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Valerie Catanese Obituary

Valerie Catanese (Barsotti) was born on May 28, 1934, in San Francisco. She passed away peacefully on May 17, 2023, at her home in San Jose, California, at the age of 88. Valerie had a deep love for her San Francisco heritage and enjoyed roller skating on the hilly streets of the city during her childhood. At the age of 16, she graduated from Tamalpais Union High School She then attended San Jose State University, where she met the love of her life, Lester Catanese. They married in 1956 and had four children together. Valerie loved working at Westwood Pharmacy for 14 years and Emile's Restaurant for 26 years. She was known for her friendly personality and excellent smile .Val is survived by her brother Phillip Barsotti, sister-in-law Monica Barsotti, sister Rita Nostrand, sister-in-law Libby Ann Schultze, sons Gregg and Bruce Catanese, daughters Kyle and Kerry Catanese,daughter-in-law Rene Smoller, 5 grandchildren, 4 great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her parents, Roy and Madeleine Barsotti, and her sister, Louise Barsotti.A Celebration of Her Life will be held on Saturday, June 3rd, at 1:00 PM, at the Lima Family Erickson Memorial Chapel at 710 Willow Street in San Jose. In lieu of flowers, per Valerie's wishes, please donate, in remembrance, to Dominican Nuns, Corpus Christi Monastery, 215 Oak Grove Ave., Menlo Park, CA 94025, 650-323-1801.

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Published by Mercury News on May 28, 2023.

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Pierluigi Oliverio

June 2, 2023

My sincere condolences to the extend Catanese family. Valerie was such a sweet person and her memory will live on with her family and friends.

Gregg Catanese

May 28, 2023

I knew Valerie as "Mom".
This week my sisters ran across a box on a shelf in one of the closets in the house. Turned out that Mom had saved all of our report cards, photos, homemade birthday and Mothers Day cards, and, best of all essays that she made us write as punishment for our various misdeeds. Reading them gave us all a few much needed laughs, and brought back some old memories.
We will miss her wit, her warmth, and her vivacious and outgoing personality.
She was a wonderful mother, and a doting grandmother and great-grandmother.

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