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Tammy Chen Obituary

A South Bay teen remained in critical condition Monday, as friends and family members were still reeling from the impact of a weekend car accident that also claimed the life of a second popular student at San Jose's Lynbrook High School.

"They had had a wonderful day, and then this happened," said Lynbrook's principal, Mike White, who said he understood the accident occurred as the students were returning home from showing their work to representatives from San Francisco art schools.

Lynbrook senior Sherry Hsieh remained in the intensive care unit at Stanford University Hospital, where she was rushed Saturday after the car in which she was riding drifted off Interstate 280 and slammed into some trees near Redwood City.

Seventeen-year-old Tammy Chen, who also was a passenger in the car, died of injuries in the crash. Her older brother said the family is planning a memorial service this weekend at a Saratoga mortuary.

"She was always so happy," said Yen-Pao Chen, a Los Gatos real estate agent, while sorting through photographs of his younger sister Monday. "She's smiling in all the pictures, even in pictures where other people aren't smiling."

No further details about the accident were available Monday. The California Highway Patrol reported over the weekend that 18-year-old Andy Sze of Cupertino was driving the car when the accident occurred. He and a fourth person suffered only minor injuries, and the CHP said officers are investigating whether Sze fell asleep at the wheel.

The CHP said there were no indications that alcohol or drugs were involved in the crash.

Sze and the fourth person in the car, whose name was not released, apparently were not students at Lynbrook. White said they may have become acquainted with Tammy and Sherry through a commercial art course that the girls were taking through a vocational training program for students from several schools.

Family and friends described both young women as bright, outgoing and having many interests.

Though Tammy was considering an art career, her brother said she also was good with numbers and mathematics.

The daughter of an engineer and a teacher, Larry and Jin Chen of Saratoga, she had taken after-school courses in the abacus, the ancient adding device -- and even toured several Asian countries with a team of students who competed in contests that measured their speed and accuracy in using the device.

Tammy also held several jobs at the Lynbrook student newspaper, the Epic, before her most recent appointment as head of the Art section. She also volunteered with a local service group. She had taken summer courses at De Anza College and applied to several colleges, but her brother said she hadn't decided which she wanted to attend.

The family is planning a memorial service for Tammy at 9 a.m. Saturday at Saratoga-Cupertino Funeral Home, 12341 S. Saratoga-Sunnyvale Road, Saratoga.

Even as they grieved Tammy's death, many in the Lynbrook community also were worried about her injured friend.

Sherry's family couldn't be reached for comment. But Lynbrook graduate James Tsuei, a former teammate on the school forensics team, described Sherry as both a skilled debater and a talented artist, with a warm and enthusiastic personality.

"If there's someone who looks down in the hallway, Sherry will try to help. She genuinely cares about people," Tsuei said in an e-mail from Southern California, where he had heard from other former schoolmates about the accident.

"There's been a lot of tragedy at the school this year," he added in an interview, referring to the weekend accident and the December death of another Lynbrook student, Kevin Lam, who apparently had a heart defect.

Lynbrook administrators are planning to have counselors available at school today, when classes resume after the holiday for the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. Principal White said he knows students have been talking and e-mailing since the accident, and they may have a lot of questions when they return.

The campus was quiet Monday. Someone had left four lavender candles on the paving stones outside the main gate, along with a bouquet of roses and a note that said: "For Tammy and Sherry. We are thinking of you and your families."
Published by Mercury News on Jan. 20, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
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94 Entries

Geer Yeh

March 26, 2017

Hi Tammy,
Miss you ❤

Kristina Dhillon

August 12, 2015

Hi Tammy,

I guess it's been 10 years now but I still think of you from time to time. And always when someone else I know has passed away. Yours was the first death and memorial I'd ever experienced and it left a deep impression on me. I've known others to have passed since you, but unfortunately, they were all young as well. About a month ago, however, I watched as a close older family member of mine slowly slipped away in front of my eyes. The circumstances were just so that I actually got to say goodbye to her while she was awake and lucid. And in doing so, I finally felt that I'd achieved the closure I never got after years of friends and family dying before their time. I just hope that your family has been able to find their peace as well.

