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1964
DIED
2016
Robert Yates Obituary
In loving memory
of my son
Sunrise Sept. 24, 1964
Sunset Oct. 30, 2007
It's always so hard to face this day. Nine long years and every day is such a challenge without you. I say good morning to you as each new day begins and thank you for all the love and blessings, you brought me. You left a trail of beautiful memories for me to hang onto. I miss you with every beat of my heart. Love, you for always, Mom. Please visit Robb's guest book. Barbara Bignotti Johnson.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Yates
Sponsored by Barbara Johnson, Robb's Mom.
Jennifer
October 28, 2024
17 years it's been, my condolences to the Family on the loss of our TradeWind neighbor, October is a reminder of how we will all transition to another realm, Heaven and I pray for Robert to rest in eternal love and peace... I hope to visit your beloved Pinecrest Campground soon and will always keep you in our prayers...
Nicki
March 14, 2024
Thinking of you! Pinecrest coming in a couple months. I know you'd be there if you could. I'll be seeing you and your light coming through the tress. Take care my friend XOXO
Carol Vargas
October 29, 2023
Thinking of you today Robb. Remembering the times we spent at your mom's annual get-togethers. Wonderful memories, which I'll always cherish.
Hugs to you Barbara.
Love...Carol
Love, Sherry
October 28, 2023
Its always extra hard when our son's birthdays and the anniversary of their passing comes up. I know you would give anything to be able to turn back the clock and have Robb with you he is watching over you for that I am sure. My dear friend you are in my heart as you get thru another day, week, month and year without your dear Robb.
Maggie (Combs) Daricek
October 28, 2023
My thoughts are always with you girl!!! Hope to see you soon. Miss you!! You are the BEST!!!
Maggie
Shari Pace
October 27, 2023
Always in our hearts, so many memories, you are forever missed. Shari
Jennifer
October 26, 2023
Dear Mom Barbara, Your love for Robb is so endearing and it is an example of how those who have left this earthly realm is still with us spiritually and in our heart and soul. I'm the Tradewind neighbor and when I see your remembrance of Robb, I am always reminded of this season of Fall, Halloween when Robb put out a bowl of candies in front of his door so our kids could have treats and seeing Robb walking Buddy.
Carol Vargas
October 30, 2022
Robb, I find it hard to believe that it's been 15 years since you left us. I am so honored to have known you and think of you often. I'll always remember the gatherings your mom hosted and you hanging out with us. You made those days so enjoyable.
Barbara, my heart aches for you. Just know that I'm thinking of you today.
Hugs and love...Carol
Jennifer Ereno
October 26, 2022
Dear Barbara,
I have never met you other than your loving words about Robb, our former Tradewinds Neighbor and sharing condolences thru the years. I'm sending you dear condolences again and trust the memories you have of Robb holds you up during the times you miss him. 15 years have passed, but I know having lost my parents and sister that the grief and loss comes and goes. Sending gentleness and love to you as you continue to honor Robb.
Jennifer E. Ereno
October 26, 2021
Ms. Johnson,
My prayers and condolences to you and your family, on the 10th year passing of Rob, our Tradewinds neighbor, I know that the memories of his life will give you eternal peace. Jennifer
Jennifer Ereno
October 26, 2020
Barbara,
My everlasting condolences to you for reminding us how life is fleeting and honoring Rob, our former neighbor at Tradewinds, since he passed, we've lost our Mom in 2015, or Dad in December of 2018 and our second to the youngest sister Rosie last April of 2019, though they are no longer here with us in their earthly forms we know they are in God's hands, together doing what they love best... Now reading over your past memories I know where Rob was heading on the weekends in his truck with Buddy, to Pinecrest, my Dad loved fishing too in every lake and river so there must be a wonderful place in Heaven where they are now...Halloween reminds me of Rob when he would put outside of his door a table with candies and a pumpkin with a candle lit or what is battery operated? May you find peace in your Mother's love for Rob.
Carol Vargas
October 31, 2019
Robb, I can't believe another year has gone by. You are missed so much by those who knew and loved you. Thank God for the memories we have of you. May they always be with us.
With love and sympathy...
Barbara Johnson
December 27, 2015
Robb, Merry Christmas,
It seems like only yesterday you were a little boy hanging up your Christmas stocking and getting so excited about Santa Claus coming. And somehow almost magically, that little boy grew up into a wonderful young Man. Now I have all those wonderful memories to think about on Christmas day. Give Buddy a hug from his grandma.
I miss you more each day.
Love Mom
Jennifer Pasetta
November 2, 2015
Barbara,
It's 8 years later and when I read about your everlasting love for your son, our former neighbor, Robb, I am so touched and reminded about how life is so fleeting.
I read in the memories section about how you continue to cherish and honor Robb's life. This past July, sadly we lost our beloved Mother so we grieve too as you do for the loss of a family member.
I know for sure that when a person passes, his or her spirit does not and continues to live on within us....thank you for sharing your love of your son....
Barbara Johnson
October 31, 2015
Robert Robb J. Yates
Sunrise 9/24/1964 - Sunset 10/30/2007
In Loving Memory of my Son
We shared 43 wonderful years together.
Now the sad and dreaded day is here again.
Eight years ago I had to let you go.
