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WESTWOOD Joseph P. Cleary of Westwood formerly of Marlborough July 30, Loving husband of Tracy Anne (Costello) Cleary. Devoted father of Christopher J. Cleary of Westwood. Beloved son of William Patrick Cleary and Nancy (Wojdola) Cleary of Marlborough. Brother of Catie Cleary of Newton, Molly Megan and her husband John of Southborough and the late Brendan P. Cleary. Son-in-law of Paul and Jane (Linehan) Costello of Belmont. Brother in law of Brian Costello and his wife Kimberley of Weston and Michael Costello and his wife Kelli of Natick. Also survived by 6 nieces and nephews. Funeral from the Stanton Funeral Home 786 Mt. Auburn St. (RT16) Watertown on Wednesday at 9:30 A.M. Funeral Mass in St. Joseph Church, Common St. Belmont at 10:30 A.M. Relatives and friends respectfully invited to attend. Visiting hours Tuesday 3-8 P.M. Late Alumnus Boston College class of 1992 and Captain of B.C. Hockey team 1992. In lieu of flowers contributions to the Educational & Health Fund for Christopher J. Cleary, c/o Bank of America 858 Washington St. Dedham, MA 02026 would be appreciated.www.stantonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by MetroWest Daily News from Aug. 3 to Aug. 4, 2009.

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Carla Eaker Truluck

September 15, 2010

Dear Cleary Family,

I am so sadden to hear of the passing of Joe. He was a wonderful person who left an everlasting impression on the lives of those he met. He was a generious, kind and honest person. I will never forget him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

With deepest sympathy,
Carla

Julie (Buckley) Groves

March 9, 2010

Dear Cleary Family,

I received my most recent edition of the Boston College Magazine today and was so saddened to read of Joe's passing. While I was a class behind Joe at B.C., I had the good fortune to live across the hall from him his junior year. Your son, brother, husband, father and friend was a fantastic person who brought many laughs to me and my roommates. Joe brought much joy to the people around him and I hope that these memories bring you comfort.

With sincere sympathy,

John LaFreniere

September 15, 2009

Although I only knew Joe through through my MHS classmates Catie and Molly, I was very saddened to hear the news of your loss just this last Sunday night. God Bless, my thought and prayers are with the entire Cleary family

Diane Gould

September 14, 2009

Tracy and Christopher:

Please accept my deepest sympathy in your time of sorrow.

Diane (babysitter for Garrett and Kaitlin)

Jennifer Ringland

September 11, 2009

Tracy & Christopher:

We are truly sorry for your loss. No words or sentiments can express or sorrow. Our thought are with you.

Jennifer, Scott, Cho-Cho, & Olivia Malcolmson

MAry Beth Orsolits

September 9, 2009

Dear Pat and Nancy, Don and I were very saddened to hear of your beautiful son's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your memories will live in your hearts forever and sustain you through the years.Sincerely, Mary Beth ( Wright) and Don Orsolits Buffalo, New York

Chris Stephens

September 2, 2009

Nancy, Pat, Katie, and Molly: Mary Lu and I are unable to begin to understand and experience the pain you must feel. We will be in touch with you when appropriate

mike nichols

August 24, 2009

Pat,
I just found out today about Joes death, my prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family, as you know Pat my boy Sean idolized Joe when he was growing up, he would always tell all his little buddies with so much pride that he was friends with a real pro hockey player, he will be greatly missed

Bob DeCristoforo (Bob D)

August 21, 2009

Only yesterday I learned about the
passing of Joe. I met him at BC where
I followed the hockey team. Joe was a
tremendous person...a beautiful human
being. I am shocked,and will keep Joe
in my thoughts and prayers. We where
all fortunate to know him.

Catherine Collins

August 13, 2009

Mr. and Mrs. Cleary, Catie and Molly - I cannot tell you how sorry I am. Know that my prayers and thoughts are with you.

Rhonda Bonini (Horn)

August 12, 2009

Molly and Catie and Family, sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. I hope there are many happy memories to help through this challenging time. Thought and prayers with you and yours.

August 11, 2009

To the entire Cleary Family,
I played against Joe in college and got to know him through the tight fraternity that is the hockey world. I am so sorry for your loss. Joe was a special guy and I am a better person because I knew him. I know words can't ease the pain but someday, down the road, please know that Joe's impact on people who were fortunate enough to know him was immense. I will always remember him as a great competitor and an even better friend. On behalf of my family, please accept my deepest condolences.
Rest in Peace, Joe.
Your friends
Mike, Krissy, Jack, Mikey, & Sarah Roberts

Gerard Mahoney

August 10, 2009

To Tracy, Paul and Jane,

Please accept my deepest sympathies on the passing of your husband and son-in-law.