Thank you for having been so kind and accepting of me when it seemed like no one else could--for that I will always be grateful.

Ya-an

July 24, 2014

Dear Tammy,

It's July 25 here in Taiwan already and I just want to say happy birthday. Can't believe it's been 9 years, but every once a while I would find myself thinking "What if you were still here today?"

February 13, 2014

<3

February 21, 2013

randomly thought of you today while thinking about the lynbrook days. we never really spoke much but now i wish i have. hope you're in a better place.

June 21, 2011

Hi Tammy,
Randomly thought of you today. Miss you a lot.

July 25, 2008

Happy 21st Birthday Sis! We miss you and hope you are smiling upon us. I love you sis. You are now grown up, but forever will have that gentle smile and innocence to you.

marjorie rafinan

May 24, 2008

hi to u my idol.....u r my inspiration to study hard b coz i want yo see u in personal....... i am hoping for ur good career & for ur good health..... i luv y very much..........

clarisa patag

January 26, 2008

hi tammy im your number 1 fan i want to see you personaly youre so pretty and beutiful i love you

Yen Chen

January 15, 2008

Tammy, today is your 3 year anniversary. Mom and I went to the temple this morning and prayed for you. I've been praying all day for you. We all miss you so dearly. I cannot believe that 3 years have gone by already. It seemed like yesterday, still too soon. I hope you are doing well and smiling down on us with your smile. I love you sis and miss you dearly.

Carolyn

January 15, 2007

Hi Tammy,
this is the very first time I've signed this actually. It's been exactly two years now, I hope you're doing well, wherever you are. I miss and love you =]

I'm writing a xanga entry for you =]

December 25, 2006

Tammy, it's been almost 2 years that you left us...and I want you to know that we still think of you and we miss you dearly.

Tina Fu

December 7, 2006

My heart goes out with you everytime when I think of your smiling face. I know you have your mission to come to this world and you had completely with a beautiful period.
AMITABHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rhine ranises

December 5, 2006

hi tammy!!!!hope u r ok ryt now..

Yen Chen

January 12, 2006

Tammy, it is almost a year since you passed away and we still miss you so much. Our family is staying strong and with your blessings we are doing ok. Your friends have been an inspiration in keeping your legacy and memory alive. I miss your goofiness and music playing next to my room. The holidays were very difficult with you. I hope and pray that you are well, loving the afterlife and smiling that radiant smile that made everyone so happy and carefree. My sister, even though a year has passed, there hasn't been a day that I haven't thought about you and how you would've grown into a beautiful woman that you were destined to be. Jeffrey, mom, dad and myself miss you dearly and pray everyday for you. Smile for me =)

December 4, 2005

it's been almost a year and i must say it's not on my mind 24/7. i dont really realize that you're gone, and not with us any more. i still flip through the pictures of your friends and expect to see you among them, smiling and laughing like everyone else. i don't know when it'll actually become real. i hope you know that everyone, no matter how long its been, misses you and loves you very much.

Tang-En Yen

October 2, 2005

Hey Tammy, I hope you still remember the fun times our Tzu-Chi group (gratitide 4b) had. The events we attended, the service the group has done.. you have helped a lot to make it very colorful. Although I don't know you very well I liked your never-ending cheerfulness and dedication. I hope maybe in the future I'll be able to see you again and wave and say "Hi! Remember me?"



... But until then, even though you aren't on the planet anymore, you are still be in everyone's memories.

ming Lee

April 17, 2005

Dear tammy:



Today i met your mom and brothers,we had a warm meeting this afternoon.They are still kind and bright.Although your mom become emaciated and looked thin than last time we met,but she was tried to pretend that she was fine.I am really missing the time we had had.Maybe it's so short,i am just a passer-by during your brilliant life.But i also appreciate you that brings so many sweet memories and encourage me to confront some difficult challenges,i am so missed the days we wrote e-mails to each other.That's really an important thing to me.Every time i got your reply.It also remind me to concentrate my attention to my study.Thanks for you giving everyone so wonderful remembrance.May you check everyone who loves you as your family every moment,and tell us you are fine in another world.I know you became the shinist star in the sky.







