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Joseph O'Neil Obituary

Joseph R. O'Neil Sr. NATICK Joseph R. ONeil Sr., 72, a longtime resident of Natick, died Sunday, Dec. 7, 2008, at the New England Baptist Hospital in Boston, surrounded by family and friends. He was the beloved husband of Geraldine (Layes) ONeil, with whom he shared 49 years of marriage. Born Oct. 8, 1936, in Glace Bay, NS, Canada, Mr. ONeil immigrated to the United States with his family in 1962, finally settling in Natick. He was employed for many years by J.F. White Construction and was a member of the Boston Labors Union Local #22. In addition to his wife, Mr. ONeil is survived by his loving son, Joseph ONeil and his wife, Kelley, of Framingham, and his loving daughters, Colleen Pedro and her husband, Edward, of Natick, Carol Ann Stehley and her husband, Michael, of Plainville, Heather ONeil of Brooklyn, Ct., and Heidi Lavigne and her husband, Leo, of Brooklyn, Ct. He was the proud grandfather of six grandchildren. He is also survived by his siblings, John ONeil, Larry ONeil and Mary Frances Hiscock, all residing in Canada; his sister-in-law, Lorraine Driver and her husband, Charles, of Waltham; and many nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a funeral Mass at St. Linus Church, Natick, Wednesday, Dec. 10, at 9 a.m. Burial will follow in St. Marys Cemetery, Baltic, Ct., at 1:30 p.m. Visiting hours at the John Everett & Sons Funeral Home (www.everettfuneral.com), 4 Park St., at Natick Common, areTuesday, Dec. 9, 4 to 8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Heart Assoc., 20 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701.

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Published by MetroWest Daily News on Dec. 8, 2008.

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Addie Chavis

December 19, 2008

Colleen, Wishing you and your family strength and peace. Sorry for your loss.

Bob & Arlene Frazier

December 10, 2008

Geraldine and Family: Our hearts go out to you at this time of sadness. Our dear friend Joe will always be remembered for his humor and smile. Our love to all of you. Your Friends, Bob and Arlene

Sandy Schlosberg

December 10, 2008

Colleen & Family,
May the pain in your hearts soon be filled with the many family memories you have garnered through the years.

Chad O'Neil

December 9, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies, Uncle Joe will be greatly missed....I'm really sorry for your loss.

Love Always,

Kevin O'Neil

December 9, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathies. Wish we could be there, our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kevin O'Neil and family

Sue Butler

December 9, 2008

Colleen & Ed,

I am so sorry to hear about the death of Colleen's Dad. I hope that fond and fun memories of your Dad will help you and the entire family during this sad time. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you; I know how hard it is to lose one's Dad at any time, but at this time of year most especially.

Ed, Adele & Patrick Stehley

December 8, 2008

Dear O'Neil Family,
We are so sorry for your loss.
All our love...

Melissa Ramsay and Family

December 8, 2008

Geraldine and family- I am sorry for your loss. Here is a poem I thought might comfort your at this time of mourning.


To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Margaret Roylance

December 8, 2008

Dear Colleen, Ed and Eddie,

I am so sorry for you that you have lost him, but you know you were always there for him.

Margaret

Michael Horrigan

December 8, 2008

Uncle Joe we are all going to miss you. Familly events wont be the same for me without you there.

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