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Joseph Danko

1932 - 2021

Joseph Danko obituary, 1932-2021, San Jose, CA

BORN

1932

DIED

2021

Joseph Danko Obituary

Joseph Danko
Aug. 13, 1932 - June 30, 2021
San Jose
Joseph Danko died at his longtime south San Jose home on June 30, 2021. He was 88. Joe was a great family man, pressman, union man, parishioner and neighbor. He was born Aug. 13, 1932, to Mildred and Joe Danko in Selkirk, Manitoba, the first of four boys, and grew up in the farm country north of Winnipeg. A Free Press delivery route in his teens led to a job in the press room, and he spent 40 years printing newspapers. It was a good fit: He was well-read and loved the news, and his crossword game was strong. He self-deprecatingly spoke of having an 11th-grade education, but he knew history and literature. A staunch Democrat, he followed politics closely. He enjoyed sports in his youth and became a great fan of the Sharks, A's, Giants and 49ers. In 1956, he married Marion Cheslock and they raised five children, the first two born in Manitoba, the next three in Minnesota, where he worked at the Star Tribune for several years. In 1967, he followed his brother Dennis to San Jose, where he worked at the Mercury News until his retirement in 1994. Life revolved around work and the kids' school activities - sports, concerts, projects - as well as big holiday celebrations, Saturday evening Mass at Santa Teresa Church and summer car trips back to Canada (he was a tireless long-distance driver). Joe was a fair, kind and generous man, a great example for his children. He was preceded in death by his parents, his infant brother, Stanley, and his brother Gerry and son Phil. He is survived by his wife of nearly 65 years, Marion, children Ken, Debbie, Pete and Liz, seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren, brother Dennis and many more extended family and friends who loved him.

A mass in honor of Joe will be held on August 21 at 2 pm in Mary's Garden at Santa Teresa Church, 794 Calero Avenue, San Jose, CA 95123.
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Published by The Mercury News on Jul. 4, 2021.

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Deb

September 18, 2025

Just thinking about you...miss you

Liz

August 13, 2025

Happy birthday, Dad! I miss you. I wish I could give you a birthday hug. xoxo xoxo
Love you, Liz

Greg

June 30, 2025

Thinking about you and missing you Joe!

Liz

June 30, 2025

Hi Dad,
I miss you so much. We all do. Wish you were still with us.
Love you.

Deb Seybold

April 7, 2025

missing you never goes away, it just becomes a part of each day

Debz

January 17, 2025

Miss you xoxo

Deb

August 13, 2024

Happy Heavenly Birthday Dad! I miss you so much

Den and Fran

July 4, 2024

Happy 4th of July to you Joe, you´ll miss all the noise of the fireworks.You sure was loved by many that knew you.RIP dear brother, love Den & Fran

Debz

July 1, 2024

Dad, Liz wrote the best post yesterday. It made me miss you even more. I feel like I´m missing a guiding light in my life without you here. Debz xo

Liz

June 30, 2024

Hi Dad, the hardest thing in my life was saying goodbye to you 3 years ago. I sure miss you! Love always, Liz

Den & Fran

June 16, 2024

Wishing you a very `´Happy Father´s Day´´ in heaven Joe. You are specially missed by the family at times like this ,thank goodness for pictures and memories. RIP Joe, love Den & Fran

Den and Fran

May 19, 2024

Hi Joe, Deb was here the other day and she mentioned how much Den is getting to look like you now and I agreed with her. That was so nice to hear. You are in our thoughts often, love Den and Fran

Dennis and Fran

April 1, 2024

`´Happy Easter to you Joe. Get together will never be the same without our loved ones. RIP , Love Dennis and Fran

Denny and Fran

December 27, 2023

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you and all our heavenly angels.Denny and I were talking about all the good times we had together and now they are wonderful memories . We love and miss you,love Denny and Fran

Liz

December 25, 2023

Hi Dad,
I miss you! Love you!