Although old days never come back and best friend depart,all of them will become my remembrance

Alice Lin

February 27, 2005

Dear Tammy and her family,



When I first heard about this tragic incident, I just told myself that it couldn't have been you. There's so many Tammy Chen's. Till this day I still cannot belive that it really was you. I know we haven't talked in many years, but I still remember the wonderful memories we shared together on our abacus competitions. I still remember when we went to Taiwan, and you told me on the plane, that I was like your "older sister/best friend." Tammy you are truly a sweetheart, and I wish we had kept in touch through the years following abacus. It is definitely apparent that you have turned into a beautiful girl. I just wish I had a chance to see and really get to know you just one more time. To the Chen family, I'm deeply sorry about your loss, but I know she is in a better place. I wanted to get ahold of you Mrs. Chen, but I didn't have your number anymore, I hope you still have your abacus center so that I can come visit you when I go back home. Please take care of yourselves and I wish all of you guys the best. Tammy...I will never forget you.

The Lii Family

February 18, 2005

Dear Chen Family,



We were all very surprised by the news when it reached us, we couln't believe it, but we know that we have known you guys for a very long time. Just last summer we were sending Connie and Helena to the camp, they had such a terrific time, they remember Tammy helping out there and bringing them to buy ice cream, and being a good role model, everyone enjoyed being around her. We are all very sorry of this horrible tragedy and wish it didn't happen, but we can't do that so we give our hearts to you guys and hope you guys good luck.



Love,

The Lii Family

Betty Peng

February 16, 2005

tammy

i know you in abacus. RIP tammy

i miss you

Sylvia Ho

February 7, 2005

Tammy,

Things are so different.. it feels so empty without you here with us. I miss you so much Tammy. It's been 12 years since I've known you, but I know that you're in a much happier place right now. Tzu-Chi is going to be especially hard without you.. since it has always been you, Carolyn, and me laughing through sign language practices and classes. Hey... remember that orange-pink lei that I got you guys last Valentine's day? Well, we put it on our backpacks.. in memory of you. Props to Jen : ) Maybe you've already seen it down from heaven? : ) I think of you always Tammy... I will never ever forget you. I want to thank you for all the times that you've been so caring and generous towards me, and I'm sorry for all the stupid fights we had. I love you so much old friend. I'll meet you again someday. Take care okay? Remember to keep on smiling.. for all of us.

becky

February 7, 2005

i never met u, but i pray that the Lord would be with u and bless u/ur family. u touched alot ppl's lives and yes it made me realize that i need to live my life to the fullest and how much i have.

Neeta Sunil

February 5, 2005

Dear Mrs. Chen:



We were deeply shocked to hear about the tragedy. Please accept our deepest condolences and pray that God gives you the strength to withstand the loss. We remember Tammy as an ever smiling girl always willing to help out during Abacus class. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Annoynomous

February 1, 2005

To The Chen Family

I have a daughter at Lynbrook and this has hit so hard. It is not fair that a wonderful child like Tammy was taken in the beginning of her life. I hope that you can always see her in each other and cherish the time you have had with her on earth. I lost my best friend in the same way when I was 13 and went thru an emotional roller coaster. I still think about her to this day feeling that she is my guardian angel and I hope that Tammy is yours. I am truly so sorry and hope that time will heal your hurt and when you think about this beautiful child smile up at the heavens and know that she is with God being protected forever. I don't think I have ever seen such an outpour of love for a person that a lot of us never really knew. She was truly a special person here and now a special angel up above.

Yen Chen

January 31, 2005

Thank you to everyone who is keeping Tammy's memory alive. I am Tammy's older brother and as I read the pages from visitors and friends, tears rolled down my face. My sister is looking down in heaven blessing all of us. I am blessed to have such a wonderful and perfect sister. She was definitely the angel that has touched everyones hearts. We are all inter connected somehow whether we know it or not. Our family thanks everyone that has been supporting us. There are so many wonderful people from reading the quotes, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for the condolences. Treasure life, tell your friends and family daily you love them. Live life to the fullest. Warmest Regards to All and God Bless everyone.

christina

January 30, 2005

May God bless Tammy and her family. She truely touched many lives.

