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Wayne Malley Obituary
Dec. 9, 1956-June 6, 2011
Resident of Cupertino
Dearest son of Mary and James Malley, loving brother of Rochelle, James, and Jerome Malley.
Wayne's life was full of joy and consideration for others. He helped many people with their personal finances. His kindness was felt by all. We will all dearly miss him and pray and know that he is with the Lord God in Heaven.
Friends are invited to attend a Vigil on Monday, June 13, 2011 at 7:00 p.m. at LIMA CAMPAGNA SUNNYVALE MORTUARY, 1315 Hollenbeck Ave., Sunnyvale. Funeral Mass Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. at St. Joseph's of Cupertino Church, 10110 N. De Anza Blvd., Cupertino. Interment to follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Los Altos.
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Memories and Condolences
for Wayne Malley
Don Taddeo
June 5, 2023
They are sayig that Montreal's Grand Prix this year will be the biggest ever - but it won' t be the same without Wayne. Miss you Wayne and we will always remember the fun you brought to our home at GP time - Don, Brigitte, Francesca and Julia June 2023
Donat Taddeo
June 7, 2020
I just read the tributes posted at the time of Wayne's passing in 2011as well as those posted since. Hard to believe 9 years have gone by. Amazing to realize that Wayne's impact on us all continues still - may he rest in peace! Don, Brigitte, Francesca and Julia Taddeo
gregg gagliardi
June 24, 2019
Miss you!
Andrew Lee
June 5, 2019
It's been 8 years already, and I still miss my friend and think of you often, especially when attending concerts put on by Tom Rigney and Flambeau. Great band, and I've gotten to know each of the band members on a personal level. Great bunch of people and excellent, passionate musicians. You gave me that first cd, "Happy to be Here," and it is epic and the prize of the collection I've accumulated over the years. I miss your boisterous laugh and our lunch trips to the 'posa (which is no mas now) for that great roast pork and cabbage over rice! You were like my kid brother, and I know you always had my back, too. Ciao, bro
David Holland
June 8, 2018
My Friend is gone - Wayne we miss you so much. You were such a giver and not a taker during your life. RIP my Friend.
John and Kristen Schmidt
September 6, 2011
We just heard about this today, and we are completely shocked and saddened by the news. Wayne was a trusted adviser to us for over 15 years. He always seemed to care about our situation as though we were his only client. Even though we moved to Redding, CA 7 years ago, we continued to trust Wayne's prompt and thorough handling of our taxes. We are confident God has welcomed him with open arms, but hope and pray that God soothes the heart and souls of those Wayne left behind.
Eileen Tsai and Frank Siebenlist
September 2, 2011
We cannot express enough gratitude for the years that Wayne put us at ease with our dreaded taxes. He made me look forward to this annual event, with his humor and no-nonsense attitude. I knew it was always going to get done with accuracy and care. We will miss you Wayne, and send the Malley family our deepest condolences.
Valerie Nilson
August 31, 2011
I just heard about Wayne's passing. My mom has known him for over 20 years and introduced me to Wayne when I needed help with my taxes over a decade ago. I am so sad for his loss. I could always count on him for expert advice on my tax matters and funny email jokes to brighten my day. Wayne had begun stocking his office mini fridge with salads instead of less healthy options but still made a point of stocking the candy dish with chocolate for clients. I will miss Wayne and wish his family comfort and the ability to recall all the good memories of Wayne.
Cathy Cantwell-Pearce
August 16, 2011
I remember Nativity, dance class with Mrs. Wynn and having to hold hands with a yucky boy:) then M.A. and you were in the stands or on the field at every event! Had I known you would be here such a short time I would have been more attentive to friendship. I'm sorry I found out so late but if it helps, in your memory I'll rekindle those I've ignored too too long. Thanks for your explosive spirit, your help, and for always making me feel like I am a special friend. Miss you buddy. Cathy Cantwell Pearce
Karla
August 11, 2011
"Bye bye, baby, we've got to go.
I get to leave before my tears start to show.
I see the future, so clear and so bright, Where all the children are dancing in the light."
August 11, 2011
Jay and I were clients of Wayne's and had been for about 15 or more years and are saddened to hear of his death. He was a wonderful person to work with and had a grat sense of humor. He and Jay liked to talk about Stanford University sports and pro sports while going thru the tax papers. He always had an interest in how our family was doing. We will miss him tremendously and extend our sympathies to his parents and siblings.