Liz

November 24, 2023

Hi Dad,
I was thinking about our big family holidays yesterday. Such great memories. Really missed everyone yesterday. I wish you and Phil were back here celebrating with us. Miss you always. L

Dennis and Fran

November 23, 2023

Hi Joe, `´ Happy Thanksgiving´´ wish you were here so we could deliver you some cabbage rolls and turkey,etc. Den sure misses not talking to you. Love Dennis and Fran

Greg

November 18, 2023

Joe, I wish I could call and chat. I could use some advice. Miss you.
Greg

Deb

November 2, 2023

Oh dad, missing you so very much. I love you and could really use a hug from you.

Liz

August 13, 2023

Hi Dad,
Happy birthday! I wish you were here so we could celebrate with you. Miss you always.
Love, Liz, Rob and Jack

Greg Seybold

August 13, 2023

Thinking about you most days, especially today.
Happy Birthday Joe!

Dennis and Fran

June 30, 2023

Hi Joe, it´s hard to believe that 2 years has gone by.We will always hold the memories we had being together. Sure miss you Bro, love Denny and Fran

Liz

June 30, 2023

Miss you so much, Dad!

Deb

June 30, 2023

Missing you hasn´t lessened as we mark two years. You are still very much in my daily thoughts. <3

Dennis and Fran

June 19, 2023

Hi joe, we wished you a `´Happy Father´s day yesterday, but i guess it didn´t go through, sorry, `´Happy Father´s Day to you , love Dennis and Fran

Deb

June 18, 2023

Dad, miss you always and especially today. xoxo

Deb

April 25, 2023

Thanks Dad
xoxo

Deb

April 20, 2023

Missing you

Deb

April 9, 2023

Thinking of all the family memories of holidays this Easter. Missing you always. Love Deb & Marion xoxo

Denny and Fran

April 8, 2023

Hi Joe, wishing you a Happy Easter with all the Angels and all our loved ones. RIP dear brother, love Denny and Fran

Den & Fran

March 5, 2023

Hi, our sweet brother and brother in law. We want you to know Den and I are sitting at the table and all of a sudden you were in our thoughts..We and your family miss you so much ,love Den and Fran

debz

January 22, 2023

Not a day goes by without thoughts of you

deb

December 26, 2022

Another Christmas done and gone. I missed our Christmas phone chat. I hung your stocking here with ours, and Mom was here which was special. We miss you... you are always in our hearts <3

Dennis and Fran

December 25, 2022

Merry Christmas Joe, your name was mentioned in our prayer tonight.I know that Dennis misses your phone calls .RIP Love Dennis and Fran

Denni and Fran

November 24, 2022

Hi Joe, today is Thanksgiving day and we wish you were here to celebrate with the family.you are missed so much . RIP Joe, love Dennis and Fran

Deb

November 20, 2022

Miss you so much. So many times I want to ask you what you think of this or that, important and silly, or just some dad advice. Mom misses you too. xoxo

Debz

September 9, 2022

Mom told me she mostly remembers you young. I asked if those were the best times. She said she wasn´t sure, they were all pretty good. She said, `we were pretty lucky.´

We miss you ~ xoxo

Dennis & Fran

August 19, 2022

Well Joe , you got to celebrate your birthday with all the angels in heaven., We said a prayer for you on your birthday. Den sure misses not talking to you on the phone . RIP Joe.love Dennis and Fran

Greg

August 13, 2022

Thinking about you today.

Debz

July 28, 2022

Still feel you in this house and in my heart

Debz

June 30, 2022

So many wonderful memories are carried forward each day. It seems there shouldn´t be room for sadness and pain, yet my heart still aches, and I still miss you terribly. I know mom does too. xoxo

Dennis & Fran

June 30, 2022

It´s hard to believe that it´s been a year since you left on your journey. We all miss your phone calls and wish you were here with the family .RIP Joe , love Dennis and Fran

Liz

June 30, 2022

Hi Dad,
I can't believe it's been a year since you left us. Miss you every day since.

Debz

June 19, 2022

Happy Fathers Day in heaven.
I miss you so much.

Debz

May 29, 2022

I keep thinking back... wishing and missing

Elizabeth A Cavanaugh

May 8, 2022

Hi Dad,
I miss you very much. Debbie is doing a hell of a job taking care of mom. You must be proud and grateful. I sure am. Send her strength.
Love you always, Liz

Debz

May 1, 2022

It just doesn´t seem to be getting easier. Each day I realize your pain more & more. Miss you beyond words.