Knowing that my love and my last words
to you, would have to last me a life time.
You should be here enjoying your life.
Your next fishing trip was going to be
Alaska.
I know there is a new angel with you,
(Nane B) now both of you are watching
over me.
You made being your Mom so easy.
You were always my protector and
could fix anything around the house for me.
Love you for always, Your Mom
Barbara Bignotti Johnson
Barbara Johnson
September 24, 2015
In Loving memory of my Son
9/24/1964 - 10/30/2007
Happy Birthday Robb
This Birthday is different for both of us. Nane B has been with you for a few months. I am sure she is cooking you jambalaya and making you a Chocolate Cake.
It seems like yesterday we were laughing
and talking. All those memories have never gone away. Today I wish I could rewind the tape and play it over and over till I could find a way to change the ending for us.
I am so thank full to have been your Mom, Then, Now and Always.
On your birthday I always picture you fly-fishing at Pinecrest.
Sending you my Love, Mom
Barbara Johnson
Barbara Johnson
September 15, 2015
PINECREST 2015
The 8th Annual Horse Shoe Tournament In Memory of Robb Yates
Robb, I see a lot of new faces here today ready to enjoy the tournament. It breaks my heart that you are missing another Pinecrest with all your friends. The smell of those pinetrees really got to me as I pulled into the camping area. Your Sunnyvale Pinecrest tree is now 12 feet tall. Nicki always called me as soon as the Horse shoe tournament started telling me you are going to be here next year for sure! I am finally here after 9 years, but it feels very strange to be here without Robb.
For those of us who started camping in the 70's it was such a perfect place to take our kids for summer vacation. Of course we didn't have much money and the price was right if we went to the upper campsites. But what a surprise there were no flushing toilets and there were the bears.
As I walked by A58 today which was your favorite site I felt like I should be unpacking and setting up our camp site. You were just fishing in your float tube on the lake.
I want to thank Nicki for arranging the tournament for all these years and reading my letters I know it wasn't easy for her. Nicki arranged for new shirts for all the campers. And Laura the trophy is awesome. I have a picture of the trophy on frig. My son would be over whelmed that all this had been done for him.
When Robb first found out he was sick we had no idea how hard it would be. That kind of news doesn't really sink in for a while, or until you have your have first your chemo treatment. He was so strong and he never complained.
My Mom was a real trooper at 86 years old she took such good care of Buddy every day while we were at the Doctor. My Mom, Nane B as everyone called her just passed away at age 93 year old.
This year we said good bye to one of the craziest campers of all time. Wild Bill Sparks!!!!!. Now Bill and Bernie are cooking some great dinners together and no more hang over's.
A heard a few diesel trucks go by and for a split second I thought you were here. Robb how you loved your life with Buddy, fishing, camping at Pinecrest. You left a legacy of love and friendships that lives on at Pinecrest.
Most of the time, I still feel like you are just at work or camping with Buddy
I hold you in my heart every day.
Love you for always Mom and all the campers
Merry Christmas Robbie! XOXO
Nicki Lawrence
December 27, 2014
December 26, 2014
Another long year without you, and now it's already Christmas. Nane B has had a very hard year. We spent Thanksgiving in the Hospital. We are so glad to have gotten her home in time for Christmas.
Uncle Ken's here and we are going to try and make the day happy and cheer for her. Nane B wanted a tree with all purple ornaments. I found lots of purple decorations, she decorated her tree, and it is beautiful. It is so lonely here w without you and Buddy. We thought about you all day, and how different it would be if you were here with us. Christmas will never be the same without you.
Love and miss you for always
Mom
Dee
November 3, 2014
My deepest sympathy to the family. May the God of loyal love comfort the family during your time of sorrow. Psalms 119:76
Jane Parks-McKay
October 30, 2014
Dear "Mom Barbara": We don't know each other but I wanted you to know how touched I was when I read your Memoriam in today's San Jose Mercury/News about your dear Robb. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what you must feel. I have lost both parents and a friend recently and sometimes the words are undescibable. Please know you are in even strangers thoughts and prayers through this.
October 30, 2014
Thinking of you and your Mother, Barbara. I know how much you miss Robb. I was in a grief support group with you some years back. We lost our Katie on Oct. 3, 2008. These great losses affect us every day. O how we miss you. What a nice memorial you put in the Newspaper, Barbara. from Martha Reich
Matt Cusimano
October 30, 2014
Fishing in Cananda
Barbara Johnson
October 30, 2014
Robb,
On this sad day I hang a wreath
on the front door in your memory.
“GONE FISHING”
In the last 7 years I seem to
focus on all the special events in
your life. Then I realized it was
also the ordinary days we shared
that made us a family.
I love driving your truck
“all 20 feet” I can see you
laughing at me when I get
into a tight spot.
Nicki and Laura started a new
tradition for the Pinecrest horse
shoe tournament held each year
in your memory. They have
established a trophy starting
with all the team winners since
2008.
For 10 months I wished every
day for your life never to end
before my own. Every day is
a struggle with out you.
Love you for always your
Mom, Barbara Johnson
Robb fishing
Barbara Johnson
October 30, 2014
Olivia Ortega
October 30, 2014
Rest in Peace Robert "RoB" Yates. Sounds like you were a pretty awesome son. You mother's tributes are filled with so much love and pride!!! God Bless your Mom!!!
s
Happy 50th Robbie!