Jay and Sue Evans
San Jose
Karla Cancino
August 9, 2011
I shared the pleasure of Wayne’s company, years ago, when our paths crossed for a time. Our sojourn together ended, but cherished surreal memories remain of those “lost days of youth”. Reading these condolences revived thoughts of Wayne’s selflessness, generosity, and love of life. I am so sorry and saddened to tears, realizing his light of life is gone. Heartfelt love to you, forever, rest in peace.
Virginia Planellas
July 14, 2011
I just heard about Wayne’s passing today. I had the pleasure of working with Wayne for many years. He would buy municipal bonds from me, I am sure, for many of you. He was always a pleasure to deal with and always seemed to just be enjoying life. I will miss dealing with him and his great attitude. I see from the postings here that many of you have lost a good friend in Wayne. I am sorry for that. To Wayne’s family and friends, please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Cheryl Cline
July 2, 2011
I had the pleasure of knowing Wayne for over 30 years. I always looked forward to our annual tax/financial planning appointments to hear about his latest adventure. His sense-of-humor was such a delight. I will miss him dearly. My deepest sympathy to his family.
Carolyn Lewis
July 1, 2011
I have known Wayne for over 30 years and he was a trusted financial advisor and friend. I will miss his leads on travel and his good nature. Rest in peace my friend and my deepest sympathy to his family. I will miss him.
Ray & Teri Ortiz
July 1, 2011
We just heard too and are also shocked. Wayne was our "tax guy" and investment guy too. For probably almost 20 years he helped us out many times - always in a way that made us laugh. He was always a lot of fun and we appreciated his work for us. Sending deepest sympathies to his family members. Sincerely, Ray & Teri Ortiz
Lisa Finkelman-Smith
July 1, 2011
I just got the letter from GBS and I'm in total shock. Wayne I will miss you so much. Can someone please contact me with more information on what happened?
Deirdre Sheerin
June 22, 2011
To Wayne's family,
My heart is broken to know Wayne is gone. I've known Wayne for over 10 years. He was an amazing financial guide and a huge soul to boot. I will never forget his gentle kindness during a couple of rough financial spots. I came to look to him as a friend. I am so sorry for your loss. With sympathy, Deirdre Sheerin
Susie Phillips
June 22, 2011
I only knew Wayne a short time. He helped me out of a tax jam at literally the last hour. My sister Deirdre, got me in contact with him and although we never met, he treated me like a friend instead of a customer. I feel cheated that I will never meet him. I was so looking forward to it when I came to CA to see my sister. We share the same birthday. I will think of him then. May peace be with you, Wayne. For those who know him well, he is only a memory away. God bless.
June 19, 2011
For Wayne - A Eulogy
Grand Prix weekend in our home and in Montréal will never quite be the same now that Wayne is gone. No more booming voice at the front door with that impish grin bellowing out: “Hey Don, open up, we’re here!” And no more Sunday night dinners with Wayne recounting, much to our delight, how he had spent the last three days running his own race, hairpin turns and all, between the Formula One racetrack and Montreal’s hottest spots. But there was more to Wayne than that.
In 1970, I was in the third year of my PHD studies at Stanford University when the pastor of the Church of the Nativity Fr. Ford approached me one Sunday after Mass to ask if I would be willing to take over the CCD classes for the parish and start up a “Teen Group” to occupy the young teenagers of the parish, involve them in interesting activities and keep them out of trouble. I accepted and embarked upon an experience that, over the two years that followed, taught me more than I ever would have imagined and that laid the foundation for lifelong friendships of which Wayne Malley was the undisputed cornerstone.
Wayne was one of the core 15 youngsters that made that Nativity Teen Group function. He was also the one that was behind every prank that victimized me – stuffing the exhaust of my VW Bug with firecrackers, decorating the tree outside the house I shared with my fellow students at 16 Iris Lane with toilet paper on Halloween, sliding out of the second story window during our ski trip at Squaw Valley for a fun night at the Village. But Wayne was also the first one there to help set up the booths for the parish bazaar, install the stage and move the piano outside for the open-air Easter Mass and just plain do what had to be done – always with energy, with gusto and no effort spared –a real dynamo.
I came back to Montreal in 1972 and it was only a matter of time until Wayne showed up with Mark DelBucchia and Tim Ahearn to check out how I was doing. He also came with his mom to see me and my family in 1990 when we were living in Rome and for the last fifteen years or so, Wayne and Company were regular fixtures at our house at Grand Prix time.
