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Matthew Kelley Obituary

Matthew Allan Kelley
Sept. 6, 1968 - Jan. 20, 2012
Resident of San Jose
Matt was born in San Jose and passed away unexpectedly at the age of 43. He was a fifth generation Californian with many ancestors who were founding fathers in Santa Clara County, The Keesling, McChesney, Kelley and Deiss Families. Growing up, he attended schools in the Cambrian and Almaden areas, Tahoe Academy, and DeAnza College. Matt was an avid fan of the Oakland A's, the Detroit Lions and Formula One racing. He loved skiing, traveling and visiting friends. He is survived by his mother Marjorie Anderson of Del Mar, his father Keith Kelley of Mexico, his brother Steve Kelley of San Diego, his sister Jill Bryant of Solana Beach and many much-loved aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and friends. He had a tender, loving heart and will be deeply missed. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Santa Clara County Humane Society or the Salvation Army in memory of Matt. An inurnment will be held on Saturday, February 4, 2012 at 9:30AM, Oak Hill Memorial Park. Brunch will follow at a friend's home.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Feb. 1, 2012.

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