Nicki Lawrence
September 25, 2014
Nicki Lawrence
September 25, 2014
Happy birthday Robbie today is your 50th birthday. You know I would've been teasing you like crazy today saying that you're older than I am. But I'm right behind you buddy! Hopefully your fishing and celebrating with buddy. We all miss you Robbie but nobody misses you more than your mom. Until we meet again friend happy birthday
September 24, 2014
Thinking of you today and everyday and always wishing you were here and especially to celebrate your 50th Birthday....You brought so much joy to all the lives you touched and there are so many wonderful memories to hang on to. You will live in our hearts forever Rob, you were a gift from God. Shari
Jennifer Pasetta
September 24, 2014
Dear Barbara, I know your love is eternal for Robb, our former neighbor at Tradewinds. We will always remember his kindness and his pal Buddy, Halloween is right around the corner and we can still see the lighted pumpkin on a table with candies next to his door. I hope that Buddy is still alive and running around and join you in celebrating Robb's 50th birthday in heaven.
Robb's 18th Birthday, Singing Telegram
September 24, 2014
Robb,
Thinking of you on your “50” Birthday!!!
Today like every day you are my
first thought and my heart aches with sadness for all you are missing.
Today is such a special day it's your
50TH Birthday. What a celebration
we would have had. So many birthdays
to remember. One of my favorites is
your 18th We surprised you with a
singing telegram. I laugh every time
I remember the expression on your
face when the young lady arrived
and started singing to you. You
had a big grin and enjoyed the
surprise. I long for what was,
and what might have been.
I hold on to all the cherished
moments of your life.
Love you for always, your Mom,
Barbara Johnson
Robb's Singing Telegram 18th BD
Barbara Johnson
September 24, 2014
Buddy our Lab
Barbara Johnson
July 16, 2014
Buddy,
You have been with Robb one year today. I think of your every day especially these last 3 days we had together. I cannot believe its all ready a year since you and I took our walks and had fun together. I see you everywhere in our house especially the back yard. I can never explain to anyone how much you helped me each day. I realize now how you got me up, going, and helped me trying to learn how to live without Robb. You were an amazing Lab, you only needed a little attention and you were happy. How I would like to start all over taking care of you, you thought me a lot. I miss you and Robb every minute of the day. Love Mom and Grandma Barb
Buddy Yates "The best Lab"
Barbara Johnson
July 16, 2014
July 3, 2014
Pinecrest 2014 - Remembering Robb and Budd Yates The 7TH Annual Horse Shoe Tournament Robb, This is your first Pinecrest time that you and Buddy will be together. Which makes me miss Pinecrest even more. I am so lost without both of you.
I miss when we were young parents and just a little bit crazy and were having too much fun at happy hour. I remember cooking in the dark, and say I am not going to that next year. We were always having too much fun to stop and cook for our kids. Now I wish I could have a do over and cook for Robb and all the kids. Of course we didn't know what you kids were doing.
We can always remember when Danny slept in his raft and Gary Larkin's couldn't find his camp site. And poor Vaughn got locked out his RV and had to sleep in the kid's tent. I am sure some of you will remember when I got lost at New Brighten beach and ranger Rick had to bring me back to my campsite. The hang over's were tuff, but worth it.
A friend of yours Gerry that you taught fly tying classes in San Mateo, sent me DVD of you teaching fly tying classes. He said he will always remember you with your big smile. You look so happy and healthy in 2004.
All of us are missing a very special lady and a good friend, and great camper, Bernie Sparks. She fought a long hard fight to stay with Bill. Make sure all you guys take good care of her at Happy hour.
The country song of the year is “I DRIVE YOUR TRUCK ”, and it is a true story of family loss. When I listen to the words I felt like it was written for me. I wonder what you think of me driving your truck. I can see you laughing when I get in a tight spot. I am still learning how to park 22' of truck. I listen to your favorite music and it is very peaceful for me.
When you lose someone which is the best part of you, you cannot imagine how you will go on. I feel Buddy is what has gotten me through these past 6 years. He gave me a reason to get up every day. He wasn't going to miss his 3 walks a day. I have shed so many tears on the top of
his head he kept me going. I sure miss him when I get home and he is not waiting for me.
YOUR SON WILL HOLD HAND FOR ONLY A LITTLE WHILE
BUT HE WILL HOLD YOUR HEART FOR A LIFETIME
LOVE MOM and All the campers
Robbs Mom Barbara Johnson
April 20, 2014
Robb,
Happy Easter to you and Buddy. How I wish you were both here to share the day with Mom and I. Nane B is hanging on but not doing well. I spoke with one of your fishing friends Gerry from Idaho Falls. He was so nice to talk to and he sent me a copy of a DVD with you teaching fly tying classes at the San Mateo Sportsmen's Exposition's Hall.
It was hard to watch but also wonderful to hear your voice and see you happy and healthy doing what you loved to do. Gerry said he would always remember you with your big smile.
Love and miss you more each day
Mom
Barbara Johnson
Gerry Randolph
March 26, 2014
Wow, I was just looking at a fly tying video I taped 2004 to get Robb's pattern he tied for me. I did not realize he passed. He sure had that happy face and a will to make friends. If any one need a copy, let me know.208-419-3448
Brarbara Johnson
December 31, 2013
Robb
You and Buddy have a happy new years eve. Mom and I will be thinking of both of you.