Wayne’s visits were not merely utilitarian – they were a manifestation of his loyalty and of his deep desire to nourish and cherish those who were close to him. You could sense this and it was one of the many things that endeared him so much to us all and which made us turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to some of his trademark antics.
Wayne was also the one who held us all together – he was our information hub, our main portal, the one who, year after year, knew what was going on in the lives of that Nativity Teen Group of 1970 and who facilitated communication amongst us all. He put in the time and effort necessary to keep the network up and running and it was just another example of the generosity he extended selflessly to those around him. In the three or four times I came to the Bay Area over the last twenty years, alone and then with the family, Wayne was there to pick me up at the airport and chauffer me around to my various appointments or give my wife and daughters a first class tour of all the sights between San Francisco and Palo Alto.
Behind that grin and under the bellowing laughter lay a keen and astute mind that I and my family had the pleasure and privilege of discovering and sharing over the course of many conversations these last four decades. And that mind and intelligence were framed within a character that stood on the pillars of loyalty, generosity, a great sense of humour and above all, a genuine spirit in dealing with others. Wayne was, as the Italians would say, truly genuino – and that was how we loved him.
Grand Prix weekends at our house may never be the same now that Wayne is gone, but they will be more that what they were before, because Wayne’s impact will always be present and felt deeply by my daughters and by my wife and me.
To Mrs. Malley, to Jim and to Jerome,
Francesca, Julia, Brigitte and I extend our very deepest sympathies and please be assured that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
And to you Wayne, thanks for your friendship, your loyalty, for making us laugh and for the very special person that you were. You will live in our hearts forever. May you rest in peace.
Don Taddeo
June 19, 2011
For Wayne - A Eulogy
Grand Prix weekend in our home and in Montréal will never quite be the same now that Wayne is gone. No more booming voice at the front door with that impish grin bellowing out: “Hey Don, open up, we’re here!” And no more Sunday night dinners with Wayne recounting, much to our delight, how he had spent the last three days running his own race, hairpin turns and all, between the Formula One racetrack and Montreal’s hottest spots. But there was more to Wayne than that.
In 1970, I was in the third year of my PHD studies at Stanford University when the pastor of the Church of the Nativity Fr. Ford approached me one Sunday after Mass to ask if I would be willing to take over the CCD classes for the parish and start up a “Teen Group” to occupy the young teenagers of the parish, involve them in interesting activities and keep them out of trouble. I accepted and embarked upon an experience that, over the two years that followed, taught me more than I ever would have imagined and that laid the foundation for lifelong friendships of which Wayne Malley was the undisputed cornerstone.
Wayne was one of the core 15 youngsters that made that Nativity Teen Group function. He was also the one that was behind every prank that victimized me – stuffing the exhaust of my VW Bug with firecrackers, decorating the tree outside the house I shared with my fellow students at 16 Iris Lane with toilet paper on Halloween, sliding out of the second story window during our ski trip at Squaw Valley for a fun night at the Village. But Wayne was also the first one there to help set up the booths for the parish bazaar, install the stage and move the piano outside for the open-air Easter Mass and just plain do what had to be done – always with energy, with gusto and no effort spared –a real dynamo.
I came back to Montreal in 1972 and it was only a matter of time until Wayne showed up with Mark DelBucchia and Tim Ahearn to check out how I was doing. He also came with his mom to see me and my family in 1990 when we were living in Rome and for the last fifteen years or so, Wayne and Company were regular fixtures at our house at Grand Prix time.
Wayne’s visits were not merely utilitarian – they were a manifestation of his loyalty and of his deep desire to nourish and cherish those who were close to him. You could sense this and it was one of the many things that endeared him so much to us all and which made us turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to some of his trademark antics.
Wayne was also the one who held us all together – he was our information hub, our main portal, the one who, year after year, knew what was going on in the lives of that Nativity Teen Group of 1970 and who facilitated communication amongst us all. He put in the time and effort necessary to keep the network up and running and it was just another example of the generosity he extended selflessly to those around him. In the three or four times I came to the Bay Area over the last twenty years, alone and then with the family, Wayne was there to pick me up at the airport and chauffer me around to my various appointments or give my wife and daughters a first class tour of all the sights between San Francisco and Palo Alto.