Alice Lin

January 30, 2005

Tammy,

I still can't believe that you're gone. But you're not, at least not in our hearts and our thoughts. I pray every day that Buddha is taking care of you. I've always respected the fact that you were such a strong believer, and such a good person. I miss you dearly.

Brian

January 30, 2005

Dear Tammy,

I didn't know you very well but i met you like 3 or 4 times, and you always seemed to have this warming smile on your face. I wish i got to know you better. I miss you. RIP Tammy Chen!

Christine Choi

January 29, 2005

Tammy,

It's hard to accept that you don't go to our school anymore. I hope you're at peace finally, not stressed by the earthly things.. And you're trying hard to comfort each and one of us, something you're best at, right? Have a great journey of afterlife. Perhaps we will meet again someday.

Chelsea Mao

January 28, 2005

I didn't know you that well, yet I can still recall your smiles and laughter. Tragedy had struck particularly hard this year. Your memory will live forevermore in our hearts and souls. I just wish I had a chance to say...goodbye.

Sarah Bogen

January 28, 2005

Tammy,

Its still hard to accept the fact that you are gone...but you are most defenitely not gone within my heart and my mind. I think about you constantly and I pray everyday that you are resting in peace, and that you are happy. I pray that your family will be comforted by God's stedfast love. I miss you so much, and I will never let go of my memories of you and your unforgettable presence here on earth.

cathy chang

January 27, 2005

Dear Tammy,

I miss you so much..we've been buddies since blue hills..and through all those years, you always kept that beautiful smile of yours. I can't believe we drifted apart in 10th grade..I remember every memory we shared and I see you smiling, joking, and laughing in every single memory. I remember our crazy debating days..and how we used to write notes to each other.It still makes me tremble thinking that I won't be bumping into you on the way to class or seeing you in physics during tutorial anymore. I'm so sorry you had to go so soon Tammy..May you rest in peace and watch over your family and friends. You'll always be in my heart and I miss you.

MayC Huang

January 27, 2005

Tammy--

I really didn't know you very well, yet I still feel an ache in my heart everytime I think about you now. From what I've heard, you were a really nice and funny girl with a great personality. I only wish I had stopped to get to know you. May you rest in peace for you will never be forgotten.

kevin park

January 26, 2005

you're still my hero.



may you rest in peace.

Jennifer Soong

January 26, 2005

rest in peace. you will be missed more than you'll ever know.

Kim Cruz

January 26, 2005

I work at the cemetery where Tammy will be, I just wanted to say that I am truly sorry for your loss, I did not know Tammy, but i read her obituary and I wanted to give my condolences to the family.

Dan Tung

January 26, 2005

Dear Tammy



I feel desensitized because I have already experienced deaths and my emotions get in the way of my duties at school, but those repressed feelings have risen and I thank you. I sit here with tears in my eyes because I cannot believe I didn't talk to you more. We have known each other ever since kindergarten and I regret not getting to know you better. I remember the last time I saw you, you were helping Connie get ready for formal. You said you would see me there, (I never did see you there), and we said our goodbyes. I think I know where you were referring to now. Yes Tammy, I will you see there and I cannot wait.

Deanna Tham

January 25, 2005

tammy--you could always make me laugh just by being your very self. Thanks for helping me with all the words in Chinese school, and mistaking a tube top for a skirt in 8th grade. My memories with you will always be among the most unique and exciting.

Chikako Fujii

January 25, 2005

Every single time I think about you Tammy, I can hear your laughter. I love your laughter because it brings a smile to everyone's face. I think the funniest time that I can remember in our PE class is your "Coach Hook, move your...!" You remember? That was one of the times I laughed for so long and so hard. You have that magic of making people feel happy and good. That will never ever change. If there is any way that you can let me know that you're in a good place, somehow..I will cherish our memories forever.

joanne .