Gerard Mahoney

Mary Dainis

August 9, 2009

Dear Tracy and Christopher,

Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. We will remember Joe walking with Christopher on Brookfield Road and how proud he looked when he was with his son. We will be here for you both. With deepest sympathy,

Jeff, Mary, Jake and Brooke Dainis

Stacey West

August 8, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Stacey & Alan West

Paul Corcoran

August 7, 2009

I was very fortunate to have some fun playing mens league with Joe Cleary.

He always made everyone laugh and was a good guy in general. It's sad because the world could yuse more guys like Joe.

August 7, 2009

I graduated with Joe in 1992. I considered him a great friend. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Patti Talarico Kelly

Ann Linehan

August 7, 2009

I will always remember how happy Joe was when he became a father.
Love,
Ann

Joe and Christopher

August 7, 2009

Andrew Mulligan

August 6, 2009

Dear Cleary Family,
I am truly sorry for you loss. I graduated B.C. with Joe and had many, many laughs with him, as did anyone who knew him. We ran into each other in Westwood this past year and he had me laughing in seconds. Not a bad word could be spoken of him, he was truly a great guy. My deepest sympathy.

Matt & Jon Nekoroski

August 6, 2009

Jon & I had great memories and well respected Joe as a person and hockey player. We send ours prayers - sorry for your loss.

Michael Cox

August 6, 2009

I was one of the many lucky ones to have played hockey with Joe. He was the best and always made me laugh. This world has lost a good one.

Patrick Seymour

August 5, 2009

Cleary family, sorry to hear of your loss. My sympathies to you in this difficult time.

Greg & Karolyn (Nelson) Gowaski

August 5, 2009

So sorry for your loss. Joe was a great and gifted person that we grew up with from our childhood days at Jaworek School and into High School. Our prayers are with all the Clearys.

Ken LaCroix

August 5, 2009

Dear Cleary Family ,
I am sorry to hear of Joe's passing . My thoughts and prayers will be with you . I enjoyed having Joe as a teammate and friend .

David Thompson

August 5, 2009

Dear Pat, Nancy, Molly, & Catie, and Tracy & Christopher

You and your families have been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard of Joe's passing.

And, Joe has been too. I reminisce of the 70s and 80s on Kosmas, him running with the big boys (me, Bob, and Don), playing all kinds of sports, and the age difference not being the slightest factor.

Though he was young, I knew he was gifted. . . and in more that just sports as all these other 'guests' have shared.

Love, always
Dave Thompson

Bill Shaughnessy

August 5, 2009

To The Cleary Family- I am so sorry to hear of your loss! Joe was a great roommate and friend at BC and will be greatly missed. Reading through the guest book brough back alot of memories... i am thankful that i have those to hold on to... Joe was a great guy and i am so happy to have lived with him at BC.

Shags

Linda/Gene Krajcer

August 5, 2009

DearNancy,Pat,Molly,Catie,Tracey and
Christopher.

We want you all to know that our hearts are full of love for all of you.
Joe was a wonderful young man, and like everyone else, we too are remembering his wonderful smile.

Whenever he walked into a room it would just light up.
Gene and I love you all so much and you are all in our thoughts and prayers for now and always.

Jeanine/Brian Williamson/Krajcer

August 5, 2009

Mr & Mrs Cleary and Family

My Dad and Mom had told us of your loss and we send our sincere condolences I (Brian)remember the trip with his grand mother and Aunt Ginny and he was break dancing in your kitchen . I (Jeanine) remember his smile I can not remember why or how he made me laugh but he did and that is what I remember of him.

Brian Krajcer
Jacksonville,FL
Jeanine (Krajcer) Williamson
Hermon,PA

Kate and Mike Costello

August 5, 2009

Dear Tracy and Christopher,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. May the love and prayers of your family and friends help you during this difficult time. Sincerely,
Mike, Kate, Colin, and Caragh Costello

Shawna (MacKenzie) Risotti

August 5, 2009

Pat, Nancy, Molly & Catie,

I can remember the day the little freckled face boy moved into the neighborhood and stole all of our hearts. That little boy grew into a wonderful man and loving father. May the happy times and memories of Joe soften your pain and always leave smiles on your faces.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Joe may you rest in peace.

Shawna, Steve, Anna & Matthew

Jennifer Raybould-Falconi

August 5, 2009

To the Cleary family,
I am sorry to hear the loss of Joe.Words cannot express.He was one of those people who leaves an impression on your life.He was in my french class in highschool.He would always double check his work with my work ,but always managed a better grade.God Bless

Marge Arcadi (Reville)

August 5, 2009

Dear Pat, Nancy and family,

I was so sorry to hear about your beautiful son. I will keep you in my thoughts and hope you find peace in the memories of a life well lived.