Love Mom
Barbara Johanson
December 25, 2013
Robb,
Another Christmas without you and now I face my first Christmas without Buddy. I am trying to think of you and Buddy running in the snow. Of course I think of all the great Christmas we had and sorry for the ones we missed with your Navy and Delta time in other states. Nane just had her 4th surgery this year, but she is trying hard to stay with me. Mom always liked decorating the Christmas tree so I took her out to pick a tree. We got all your ornaments down from the attic and she decorated the entire tree with your ornaments. She really did a good job for 92 years old. I put Buddy's special Christmas stuffed animals under the tree it really looks cute.
The last tree we decorated was in 2006, and when you got out of the hospital we had Christmas on December 30th I never thought it would be our last Christmas together.
Now there are 2 empty chairs at the table and Buddy's spot under the table is empty.
Sending all my love to both of you.
Mom
Nicki Lawrence
November 3, 2013
Thinking of you and hope You and Buddy are together again! I miss you friend...
Jennifer
November 1, 2013
The memories of Robb and Buddy that you share are so loving.... just to remind you that Robb is always with us in spirit..this fall season is a reminder of his gentleness and kindness..as a former neighbor I still remember how he put out a Halloween pumpkin with a candle glowing and candies for the children..as well as his smile and concern for Buddy...may you know that his life was meaningful to all of us and that you can move on and continue to embrace the present...
Jim Wardy
October 30, 2013
Your words to your son were beautiful. I cried a few tears knowing the pain you're feeling. I wish you peace and happiness. Lets us never forget our loved ones. Thank you for your inspiring words.
Olivia Ortega
October 30, 2013
Your tributes to your son are beautiful. I have read them, and bittersweetly, enjoyed them. Your love for your son is felt and heard through these tributes, and although I am just a stranger, I pray that your memories keep you strong. May your beautiful son and his "Buddy" forever rest in peace. Thank you for sharing your son's memories.
Robb & Buddy Fishing
Barbara Johnson
October 30, 2013
In Loving Memory of my Son
Robert "Robb" Yates
You were a gift from
9/24/1964 - 10/30/2007
Buddy Yates “Our Lab”
11/16/2001 - 7/16/2013
This day marks another year
without you. I remember your
laughter, mischievous smile,
the joys and the celebrations
of your life. They add up to a
treasure of yesterdays that
we shared. Then the sorrow
and the tears as you lost your
battle with cancer. Now I
carry these memories into the
next year knowing there will be
no new memories and your place at
the table will always be empty.
Robb you rescued Buddy, then
Buddy rescued me. He helped me
through some hard days. Now
you are together and both at peace.
All the memories of your life will
live in my heart today and forever.
Love you for always Mom
Robb & Buddy Field
October 30, 2013
Robb & Buddy Fishing
Robb Yates
October 30, 2013
Robb & Buddy Fishing Trip
October 30, 2013
Twain Harte lake
September 23, 2013
Barbara Johnson
September 23, 2013
In Memory of Robb & Buddy
Robert "Robb" Yates
9/24/1964 - 10/30/2007
Buddy Yates “Our Lab”
11/16/2001 - 7/16/2013
Happy Birthday Robb
Robb you have gotten the best
Birthday present possible you
& Buddy are together again.
Buddy went from my arms to
yours pain free, with all his
favorite toys.
Today I will remember each of
Your 43 birthday celebrations
we shared.
I read that Dogs are like mirrors;
their behavior is a reflection on
their owner's ability to give love &
receive love. That is the way you
& Buddy were.
Happy 49th Birthday!!!!!
Uncle Ken says are you finally
a 49ers fan?
Remembering you is easy I do it
every day. Missing you is the
Heartache that never goes away.
Love you for always,
Your Mom
Robb and Buddy
Buddy's Grandma Barb Johnson
September 10, 2013
Buddy Yates Our Lab
November 16, 2001 - July 16, 2013
As most of you know Robb adopted/rescued Buddy on November 16, 2001 and Buddy became part of our family. He was only about 40 pounds; He had been in the shelter for about 5 weeks. Robb and Buddy had many wonderful years camping and fishing at Pinecrest.
In the past few weeks Buddy had been having some hip problems. Then on July 13th he didn't want to eat and by that night he could not walk. He spent 3 days in the pet hospital; the Doctor found a blood clot in his leg. He seemed so alert I still thought I could bring him home. The pet hospital was wonderful to me; they let me stay with Buddy every day and part of the night as long as I wanted to. The next day he developed some serious health issues and his Doctor told me it was Buddy's time to go. It took me quite awhile to really believe I would have to make this decision. It broke my heart to let him go.
The house is so quiet without him, we walked everyday and he never let me out of his sight.
It is amazing to me how Buddy worked his way into my heart so deeply with such unconditional love when I was so lost.
I believe Buddy is what has gotten me through these past 5 years without Robb. Buddy and Robb are now together camping and fishing.
Buddy was my protector and I was so lucky to have been his Grandma.
I will always have his paw prints on my heart.
