablo
Pablo Lopez
July 2, 2018
Hi Efren, my name is Pablo. Melissa has told me great things about you. Things that she tells me with a smile in her face. Like the times you guys would walk to the mall during the holidays and how you two secretly ate out together. It sounds like you were a great dad. You were there for her to make her smile and be a real father that dedicated time for his little girl. Your mom, your sisters, n Melissa's mom have nothing but good things to say about you and everytime I see them they always welcome me with open arms. I just want to let you know that your daughter is very special to me and my family. I'm very proud of the woman she's becoming and the things she will accomplish in life. You would be very proud of her as well. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and Melissa and I met to become something special. We have a bright future together and I would like for you to look after her during the times that i'm not by her side. God bless you Efren and I wish that we had the chance to meet. Thank you for listening. Your friend, Pablo
Melissa
July 1, 2018
Hey big guy, yesterday you would have been the big 58! I know we would have had a great weekend riding to Santa Cruz to celebrate your birthday. Love you lots.
Melissa
June 17, 2018
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and all the good memories we had together. It doesn't have to be Fathers Day to celebrate the man you were but I wanted to let you know that you are missed so much by so many people and you were the best daddy and father a young girl can ask for. I love you with all my heart and will never forget those memories. Happy Father's Day.
Richard Herrera
August 21, 2017
Hey Big Guy. You are never truly gone.
You still come to mind throughout the year.
Father's Day motorcycle ride
August 20, 2017
Anita Vasquez
June 30, 2017
Brother, today is your birthday and I miss you so much. I spent the day with mom and Jacob and thought about you all day. I made some brownies and thought about the last dinner we all had with you and how you tried to sneak some brownies in before dinner. You always made us laugh with your quirky sense of humor. Wish you were here to see all the babies and especially to see all of the accomplishments Melissa has made and will continue to make. You'd be so proud of her. I love you and miss you and will always carry you in my heart. Love, Nini
June 30, 2017
Today would have been your 57th! Love you Dad.
June 1, 2017
This has been such an amazing year, I wish you could share it with me. Love you.
February 17, 2017
Lighting a candle for you Dad.
February 17, 2017
Hi Dad! Been thinking about you a lot today. It's been a chaotic day but you are still in my thoughts. Love you forever and always. ❤
November 22, 2016
Hey Brother,
The holidays are here and you are missed so much. We miss you at our dinners and parties. Not a day goes by that you are not thought of. I wish you were here with us brother. We talk about you all the time and the kids remember the funniest things about you. They all love you and miss you so much. I love you and will always carry you in my heart. Love, Nini
June 30, 2016
Happy Birthday Dad! You would have been 56 this year, yikes! I am thinking about you always. You are forever in my heart. Love you Dad.
June 19, 2016
Happy Father's Day
June 19, 2016
Happy Father's Day! Dad, you are always on my mind and I will love you forever.
April 15, 2016
Miss you Dad!
January 28, 2016
Hey brother. I had a nice conversation with Omar today. We laughed alot talking about Scotty St. He was happy that he was able to reunite with you before you left us. I miss you everyday. Everyone says time will heal but it seems to get harder and harder as the years go by. I think of you often. Melissa is doing good. She's getting better by the day. I love you brother every single day. Love, Nini
xoxoxoxo
June 30, 2015
Happy Birthday Dad!
June 23, 2015
Happy Fathers Day Dad! I miss you everyday that you're not here. You know what, I picked out the gift I would have gotten you- the Amazon Echo. You would love it.
Nini Vasquez
February 21, 2015
I saw Ron Davis and David Carr and they talked about how they knew you, remembered you and had some great stories to share. You are missed by so many.
Never forgotten.
February 21, 2015
Hey brother. You left us a little over 6 years now and I miss you more and more each day. I love you, Nini.
Anita Vasquez
September 25, 2014
Brother, I ran into Gilbert today. He talked about you and misses you. Love you, Nini.
September 25, 2014
We just celebrated moms birthday and her 5th year of being cancer free last weekend. Lots of family around. We all still talk about you. Wish you were here with us everyday. I miss you and love you. Nini.
August 25, 2014
Hey brother. Was playing some music the other day and thought of you. I miss you everyday. Love you, Nini.
May 29, 2014
I miss and love you Dad.
Anita Vasquez
April 28, 2013
Just thinking of you today. I miss you brother.
February 24, 2013
Love you very much. Thank you for all the wonderful memories....
Anita "Nini" Vasquez
February 19, 2013
Hey Brother, I miss you every day. You will forever be in our hearts. I love you brother.
Melissa
June 30, 2012
Happy Birthday Dad. I love you. You have our Missy now- take good care of her!
June 12, 2012
It's almost your birthday big guy!
December 15, 2011
There will be an empty chair at the holiday table this year, but it will be filled with loving memories.
Richard Herrera
October 27, 2009
I was in disbelief when I found out that my friend Efren had passed. I worked with him at Seagate and then Intel. I lived in Santa Clara one summer and being my only friend then, we would often just hang out at his apartment. We mainly talked computers but he also told me stories about his family. He was especially proud of Melissa and would always update me on her progress. He was kind enough to include me at his family functions from his wedding to Janie to Christmas at Julie's or a birthday at his mother's. A big man with a big heart... I will miss you. My condolences.
March 22, 2009
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February 28, 2009
~In memory of Efren~
1960-2009
Don Huffman (HOG Chaplain)
February 28, 2009
It was such a blessing to hear of Efren's love for family, friends, (even those he just met) and his Lord. My prayers are for comfort for the family for his loss and yet joy knowing he is with Jesus now.
