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Sgt. Thomas Alfred "Tommy" Smith Jr.

Sgt. Thomas Alfred "Tommy" Smith Jr. obituary

Sgt. Smith Obituary

Sgt. Thomas Alfred Smith, Jr. 'Tommy'
March 19, 1971 - January 21, 2014
Resident of San Ramon
Thomas Alfred Smith, Jr. was born on March 19, 1971 in Hayward, California. He graduated from Moreau Catholic High School in Hayward and went on to graduate from the Contra Costa County Law Enforcement Training Center. Tommy was a Sgt. for the BART Police Department. Tommy met his wife, Kellie, in 1997, they married in 2001 and their daughter, Summer, was born in 2006.
Tommy was a fabulous husband, a loving father, a great brother, and a tremendous friend. He was always a sports fan; he loved the Oakland As, the San Francisco 49ers, and playing golf with his family and friends.
Tommy is survived by his wife, Kellie; daughter, Summer; mother, Betsy; brothers Ed and Patrick, numerous nieces and nephews, extended family and friends. He was preceded in death by his father, Thomas Smith, Sr.
The visitation will be Tuesday, January 28th from 5 to 9 p.m. at Chapel of the Chimes Funeral Home, 32992 Mission Boulevard in Hayward. The funeral service will be Wednesday, January 29th at Neighborhood Church, 20600 John Drive in Castro Valley.
Tommy will be forever loved, missed, and remembered…

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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Jan. 26, 2014.

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Eddie Davis

January 20, 2024

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Stephanie Phalen

February 4, 2014

Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May you find comfort in your memories.

Kelly Haltom

February 4, 2014

Thank you for your service. May your wife, daughter, family and friends find support, comfort, love and peace.

Eddie Davis

February 2, 2014

May God give you peace, remove your grief and pain in Jesus name Amen.

Brenda Smith-McGregor

February 2, 2014

Tom Smith was such a decent..pleasant...nice.man...THANK YOU for sharing him with us...the family will remain in my heart and prayers...he is now safe and happy in our Heavenly Fathers arms

Marjorie Washington

February 1, 2014

Rest in peace Officer Smith. Praying for God's comfort for your loved ones.

Helen Faumuina

February 1, 2014

Thank you for your service Sgt. Smith. It was an honor meeting you and working with you even though it was for a very short time. You have clearly touched many lives and you will never be forgotten. Rest In Peace.

Lori Bush

February 1, 2014

My heart still aches but I shall stay strong and help to make sure Kellie Summer and the BPD family gets through this. RIP Tom forever missed and never forgotten

Carol Bonds

February 1, 2014

Rest in splendid peace, Officer Smith.

Sherry Alldredge

February 1, 2014

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Smith family. And especially for Kellie and Summer, I send love and strength to get through these dark times.

Robert and Sharon Ouka

February 1, 2014

Our condolences to the whole Smith Family, there are no words. Tom was an amazing man and officer. My wife and Inhave both worked with his wife and Tom so with heavy hearts we send our prayers to you all. Retired Officer Robert Ouka and Sharon Ouka

Cassandra R

February 1, 2014

Tommy I don't what to say other then I will miss the hell out of you ! I never realized how much you taught me back in the day about my job and how it molded me in my career. You always made me laugh and I'll miss that smarty pant grin when you were going up say something smart! I'll miss our inside jokes and seeing your face light up when you talked about Kellie and Summer. Thank you for supporting me and pushing me to be better and though your not here to see I won't let you down.... I'll finish the work you wanted me to do, I promise .... Til we meet again...

Mike Warren

January 31, 2014

Rest in peace my Brother in Blue. Prayers and condolences to Kellie, Summer and extended family. We will all miss Tommy.

Kerry and Alyssa

January 28, 2014

From a friend at Stewart School

Kerry and Alyssa

January 28, 2014

From a friend at Stewart School

January 27, 2014

Rest in sweet peace Officer Smith.

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