I Miss you every day Buddy
Love Grandma
Barbara Johnson
July 20, 2013
BUDDY YATES “THE LAB”
NOVEMBER 16, 2001 - JULY 16, 2013
ROBB,
BUDDY HAS BEEN WITH YOU FOR 4 DAYS NOW
I CAN JUST PICTURE HIM RUNNING TO YOU AT FULL SPEED NO MORE LIMPING AND NO MORE PAIN
BUDDY GAVE ME SO MUCH LOVE AND I WILL MISS HIM EVERY DAY
I WILL MISS OUR WALKS AND HE WAS ALWAYS MY PROTECTOR
I LOVED TAKING CARE OF HIM FOR YOU I AM SO LOST WITHOUT HIM
I KNOW YOU ARE SO HAPPY TO HAVE YOUR BEST FRIEND WITH YOU AGAIN
NOW YOU AND BUDDY ARE CAMPING AND FISHING EVERY DAY
I TOLD BUDDY YOU WOULD HAVE A BBQ CHICKEN DINNER WAITING FOR HIM
LOVE YOU BOTH ALWAYS
MOM AND BUDDY'S GRANDMA
Robbie Yates Memorial horseshoe tournament
Nicki Lawrence
July 2, 2013
Missed you and your mom once again at Pinecrest! Read your moms letter and everyone cried as did I. I will miss you every year my friend. I hope you are busy fishing with Papa Fred!
Barbara "your Mom" Johnson
June 30, 2013
June 2013 - 6TH Annual Horse Shoe Tournament In memory of Robb Yates
When I start my yearly Pinecrest letter I always try to remember something funny from the past camping trips. Then I get stuck for awhile, it always comes back to the same thing, you are not going to be there, and you are still missing out so many things. This year you missed your 30th class reunion and it breaks my heart.
No matter where you lived you would always schedule your vacation time for Pinecrest, sometimes you had to fly home, rent a truck and you would still make it for the first Happy hour at Pinecrest.
Pinecrest and fishing grabbed your heart from our first camp trip you were 9 years old. I wasn't so sure I liked camping since we started in the upper group camp site with the pit toilets and Bats. Our first happy hour Len Robles walked over and asked you if wanted to see a moon. You had no idea what he was talking about. Then Len showed you his “special Moon” It has been a joke we have laughed about for years.
Nicki you are the only one who loves Pinecrest as much as Robb. Now you can pass on the Pinecrest traditions and secrets to your two beautiful little girls. “Hopefully only the good ones”
Fred everyone is missing you today and thinking of Julie and of your family and wishing you were here. Now that Fred and Robb are together they will probably open a fish and bait shop, but I am sure they will still be on the lake at dawn.
When the horse tournament starts I will remember your beautiful smile, and I will sit by your
10 foot Pinecrest tree and toast you with a cold Sierra Pale Ale.
Robb, most days I still have to try and convince myself you are really gone.
We love and miss you always
Mom, Buddy and all your Camping Friends
Heaven in the Hills!
Nicki Lawrence
May 16, 2013
Hey Robbie! I am starting to get things ready for Pinecrset, and of course I always think of you and your Mom. I miss you two up at Pinecrest with me so much! We all do. I have tried to get your mom up there, I know you would want her to continue on with our tradition, but she has been so great at taking care of Buddy and Nane B. But I promise you I will get her back up there soon! I will be thinking of you, now and at Pinecrset. I miss you Love Your best Buddy Nicki
Barbara Johnson
May 12, 2013
Robb,
Today I am remembering all the mothers day dinners you cooked for me and Nane B. You spoiled us. I have always saved all your Mothers day cards you gave me, so today I will read all the cards, with a smile and tears and think of what was going on in your life the time. I especially love all the cards you made in school.
Love and miss your forever
Mom and Buddy
Barbara Johnson
May 12, 2013
Robb,
I am remembering all the Mothers Day dinners you cooked me and Nane B. I saved all the Mothers Day cards you gave me through the years. Today I will re read all my cards and remember with tears how old you were and what was going on your life. Miss you every minute of the day.
Love Mom and Buddy
Barbara Johnson
December 25, 2012
Christmas 2012
Merry Christmas Robb,
Another Christmas and I am still trying to understand why you are not with us.
It's the ache of your absence that everyone tries to hide and get though this day.
December is such a reminder of so much sadness. I remember all the December dates that changed your life. On December 16 we found out how sick you really were, and you were hospitalized. You needed surgery as soon as possible. You had surgery December 21st, and we spent Christmas in the hospital. You were able to come home on December 29th.
You had your first Chemo treatment on January 3rd but they forgot you were a diabetic and your sugar count spiked so bad it was touch and go for awhile in the emergency room. Then you had to spend another week in the hospital. I could have never imagined what you were about to endure for the next 10 months.
At Christmas and every day, you're a gift to our family… And you always will be in our hearts.
Love you for always
Mom and your puppy Buddy
Patsy Vargas
December 22, 2012
MERRY CHRISTMAS..
Hello Robb,
I'm early..again.
Your family will share stories about you, your memory will never leave.
Love,
Patsy
Rich Cross
November 25, 2012
I met Robb back in 1988 while we were stationed at Moffett Field, Robb was not only a friend to me, but he was a mentor, who taught me a lot about the rate Aviation Support Equipment Technician job. We spent a lot of time together while I was stationed at Moffett, and even when he got out I tried to stay in touch with him.
