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Paul Ross Hayden

Of Los Altos passed away peacefully at home on August 9, 2006, after a heroic battle with brain cancer.Ross was born July 26, 1944 in Louisville, Kentucky to Paul Hayden and his wife, Lucille. Growing up locally, he graduated with honors from St. Xavier High School in Louisville and later graduated with honors from the University of Louisville with both a BS and MS in engineering.Ross started his career as an engineer at Bell Labs. He later switched to marketing and sales, eventually working for a variety of technology companies such as Fairchild, Intel, ISD and DSP Group. His last position was Vice President of Sales at Global Locate.Ross' family and friends remember him as an avid reader, traveler and sports enthusiast who enjoyed jogging, basketball and golf. He regularly played basketball at his club and hosted his own 60th birthday golf tournament in 2004, where he hit the longest drive of the day. Proud of his Irish heritage, Ross traveled several times to Ireland, where he often stayed at a friend's castle in the county of Limerick.We want to thank the many friends and family members for their much appreciated support and kindness. Special thanks go to his caregivers, which included Pathways Home Health & Hospice and the local Tongan community.Ross is survived by his faithful wife, Katrina, and his loyal Irish wolfhound, Keegan. He is also survived by his loving sister, Kathy Hayden and mother, Lucille Hayden, both of Louisville, Kentucky.Visitation will be held at the SPANGLER MORTUARY in Los Altos at 4:00 p.m. Friday, August 11th. Full mass services will be held at Saint Agnes Catholic Church in Louisville, Kentucky on Wednesday, August 16th. Burial services will be held afterwards at the Calvary Cemetery in Louisville, Kentucky.In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Pathways Home Health & Hospice at 585 North Mary Avenue, Sunnyvale, CA 94085 (888.755.7855).

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Aug. 11, 2006.

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Judy Joseph

August 14, 2006

Ross was my boss, mentor, friend and sometimes my big brother. I worked with him at 3 different high tech companies. Ross was a gentleman, he was highly intelligent, classy and had a great wit. I learned alot from Ross and will always remember his kindness. I will miss him forever.

Natalie Hales

August 13, 2006

Uncle Ross was my great uncle, and I love him beyond words. He was always having fun with his family. When I would come and visit him and Aunty Katie, I would always look foward to Uncle Ross showing me how to do his famous cannonballs into the pool. He was always great to talk to about anything, from NASA to school. Uncle Ross, I miss you so much, and you are the best great uncle anybody could have!

Valerie and Brett Bantle

August 13, 2006

You will be missed very much Ross! I enjoyed seeing the smiles and happiness you brought to my aunt, even before you were married. You allowed myself and my daughter to visit you at your home, which was like a vacation to us. You always had knowledge and great answers to any questions we asked you:) Again, you will be missed!

Kristen Edlund

August 13, 2006

Ross was a good man and a wonderful uncle. We all feel a huge loss at his passing. To my aunt, Katrina, and to Kathy and Lucille -- Kevin and I extend our deepest sympathies. The courage with which Ross fought this battle was courageous and moving. I feel so lucky to have known him. He will be greatly missed. May he rest in peace. With Love, Krissy and Kevin

Melissa Warner

August 11, 2006

Ross was my "best boss" at Chips and Tech and a friend for many years after. My thoughts and prayers are with Katrina, Kathy & Lucille. I know how greatly he will be missed, he was truly an inspirational and fun person to be around. He impacted many lives, professionally & personally. Fondly, Melissa

Nina Belen Fong

August 11, 2006

My sympathies and best wishes to Ross' wife and family. I am sorry for your loss. I worked with Ross at DSP Group and had learned some very important life lessons under his leadership. He once quoted to me,"It is better to say I'm sorry than to ask questions." I am much stronger and much more confident because of it. Thanks, Ross!

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