August 5, 2009

Joe was one of the most genuine people I have ever come across. He was the real deal. He always told it like it was and often with gut wrenching humor and wit. Joe often shared stories of Christopher with much pride. I hope Christopher will one day know what a great man his father was. He was loved by many and will surely be missed.
Our deepest sympathies.
Jack & Jeanine Cort

Paul Johnson

August 4, 2009

To Joe's dear family,
Joe was one of those very special people in life,who would touch your heart and soul by that smile he flashed, the instant connection he made with you and that sincere conversation you would have with him. I'm so sorry he has left us, he will never be forgotten. Joe and you will always be in my prayers.

Rick Pare'

August 4, 2009

To the Cleary family,
Please accept our deepest condolences. As a long time neighbor and youth hockey team mate, Joe "Clink" will not be forgotten. You will all remain in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
The Pare' Family

Scott LaGrand

August 4, 2009

Mr.+Mrs. Cleary,

I am so sorry for the loss of Joe. He was a positive influence on so many people, and he will be in always be in our thoughts as a great teammate and friend.

Patrick Murphy

August 4, 2009

Dear Mr and Mrs Cleary and Family,

I am deaply saddened to hear of your loss. Molly and John a wonderful neighbors of ours and are thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Carol Connors

August 4, 2009

Dear Nancy and Pat,

Jim and I are so sorry. Joe and your whole family are in our prayers. Know that "old" friends still love you and hurt for you.
Love,
Carol and Jim Connors

August 4, 2009

Pat,Nancy,Catie and Molly. Please accept our heartfelt condolences at this very difficult time. We will always remember Joe as the joyful person his was during those years of hockey. You are in our prayers.
Beth and Sal Femino

Brian McNamara

August 4, 2009

Joe, I was saddened to hear of your untimely passing. Many people are better for having known you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Halloween 2008 Millie, Charlie, Joe and Christopher

Sarah Essex

August 4, 2009

Dear Tracy and Christopher,

We love you both very much and we are here if you need anything. Joe was a really special man and we will always remember his smile, his gentleness and humor. We will really miss him. We are keeping you all in our prayers.
Love,
Sarah, Rick, Millie and Charlie Essex

Mark Vilensky

August 4, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear about Joe's passing. My thoughts are with you at this incredibly difficult time.

John Kelly

August 4, 2009

Joe will be missed by all and forgotten by none...RIP my friend.
JK

Richie Manning

August 4, 2009

Mr. and Mrs. Cleary and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I was shocked to hear of Joe's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tough time.

Tim Carlow

August 4, 2009

As time passes by, people move on and sometimes lost touch. However, there are those who tend to leave an everlasting impression on the lives of those who they have met. Joe was a truly gifted athlete but more importantly a fantastic person. His energy and attitude were infectious. The world has gotten a little darker with his passing. I wish you and your family comfort in this time of sorrow and eternal peace to Joe.

Greg Pesaturo

August 4, 2009

Dear Cleary Family'

I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers will be with you. I will always remember the Ski trips and playing hockey in Marlboro.

August 4, 2009

Dear Cleary Family,

We were so saddened to hear of Joe's death. Your grief is unimaginable and we want you to know we will pray for you daily. He was very kind to Jim at BC, and a great leader. We'll always remember his handsome, smiling face. He will be missed by many.

Maggi and Keith Krayer and Family
East Fakmouth, MA.

michael griffin

August 4, 2009

Dear Pat and Nancy- We heard of the tragic death of Joe. We'll always remember him as a beautiful child. Our thoughts are with you both. Pat and Mike Griffin

Jim McCarthy

August 4, 2009

I am deeply saddened to hear of Joe's passing. I will always remember playing hockey together as kids. My thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family.

Brad Askins

August 4, 2009

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Joe always had a way of making my laugh and smile.

Patti Duggan Kane

August 4, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathy at this time of sadness. I lost my brother 17 years ago last week...the pain will eventually dull, but the great memories will live on forever...Joe will continue to be a great presence in your lives.

Tommy & Doreen Stafford

August 4, 2009

To all the Cleary Family,
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Julie Coye-Battaglino & Family

August 4, 2009

Our thoughts & deepest prayers are with you at this time and always. Joe will always be remembered as a charismatic, smart, kind-hearted, over-achieving person. Our blessings are with you.

Barry Hynes

August 4, 2009

Dear Cleary Family,
On behalf of the Pike's Peak Hockey Club at Boston College, please accept our deepest sympathy over the loss of Joe.
He will be missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Barry Hynes
President
The Pike's Peak Hockey Club

Michael & Emma Shine

August 3, 2009

I will always remember Joe and I sitting on our Grandmothers porch in the middle of Buffalo winters throwing snowballs. Our deepest sympathy to the Cleary family. He touched the lives of so many people, he will be greatly missed.

Tom Strachan

August 3, 2009

To the Cleary's & extended family,

I attended Boston College with Joe and knew him socially after graduating. Joe was a fun, kind, and caring. He help me get an interview with a company he was working for after college. I am very sorry for your loss. Joe will be missed.