Robb you was a great man and a lot of people looked up to you as role model. You are missed by your friends and mostly your family. I know you are a angel now looking down over your family. God bless you and your family.
Rich Cross (Retired Aviation Support Equipment Chief)
Barbara Johnson
November 22, 2012
Thanksgiving Day 2012
Robb,
Missing you so much on Thanksgiving Day – It's another lonely Holiday without you. I miss cooking all your favorite things, Turkey and gravy of course; yams, fruit salad, pumpkin pie, Beer dip and watching you carve the turkey. The house was filled with so much laughter.
You know one my favorite memories will always be you taking me to get my Christmas tree the day after Thanksgiving. You took me to so many tree lots to make sure I found the perfect tree and then we would go home and you would set it up for me.
Your Pinecrest memorial tree is now over 7 feet tall and three feet wide. I am not sure if I will be able to decorate it by myself with Christmas lights this year since it's gotten so big.
I feel your love every day
Love and miss you forever
Mom and Buddy
Patsy Vargas
November 21, 2012
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!
Hello Robb,
I'm early I know but I'll be gone.
Your chair may be empty but you will never be forgotten.
Love,
Carol Vargas
October 31, 2012
Barb,
I can't believe it's been five years. I think of you often, especially on Robb's birthday and this time of year. I have great memories of happier times with Robb and will cherish them always.
Love and friendship,
Patsy Vargas
October 31, 2012
I missed your 5 yr. mark. I am sorry Robb.
I know you are missed by family and friends but your at peace now.
Love..
Nicki Diankoff Lawrence
October 30, 2012
Today and so many other days I miss my friend Robby. He was one of the good guys, and was taken too soon. XOXO RIP Robby.... Hope the fishing's great!
Jennifer Pasetta
October 30, 2012
Robert was our neighbor at Tradewinds and will always be remembered for packing his truck with his fishing poles and his companion by his side. There are no words to express your loss as his mother, just remember that his goodness and smile will live on in his memory.
Barbara Johnson
October 30, 2012
In Loving Memory of my Son Robb
As I face this unbelievable
milestone without you I cannot
help but think of all the yesterdays
we shared. You were a special
person who quietly touched many
lives.
We were on a journey side by
side for 10 months and with tearful
eyes I watched you suffer. But
somehow you could still find humor
in each day. Our journey ended
5 years ago this morning.
We miss you more each day.
Life has changed for us, but you
will always be my Son and I will
always be Robb's Mom.
Love Mom and your puppy Buddy
Barbara Johnson
October 29, 2012
Robert “Robb” Yates
9/24/1964 to 10/30/2007
Sunnyvale Resident
The family of Robb Yates would
sincerely like to thank all his
friends, for their support, prayers,
visits during his illness and signing his guest book. A special thank you to Dr. Dormady for all his support and friendship he gave Robb.
Joe Bolin
September 25, 2012
Your tribute in the recent Mercury-News was very moving! I'm so happy that you have a connection with your son through the dog you both loved. I'm sure he is watching you both on your daily walks. Warmly, Joe Bolin
Dan Martin
September 24, 2012
Warm regards to you, Barbara.
Dani and I at Pinecrest!
Nicki Lawrence
September 24, 2012
Happy Birthday my sweet friend! I Miss you, and I know im not the only one! I only hope theres fishing in Heaven! Love you
Carol Vargas
September 24, 2012
Barbara,
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers, especially today and again on the anniversary of Robb's death. I know not a day goes by that you don't think of him. But as you said, you have wonderful memories of happier times spent with Robb, as do we. Let these memories always hold a special place in your heart.
With love,
Patsy Vargas
September 24, 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROBB..
Hope your at the best "fishing hole" and catching the biggest one.
Love,
September 23, 2012
In Memory of you Robb, September 24, 1964
Today is a day I can neither celebrate or ignore. It is your Birthday! The days seem to fly into years so fast that it is overwhelming to me that we have missed five birthday celebrations with you. No cake to bake, no special dinner, but there are memories to be cherished, and for that I am thankful.
Each morning when Buddy and I take our walk I feel as if you are alongside us, unseen but always near.
With your love of fishing this quote reminded me of you.
If people concentrated on the really important things in life, there'd be a shortage of fishing poles"
I bet you got the biggest fish today.
Happy 48th Birthday
Robb, I Love and miss you so much each day. Mom and your Puppy Buddy
Barbara Johnson
June 24, 2012
Pinecrest 2012 -
Celebration of Robb's Life
The 5TH Annual Horse Shoe Tournament In memory of Robb Yates
Robb, how can it be so many years since we last enjoyed our special times at Pinecrest with all our camping friends? My heart aches that you can no longer be part of the Pinecrest tradition. I have over 30 years of wonderful camping memories and all these memories put a smile on my face. I remember the first fish you caught at Pinecrest. Mike Geary told you “If you catch them you clean them”. The fish was about 7 inches long and you were so proud. Of course I cooked the fish and you offered everyone a bite.