Jenny Chang
February 26, 2009
Dear Linda & family:
I am sorry to hear of your loss.My deepest sympathy goes out to you & your family.Take care !
May God bless you all.
Francine Guillen
February 25, 2009
My thoughts an prayers are with the family.
michelle castanon
February 25, 2009
Julie, Anita, & Linda
My deepest condolences go out to you and your entire family.I know family means the world to you and each will keep your precious memories of a great son and brother alive. Your strong family bonds will help support each other through this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers, may Efren rest in eternal peace.
February 25, 2009
Lynn Tong
February 25, 2009
Dear Linda,Anita,Julie and family,
I am sorry about your loss. My deepest condoleces go out to you and your family.
Lynn Tong and family.
February 25, 2009
Linda, Julie, Anita and your family:
We offer you our sincere sympathies on your loss. Mike Dunefsky & Andrew Nguyen
The Lorigo Family
February 25, 2009
Linda and Family,
We wanted to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Please let us know if you need anything.
God Bless.
Chau Tran
February 25, 2009
Dear Linda & family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
May God bless you all.
Judy (Mayhorn)Randolph
February 24, 2009
Linda and Family
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to all of you. My prayers are with you.
February 24, 2009
Dear Linda, Anita, Julie and Family
I am very sorry on your loss. My deepest condolence go out to you and your family. We will always have great memories of him. We are here for you and your family . Love you all
Ernesto & Rita Alvarez and Family
Wilma Babayan
February 24, 2009
Dear Linda,Anita,Julie and Family,
My thought and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.Take care
Shirley Wen
February 24, 2009
Dear Linda and Family,
I am very sorry to hear about your son. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family. Take care!
February 24, 2009
Dear Linda & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Take Care!
Pearl Bethel
Linh Ong
February 24, 2009
Dear Linda and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your son. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Take care!
Ernie Garcia
February 24, 2009
My deepest heartfelt condolences go out to the Vasquez family. Growing up , I remember Efren always smiling, he was and always will be a very special person. Anita , and Julie please know that our prayers are with you and your family . May God bless you all.
Max
February 23, 2009
My condolences to the the family and friends of Efren was a great guy and always love when he came in to our lounge. My he rest in peace.
Jess, Gina Covarruvias & Family
February 23, 2009
Aunt Linda & Family,
What can we say, our hearts are hurting for the loss you and our families are feeling for our cousin. I know when he got older he wanted to be called Efren but he was always Snooky to us. There are no words that can ease any of the pain you are enduring. Snooky will definitely leave an empty space in everyones heart. We know he is in gods care with Bobby and Jr. We will never understand why they were taken from us at such a young age. You can only cherish the moments that you did have him while on this earth. Just pray for Efren and all our family members who have left us.
Ralph Alvarez
February 23, 2009
Our Prayers an Deepest sympathy to the Vasquez Family. Efren will be greatly missed by many. The Lord has bigger plans for him. May he watch over us all with peace. We love you Efren.
Ralph, Teresa Alvarez & Family
Richard Alvarez
February 23, 2009
Our deepest condolences to the Vasques Family. We have known Efren for a very long time, and he was always so sweet and kind. He always had a smile on him. He will be missed so much.
Veronica Alvarez
February 23, 2009
I have known Efren for a long time.
I will always remember him as a sweet gentle person with a smile that would make you feel welcome in a room full of people. My deepest condolences to the Vasquez Family
Isabel Caballero
February 23, 2009
Janie,
I know the words you hear over and over don't seem to help the pain you are feeling. I am so sorry for the loss of Efren. He was a very nice and helpfully person. He was your sole mate and you both loved each other so much.
I pray to God that he gives you and Melissa the close bonding you have to help each other go through this tough time together. I can't even Begin to try to understand what you are going through, but if you need anything at all please call me.
Sorry again,
Isabel
Aunt Rita, Vickie, Tina, Anita
February 22, 2009
Snooky will be truly missed. Our heart is with Janie, Melissa, Aunt Linda, Cousin Anita, and Cousin Julie. We will cherish the memories with Snooky. We miss you cousin!!!!
Deserie Schaffer
February 22, 2009
My heart goes out to all the Vasquez family. I will truly miss my cousin Snooky. We have had so many great times growing up. I will always cherish those memories. I will also miss his e-mails and the pictures he sent me of him and Melissa throughout the years. I am going to miss you. Love you cuz!
Aunt DD Uncle Bob
February 22, 2009
Dear Melissa,
We are so sad that your daddy has left you way too young. He was a good soul and we always enjoyed being around him and admired his kindness. You have that same loving type soul to provide to the world and he’ll be proud.
Janie,
We have heard nothing but good about you and we are glad Efren found you. We thank you for being a good person to our niece and wish you as much peace as possible in this terrible time.
Madeline Wheeler
February 22, 2009
My memories are of Efren when I was a young girl. He was always so nice, pleasant, funny and a joy to be around. I am so heartbroken that I will never see him again and his bright red cheeks I am praying for the family especially Melissa. This time is so delicate, but I know the Vasquez family has always been a close one and will be there for each other. The Wheeler family loves you and are praying for you. God Bless you Efrenn
Jenn
February 21, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you Melissa in this very difficult time. I'm always here for you if you need anything at all.
February 21, 2009
So sorry to hear about Efren. My condolences goes out to his family. He will be missed at Intel UPW.
Daryll Cannon
February 21, 2009
I first met Efren many years ago when we worked at Seagate, then again at Intel. He was a good friend. He will be truly missed, my condolences go out to his entire family.
Craig Wilbanks
February 21, 2009
Efren was not just a co-worker but a good friend. He will be missed! Deepest condolences to the Vasquez family.
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