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Robert Fender Obituary

Robert J. Fender, Jr. Age 57 of San Jose, CA. Passed away October 24, 2005 in San Andreas, CA. A native of Atlantic City, NJ, Mr. Fender grew up in Egg Harbor, NJ. He served in the US Navy during the Vietnam war and in 1970 he mved to Mountain View, CA and worked for Intel for 2 years and has worked for HP for the last few years. He was a member of the Church of Latter Day Saints in San Jose. He is survived by his wife Beverly Fender of San Jose, children, Timothy Fender of Sacramento, Joy Fender of San Jose, James Fender of Franklin, TN, Jeffrey Fender of Pomona, CA, and John Fender of San Jose, CA; brother, John Fender of Dallas, TX.

Services will be Wednesday, November 2, 2005 at 10:00 a.m. at the Church of Latter Day Saints in San Jose. Burial at San Joaquin Valley National Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the Vanished Children's Alliance, 991 W. Hedding St., Suite 101, San Jose, CA 95126.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Oct. 30, 2005.

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Terry Harris

November 7, 2005

To the Fender Family: My deepest sympathies on your loss. I remeber Bobby fondly from Oakcrest and am sorry to hear of his passing.

Kathleen Campbell

November 4, 2005

I was shocked to hear the news. My deepest sympathies.

Felecia Ponzetti

November 4, 2005

To the Fender Family: I am very sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of "Bobby" as we called him, from Cologne School and Oakcrest. My most sincere condolences.

Aricka Krier

November 3, 2005

Mrs. Fender & Family,



We are very sorry for you loss, your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.



Aricka and Jonathan Krier of Troop 339

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