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Carleton Riddick Obituary
Carleton Lewis Riddick, Sr., born April 24, 1950 in Middletown, CT to the late Walter McKinley and Lois McArthur Riddick, departed this life peacefully at the Middlesex Hospital while in Hospice Care on Monday, November 15, 2021.
Carleton leaves to mourn his death--his brother, James A. Riddick, Middletown, CT; sister, Eleanor L. Bain, Durham, NC; a very special and devoted friend, Janice Bartolotta, Middletown, CT; son, Carleton L. Riddick, Jr., Middletown, CT; and a grandson, Jachai Riddick, Bristol, CT. Also survived by his 6 aunts--Constance Thornhill, Bronx, NY; Lannie Morehead, Fort Washington, MD; Eula Phillips, New York, NY; Henrietta Howard, Oxon Hill, MD; Joan Scott Hill, Upper Marlboro, MD; Lula McArthur, Middletown, CT; and a host of cousins and devoted friends.
Carleton was a member of the Cross Street A.M.E. Zion Church in Middletown for 71 years. As a youth, he joined and participated in the Junior Choir; and in his adult years assisted in helping at the church's After School Tutorial Program for elementary and youth children and served as a Class Leader to some of the church congregation members. Carleton reached out to the sick and shut-in -- expressing his concern for their health and well being.
Carleton's education included Nathaniel White Elementary School in Cromwell, CT; Wilbert Snow School, Middletown, CT; Woodrow Wilson Junior and Senior High Schools graduating in the class of 1969; and a graduate of the Middlesex Community College, Middletown, CT. Carleton also attended the New Haven Academy of Business, New Haven, CT and a school of Radio Broadcasting having developed an interest in radio music. His passion for music led him to establish a Facebook following for music lovers.
Carleton's employment included working as a Systems Analyst at the Aetna Life and Casualty Insurance Company, Hartford, CT and West Haven V.A. Medical Center until his retirement.
Family and friends may call on Tuesday, November 23rd from 10:00 to 11:00 am at the Doolittle Funeral Home, 14 Old Church Street, Middletown where masks are required and social distancing is requested by the family. Funeral services will be private and live streamed through Doolittle Funeral Home Facebook at 11:00 am. In lieu of flowers, donations in Carleton's memory may be made to Cross Street AME Zion Church, 440 West Street, Middletown, CT 06457. To share memories or send condolences to the family, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.
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Lynn
May 6, 2024
Don't remember if I knew about Carlton's passing a few years back. Wish him a heavenly birthday. Worked with him at VACT for many years. He was the best. His picture personifies him perfectly. I will always remember that smile. Rest in peace.
Sue Wamester Bjornberg
November 15, 2022
I was glad to know you...that you traveled to see me and my husband. I wish we had more time...rest in peace!
Katrina Kilduff
January 26, 2022
I didn't know you, but I know your son, and he absolutely has my heart. Thank you for creating such a beautiful human being. I hope you rest in peace.
Jaime Allegretti
November 30, 2021
We are sorry to hear about the passing of Carl. He will be missed here at River Valley Oil
Deb Fudge Long, Philadelphia
November 23, 2021
Carl was loved by all who knew him. We have been friends since high school, at Woodrow Wilson.
In more recent years, I feel he was the glue that bound our class together, playing the music of our time (and other times!) on Facebook. Sometimes he singled out a person or a school year, ultimately spreading it around so that everyone felt special.
He was firmly convicted in what he felt was right, and not afraid to say it; but he tempered his opinions with a view towards others who might disagree, so long as everyone remained civil.
He brought everyone up a little higher with his attitude, his willingness to give whatever he could, his presence and indeed, participation, even when it was a tough road to just get dressed and get there...
After listening to his service today, I know we likely did not know the half of what he accomplished, what he gave, how he shared himself and all that he had, the legacy he left, but I am thankful for the little peephole I had, to be witness to a great life lived fully.
Beverly Towns
November 23, 2021
My deepest sympathy to Carl's family . I was a friend when we lived st Stone gate Carl encouraged me to volunteer at Newington Children's Hospital . God grant you peace st this time . Beverly Towns
Susan Bjornberg
November 22, 2021
I am so sorry for the loss of an amazing man and friend. He was kind and shared his thoughts with honesty. I will truly miss his music selections on facebook and his positive outlook on life.
Charlotte Levy Harrison
November 21, 2021
Jim and Eleanor, I´m so very sorry to hear about Carl´s passing. He will be dearly missed. Sending virtual hugs.
Karen Cubeta
November 21, 2021
From the class of 1969 WWSHS.
We will miss you Music Man!
Joe and Marion Milardo
November 21, 2021
Please accept our condolences on the passing of Carl.
Joe and Marion Milardo
Bruce & Nicole Hurlburt
November 20, 2021
In loving memory of a great person and classmate.
Kathy Specyalski
November 20, 2021
I'm very sorry to hear of Carl passing. I always enjoyed his music on Facebook. I'm glad I got to see him at our 50 year class reunion. Rest in peace my friend.
Ellen Lahey
November 20, 2021
Rest in Peace, dear old friend, You will be missed! You touched so many hearts! My condolences to your family
Mark Donovan
November 20, 2021
So sorry to hear of Carl's passing. Just know that you touched many lives along the way in your journey. Rest in peace my friend.
John Robinson
November 20, 2021
Family of Carl,
So sorry to hear of the passing of Carl. He was such a strong advocate for his fellow man. We had many talks regarding our sons growing up together as best friends and into manhood. Rest in Peace my friend til we meet soon and very soon. May the good Lord be with the family at such a time as this.
Mary Pacholski Howard
November 20, 2021
Jim, my condolences to you and your family in the loss of your brother.
Woodrow Wilson High School Class of 1969
November 20, 2021
In loving memory of a great classmate.
Nora Barnes
November 20, 2021
James and Eleanor I'm truly sorry to hear about Carleton, I'll truly miss his wittiness and friendliness he showed towards people. You have my heartfelt condolences.
Cliff and Marcella Holloman
November 19, 2021
Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family....RIP Carl
Daniel Maloney
November 19, 2021
My sincere condolences to Carlton's family, he was a good friend and a better human being. He shall rest in the loving arms of Jesus and inherit the kingdom of God, forever!
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