Dennis and Fran

April 18, 2022

Happy Easter Joe , a little late,I was talking to Deb on the phone and mentioned that I had send emails to our loved ones ,and then I forgot to do it last night. Oh well ,better late than never, right? We love and miss you, RIP Dennis and Fran

debz

April 10, 2022

If I were home, I´d be thinking of calling you I miss you (so does mom)

Debz

February 27, 2022

Some days I see so much of you in me.

Liz

February 14, 2022

Happy Valentine's Day, Dad!
I'm sorry I didn't call more often. Would give anything to hear your voice.
Love you and miss you!

Fran

February 14, 2022

Hi Joe, Den went out to get the newspaper this morning and guess what, there was a bag of lemons by the door. That must of been your sweet Debbie that delivered them. How did she know , I had used up my last lemon the other day.Thank you so much love Den and Fran

Debz

February 12, 2022

Took lemons to the neighbors for you today

Debz

January 21, 2022

I miss you so much

Dennis and Fran

January 4, 2022

Happy New Year Joe. Our love and prayers are with you .RIP Joe, love Dennis and a Fran

Liz

December 26, 2021

Miss you, Dad.

Fran & DENNIS

December 25, 2021

Hi Joe, Merry Christmas to you.you were in our thoughts and prayers today. You are missed by everyone. RIP Love Den and Fran

Debz

December 21, 2021

I get overwhelming waves of heartache, and I miss you terribly. That´s how I feel this very moment

Greg Seybold

December 5, 2021

Missing you Joe.

Deb

November 26, 2021

Dad, you are very missed.

Dennis&Fran

November 25, 2021

Happy Thanksgiving to you Joe.I´m sure your family had special thoughts of you today. You are missed by everyone.Love Dennis&Fran

Fran danko

October 22, 2021

Hi Joe, it´s hard to believe that you left on your journey over 4 mths ago ,time does fly bye. You are in our thoughts and prayers, RIP love ,Den & Fran

Debz

October 16, 2021

Some days not having you here crushes me

Your niece. Jo-Jo

August 21, 2021

My dear sweet Uncle Joe,
Unfortunately I was not able to come to your celebration of life ceremony. You have been on my mind all day. I know that my dad (Denny) will really miss you as we truly all will. I am so happy that my Momma and Poppa were able to spend some special and quality time with you!
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Danko family...

Rest in Peace my dear Uncle Joe.

XOXOXOX

debz

August 3, 2021

I miss you so so very much

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

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Liz

July 10, 2021

We really miss you Dad. The house is just not the same without you in it. Mom misses you terribly. Debbie and I keep telling her that she'll see you again in heaven with Phil and the rest of the family. Love and miss you always.

Sherri Alahmad

July 5, 2021

Our thoughts and prayers are with Auntie Marion and all the Danko family. RIP Uncle Joe.

Fran Danko

July 5, 2021

We send our deepest sympathy to Marion and the family.The family was there at all times to make sure that their dad was comfortable and they were very attentive to his needs. Marion, our love and prayers are with you and the family. Love Dennis and Fran

Fran Danko

July 5, 2021

Joe, it was so nice that Dennis and I got to spend some time with you before you left on your journey.I'm sure Phil and the rest of the family were ready to welcome you to your new home.One day we will all be together again. We love you and you will always be in our prayers.Love from your only brother Dennis left here on earth and Fran

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Gladys, Tammy&Family, Theresa

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Wendy Stroh

July 2, 2021

My condolences to Marion and his children. I have many great memories of visiting your house to see my best friend, Liz. May you rest in peace, Joseph.

Suzy Danko

July 2, 2021

I will miss getting to connect with Joe´s kind, sweet spirit on our periodic phone calls and am comforted knowing that he is full of joy with Jesus, Granny, Leonard, and, of course, Phil.

Love and hugs to you Marion, Ken, Debbie, Pete, Liz, and families.

Derrick and Lillian Cheslock

July 2, 2021

Our condolences Auntie Marion and all the families. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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