January 25, 2005

tammy,

i remember you from prom. you had a beautiful smile.

Serina Robinson

January 24, 2005

Tammy-

Even though we weren't that close, you were always extremely nice to me. I will always remember the pink lids from junior high and how we laughed the whole class period over it. I just wish that I could have known you better, but I will cherish all of the memories that I have of you. I'll always remember your smiling face and your kindness. Hopefully we will meet again some time in the future. May you rest in peace and look over all of us wherever you are.

Johnny Huizar

January 24, 2005

Sup babygirl felt like I had to talk to you again. I remmember just like it was yesterday when the ice cream fell on your favorite orange sweatshirt. We are not remmembering your death. We are celebrating your life..

I never seen pain like you parents pain, but I know gods protecting you, you used to read Seed of the Soul I know gods perfecting you, All the estrogen the darker texture you are, the more intellectual you are, so professional our little purple star, too good for earth you are..

I Miss You

Michael Tsai

January 24, 2005

Tammy,



just seeing you for all these years has shown me your gentle and peaceful spirit. you've been a wonderful person in all ways, and i will really miss the calm and tranquility you brought everywhere you went.



if there's anything i can do for you or yours, let me know somehow.



R.I.P.

Katherine C.

January 24, 2005

Dearest Tammy,



I have known you and your family ever since I started kindergarten. I remember in abacus class when we always sat at the same table and laugh at our mistakes. You were always one of the best friends to be with in class. I remember when you taught me how to make all sorts of cute origamis. You're such an artist, Tammy. You drew many still-life pieces and directed the art section of Epic at Lynbrook. I can't believe that the friend I knew isn't there to help me to make another origami with me. I know that you're still here with us though, Tammy, because you will always be with us in spirit. Rest in peace.

christina calloway

January 24, 2005

did know Tammy Chen but do know the awful feeling of loosing a very loved one under tagic conditions my prayers are with your family god bless you and yours

James Donald

January 24, 2005

Yen Pao,



It's been a long time since we last spoke, and I never could have expected to end up hearing about you under such grave circumstances. I just wanted to wish all the best for you and your family in dealing with these painful times. I'm sure your sister was a wonderful person and nothing can take away the fact that she has unforgettably touched many people's lives.



-james

Wury Kim

January 23, 2005

hey tammy. i remember you and your abacus. you could calculate 4524 x 3546 in 3 seconds. you brought in your abacus for show and tell back in elementary school. i was so jealous when you could do that! a recent memory i have is when we always said hi to eachother, that you would give me this mischievious yet funny glare. that is what sticks to my mind each time i think of you.

Deborah Wu

January 23, 2005

Tammy:



Although I've known you since elementary school, I guess it wasn't until this year when fate threw us next to each other in 1st period math class. Every morning when I got to class first I would wait to make sure you would come through the door too and sit down next to me. We would go over the math homework together, and help each other out on the problems we didn’t understand. We would gripe about tough English assignments, worry about our grades, and dream about colleges. You were constantly encouraging me, telling me I could do it; telling me I could get that grade I wanted in Biology. I did get it, Tammy, but you were the one who told me I could, and by believing you, I believed in myself. Now every morning I feel like crying because you won’t be walking through that door and sitting down in the seat next to me. Yet at the same time, I know that the seat is not empty, because I will always feel you sitting there next to me, telling me that you know I can do anything I put myself to. Thank you for always having a smile for me and words of encouragement. Thank you for everything you have taught me to become a better person.

Sarah Johnson

January 23, 2005

Tammy-

May you rest peacefully in a better place. God Bless you.

jessica tsai

January 23, 2005

hey tammy. i've never really met you. but talking to people, wow are you amazing. ive heard so many things about you, and i cant wait to meet you. it seems like you were just one of thsoe positive and seriously welcoming people. im sorry i never got to know you.. and i wish i was as welcoming as you. maybe then we might have met. So many people miss you and love you its amazing. Its like youre on a big special tour of the entire word, and life, and we'll all just join you later. And then you'll have so many stories to share with us. cant wait.