Nicki is still watching over me, and always encourages me to come to Pinecrest. I get through most days imagining you are at Pinecrest. If I was there I would be waiting to hear your diesel truck coming into the A Loop - thinking it's time for Beer dip and a few Sierra Pale Ale's. I see you so clearly in every camp site we ever had, the Steam Donkey and on the beach playing back gammon with Bob Wahlstrom.
I read a quote in a magazine. It sounded just like something you would say. “If people concentrated on the really important things in life, there'd be a shortage of fishing poles.
Whatever I am doing, your love stays in my heart every hour of the day and reminds me that I am not alone -
I am still your Mom
We Love and Miss you
Mom, Buddy and all your Camping Friends
Barbara Johnson
May 31, 2012
Memorial Day, May 28, 2012
Robb,
I went to the Veterans memorial mass at Gates of Heaven this morning, it was beautiful. When you told me you were going to enlist in the Navy, I wasn't sure how I felt about that. I knew it was very important to you. You served your country for 8 years in the U. S. Navy. You said you received more packages filled with cookies than any other sailor on the ship did. “The USS Independence CV62”
I became a very proud Navy Mom.
Miss you every day
Love Mom and your puppy Buddy
Barbara Johnson
April 8, 2012
Robb,
Happy Easter,
It's another Easter without you. I remember a special Easter we had with Mary M and her Son Erich, Sherry M, Uncle Ken and Nane B. You put the new BBQ together and we used for the first time. It rained and you had to BBQ on the side yard and we were out there laughing and talking. You cooked Tri Tips and I made pasta, it was a wonderful day. You were always a great cook and I miss all the meals you use to cook for me. It is a very special memory because it was your last Healthy and Happy Easter we could have never imagined how next Easter would be for you. It was also Grandpas Birthday; so many Easters fell on his birthday April 16th. We told some of his old racing stories and we felt he was still part of the day. Buddy is doing better after his surgery and he can still run around at 14 years old.
Buddy and I miss you every day.
Sending all our Love
Your Mom and Buddy
Patsy Vargas
April 8, 2012
HAPPY EASTER ROBB..
You will always be remembered,even though your chair is empty,the love your family has for you goes on.
Love,
Barbara Yates Johnson
December 24, 2011
Christmas 2011
Merry Christmas Robb
This is our fifth Christmas without you; you are in our hearts and thoughts constantly. The Holidays were so important to you since you missed so many being in the Navy for 8 years and working in 4 airports during your 16 years with Delta.
Thoughts of you always bring a smile to our faces and then we start remembering all the past Christmas stories. Uncle Ken was here for a few days, and he still remembers when you gave him a San Jose Shark's hat for Christmas. He was so excited he just put it on and didn't notice the shark tickets you had hid in the hat.
I like to remember you pulling up on Christmas day with Buddy jumping out of the truck. I can still your big smile as you unloaded presents for all of us.
I decorated your little tree from Grandma Yates, with all the ornaments you made me when you were a little boy in grade school. You know me I always kept everything. Your Pinecrest tree is now 6 feet tall, I put 500 mini lights and had to run a 100 ft extension cord. It looks beautiful at night. I put your star in the window.
I try hard not to dwell on the last Christmas we were able to be together, no one wants to be in the hospital at Christmas. We had no idea what lay ahead for you.
Like the song goes - It's another winter's day and I just wish you could come home.
We miss you every day and remember you with love.
I hung Buddy's stocking and put in all his favorite treats
Love Mom and your Puppy Buddy the Lab
Patsy Vargas
December 21, 2011
MERRY CHRISTMAS..
Hello Robb,
I'm early again, I'll be spending Christmas with my daughter, I just wanted to let you know that you and your Family our in my thoughts this time of year.
Even if your chair is empty, you are not forgotten.
Love,
November 23, 2011
Robb,
It's another lonely holiday without you. So many thoughts are going around and around in my head.
When you came home for Thanksgiving Dinner from LA we noticed you didn't look good. You were so tired and pale and had lost about 20 pounds. It had only been four weeks since we saw you for Mom's 85th birthday party. Little did we know the journey you were about to start.
Buddy is slowing down but still likes his walks. Last week on Buddy's Birthday I cooked him his special birthday dinner just like you always did.
The day after Thanksgiving was our special day. You and Buddy would pick me and take me to get my Christmas tree rain or shine. We would go to several tree lots till I found the perfect tree. You were so patient with me.
Pastor Jack Counts and his family came to see me on Monday. He feels so bad we couldn't have located him while you were sick.
Miss you more each day.
Love Mom and Buddy the Lab
Patsy Vargas
November 21, 2011
Hello Robb,
It's almost Thanksgiving, the weather is changing. Your chair will be empty, but you will be remembered with love, smiles and laughter.
Watch over your family, Robb.
Love,
Carol Vargas
November 7, 2011
Barb,
I can't believe it's been four years since Robb's passing. I'll always remember your WE/AT&T/Lucent gatherings and how Robb was always there with us. I wish I could take away your pain.
Love and friendship -
Timarra Yates McCain
October 30, 2011
Four years ago today I lost the only sibling I ever had. I miss you and all the memories we made. I wish there could have been more, but we both know why. I love you, and will see you again one day bro. Oh, and thanks for helping me catch that trout last July! I knew if I looked up to the sky and asked you would sent a fish my way :)
Robyn Diaz
October 29, 2011
I miss you Robbie. Think of you often.