Behind that grin and under the bellowing laughter lay a keen and astute mind that I and my family had the pleasure and privilege of discovering and sharing over the course of many conversations these last four decades. And that mind and intelligence were framed within a character that stood on the pillars of loyalty, generosity, a great sense of humour and above all, a genuine spirit in dealing with others. Wayne was, as the Italians would say, truly genuino – and that was how we loved him.
Grand Prix weekends at our house may never be the same now that Wayne is gone, but they will be more that what they were before, because Wayne’s impact will always be present and felt deeply by my daughters and by my wife and me.
To Mrs. Malley, to Jim and to Jerome,
Francesca, Julia, Brigitte and I extend our very deepest sympathies and please be assured that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
And to you Wayne, thanks for your friendship, your loyalty, for making us laugh and for the very special person that you were. You will live in our hearts forever. May you rest in peace.
Don Taddeo
Pam Marron
June 17, 2011
God Bless Wayne, and may you rest in peace always. Every tear is like a waterfall. With sympathy to The Malley family.
Paul Cutting
June 17, 2011
We will miss Wayne's cheerfull personality and our prayers are with the Malley family - Paul, Stellie, Zoe, Eileen and Kaye Cutting
Rick and Lisa Barr
June 15, 2011
Wayne. we will certainly miss running into you at various places in Menlo Park. You were always up for great conversations, very kind and thoughtful. We could always count on the football schedules to show up every year. A real nice guy ! Our prayers to your family and close friends.
Andrew Lee
June 13, 2011
"Wano"
No words can describe the empty feeling I and so many others feel from your loss. I will always relish our friendship, and it was an honor for me to have known you. When truly genuine and caring people enter our lives, we have to chalk it up to good fortune. Thank you for being this, and then some, and all you did for those of us who had the privilege to know you in your short time here on earth. Until we meet again,
Peace, my brother.
Anjuna Malley
June 13, 2011
Wayne will fondly be remembered as an Uncle to four nieces & nephews and two great-nieces and a great-nephew. He will be missed by us all.
Julia Taddeo
June 13, 2011
Grand Prix Weekend will never be the same for the whole family. We will miss you, Wayne.
T Hildebrandt
June 13, 2011
I've known Wayne for 35 + years. Our prayers go out to his friends and family. He will surely be missed. Tom Hildebrandt (Humboldt county)
June 13, 2011
We will miss you my heart goes out to your family. I hope you have found peace.Chris Johnson Nevada City,CA
TOM LEMMON
June 13, 2011
WAYNE WAS ONE OF MY OLDEST FRIENDS_ FOR OVER 45 YEARS HE WAS A BUDDY AND ALWAYS THERE FOR ME- I AND MY FAMILY WILL MISS HIM -- LEMMON FAMILY
Barbara Figley
June 12, 2011
Wayne was and a personal friend of mine for over 40 years. He kept people in touch with his yearly Christmas party and his acts of kindness. I miss him deeply and will never forget him.
Nancy Wierenga
June 11, 2011
Dear Malley Family,
Wayne was a wonderful caring and giving person. He was always helpful and always bringing his food to share with others. Everyone loved to see his red Ferrari! We will all miss him, our prayers are with you as a family.
Geri Alexander
June 11, 2011
Wayne will missed by all his friends at the Alpine. He was so kind and generous, especially with his great treats that we were so lucky to enjoy. Rest in peace Wayne, you will be missed by all those that loved you.
June 11, 2011
Wayne was a friend, confidant and an all around fun guy. He tried to act tough, but he was really a big softie! He will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathy to his family.
Jim and Margaret (Dixie) Dix Gig Harbor Washington
Louise Arata
June 11, 2011
Wayne was a dear friend to my family. We will miss him very much. Louise Arata
Karen Ransohoff
June 11, 2011
Wayne was a remarkable man in so many ways. We will miss his sense of humor and caring. Tom and I are so sorry for your loss.
Maxine Lucas
June 11, 2011
Working for Wayne for 10 years, we developed a deep friendship. He was the most giving person I have ever known and the world has lost a great guy. Will miss his sense of humor. My deepest sympathy to his family. Can't believe he is gone. I will miss him.
Maxine Lucas
June 11, 2011
I met Wayne > 20 years ago at HRB. Always enjoyed seeing him. My sincere condolences to the family.
Marilyn MacNab
Gregg Gagliardi
June 10, 2011
We thought the world of Wayne. He was a dear and close friend of our family. We will truly miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Regina Riviello
June 10, 2011
In our thoughts and prayers.
Marc & Regina Riviello and Family
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