Love, jessica

Tiffany Pan

January 23, 2005

Dear Tammy,

Up until yesterday, I kept a lot of memories I had of you to myself for fear that they'd fly away. But after your service I've understood how important it is to share your legacy with everybody else. Your beauty and your joy will live on. May you rest in peace.



Tiffany

January 23, 2005

we all miss you so much tammy. class just isn't the same without you. i'll never forget your beautiful, smiling face. rest in peace.

Justin Teng

January 23, 2005

Even after the service... I still can't really believe you're gone. It's hard to imagine, it just seems as if you've gone on a vacation and we're all waiting for you to come back. All of those memories people shared of you yesterday brought tears to my eyes. Many of the funny stories, the touching quotes and memories, I could just imagine you saying or doing. I guess that's what knowing someone for so long will do to you. Even though we weren't great friends in high school, we still knew each other from all those memorable Friday nights in Chinese school. Wow... we go back a long time huh? Probably 10 years I'd say. I remember I was so astonished to think that you could speak english, madarin, taiwanese, AND spanish. You were truly amazing and will be forever missed. Until we meet again, rest is peace my friend.

Olga Kreimer

January 23, 2005

Tammy, I have said the same thing in varying ways so many times this past week. I can't seem to say it enough. Epic just won't be the same without you--but you know, we're not really without you because we think of you all the time. We're going to make competition issue great for you, and we will wear our orange hoodies with so much love and pride.



We miss you here. But I know that wherever you are, nobody's ever crying, because you are making everyone laugh.

yosuke

January 23, 2005

dear tammy. i never met you, but youv touched sooo many people's lives. and just reading the things that you say to people are so inspirational, and im really sad that i never actually got to meet you. so i hope i do see you in some other form. rest in peace.

Lisa Hickey

January 23, 2005

Driving to work this past week, I've felt a horrible pain each time I passed Farm Hill Blvd. on 280. In my mind, I think about how the accident happened, and wish that she didn't feel any pain.

I was one of the 500 people in attendance at Tammy's service. As sad as it was, it was also wonderful to see all of the people that loved Tammy, and hear all the memories they had of her.

I was Tammy's 6th grade core teacher when she first entered middle school. Having my core class for three periods a day, I really got to know each student well. Tammy was a wonderful student who put an incredible amount of effort into her school work. When I picture her in my mind, I see Tammy with glasses on, and a constant smile on her face. Everyone has been speaking about what a wonderful artist she was. I remember commenting that she could draw the cutest people. She once made a diorama for a book report in my class, and she created the most detailed and adorable project. I even kept it in my classroom for several years because I liked it so much.

I haven't seen Tammy in a few years, and I am disappointed that I didn't have the chance to see what a beautiful and talented young lady she became. I will always remember her kind spirit and her bubbly personality. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends during this difficult time. It was a horrible tragedy, but Tammy brightened so many people's lives and made a lasting impact on all her loved ones. May she rest in peace.

jennie shar

January 23, 2005

hey tammy..you were my link crew leader..yeah. i'm really glad that God let me get to know you a bit before this tradegy happened. you were such an awesome person with such motivation. i immediatly knew that you were one cool person, with so much talent. thanks for being someone to look up to. rest in peace tammy. no one will be foregetting you...

Kristen Andrews

January 23, 2005

How sad that she was lost so young, nowhere near the height of her promise. From her bio and the words of friends, it is clear that this was a woman destined for great things. Unlike many her age, her focus was outward. What could she do to make someone happy? What could she do to improve another's life?



I hope those around her whose lives she touched so deeply will now follow her example and look outward.



My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends in this painful time. I believe you will see her again.

AUDREY ELLIS

January 23, 2005

IT IS SO WONDERFUL TO SEE SUCH ADMIRATION,AND LOVE POURING OUT TO SEEMINGLY SUCH A WONDEFUL YOUNG WOMAN. AT A TIME, WHEN OUR YOUNGSTERS FACE SO MANY TRYING TIMES, AND HAVE SUCH BAD REPUTATIONS, IT"S NICE TO KNOW THAT TAMMY WAS AND IS A WONDWERFUL CONTRIBUTION TO THIS WORLD, BY WAY OF LOVING FAMILY AND FRIENDS. MAY GOD HEAP ALL OF HIS STRENGTH UPON ALL OF TAMMY'S FAMILY AND FRIENDS, DURING THIS SORROWFUL TIME.

