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Jerome O'Connell Obituary
Sept. 30, 1960 - May 15, 2014
Resident of San Jose
Jerome Patrick O'Connell passed away on Thursday, May 15 surrounded by his family after a valiant battle with cancer. His infectious laughter and love of life brought constant joy to others.
Jerome was born in San Jose, CA, graduated from Archbishop Mitty, and earned a degree in Accounting from Sacramento State University. After college, he began his work as an accountant, quickly becoming a CPA, which continued throughout his life. Jerome was a selfless man who always strived to put the needs of his family and friends before his own. A trait he carried with him until the end. Always offering unconditional friendship and love, he will be missed by everyone as a best friend. He enjoyed golfing, planning vacations for his family, being surrounded by loved ones, and his much loved San Francisco 49ers.
Jerome is survived by his adoring wife, Teresa; devoted children Lindsey (Robert), Jerred, Tyeler (Nolan), Andrew, Codie, William (Andie) and his beloved golden retriever, Halen, and his grand-pups Indy and Jeter. His parents Jerome and Jo'Ann O'Connell and sister Erin Perrucci (Greg) also survive him. More like a son, than a son-in-law he is survived by William and Kathleen Day, friend and brother-in law Kurt (Cynthia), and countless nieces and nephews.
Friends and family are invited to celebrate Jerome's life on Friday, May 30, 2014 at 10:30 at St. Mary's Church, 219 Bean Avenue in Los Gatos with a reception to follow. To reflect Jerome's love of life, the family asks that those in attendance wear color to echo the celebration. Also in lieu of flowers, the family requests that a charitable donation be made to lung cancer research. Contributions can be made to the Bonnie J. Addario Lung Cancer Foundation at http://www.lungcancerfoundation.org.
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patrick hubbell
May 19, 2020
The passing of Jerry will never be forgotten. no one could forget his charm, wit, kindness and the crankshaft mounted mailbox at the gates to his parent's house. Jerry, I remember the midnight mid-night movies in Los Gatos, the 8am bowling class at Mitty the Racing, that wicked 'V' drive at Clear lake. These were the good times my friend, times I would trade to be able to do over again. Not to be as the good Lord had his reason for taking you home much to early.
Gods speed Jerome
Patrick hubbell
June 4, 2014
Jo'Ann, Jerry Wade told me about your son's death and I wanted to write and tell you how sorry I am for your loss.I can't imagine any pain greater than the one burdening you and your husband. I am surrounding you with love and prayer during this very sad time.
Claire South Casey
May 29, 2014
You will be missed by all who new you, Jerry. Jerry and I met in High School. We quickly became friends sharing many interests, we were both huge Led Zeppelin fans and raced go-karts together. He was the kindest, down to earth person. I've ever met. I lost contact with Jerry after High School. sadly I have lost him now forever. The fond memories that we shared will live on forever. it's a long way up that "stair way to heaven" my friend. Pease be with you.
Patrick Hubbell
Barbara Cavanaugh
May 24, 2014
Over the last 20+ years of friendship, I have enjoyed listening to Jerry's proud and adoring mom (and dad) speak with love and joy of Jerry, Erin, grandkids and the dogs, together with the struggles of the last few years with hope and admiration of Jerry's courageous The Perrucci/O'Connell's are the epitome of closeness, love and FAMILY----the unconditional, no-regrets kind. Family is first, foremost and everything. Jerry will always be with you, in your hearts and soul, but his earthly presence will be missed--May you all find peace and comfort together with your lifetime of beautiful memories..
Darling Fischer Chapel of the Hills
May 24, 2014
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