Love you cousin, Robyn
Barbara Yates Johnson
October 29, 2011
October 30, 2011
Robb, on this sad day our life together
as Mother and Son are forever time
stamped in my heart. It has been four
long years without you.
This is the day I had to let you go – so your suffering from cancer would end. And then there were no more tomorrow's for us. No holidays, camping trips, birthdays,family traditions - getting our Christmas trees the day after Thanksgiving Rain or Shine.
All of our love and prayers could not save you. Each new day Buddy and I get up and remember you with love and wish we had one more day to share with you.
Love you for always
Mom and your Puppy Buddy
Barbara Yates Johnson
October 29, 2011
Robb,
Today, October 29, 2011 marks 4 years of our last full day together. I try and remember what was going on. Uncle Ken came over and spent the day with us as he always did in case we needed him. But I never thought it was our last day together. You seemed tired but no more than usual. I feel like I wasted the day doing ordinary things instead of just sitting with you. I tried so hard not to hover over you. Every day if filled with the “what if'” Why didn't they find your cancer sooner since you had 4 checkups a year for your diabetes and the list goes on and on in my head every day.
I miss you so much; the pain in my heart never changes
Love you forever
Mom and your puppy Buddy
Patsy Vargas
September 29, 2011
Hello Robb,
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!
I'M SO SORRY I LET YOUR DAY SLIP BY, BUT IT'S BEEN CRAZY HERE.
I read you Mom's B'day wish to you, it has to be the hardest thing to loose a child. I give her so much credit.
So your 47 yrs. now...goodness time is flying.
Wishing you peace,
Carol Vargas
September 26, 2011
Happy Birthday Robb. On this special day you are remembered and so loved by those who knew you. You are dearly missed by all. Love - Carol
Sherry Mateo
September 24, 2011
Happy Birthday Robb!! Its been four long years since we've been able to hug you on your birthday. We all miss you. Your Mom is taking very good care of Buddy and I know you will continue to watch over them. Love, Hugs & Kisses
September 24, 2011
Robb,
Today like everyday I’m missing
you, only today it’s your Birthday!
How I wish I could do something
special for you.
I see your smiling face in every
single sunrise, which makes me
smile.
The June Pinecrest memorial
horse shoe tournament was a
great success. Of course the park
rangers had to come to remind
everyone it was “quiet time”
There are moments in the day
when I miss you so much that
I feel like I could pick you from
my Day dreams and never let go.
Happy 47th Birthday - with Love &
pride for the man you became.
Love Mom & Your Puppy Buddy
Patsy Vargas
December 25, 2010
MERRY CHRISTMAS
Hello Robb,
It's Christmas Morning,your face is being missed.
Watch over your Mom and Grandmother.
Love,
Nicki Lawrence
December 5, 2010
I Miss you Robbie
Patsy Vargas
December 4, 2010
Happy Holiday!!!
The Holiday's are among us,Robb.
I talked to your Mom last night for a "long" time. I called her to tell her about one of our friends and one thing lead to another and before you knew it we where talking about you and Eddy. We both did real well no choked voice or hesitation when we talked. I guess it's true, time heals.
Take care of your family Robb.
Love,
November 11, 2010
Dear Robb's Mom,
I had read your Memoriam to your Son, and it also touched me,last Nov. 16th 2009, I lost my brother who was also named "Robb", my heart goes out to you because we still continue to feel the loss as well. My brother also had a beautiful smile and loved his family. May the Lord bless you and continue to give you comfort and strenght.
Marge Nunez, San Jose,CA.
Carol Vargas
November 9, 2010
Barb,
I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at yet another anniversary of Robb's death.
May you find the strength from the memories to get by these next few days.
With love and friendship,
Marilyn DeHon
October 30, 2010
Barbara,
I am thinking of Robb and you and Buddy (hope he is still with us).
October 30, 2010
I read your memoriam in the paper today. The picture of your son and Buddy caught my eye as I was turning the page. It really moved me. May God bless you. I suspect Robb had an inner strength that few of us can understand. I think it's so cool that Buddy is still with you.
God bless,
Tom
Patsy Vargas
September 24, 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROBB...
Twinkle,Twinkle little star
I'm wondering how you are....
You have been gone for so long, your face is being missed.
I know today is very hard for your Mom, I can't imagine loosing one of my children, loosing Eddy was very bad.
We take each day as it comes, and always think of our "joyful" reunion with all our loved ones that have passed before us. That day is coming and the smile on your face when you see your Mom will be worth all the lonely B'days and Holidays.
Watch over your family Robb.
Love,Patsy
Kathleen Knudsen
September 24, 2010
Dear Robb's Mom,
I didn't know Robb but your memories of him touched me to write to you to express how your sorrow at his loss affected me.
I am so sad at the loneliness you feel for the loss of your precious son.I hope that you will find peace with your loving memories of Robb and I'll keep you in my prayers.
Bake that chocolate cake and share it with someone you love in his memory. It's the only way to carry on.
Kathleen Knudsen (Morgan Hill, CA)
Carol Vargas
September 24, 2010
Dear Barb,
Another birthday gone by. Where has the time gone?
You have such great memories of times spent with Robb. In fact we all do. May they live in your heart forever and may they help to ease the pain.
With love and friendship,
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