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Helen Scandalis Wolff

Helen Wolff Obituary

Helen Scandalis Wolff Beloved mother of Stephen, David, and Edward aunt of Stephen Scandalis, and predeceased by her brother James Scandalis and nephew Randy Scandalis. Helen died peacefully 9/8/2009 surrounded by her three sons, who will miss her very much. She remarked more than once that her family was her greatest achievement and source of pride, and yet her true life's work is immeasurable, because Helen was a teacher who influenced thousands of young minds; starting children on their path to adulthood, and in later years helping adults learn English and become Americans. After graduating from U.C. Berkeley in 1951 she taught grades 3-6 in Berkeley and in Charlottesville, VA. After returning to California Helen became active in school administration and was president of the PTA in the local San Bruno school district. It was when Helen became involved with the English as a Second Language (ESL) program that she re-discovered her true passion for teaching. For the next 20 years she worked at Stanford Hospital and had a fulfilling second career teaching evening classes in Adult ESL in Cupertino. Her curriculum was rich with elements of current and traditional American culture, her classes were always full, and she was much loved by her students. Helen was very proud of her Greek heritage. She taught herself to speak Greek and twice traveled to Greece to visit her relatives there. A Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, September 17 7:00pm at St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church 1270 Davis St., San Jose. A Graveside Service will be held on Friday, September 18 2:00 pm at Sierra View Memorial Park 4900 Olive Ave., Olivehurst. Arrangements by BEDDINGFIELD FUNERAL SERVICE (408) 777-8100.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News from Sep. 13 to Sep. 15, 2009.

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Eugenia Meimaridis Maish

October 7, 2010

Hello, David, Steve and Eddie, I can't believe it has been a year since Aunt Helen has passed away. She is in my thoughts, often, as are you all.
May her memory be eternal,
Eugenia Meimaridis Maish

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Stephen Wolff

September 8, 2010

Tony & Maxine Rodondi

September 17, 2009

Dear, Steve, David & Eddie, We are sorry to hear that your Mom has passed, I know that she will be missed by all of you. Just try to think of her in a much sweeter place, pain free & happy. You are in our hearts & prayers.
God Bless, Tony & Maxine

Alexis Genung

September 15, 2009

Dear Steve, David and Ed,

We are really so sorry for your loss and the loss to our family of your dear Mom. She was such a lovely, kind person and we will really miss her. I look forward to seeing you all in Marysville where we can all be together to celebrate her life and honor her as she moves on to her new spiritual adventure. May her memory be eternal.
Love, Alexis, Michael and April Genung

September 15, 2009

Steve, Dave, & Ed,

I never really knew the breadth of your Mom's career as a teacher. That is great to know that she has lead a full life dedicated to her sons as well as her showing others the path to knowledge.

I am truly sorry for your loss. It is at times like this our parents have taught us to accept life's changes and to strengthen our hearts to continue their quests.

Sincerely,
Frank Simpson

September 15, 2009

We, Kiki Anagnos, Madeline Meimaridis and Evelyn Riesenberg send our sincere condolences to Steve, David and Ed on the loss of your mother and we will keep you in our prayers.

Here are some of our shared memories:

My childhood memories of my cousin Helen were always happy ones. For starters, she was very aware of my childhood fear of the dark and told me comforting stories til I fell asleep. While we were not terribly poor there was little money for special things. It was Helen who bought me first and only doll carriage. As adults, we were reunited in San Jose when my family was transferred. I was very homesick and Helen was so supportive despite the difficulties in her own life. While we hadn't seen each other in years, it was very easy to reconnect and share our problems and hopes. Distance and time have meant a break in communication and closeness. But at this age, it is so clear how important relationships, no matter how far in the past, are permanent pieces of our lives and contribute to who we are. Evelyn

When Uncle Andy called my mother and father asking if he could send Helen and Jimmy to Boston to live with us, my parents said send them to us. Helen and Jimmy left beautiful, green, sunny California and a high school with a swimming pool to live in an inner city apartment and go to a high school that looked like a brick factory. Helen was a trooper through the three years she lived with us, and always flashed her lovely smile. We kept in touch through the past fifty years because I admired her strength and loved her as a first cousin. Noula

Helen came to live with us in Boston in 1946. We were roommates, the city kid and the tall, dark California cousin with the flashing smile. At our high school, she was the star of the senior class play. Wish I were she, I thought. Rest softly, beautiful Helen. Kiki

Scandalis- Inamine

September 13, 2009

David, Stephen & Ed~
We send you much love & sympathy during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
~Alexis, Mike & Ryan

Cynthia Sandberg

September 13, 2009

Steve,

I just received your email, I'm sorry about the bad news this email brought. My thoughts are with you and your brothers.

Cindi

September 13, 2009

We did not know Helen, but we do know Steve, my Mother's neighbor in Austin, Texas. Our thoughts and prayers are with Helen's family. We know that the Lord prepared a very special place in his kingdom for Helen, where she can continue to watch over her family.
God Bless You,
Diana Dickens Culberson, Billy Culberson, and Mackenzie Culberson.

Stephen

September 13, 2009

David BBQ

September 13, 2009

Edward Graduation

September 13, 2009

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