Audrey Kuo

January 22, 2005

Dear Tammy,



Going back to the Epic room and not finding you there was almost as hard as having to say bye to you today, but it was also good to see how many lives you touched during your time here. You brought happiness to everyone you met, no matter how brief the encounter. I will always remember your smile, your kindness, your orange sweater, your adorable naïveté. I'm thankful to have known you, and you will always be my favorite freshman. I miss you.

your friend

January 22, 2005

Tammy, I feel so honored to have known you, and for so long too. I know we will meet up again.

Konina Biswas

January 22, 2005

Thank you Tammy.



Epic won't be the same, English won't be the same. The school won't be the same. Every orange hoodie, every spongebob-ish thing, every lame joke =P



You did so much in such a short time..



I love you and miss you.

Shomik

January 22, 2005

Tammy In you i have lost a great friend...it pains me to see you snatched away from your family and friends so suddenly and unexpectedly..i am so sorry and will look forward to the day we may meet again...

Tiffany

January 22, 2005

From everything I heard about you, I know deeply in my heart that you are an awesome person who touched many souls. You will always be remembered by all of us and will always be part of us, the class of 05.

Rest in peace...

January 22, 2005

As a recent graduate of Lynbrook High School, I can only imagine how much pain this has brought the Lynbrook community.



I knew Tammy Chen. So much has been said of her in the past few days - she was an extremely gifted artist, a wonderful student, a hilarious companion, and a beautiful person.



That brilliant smile says it all - Tammy loved life, and life loved Tammy. I don't know why our Creator called her back to Heaven when she had so much more to live for, but it is said that God takes the youngest from us because He can't wait to make them angels. To that I say, Tammmy Chen was an angel even on earth.



Rest in peace.

peg shen

January 22, 2005

im so sorry for your family on your loss, they must miss you terribly.

January 21, 2005

At a young age, I befriended you, amazing, comic Tammy who brought everyone she knew to a smile. I can still see our elementary school memories, remembering your laugh and your kind soul. And as we grew up I only saw you in a distance, but, oh.. what wonderful things I saw. Devoted to your friends and family, you represented the greatness in all of us. How blessed I was to have known you during your time here. Tammy, my childhood friend, I’ll never forget what you’ve shown and brought to me. I love you.

Yvonne

January 21, 2005

tammy,

today i passed by a booth and saw a spongebob poster, and it reminded me of you. you're in my mind 24/7. i can't get your smile out of my head. but kelly and i pray for you and your family. you'll be missed so much.

Sireesha

January 21, 2005

Tammy,

I never knew you personally, and I regret that I didn't. I've seen you around school and you were always smiling. I've heard and read many great stories about you. You seemed to be a wonderful person.



Rest In Peace Tammy.

You are dearly missed here.



God bless her family, and her close friends. Stay strong, I know its hard.

Anna Lee

January 21, 2005

God Bless Tammy and her family. I have been following your story and my heart goes out to all of Tammy's family and friends. As a mother of two boys... after reading about Tammy and the other teens - I cherish my boys even more than ever...and make sure I give them an extra hug and kiss...

Shana

January 21, 2005

I know how hard this hits us all. I think about Tammy everyday. Keep her in your heart. Tammy, I hope you're being taken care of.

Crystal Gallatin

January 21, 2005

I didnt know Tammy very well, I think I had a class or two with her. Even so every time we passed in the hall she would smile and nod a greeting. Knowing that someone who was as close to so many of my friends is gone is hard, but to her family- we all miss her and are here to support you.

January 21, 2005

Although I've never met Tammy, I've heard many great stories about her; about how wonderful, friendly, and smart she is. My prayers go out to everyone who was affected by this tragedy. Tammy, may you rest in peace.



