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Penelope John Conomos

1910 - 2018

Penelope John Conomos obituary, 1910-2018, San Jose, CA

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1910

DIED

2018

Penelope Conomos Obituary

Penelope John Conomos
March 25, 1910 - March 11, 2018
Resident of San Jose
Our cherished matriarch Penelope John Conomos, beloved mother, treasured wife, doting grandmother, adored great-grandmother, great-great-grandmother, and the eighth wonder of the world, passed away with loved ones by her side on March 11, 2018 just two weeks shy of her 108th birthday. To her family, she was simply revered as "Yiayia."
Yiayia was born across the seas in the village of Agia Anastasia on the island of Kythera in Greece on March 25th, 1910. The youngest child of proud peasants Stamati and Damiani Vernardou, her education came to an abrupt end at the age of 9 when her family could no longer afford shoes. So Yiayia spent the remainder of her childhood tending to the livestock and olive orchards.
In 1931, she married John Alex Conomos, a former Greek soldier who fought against the Axis in WWI. After welcoming their first child, the young family sailed for America in what would be a life changing journey.
After emigrating, Yiayia's life became one of sacrifice, faith, and endurance. She worked diligently to adapt to American culture while still honoring the traditions of her homeland. After welcoming three more children, she instilled in them a deep appreciation for the value of education. She beamed when they earned their own advanced degrees. And after her children married, she celebrated the reaffirmation of life when new grandchildren were born.
But her life was also one of great loss. Separated from her family in Greece and widowed at the age of 47, she remained eternally faithful to the memory of her husband for 70 years. And ultimately, she outlived three of her four children. Yet she met each tribulation with her usual grit and beautiful grace. She was fond of saying "such is the life" and believed that life was always to be celebrated despite its imperfections. Living on her own until the end, she never stopped tending to her garden, never ceased to laugh, and never met a "Whopper" she didn't like. In her unfailing wisdom, she knew that the simplest things in life yielded the greatest joy.
She is survived by her devoted daughter, Chrysanthy, and loving grandchildren Diana Prendergast, Penelope Condas, Penelope Benis, John Conomos, and Alexa Anderson, thirteen great-grandchildren, and three great-great-grandchildren.
Yiayia is now reunited in eternal peace with her beloved husband, John A. Conomos, and her cherished children Damiani Conomos, Anastasia Condas, and Tasso John Conomos.
Family and friends are invited to attend a Trisagion Service Thursday, March 15, 2018 at 7:00 P.M. at St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, 1260 Davis Street, San Jose. Funeral Service Friday, March 16, 2018 at 10:00 A.M. at the above Church. Interment to follow at Mission City Memorial Park.
Remembrances may be made in Penelope's name St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church (www.saintnicholas.org) or to the Kytherian Society of California (www.ksoca.com). You can also read about the life journey of Penelope Conomos at www.alexaconomos108.blogspot. com.


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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Mar. 14, 2018.

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Christian Clark

March 18, 2018

I am so impressed by this woman's life. My email address is [email protected].
The 110 stands for how long I want to live (at least and healthy). She lived on her own till the end! And you are all so lucky to have Mrs. Conomos in your lives. I will be 77 in July and still tutor from Redwood Shores to Evergreen and Meridian (English, German and sometimes French).

I will share your mother's incredible story with many of my students.
Chris

Julie Skordos

March 16, 2018

God bless you Penelope Conomos. It was a great blessing to have you in our family church congregation at St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church. You are an inspiration of strength, kindness and love. Our conversations always brought me great joy. And you always lovingly told me stories about my mom. I will miss seeing you. Say hello to my mom in heaven. Your memory will be eternal. Love Julie

Nick/Esther Stratigopoulos

March 14, 2018

Chris: Please accept our condolences for the loss of your Dear Mother Penelope.....You were blessed to have had her with you for all these
years...May her Memory Be Eternal!! God Bless.

Loretta Heckendorn

March 14, 2018

Please accept my sincere sympathy in the passing of your mother, Chris. You may not remember me, however, I always remembered you and your delicious baked goods at the holidays. I worked for Dr. Joe Vizzard many many years ago and thought of you often. My own mother lived to be 100 and I know what a gift that can be.
Sincerely,
Loretta Madeiros Heckendorn

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7:00 p.m.

St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church

1260 Davis Street, San Jose, CA

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16

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10:00 a.m.

St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church

1260 Davis Street, San Jose, CA

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16

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Mission City Memorial Park

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