David Franzosa

August 3, 2009

Mr and Mrs Cleary, Catie, Mollie, Tracy and Christopher:
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Joe was a great friend and most of the hardest belly laughs I've had in my life include "Clearsy". It is amazing how many lives he touched. I miss him already and will never forget him.

David Roach

August 3, 2009

I will always remember the smiles he put on the face of others. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Beth Femino

August 3, 2009

To the Cleary Family
There is a time to greive and a time to heal...To help your family heal share stories of the good times with Joe. For it is the stories of joy and sorrow, laughter and tears, that helps the memory of Joe to last forever.
Sal and Beth Femino and family

Dean and Jennifer Vittum

August 3, 2009

Catie, Mollie and the Cleary Family
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Peter Femino

August 3, 2009

To the Cleary Family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. He will be remembered and missed by all who knew him.

August 3, 2009

Our deepest sympathy on the loss of Joe. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Jean & Tom McEnaney, Sunderland, MA

Ray & Deborah A. (Tarentino) Murphy

August 3, 2009

To Catie and Mollie and the Cleary Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Joe was a great childhood friend. I have such fond memories of CCD and pond hockey. My Thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time with my deepest sympathy.

Melanie Reid

August 3, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. My heart and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. I know he will be missed greatly. Melanie Reid (Marlborough MA)

Marcelle Murray

August 3, 2009

To Catie and the Cleary Family,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

Jennifer Briand

August 3, 2009

I will never forget Joe's smile. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief

August 3, 2009

Dear Cleary family
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and
prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.
John & Shelagh Farley

August 3, 2009

Dear Cleary family,
We were so sorry to hear of
your loss. My thoughts and
prayers are with you at this
time of sorrow.
John & Shelagh Farley

Domonic Naples

August 3, 2009

Dear Cleary Family, I am sorry to hear of Joe's passing. He will surely be very missed by many, both family and friends. I grew up on Summit Ave and remember Joe as a funny and energetic young kid who grew up to be an intelligent young man as well as a terrific hockey player.

Mike & Sandy Concannon

August 3, 2009

We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

Deborah Beaulac

August 3, 2009

To the Cleary famly, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry to here of your loss.

Nancy (Gough) Tucker

August 3, 2009

I am very sorry for your loss, my prayers are with your family in this difficult time.

Brandon Trusso

August 3, 2009

To the Cleary family, My prayers are with you.

God Bless.

Michael O'Brien

August 3, 2009

my thoughts and prayers go to the the entire Cleary family.

leon roberge

August 3, 2009

nancy,pat and family -all our love and
prayers are with you.. molly has a new friend..call if need anything
all the roberges..with tons of prayers
leon and judy and kids

August 3, 2009

August 3, 2009.
To the Cleary family our deepest sympathy, prayes will be daily for him.
The Clifford family

Jim Naze

August 3, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer Briand

August 3, 2009

I will never forget Joe's smile. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

August 3, 2009

Nancy, Pat, Molly, Catie and Family, there are no appropriate words that come to mind as I read this terrible news. Linda and I are thinking of you all and will see you this week. Steve Marx

Tracy Desovich

August 3, 2009

Molly, John, Catie, Mr. and Mrs Cleary, My heart and prayers are with you all. My deepest condolences.

Andrew Hennessey

August 3, 2009

Great guy and way to young to move on. My thoughts and prayers to his entire family. RIP my friend
Andrew Hennessey (Kansas City, MO)

August 3, 2009

Great guy and way to young to move on. My thoughts and prayers to his entire family. RIP my friend
Andrew Hennessey (Kansas City, MO)

Neil Stafford

August 3, 2009

My thoughts & prayers go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Dianne Clark and Joe Arsenault

August 3, 2009

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Kay Brown

August 3, 2009

Pat and Nancy,
We are at a loss for words...we will keep you in our prayers.

"A Blessing from St. Patrick"

May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
May the rains fall soft upon your fields,
And, until we meet again,
May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.

Our deepest sympathy,
Kay & Joe Brown
Joey & Ryan Brown

Jennifer Flynn

August 3, 2009

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Amy LaPorte

August 3, 2009

Tracy & Christopher,

My heart goes out to you both. Joe was such a kind hearted and caring man. I am deeply saddened by your loss and have you in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest condolences.

Mark Adams

August 3, 2009

Rest in peace my friend. I will never forget the good times.

Shawn Tessier

August 3, 2009

You are in my thoughts and prayers, please accept my deepest sympathies.

Julianne Walsh

August 3, 2009

Dear Tracy and Christopher,

We are all very saddened to hear of Joe's death. We want you to know that we are next door if you should need anything. Please know you are both in our prayers and thoughts. Love, Julianne, Mike, Aidan, Abi and Mairead Walsh

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