Saratoga High School had signed a huge banner to show that Lynbrook High School is in our hearts. Stay strong, for tammy.



"Life is a beauty, admire it..."

-Mother Teresa



Fullfill your dreams, never leave anything undone. Tomorrw's a mystery. Live life everyday as if were to be your last day on earth.



We love you Tammy. Watch over us.

Enzo Rotolo

January 21, 2005

God bless her family

Tiffany Chung

January 21, 2005

Tammy, we miss you so much. I hope that you're doing better wherever you are. We'll never forget all the memories you gave us. And I'm sorry that we drifted away after a while but we'll be able to make it up later, right? Please watch over us. We love you so much.

Alice Tsai

January 21, 2005

Tammy, i miss your smile.

Your Friend

January 21, 2005

Tammy,

I've known you since we were about 9 years old,We didn't really talk but I had always seen you smiling in class.Thanks for being such a sweetheart too everyone, and I wish the best for the family. R.I.P sweetie..you'll be missed so much.

Eve Saizan

January 21, 2005

I am so very sorry for your loss. I think Tammy's brother, Yen, said it best when he said "Life is special. Life is short."



No doubt that Tammy was a very special person who will be greatly missed. May God give you the strength to get through these horrific days. I know that Tammy will always live on in your hearts.



Peace and God bless,



Eve Saizan

Reno, Nevada (San Jose native)

Evan Tseng

January 21, 2005

tammy... we miss you so much in english class and at school. we know youre in a better place now... thank you for being in my life... teaching me everything about the abacus and chinese and all about hamsters. you wont be forgotten.

Kate McDermott

January 21, 2005

My heart trembled earlier this week when I read of this terrible accident and of the death of your daughter Tammy. I was overwhelmed with sadness for all of you and for her friends but also for myself.



As I read of Tammy's achievements and aspirations I felt that my world too had diminished with her leaving, even though I never met her.



There is the theory you know that if a butterfly flutters its wings in Japan this action affects snowfall in the Colorado Rockies.



During that earlier reading about the accident, I felt Tammy's wings stop fluttering and snow fell on my heart. My body chilled... for everyone.



I want to mention that as one of those people who had a "life after death" experience and then chose to come back here... I can assure you Tammy is just fine and fully valued where she is.

It is those of us she left behind who suffer pain and regrets on her behalf. She is fine believe me.



My sincere regards and warmest wishes to everyone who knew and loved Tammy.

william turner

January 21, 2005

my heartfelt condolences to tammy's family and friends, it is a true loss to this world to lose a beautiful young lady with such promise.

Renee Harris

January 21, 2005

My prayers are with your family.

Such a big loss of a beautiful

young lady with so much to offer

this world.

jodi

January 21, 2005

my condolences to family and friends of Tammy. may you have the strength to cope.

Ron Patterson

January 21, 2005

Having recently lost a son, grandson, and niece in this tragic way, I can only share your pain and loss...God be with you

sarah sotelo

January 21, 2005

Tammy's with God now and God Bless her family and friends!

Tracy Ngo

January 21, 2005

May all the beautiful memories you had shared with Tammy bring you comfort in these trying days.

abby arevalo

January 21, 2005

god bless her family,

Deborah

January 21, 2005

Look in the clouds

I bet you can see her-now an Angel

Jim

January 21, 2005

May God bless Tammy and her family.

Teresa Crue

January 21, 2005

Having recently lost a beloved brother and my hero, I know that there are no words to ease the pain of your loss. May your faith in our Lord and Savior help you through this very difficult time. Though I didn't know Tammy, her pictures shows a very lovely girl with a beautiful smile. Again, my deepest, deepest condolences for your loss.

Lisa

January 21, 2005

My deepest sympathy to Tammy's family. Just remember, she is in a much better place now.

Mike Wu

January 21, 2005

Yen,



My heart goes out to you and your family. I cannot express the sadness and grief that I feel, but do know that your friends will always be here to help you through this difficult time. May the powers from up above guide you through this difficult time.



Mike

claudia estrada

January 21, 2005

my heart goes out to tammy's family and friends, may she rest in peace.........

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